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#38 White Guys

Posted March 18th, 2008 by Skunkgal · 665 Comments

Credit: http:/// chicks dig white guys. Somewhere in the midst of the pseudo-nationalistic indoctrination our well-meaning parents inflict upon us, we ladies stop paying attention and allow tall(er), skinny, white boy engineers to steal our hearts.

What’s up with the race treason? One theory: They love us. Asian fetish, yellow fever. Whatever you call it, there’s plenty of literature out there telling white men that we slant-eyed princesses are the exotic, submissive, and hypersexualized women of their dreams.

This post, however, is not about why white guys live in a delusional fantasy world. It’s a dissertation on why, despite the tawdry roots of our suitors’ affection, we just eat it up. One economist says it’s because Asian women are the least discriminatory female demographic (second-to-last paragraph)””that “the white man-Asian woman pairing was the most common form of interracial dating … because of the women’s neutrality, not the men’s pronounced preference.”

Uh, ok. Whatever. What about our strict fathers and sheltered childhoods? Plus, we all saw how well that John Lennon/Yoko Ono thing worked out. And we can’t resist everything white men have to offer””and no, I’m not talking about that. White men indulge our deepest PDA-fantasies; they hold our hands, they aren’t terribly cerebral about their emotions, and they will””heaven forbid””tell their parents that we’re actually dating. Asian parents don’t do any of that gross hand-holding, making-out stuff. boys learned the lesson; girls, not so much.

Lastly, if you think this is all a pile of BS, we all can agree on one tangible reason the Asian/white pairing works so well. God knows we all just want highly attractive children, and halfie babies are so damn cute.

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  • 1 Anonymous // Mar 18, 2008 at 5:09 pm

    true, but what about black guys?

  • 2 steve // Mar 18, 2008 at 5:32 pm

    white men consider their overly-large nose to be a symbol of authority, strength, and moral fiber. they know that asian women subconsciously recognize this as an important facet of western history and are deeply attracted to his nasal mojo.
    however, the white man is stuck in a dilemma- although the disproportionate nose carries with it power, he knows that if his kind continues to breed with other big-nosed types then one day there will arise one who can woo any women in the world with one flare of his nostrils.
    in defense of men everywhere, then, the white man must bear the burden to ensure noses don’t grow too large anywhere in the global gene pool. the best way to do this is to couple their genes with smaller-nosed asians.
    i assume the writer is an asian female, which could explain why she was not privy to these details. that’s forgivable. but people should know.

  • 3 Tonya // Mar 18, 2008 at 6:35 pm

    Just so you know, Wentworth Miller (the handsome guy’s picture you posted with this entry) is half African-American and very proud of it. He first came to critical fame in the movie “The Human Stain,” which is about a light-skinned African-American who passes for white. But it’s nice to know you dig him.

  • 4 Kyle // Mar 18, 2008 at 7:11 pm

    OK – At first I thought maybe this little essay was a self hating Asian thing – then I started to think it was a little more researched with the stats and might be legit – and then I started to feel that the author is just someone being upfront about a subject we were taught that “we ‘shouldn’t’ speak about” – (sex relationships and stuff like that is just programmed in me from my Asian mother to just not talk about) – but then the author won me over with the comment on cute “halfie babies”…being a cute “halfie” (I prefer the term HAPA) myself with a white dad and Asian mom; well. . .I was flattered enough to end up liking the essay in the end. . .=) thanks!

  • 5 suzy // Mar 18, 2008 at 7:48 pm

    Just to clarify Tonya’s statement, here’s an excerpt from Wentworth Miller’s wikipedia entry:

    “Miller has stated that his father is of African-American, Jamaican, English, German, Jewish and Cherokee ancestry, and that his mother is of Russian, French, Dutch, Lebanese and Syrian descent.”

    So I’m thinking the “half black” is a little bit of an overstatement. That being said, he’s a poster child for making a beautiful person out of a multitude of nationalities.

    Kristin Kreuk is an interesting blend as well. Here’s a quote from her wiki:

    “Kreuk was born in Vancouver, British Columbia. Her father, Peter Kreuk, is of Dutch descent; her mother, Deanna Che, is of Chinese descent, but was born in Indonesia; her maternal grandmother is Chinese-Jamaican.”

    Seriously, I gotta find me a guy who’s black-asian-french-brazillian-indian-arabic to marry so I can have the most gorgeous babies EVER. Wentworth Miller will suffice. ;)

  • 6 YASPY Chick // Mar 18, 2008 at 9:01 pm

    Note about John and Yoko: Yoko was also like 7 or so years older than John! Does this mean that she’s a cougar? Or does she have to be 10+ years older to be one?

    Oh, and I notice a lot of Chinese women dating Jewish men…

  • 7 Anonymous // Mar 18, 2008 at 9:24 pm

    LOL, I don’t think so. Sure there are some gorgeous half Asian/half white people out there, but there are also just ugly ones. Mixing with whites doesn’t give you magical, guaranteed-beautiful kids. To be honest the cutest Asian-mixed kids I’ve seen were Asian-black and Asian-Middle Eastern. Yup.

  • 8 estella // Mar 18, 2008 at 11:00 pm

    i’ll be honest. i’m an asian female who happens to be attracted to white males. i’m primarily not attracted to my nationality for the “fear” that i could be related to them.

    that, and for some unknown reason, i find most of the white males asthetically pleasing to my eyes.

  • 9 perfectlynice?? // Mar 19, 2008 at 12:56 am

    white guys are lot more aggressive in pursuing a girl they want compared to most Asian guys I know. Plus, they don’t seem to care that the girl may be more educated, earn more money, smarter, etc. Most Asian guys want a more traditional bride, stay at hoome mom even though their women may have graduate degree physics, chemistry, etc.

  • 10 Scott // Mar 19, 2008 at 2:50 am

    estella: “i’m primarily not attracted to my nationality for the ‘fear” that i could be related to them.”

    I have tons of Turkish friends. They’re a very closely knit group and none of them date non-Turkish people. And Turkey is such a smaller place than the major Asian countries. I swear, I know five girls named Zeynep. Anyway, from your statement I think you’re weird! The chances you’re related to the Asian guy in the next cubicle is probably nil.

    I’m a Chinese-American male and I also find whites (women) more attractive than Asian women. I have since I was in junior high. I was the one Asian guy who always dated white girls when all my buddies were dating Chinese girls. I think the reason for this, and perhaps for you as well, is because my whole life I’ve been exposed to nothing but beautiful and sexy white women–Maxim magazine, Playboy, the SI Swimsuit issue, Victoria’s Secret, tv commercials, tv shows, movies, fashion models, etc. Probably the only time I found an Asian woman attractive was when I was in Hong Kong and there was a cute girl in a clothing store. I think if I had stayed in HK I probably would have ended up dating a Chinese girl but when I got back, I became Americanized again. I’m guessing you watch Brad Pitt or whomever white actors you like and the only Asian guys you see on tv and movies are dweeby scientists while the white actors play the hero and romantic lead. It makes alot of sense to me if that’s the case.

  • 11 Anoymous1 // Mar 19, 2008 at 3:07 am

    I agree with Anonymous; how many Kristen Kreuks are there in the world? One in 100,000? By the way, some of the best looking halfies are from Asian-male/White female and Black male/White female combinations:

    Russell Wong (DROOL! Have you seen New Jack City or Romeo Must Die? Gorgeous!)
    Keanu Reeves (Also really good looking. He looks more white than Asian, though he’s definitely got the Chinese eyes. I think he looks most Asian in Speed.)
    Brandon Lee (Bruce Lee’s late son–great body)

    Wentworth Miller (already established above)
    Derek Jeter (shortstop for the Yankees–quite handsome)

    And the women, too:
    Halle Berry (one of the most beautiful women in the world IMO)
    Alicia Keys (also beautiful)

    I think that’s the better combination–Ethnic Male + White Female LOL

  • 12 Justin // Mar 19, 2008 at 3:54 am

    @Scott: very nicely explained. I agree that being related should not be a fear. I’ve never heard that as a reason from any asian girl. Today was the first.

  • 13 YASPY Chick // Mar 19, 2008 at 5:59 am


    Maybe you like girls who are the equivalent of the “All American” type? The Asian girls I grew up with here in Toronto were either really high maintenance (you know, those who take all the advanced classes, are pretty, play piano, violin AND flute until they finished high school AND hold high-paying jobs (if they’re out of school) ) or quiet and nerdy types. Rarely do I see an in-between. Hong Kong, however, has lots of those, and that girl-next-door type is their ideal. Why else would the Edison Chen sex scandal be so career-ending for the female celebs involved? In Hollywood, it would only ELEVATE the girls.

  • 14 Anonymous // Mar 19, 2008 at 9:31 am

    FYI, if you’re going to talk about white guys, at least post a picture of a 100% white guy. Wentworth Miller is half black . . . not that he’s not eye candy!

  • 15 ?????????????????? // Mar 19, 2008 at 10:07 am

    i see alot of asian women with white men, but i think it would be more accurate to say that asian women love black men. I see it so often its normal. As a matter of fact, i see that more than two asians together. BTW my black boyfriends mother is thai. i rest my case.

  • 16 Justin // Mar 19, 2008 at 3:46 pm

    @Anonymous, please read suzy’s explanation above, also read post #26 to understand why this article is about white guys as your points are valid that asian girls date other people than just white…but majority of them date white guys…you’ll understand if you start our blog with #26

    we were going to stick with wentworth miller since girls consider him hot but we found another picture.

  • 17 anon // Mar 19, 2008 at 6:46 pm

    You should have left the Wentworth Miller picture up. That picture you have up there? I’m guessing that’s not a real couple. Look at the guy’s eyes. He looks like a robot. This looks like an Asian girl tourist visiting an Abercrombie store where they have the half-naked models at the door and she asks to have her picture taken. He might as well be Mickey Mouse at Disneyland. On second thought, maybe you *should* leave it there b/c it’s such a goofy picture if you look at it for more than a second. Besides, any tall, blonde haired, blue-eyed, muscle-bound male-model type is not going to go for a short Asian girl whose eyes don’t reach his neck. A guy like that gets with a tall, gorgeous white woman, probably also blonde with long legs.

  • 18 zimri // Mar 21, 2008 at 4:20 pm

    Hmm… interesting blog. (I’m English, personally; we’re the Japanese of Europe…)

    A few comments:

    I have met Hapa girls and I have been to New Mexico… honestly, I can’t tell the difference. One Hapa lady friend (Korean-Greek) told me that Mexicans kept talking Spanish at her. But although she did not look nearly as exotic as she in fact was I will concede she was cute.

    As for Ono – Lennon, my impression is that the relationship was working out great until some butthead shot the gaijin.

  • 19 Anonymous // Mar 21, 2008 at 4:21 pm

    I lived in Japan for 10 years and have 4 gorgeous half-breed kids.

    My youngest now works at the Polynesian Cultural Center in Hawaii where he tells the tourists that he’s a full blooded hawaiian, tongan, or samoan. He’s half Japanese and Half white….no polynesian blood at all.

    He looks a lot like Johnny Lingo in the old movie.

  • 20 gil // Mar 21, 2008 at 4:21 pm

    A buddie of mine refers to his ABC sister’s kids as ‘Swirlies’, but they sure are cute. As for the whole Asian fetish thing, it’s totally A) Childish and B) Moronic. Girls lap it up because they like the attention, but it’s hardly the kind of thing that’s going to result in a real relationship. As for my ABC friend, he’s going steady with a good Korean lass who is totally hiding there realtionship from her parents, but that’s life.

    March 21, 2008 4:48 AM

  • 21 song li-ling // Mar 21, 2008 at 4:22 pm

    OK, easily offended hetero folks, stop reading now. Gaysian guy here to say that the white guy fetish is even more prevalent among gay (U.S.) Asian guys. Not brain surgery to figure out why, for the all the obvious socio-political psycho-sexual reasons. If white guys have the ostensibly highest status in the American dating pool among straight people, you can imagine how doubly minimized a gay Asian guy might feel in the even more insular competitive gay world. Don’t know if you would ever hear this in a straight bar, but get more than two Asians in a gay bar, and some white guys will actually say out loud that we have taken over, and when did this place become Saigon City. Believe it. Drag out ever bad cliche about the older unattractive white guy getting the twinky off-the-boat smaller Asian guy. The “last one picked” syndrome.

    Pretty much the same, but to a lesser extent, for the American-born Asian gay guys, who are most likely to want to date in this order: White, Hispanic, Asian, black. It’s changing slowly; improved self-image, self-empowerment, enlightment, or simple political correctness now dictate that younger gay Asians will actually consider dating their own kind. It’s progress of sorts. But go to any gay ghetto in the big cities, and if you see a couple where one is Asian, the odds are more than good that other guy’s gonna be white.

    March 21, 2008 2:14 PM

  • 22 estella // Mar 22, 2008 at 8:49 am

    Scott : “Anyway, from your statement I think you’re weird! The chances you’re related to the Asian guy in the next cubicle is probably nil.”

    maybe i am weird. or maybe it has happened to my friends. she became attracted to this guy of the same nationality as us. after awhile she had this feeling she was related to him, so she checked it out and they were. it wasn’t like she was attracted to/liked/had a crush –what have you — on an immediate relative (uncle, cousin … because that would be really unnerving). it was more of a 2nd or 3rd cousin, or even more distant.

    but even if its to someone related somehow, someway, even a distant relative. its still not a good revelation to find out.

    i don’t know if the last few statements of your comment were directed to me, so i’ll just say that from the time i became attracted to the opposite sex, i noticed that i was primarily attracted to white guys.

  • 23 544 // Mar 23, 2008 at 5:25 pm

    America hates Asian guys, and makes fun of us. When we start getting some respect, they find a clown Asian to mock. Other people of color do it too. It’s been fucked up like this for a century, and shit isn’t changing fast enough.

    I don’t blame our Asian sisters from doing the crossover. They’ve been facing the same thing, but in different ways, and, white people are giving them a pass into the white world. It’s only human to take the goodies when they’re offered.

    And it’s not like Asian guys have been 100% upstanding either. I know some who go and screw a bunch of women to make some point to themselves. Some women do this, too, but not the way guys get out and just do the “pump and dump.” Some of them pay for it. (Then again, it’s not like they’ve got a lot of women after them, so, at some level, they’re free to do whatever they want. I don’t bag on Asian women who’ve fucked a lot of guys. The opportunity for them is more than for any other women, and they have shit to work out, too.)

    One thing that bugs me is Asian women who get with white guys and then act like they’re better than Asians, and start getting racist on Asians. (Some guys do this too, but it’s not that common.) Another thing that bugs is Asian women who get with a Black man, and start talking like they’re Black, and then start acting all aggressive and ghetto.

    I’m not saying this happens to everyone. Most people don’t even get like this. Way more often, it is the other way around, with the guy wanting to be Asian (which is also creepy). It’s just, please, ladies, you’re still Asian, and the rule in America is that if you’re Asian looking, you are a representative for all Asians. Don’t be a racist, and don’t be a bitch.

    I guess it would be fair for me to criticize crossover guys too. I’m not sure what to say, because I’m a crossover too. Maybe the main thing is don’t get racist on Asians and don’t pretend to be some other race. Even if you feel more comfortable in other environments, look in the mirror and know how the world is still looking at you. You have to spend time trying to lift the situation for your Asian brothers.

  • 24 Just because // Mar 26, 2008 at 11:12 am

    I’m a white guy dating an Asian girl so I’m getting a kick out of these replys. (tribute to fark cliches)

  • 25 Kit // Mar 26, 2008 at 8:35 pm

    I can guess why white guys get Asian girls – possibly because THEY’D ASK THEM OUT. I swear in high school almost all the Asian guys were like shorter and thinner than I was – and I think my average height and average weight must have scared them off. Because they never paid any attention to me. There is a double standard – Asian guys complain Asian girls date white guys, but a lot of them want thin thin HK girls or are all too engrossed with their computer games to pay attention to girls who weren’t a size 2. As I got older I realized I could not engage in regular conversation with an Asian guy. Topically, the ones I knew, we had nothing in common. I also grew up in a predominantly Asian neighbourhood in Ontario, so who knows how I ended up with a white army boyfriend.

  • 26 vldschmidt // Mar 27, 2008 at 11:25 am

    that’s not Wentworth Miller by the way…that dude is definitely not him! Stop being such haters and get over it…Asian and white dudes are about as American as apple pie and make better couples. This is coming from the product of a marriage of a White dad and Vietnamese mom.

  • 27 leezy // Mar 28, 2008 at 4:01 pm

    I’m a black man married to an asian woman. I personally hate these conversations, asian women have all sorts of preferences in men. To me, it all depends on where they are from. If they are cali asians sure they loooooove white guys. In NY you see more asians with black men than you do with asian men. We black men also get this rep for liking white women, but that is soooooooooo not true. It may have been 10 years ago, but not anymore. a woman is a beautiful creation whether she is asian, black, white, latino, middle eastern(asian),etc… if she’s hot she’s hot. once people start thinking that way. We’ll be on our way to a better world. Until then….I’m happy with my choice and glad she looooooooves black men!

  • 28 Justin // Mar 28, 2008 at 6:09 pm

    i feel like it’s not a matter of race when you’ve fallen in true love…asians white black latino etc…

  • 29 Steph // Apr 1, 2008 at 11:01 am

    I’m an asian girl and am only attracted to asian guys. Can’t ever imagineeeee dating a white guy, nor do I want to.

  • 30 Maia // Apr 1, 2008 at 9:51 pm

    I’ve read somewhere that typically if a child aged 10 and under moves to a different country that has a different language, they are more likely to completely absorb the new language and accent better than a child 11 and over who are more likely to speak in the new language with an accent. I think this can also be applicable to culture and even preferences. My older sister was about 14 when she moved here from the Philippines and she still has her Filipino intonation when she speaks English. My brother who was 7 when we moved somehow physically can’t speak Tagalog though he understands it. I, on the other hand, moved when I was eleven and though I can speak fluent Tagalog, I can’t get rid of that slight American twang when I speak it.

    Interestingly enough, our dating records all reflect this predominance (my sister dated mostly Asian guys and married a Filipino, I dated a little bit all over the board but I’m in a long-term relationship with a white guy and my younger brother have only dated the whitest [as in skin color] girls I’ve ever seen).

    So that may have been a long obvious response but nonetheless a small consideration. And the fact that my offspring could possibly have green slant-y eyes (I have some European blood too so it is possible), not a bad deal topper.

    OH and I’d have to agree with Kit that yeah, the white guys actually asked me out! None of the Asian guys I went out with asked me out directly per se. It was always kind of pussyfooting around the issue until it was pretty obvious. But then again these instances were in high school and college…

  • 31 Mongol Warrior // Apr 3, 2008 at 4:54 am

    [Moderator's note. This comment is unacceptable and some content were deleted.]
    Asian women with white guys are ****. Pure and simple. Go with whites – but never expect anything again from your own race. You have sold out. A traitor. The lowest of the low.

    End of story.

  • 32 sy88 // Apr 3, 2008 at 6:31 am

    Mongol warrior, from a personal point of view, I’m a bit sad that the white guys are taking “our girls”, but man it’s the 21st century, get a life! There’s a thing called ‘free will’ and people can date whoever they want, pur and simple. Your insulting comments aren’t wanted on a place like this.

    End of story.

  • 33 M3 // Apr 3, 2008 at 10:49 pm

    Mongol Warrior speaks the truth. ALL YOUR WOMEN ARE BELONG TO M3.


  • 34 YASPY Chick // Apr 4, 2008 at 9:53 am


    I know people who were born and raised in an English speaking country, who speak without an accent, yet have recognizable traits of a specific culture. For example, one only has to listen to Martin Scorsese or Rudy Guiliani speak to realize that they’re Italian-American. Plenty of Asians, especially Hong Kong Chinese Canadian women under 40 have a tone of speech that is very much Hong Kong Chinese as well. Including people who do not have accents.

  • 35 Justin // Apr 4, 2008 at 3:54 pm

    Hi Al, we’re just talking about a group of people who like white guys in this post. I would agree with you that majority of asians date within their race; however, dating outside is a new trend many people are observing. I feel that skunkgal has the freedom to explain her choice and where she’s coming from. Thanks for your comment. – J

  • 36 freeearth // Apr 5, 2008 at 9:17 am

    I am a German/English-American guy married to my beautiful Korean-American wife. We have a beautiful daughter.

    What originally caught my eye for my wife was her gracefulness and beauty when we were in psych class together. She paid no attention to me and from observing her I determined she stayed within the Asian groupings. Another hurdle I figured for this blue grey eyed white boy. I had shortly dated a Laotian-American girl before but besides that my girlfriends had either been white or Mexican.

    I purposely sat near her and made it a point to be very friendly and jovial with her. She was born here but her parents had immigrated in from S. Korea.

    I finally asked her out for coffee and she said no that she couldn’t. I had found out she had a boyfriend (Chinese-American) but I took the gamble anyways. I kept “bothering” her about coffee and finally she relented.

    To make a long story short, we hit it off wonderfully and eventually she broke it off with her boyfriend and then we started dating. We dated through college and graduated at the same time. It took over a year for her to finally tell her parents about me. Needless to say they were none to happy and even threatened to force her to change schools. But their barking was bigger than their bites.

    We married 3 years ago and have a great life together. She put her career on hold for our daughter (not at my urging btw…entirely her decision) and her family fully accepts me now..especially now that we have a child.

  • 37 Justin // Apr 5, 2008 at 9:45 am

    Check post 40 for more discussion on Asian and Dating. Keep in mind that this is a fun, light-hearted satire piece – so please take it for what it is.

  • 38 WhoaIsMe // Apr 5, 2008 at 8:25 pm

    Media case in point:

    The film “21″ is the life story of MIT grad Jeff Ma.

    Instead of an Asian actor playing him, they chose a white Brit.

    How many Asian actors are chosen to star in films based on white guys lives?

  • 39 sy88 // Apr 5, 2008 at 8:53 pm

    “How many Asian actors are chosen to star in films based on white guys lives?”

    The answer is: very few. You have a valid point, WhoaIsMe. The main exception in Hollywood seems to be Lucy Liu, who as an Asian can get white roles, but she is a real discrepancy. There’s a few others, but they can’t seem to get ‘white roles’ on a regular basis, and tend to float back into ‘Asian roles’. That’s why many a respected HK actor like Tony Leung and Maggie Cheung almost refuse to break into Hollywood, because of their fear that they will be pigeonholed as an ‘Asian character’.

    As for the recent film 21, simply put, it’s been Hollywood-ised (that’s not a word, is it?). Pretty much, the sad truth is, there’s not enough Asian actors of prominence, or with rising star potential that can be used to headline a film. There are 2 Asians in the film, Aaron Yoo (Shia LaBeouf’s friend in Disturbia) and some girl with the name of Liza Lapira, who possibly could be half Asian (?). They’re hardly the sort of people who can be used to headline a film. So basically, I’m not too fussed about that. Most people would seem to be more fussed about the fact that a pretty much unknown Brit actor (Jim Sturgess) has got the lead role instead. Well, at it’s core, deep down inside, 21 can be seen as a bit of a star-pushing vehicle for Jim Sturgess, as they see him as a potential star-in-the-making. He was awesome in a little film called Across The Universe IMO and 21 is another film to push him as a leading man, but I digress… Point is, there just aren’t any Asians in the same situation. Perhaps it’s something wrong with the system, perhaps it’s subliminal racism, who knows…

    Hey, also relating to 21, you could argue anti-sexism as well, as in ‘real life’ the group comprised of all Asian males. They plonked 2 females in there (Liza Lapira and Kate Bosworth) because frankly it’s nothing more than a film. If it was truly based on real life, quite simply, there’d be no chicks in the film…

    Ah, great opportunity to let me rant about one of my favourite topics :)

  • 40 asian girl // Apr 6, 2008 at 5:35 pm

    white guys are hot(:

  • 41 foxwithcpu // Apr 7, 2008 at 8:28 am

    I have 3 main preferences in men: built, educated, respectful. I prefer the dark handsome types no matter what race. And muscles. I like guys who hit the gym. No pudginess or skinny indie-chic for me.

    The thing I find intolerably unattractive? Guys who whine about not being able to get a girl instead of going out there and getting one. Cry me a river. I wonder why you’re not getting any.

    PS: For any nay-sayers out there – I am a Vietnamese American woman who has been in a relationship with her Vietnamese American boyfriend for 2 years. Coincidentally, he’s pretty damn secure in his manhood and this has always been a non-issue for him.

  • 42 Asian Girl // Apr 9, 2008 at 2:06 pm

    I don’t get the fascination with white guys. They just look foreign to me, maybe the way some white guys look at asians as foreign.

  • 43 LeaMae // Apr 10, 2008 at 11:29 pm

    I’m a half white, half Native American and I say asian boys are yummy. :)
    I have dated Native American, White, and am now dating a Viet boy and am extremely happy. I love asian boys because they are a LOT more respectful to me than any African American or white guy has ever been. What is up with the lack of respect for women these days anyways?

  • 44 Korean J // Apr 11, 2008 at 11:17 am

    I think ur ****. Obvious it’s the Media. US’s #1 export/industry, entertainment, portrays white men that asian women, all women, fantasizes. Is the portrayal true, hell no. But joke will be on ‘em soon.

    One evidence I point to is what is called Korean wave (hallyu) going on in Asia recent (past 3-4 years?). Where other asian countries fell in love with korean dramas, and thought most korean men were good looking and romantic and rich like the leading men. Many women even came to korea to look for her dream man in korea. Jokes were on ‘em, because most of these guys tended to be a playas, and not romantic nor rich at the least. It’s a false portrayal created by a entertainment medium. So blame hollywood. Blacks do, so should we.

  • 45 Latino Man // Apr 14, 2008 at 12:16 pm

    I’m sorry, but in your post’s third paragraph you wrote:
    “One economist says it’s because Asian women are the least discriminatory female demographic (second-to-last paragraph)”

    However, the actual quote from the article is:
    “However, we also found that East Asian women did not discriminate against white men (only against black and Hispanic men). ”

    So how did you get the “least discriminatory female demographic ” from that??? As a latino man, I can tell you that from my experiences, that getting asian women to give me the time of day is a lot harder than for women of any other race. However, when I show some status, i.e. Harvard grad, financially successful, they tend to become more receptive.

  • 46 Kate // Apr 19, 2008 at 4:24 pm

    Could it be height and weight that makes Asian women attracted to white or black men? I know a lot of girls want guys that are taller and from living in San Francisco, MANY Asian guys are SO SHORT!!! And not only short, but HELLA skinny!! I’m average, not a size 0. I probably would break their toes if I accidentally stepped on it. I’m an ABJ (American born Japanese) dating an ABC (American born Chinese) and couldn’t be more in love. I used to go for white guys, but my bf isn’t the typical Asian I see in the city. He’s tall (6 feet even) and is muscular (Mmmm.) All the prior guys I dated were tall and muscular…and white. The only other Asian guy I dated was short, but muscular. That’s what I think. But people shouldn’t HATE on Asians or whites or blacks! People like who they like.

    And speaking of half bred babies. There are some really hot half white half asian babies and half black half white/half asian babies, but TRUST ME that there are butt ass ugly half babies. If you think babies can’t be ugly, work at a day care. There are a lot of half babies and some are just NOT CUTE!

  • 47 c0nscience // Apr 24, 2008 at 1:45 am

    I have a fever, and the only prescription is MORE ASIAN CHICKS!

  • 48 sowhat // Apr 28, 2008 at 3:20 pm

    Mixed white/asian babies are all cute? LOL. If anyone wants to get real for a second, the attractive scale for any race, mixed or not, is usually the same across the board. An ugly white dude with an ugly asian chick will just make an ugly mixed kid with serious identity issues. Still need attractive parents to make attractive kids, genetics don’t lie. Btw, in my experience, most of the white male/asian female couples aren’t very good looking at all, especially the females.

  • 49 HAHAHA // Apr 28, 2008 at 9:46 pm

    This was going along pretty good until the end. Then everybody had to go and get racist.
    Let me be another ass to add his opion. I am married to a malay and am white.
    Asian women like whitey because on average we are nicer and more open with our emotions.
    Our familys tend to be more accepting of our wife. Yes we do not have a problem with our wives working or having something defining them outside of our marriage (my wifes mother wept WEPT!! when I told her I was had no problem with her daughter working)
    And not to sound like a white power douche, but you just can’t beat the blue eyes.

    We are attracted to them because on average they are slimmer and more feminine than white or black women. They tent to be much more apreciative of anything you do for them (my wife about fell on the gorund when I changed a diaper for her sister) They tend ot be much more together financially and emotionally then anybody else.
    And come on they are just so freaking cute….
    They way their noses crunkly when they smile. And those deep sparkley brown/black eyes.

    But mostly I think is becasue the stigma has been removed. Whites/blacks dating are excepted, even embraced.
    All I can say is I walk around with my wife and people barley take notice.
    I love my wife. She is my heart. She is the person I have found that I think is good enought to have my babies grow in her stomach.
    I’m not with her because she is asian, but I was attracted to her becasue of it.

    Asian women are dating out of their “race” because they now have the power to do it. They can bring a non asian home without their parents throwing them out.
    So don’t hate man. Just live.

  • 50 Elle // May 1, 2008 at 11:18 am

    LOL. OMG that film was awesome funny! Tow things: why is the Indian guy calling Philip “you asians”? Indians (from India) are Asian too! And why isn’t Filipinos included in the tags? =(

    I’m a 30-yr old asian with female with a white guy from England. But I think Philip Wang is so attractive I will take a breather from my boyf and date him for 2 weeks! I can honestly say I can see myself with a man of various race. I have friends who’s told me “I only date white guys” or “I will only be with black guys” which is so juvenile since the foundation of that relationship will be based on physical attraction. But whatever floats their boat ei?

    Dating/marriage outside race has nothing to do with with where the other person is from, which gender/color mix-match. It’s about understanding the other’s beliefs, background, culture, behaviors, and IF THE PERSONALITIES CLICK!

    Nuff said.

  • 51 Elle // May 1, 2008 at 11:23 am

    Oh and btw, I know that half-naked guy on the photo. His name is Darryl and that shot was taken at A&F at the Grove. lol. small world indeed!

    p.s. Why is Wentworth so darn handsome?! =)

  • 52 Cocobutter // May 2, 2008 at 3:20 pm

    I am a Black woman from the U.S. You guys seem really nuts! I was hoping for some critical race analysis here, but YOU AIN’T GOT ANY!!! My god, they have brainwashed you. I was hoping blogging amongst your own, you really have something inciteful to say about the weird asian/white couplings. I’m not sure the most important thing is to wish for cute mixed children. Stop being so shallow.

    I often have watched Asian women friends go for white guys for a variety of reasons. I think some legitimately like their boyfriends, however many seem to passively engage in a relationship where they will benefit the race and class privilege of their white lovers. I’m a little embarrassed for these women at times. Will you give any part of yourself away, just to be with a white man?? I think you will. Being westernized is a helluva drug.

  • 53 Chibolyte // May 3, 2008 at 7:39 am

    I do love them cute halfie babies, and many halfie people are amazingly good looking.

    But, as an Asian female, I actually do prefer the Asian male much more than the White male. I don’t know, many white men are very good looking, but I just don’t find most of them as attractive as many Asian men. I like masculine men, but to be honest I’m really attracted to feminine men. There are plenty of trendy, feminine guys in places like Japan, China and Korea (I um, have a thing for Japanese men). So I do agree with you on a certain level from an objective point of you, but the way say it makes it seem you are applying it to most Asian women, which isn’t true. Almost every single of my peers that are Asian (both men and women) prefer Asian counterparts.

  • 54 helena // May 4, 2008 at 2:58 pm

    Chinese-American girl here. I don’t like white guys, the only hot one I can think of is Sean Connery (who doesnt even like Asian girls – aww.) In fact I feel especially embarassed for those Asian women who date white men for “pretty babies” or social benefits. I can only hope I see the worst of those relationships, being in the Bay Area ‘n all. I do like Black and Latino guys too, in addition to Asian. I also think black-latino mixes are the best looking in general, with asian-white & asian-black the ugliest. sorry.

  • 55 J // May 5, 2008 at 2:13 am

    Has anyone else noticed the phenomenon of cute asian girls with really ugly white guys?! That always angers me. Everytime I go to Santana Row I see a ton of these strange oddball couples. It makes me think that maybe the Asian girls are so happy to be with a White guy that they don’t care what he looks like…

  • 56 joe // May 5, 2008 at 8:35 am

    Why does it anger you? Are you angry when you see a cute Asian girl with an ugly Asian guy?

  • 57 ladyluck // May 5, 2008 at 10:37 pm

    I’m an Asian American girl that constantly is hit on by white men (every kind of white man) everywhere – on my way to/from work, walking anywhere, going anywhere/doing anything really.

    Personally, what I find the most offensive is when a white man comes up to me (I look mixed/racially ambiguous) and will say something along the lines of “I’m French, and you look Vietnamese. We colonized your country! We have something in common! *smile*”

    I hope I don’t need to go into why that makes me. . . annoyed.

    I like Asian American guys and have gotten verbal abuse from both White males and Asian/Asian American females. In the end, getting mad at me for not dating you, or saying that I’m wrong for rejecting some random white dude doesn’t make the world a better place.

    To all the white guys with Asian Fetishes in the Bay Area, stop trying to literally molest and/or press your body onto the girl next to you on the bus (me). She really will kick you where the sun don’t shine next time.

  • 58 guest // May 11, 2008 at 6:34 pm

    white, black, yellow, brown, tall, short, thin, fat, etc – who cares?? what really matter is the personality, the heart, the soul and whether they’re mutual…the reason why you guys could be so disgust by interracial dating/marriage is because you had never been in one or it was a bad one, talking about those shallow and narrow minded people…learn people, learn!

  • 59 blah // May 14, 2008 at 11:40 pm

    parents: born and raised in hong kong.
    me: born and raised in jakarta indonesia…
    currently dating: a colombian man, (first boyfriend, goin on three years now)… graduated from highschool together, and now in college studyin art and design…

    we both grew up in international schools… and so we’re both super internationalized. i dunno why everyones making such a huge fuss out of who’s dating who and from which race… and i honestly don’t think they’re dating for the whole “my baby will be cute” factor… i honestly think its just based on pure attraction of personalities and characteristics.

    i have loads of friends ranging from asians, whites (americans, europeans), blacks, arabs… you name it, i got a friend that is that race. you can be purple, green or blue, and if you’ve got the personality, id date you if i didnt have a boyfriend.

    man…i seriously think some people just need to open up. asians that are callin asian chicks bitches for dating another race…wtf man… wtf. that’s the meanest shit i’ve heard. just cos an asian chick is dating someone from another race doesnt mean she’s ashamed of being asian, damnfck im proud of being asian, and no one can take that away from me… and im not being a traitor just because im dating someone from another race (you’re fckin narrow minded and racist if you think so). and second of all… im not dating someone from another race just so that i get respect or whatever kind of bullshit, and im not dating someone from another race so i feel like im better than any other asians… damn that’s so narrow minded to think like that.

    im dating a person that happens to be from another race just because im attracted to him and just because i love him.

  • 60 blah // May 14, 2008 at 11:48 pm

    ps: you cant say **** about hot asian chicks dating ugly white boys, because it works the other way around where a hot white boy is dating an ugly asian chick….(who ever mentioned this). ALSO- this isnt really valid cos you see ugly guys dating hot chicks, or visa versa – where an ugly chick is dating a hot guy, regardless what RACE!

  • 61 ARGH // May 15, 2008 at 12:02 am

    who gives a **** what the baby is gonna look like, asian-white/asian-black babies, whatever man, its a baby! whatchu gonna do if it turns out ugly? ITS STILL A LIVING THING GODDAMMIT… i cant believe u guys even talk about **** like that.

  • 62 bebe // May 15, 2008 at 8:25 pm

    im a vietnamese canadian dating an european guy. we’ve been together for two years now and it seems perfect. other that, from where i am in canada, the white guys hardly notice the asian girls.

  • 63 bebe // May 15, 2008 at 8:26 pm

    dating a portuguese canadian *
    other than that *

  • 64 DC // May 19, 2008 at 8:13 pm

    White chicks are too easy!!! I like a challenge.

    (White boy)

  • 65 Lulu // May 22, 2008 at 5:09 pm

    I prefer asian people a lot more than white people (When dating.)

    No offense.

  • 66 sy88 // May 22, 2008 at 8:44 pm

    ^^Gee why would anyone find that offensive, we’re pretty much solely consisting of Asians on here anyway, so in essence it’s another form of flattery to us Asian guys! We gotta grasp onto anything… anything!

  • 67 Anonymous // May 23, 2008 at 5:05 pm

    “We gotta grasp onto anything”¦ anything!”
    funny aww half babies are sooo cute! :]
    not all white girls are easy.

  • 68 anonymous // May 24, 2008 at 1:15 pm

    I find it very ironic that we point out that asian women are dating white men when asian men prefer asian women with white features! So why do some asian women end up dating white guys. One answer is that asian males don’t have any interest in asian females with asian facial features and western personalities.

    Asian males prefer asian women with not only caucasian like facial features, but also asian personality traits (non-outspoken, won’t challenge the male ego types). I have very asian facial features, and am very independent, a bit over-confident, and quirky in some ways (not exactly the personality trait that will fit into the conformist exclusive asian cliques). As an asian female who does not fit these characteristics, I’ve had the hardest time trying to get the attention of asian males despite living in a diverse urban metropolitan city (and taking the initiative to asking these people out). Instead, i get hit on by blacks, latinos, and whites- go figure.

  • 69 linda chen // May 30, 2008 at 7:27 am

    I am a potato queen who only date white male, from my personal experience, there are three basic facts about white guys : Do most white male fancy asian girl? The answer is no. Do most white man like slutty girls for sex only? The answer is yes. Do white male know they are the dominant race in the western world and possible take advantage of it? The answer is yes! This is why white guys aren’t shy in dating scene, because they know their winning percentage.

    There are seven types of white male would date asian female : type 1 are the people who only fancy Asians, who has asian fetish, in general they think all asian are hot regardless our looks and personality. type 2 are the white male who thinks asians are easy girls, they pick us from a nightclub or dating site, tell us a bunch of sweet words, but they have to start with sexual relationship first. type 3 are the white male who love our culture and lifestyle, they love our food and looking for long term relationship with us. in general they are well educated. ( my type, just like my hubby) type 4 are the adventurous white male, they don’t have a particular type and would like to cross the racial line and have a bite of different taste. type 5 are the power control male, they like to take advantage of their status in the western society, make visa, marriage promise to attempt us bedding with them. type 6 are the white male who cant get young and sexy white females anymore, they start to target younger asian females as an alternative choice. Type 7 are the white males who thinks a girl’s personality is more important than their looks, race is not that important for them.

    Seven types of Asain girls who would date white guys work slicely different but same principle. Type 1 are the asian girls who have white fetish, who only go after white male, they think white male are hotter regardless their age and personality. Type 2 are the typical China doll woman who likes to chased by man, they are extremely into fashion and all time attention from male, they like to spend 1 or 2 hours doing their make up and go out clubbing at least once a week, these type of girl are very likely to date type2 white male. Type 3 asian girl has lost their own culture identity, most of them grow up in America and consider themselves Americans Usually they like to make command like ‘asian guys remind me my brother” they are similar to type1 asain girl, but type 1 asain girl still follow asian tradition more than type3. Types 4 are the asian girls who thinks a man’s personality is more important than their looks, race is not that important for them. Type 5 girls consider a man’s society status and power are more important than their looks, they like to be looked after and treated well by powerful white male. Type 6 has a soft spot for tall and muscular male, they consider a strong physical appearance is necessity for a man, in general they consider white is better race and sex life works better with white male. Type7 4 are the adventurous asian women, they don’t have a particular type and would like to cross the racial line sometimes and have a bite of different taste.
    I personally think interracial dating is cool, every time when I see A/W couple passing by, I feel there is hope and culture connection between our asian and white people in this racist world. The reason we talk about this topic is because our asian in general really care about the relationship between white and ourselves, we have a admit that America and Europe are the continents dominated by white male, so keep a good relationship between us are very important.

  • 70 Jason // Jun 1, 2008 at 10:10 am

    I am white male married to a wonderful Filipina woman that I have known since I was a child. Prior to marriage I dated several other asian women not because I have a “fever” or “fetish” but because you can not help what you find to be most attractive. I must admit that in reading these posts I find it ridiculous to think I did it because I expect these women to be submissive, that is BS. I think one of the things that I find so attractive is the intelligence and sense of accomplishment that I see and the pride that is in making all things go well: work, relationships, etc. I hope to instill in our children the same thing that her parents did in her.

  • 71 Anonymous // Jun 2, 2008 at 12:46 pm

    Personally, I think that anything mixed with asian=asian. Those so called white asian kids always end up looking chinese to me. A french guy once said this to me: Asian+white=Asian
    White +black=black or white or a beautiful in bewteen. Asian and White very rarely give rise to anything except Asian.

  • 72 Linda Chen // Jun 2, 2008 at 5:25 pm

    Hi Jason
    Thanks to your comment on my post about “asan fetish” please let me expain what is asian fetish: asian fetish means white/black male who could ONLY date asian female because they love their body, skin colour and eye shape,.
    Does that apply to yourself? If so, you do have asian fetish. In your post, you have mentioned “you can not help what you find to be most attractive” I do think you have a soft spot for asian female. Does your sexual preference make you exclusive to asian woman. :)

  • 73 jen // Jun 6, 2008 at 1:17 am

    i dunno, im half asian, and im pretty damn hot. so there you go.

  • 74 Linda Chen // Jun 6, 2008 at 3:34 am

    Reply to Jen
    For asian admirers, you will always look hot no matter what, but you may not be every white man’s cup of tea. Asian woman or half asian woman will always be a special category for western man.

    That is why we should always respect our own man(asian man)
    I have so many asian female friends being so negative about our own asian man, just because they are not going to date any. Don’t forget your father is asian too.

    ‘Asian man remind me my brother, that’s why I cant date them.” ?????? silly silly little girl. Are you saying all Asians look the same? That is so racist. Show some respect.

    I know a girl in work, she is so funny, she told the other white girls in work that the reason she date white guys is asian man treat their wife badly, there’s no life with an asian. People came back and asked if that is true, I felt so embarrassed. There are Asian girls have to find some sort of excuse to ride white guy. Anyway, this girl went out with a Russian guy and she got bitten up so badly and escaped from their apartment after a year.

    Don’t get over-confident just because there are a few white guys chasing behind you, don’t be some kinda of drama queen, you still need to respect our own man.

  • 75 Chriss // Jun 6, 2008 at 10:47 am

    I agree with anonymous(1:15 pm)

    Asian guys tend to be more conservative. As a hobby, I’m a street performer and there were asian guys who were offended by me. They were like..”why would would you bring attention to yourself?”

    I have lots of asian guyfriends but I can’t ever see myself dating them because we just don’t click. There’s an upcoming Gay Film Festival in NYC and I invited them to come with me but they just said…” errrr no…that’ weird.” My white guy friends were all up for it. (They’re film makers & photographers themselves)

    So long story short, Asian guys think I’m weird. I’m sure there are artsy asian guys out there but it’s a very small pool. I often find myself being the ONLY asian person at art galleries or any other event.

    All jokes aside, I think Yoko Ono and John Lennon were a beautiful couple.

  • 76 Shakira // Jun 10, 2008 at 9:34 pm

    Honestly, I feel like the study you quoted is correct. I think the reason you see more East Asian girl/white guys couples is because…East Asian girls are waaay more open to dating white guys than girls of other ethnicities.

    Pretty much all of my South Asian (Indian, Pakistani, etc.) and Middle Eastern girlfriends have been pursued by several white guys. They might have dated a few of the guys, but most of them didn’t, and almost all preferred not to marry one. They just found quality guys in their own communities. Plus, I don’t think these girls are super harsh on their own men like East Asian girls are. Maybe b/c the guys have big eyes and sharp noses like white guys and you find a diversity of looks within each of these communities. Not that you don’t in East Asian communities, but damn, I have heard several East Asian chicks treat the men in their own communities like they were rats or something. Harsh.

    So yeah, I don’t think it’s b/c white guys have a special place in their hearts for the “exotic” East Asian girl…they pretty much go for any hot girl (if you want to get to the heart of it). I think they just find it much easier to get an East Asian girl vs. a girl of any other ethnicity.

    Plus, like they always say, a dorky white guy can get a cute Asian girl…all the cute white girls won’t have him!

  • 77 Asian Girl // Jun 13, 2008 at 1:45 pm

    I’ve been dating a white guy for 6 years who’s not a geek or unattractive in any way. My relationship isn’t a way to feel more American or “white”. I’ve never dated an Asian guy because I seem to always be negatively judged by Asians just because I can’t speak Vietnamese fluently or hang out with only Asian people. That’s a bunch of crap! I don’t judge the people I date by race. It makes me sick to hear people say such nonsense about races. I no longer talk to one of my brothers because he said I was trying to be “white” just because I have white friends. Well, I live in a predominantly white area and grew up in a small town in upstate NY where a small percentage of the community were non-white. Who else am I going to hang out with? I used to live in SF and my closest friends were Chinese, Koreans and Hispanics. Maybe there are some Asian girls dating white guys for the wrong reasons but isn’t that the same for any race?

  • 78 Brian // Jun 13, 2008 at 6:33 pm

    Whoa, that’s a lotta comments. I got a chuckle out of many of them… it’s interesting how many people got so fired up by this issue. I think most people don’t realize that the idea here is that a large quantity of Asian women like white guys, but that doesn’t mean it is all or even a majority of them. Just a statistically significant number, that’s all! It also doesn’t mean that Asian women only like white guys and don’t give a damn about blacks, hispanics, etc.

    As for me, I am a white male, born and raised in a smallish town in Massachusetts, USA. Also known as whiteville… though nearby cities have a good number of blacks and hispanics, so it doesn’t get too boring. I believe the fact that I grew up surrounded by whites has a lot to do with why I like ethnic women so much, especially Asians. They are different than the norm. Not that I don’t find plenty of white women attractive, but if you showed me an average white woman and an average Asian woman, I would likely rate the white one a 4 and the Asian one a 7 out of 10. Good looks only get your attention, however, and what really seals the deal for my interest in ethnic women has to do with culture and personality. With the culture and language differences, they are so much more exciting, and personality-wise I find non-American women to be much friendlier and caring. Thinking back to my days before high school, I realize that 75% of my love interests were not white… a half-Filipino, an Ethiopian, several Puerto Ricans, though at the time their race never even entered my mind. They were just the prettiest and sweetest girls in school. It wasn’t until college that I suddenly realized I had this ethnic preference.

    Today I am 2 years married to a lovely woman from Thailand. She came to the USA as a student, and stayed as a wife! I didn’t marry her because she is Asian, I married her because I love her. Her Asianess certainly helped, no doubt, for the reasons I mentioned above. She has a lot of the qualities I was always looking for, such as being fun, caring, smart, beautiful, sexy, outgoing, etc. The Asian part is just a great bonus! My life has become a zillion times more interesting with her… eating food I never heard of, watching movies I can’t even understand, traveling to Thailand for 3 weeks, meeting the family I can barely communicate with, learning to speak Thai… I love every second of it!

  • 79 Kanyarose // Jun 13, 2008 at 7:47 pm

    Hi… this is Nan, wife of Brian comment #78. I don’t really care whom I’m dating, White or Asian. When I’m dating a guy, I’m looking forward to date a man who like who I am and care about me. I like white guys, but at first I dated a couple of white guys who were kind of asshole. They just treat a woman like crap and don’t really care and pay attention about me. That almost change my mind about them. I think not all of White guys like Asian women.

    Some of the white guys do like Asian girl for the wrong reason. I’ve over heard a conversation with 2 White guys talking about Asian women and I was so mad. One guy was telling his friend that he should find an Asian wife because they will treat you like a king and they will do anything for you and the way it came out of his mouth makes me think that he likes Asian women coz they’ll do all the house work for you and all that. Also something else that that guy say to his friend and I think it’s just the wrong idea that he had about Asian women. I wish he never ever get to have an Asian wife likes he dreaming for lol

    Personally, I kind of like White guys more than Asian guys. Especially now that I met Brian. He’s the nicest white guy ever. I know some Asian guys are nice too but I had experience dating both and I think White guys are more honest, caring, love family, and don’t lie. I think I’m good staying with the White one and of course the baby is going to be cute. Even though I’m an average kind of girl but the half baby always so cute no matter what nationality they mix in and I can’t wait to have one lol ^_____^

  • 80 anonymous // Jun 13, 2008 at 9:44 pm

    LOL If the post above was a joke, it was hilarious!
    If not, then I shed a tear for you :(

    its true that western society has a powerful impact on the global perception of happiness… but I guess we just gotta DEAL WIT IT. If you really want to fight it just do ur own thing.

  • 81 Tom // Jun 18, 2008 at 4:27 pm

    I am a white guy.

    I have had loads of Asian women. I like them because they are generally very simple-minded and like sex. They like white guys like me because we are intelligent, good-looking, and able to give them sexual pleasure.

    It is THAT simple.

  • 82 Tom // Jun 18, 2008 at 4:30 pm

    And I forgot to add: it is time that Asian guys learned to deal with it.

    There is nothing less charming – or less sexually attractive – than a resentful Asian guy.

  • 83 Tom // Jun 18, 2008 at 4:37 pm

    Having said all that, and depsite the fact that I am happy to have sex with Asian girls, I will almost certainly *marry* a white woman. ;-)

  • 84 5/88 // Jun 19, 2008 at 1:47 pm

    im a white male but i dont have any sort of fetish about asian girls the only race i would’nt date is black though

  • 85 lol // Jun 19, 2008 at 4:11 pm

    freeearth, what’s funny is you go around bragging about everything when in reality your wife is fugly, and basically cheated on her bf. You say in some other post that asian guys are staring at you guys and her? They’re probably staring and thinking “another creepy white guy hooking up with an ugly asian girl”. lol…it’s funny how you interpret her family as liking you when it’s really clear that they only do that after so many years because it’s more convenient for them.

  • 86 Rodo // Jun 20, 2008 at 2:33 pm

    The author of this blog must not get much love from Asian males. From what I’ve noticed, the girls who get lots of love don’t really go for white guys.

    As for “yellow fever”, ever notice how white guys will go after ANY Asian chick as long as she’s Asian? It’s like a trophy conquest.

    Usually, the girls who get love are the ones who have fun personalities and are pretty cute. These girls usually either have no preference or viciously prefer Asian.

    I don’t think it’s really a question of PDA or affection or anything. Every Asian male I know properly gives those in large doses to the person they want to. The real question is, do they want to give it to you?

    What does that say about the author?

    It’s difficult to argue statistics on this one because the whole topic is so subjective. I’m sure people notice what I notice though.

    Putting forth some rudimentary statistics then outlining it from a biased standpoint doesn’t really account for a sound argument. So those who say I’m just being biased should really take a closer look at what Skunkgal wrote in the first place.


  • 87 Asas // Jun 22, 2008 at 9:37 pm

    Asian people don’t like white guys. Hell this is blasphemy. Asian girls and Gays Asian might. I guess Asian guys are non-existant. Oh well…

  • 88 gay mix // Jun 22, 2008 at 11:24 pm

    I’m a afro asian mix guy and my boyfreind is from japan we love each other and he’s my soul mate but his sister had a great asian boyfreind and she dumped him for a white guy she said love is over rated image is everything and she get more respect being with a white boy she feels he makes her better sad but this is what she said

  • 89 King David // Jun 24, 2008 at 6:24 pm

    OK this is utter BS with most of the comments first all lets just call it like we see it people in this world still follow that old 19 century eugenics bull crap. class, stereotypes, features, etc that was made to to justify crazy Europeans (the specific ones in power not there common people they just follow the leader) reason to colonize the so called of they considered savage world
    Asians, Africans, Arabs, Persians, (native)Indians etc…. and since we as a group of people of this earth since we all the same basically and there no lizard or alien people from mars running around. We Just use from of eugenics now with dating and reproducing its like a retarded version of survival of the fittest(who can make the most pretties baby to rule the earth (no offense to any one gay but the only thing that would effect the human race is if ever one was gay) that would leave no offspring if we only focused on the pleasure side of reproducing . But back to the point the reasoning is stupid we base or hypothesis on stuff we see on tv and what media tells us whats pretty. being exotic(by the means of so called mixing) is very pretty specially leaving in America on TV at first you had to look white to basically be considered beautiful since now pop culture even though still hooked to the roots of how America use to be back then “race mixing(sounds dumb lol the word race mixing) elfs and dwarfs would be is a legit claim to be considered race mixing (not to sound like a sci fi fantasy geek)instead of blackM/F and white M/F or LatinM/F and Asian M/F…etc

    funny we talk about are respectful group like how they get all attention or there so godlike ,or hit another group like man!!! I would never date them or maybe there family is a link to al qaidia or a large group of violent gangsters so i steer away from her/him and we even do this to in soceity o my o my I don’t wont my kids to come out looking like osama since i married an Arab lady and he would be looked down upon in school because other kids would think his parents or Muslims. and then we wonder why this world specialy America as a huge rate of divorce because we marring and having families with out having an ounce of true love for our spouse but just married them because of of high up I want to seem like in society (insert nation here) and overlook that true soul mate because to you afraid to look or have a not a avg looking family(yet exotic beautiful family) that’s not seen on the mighty telly.

    I’m mix mostly Black, one of the ohio (native american tribes either miami or iroqouis)not quite sure but granny was born in ohio and she was half white just like my grandad and on my dad side majortiy of black ancestry but also grandfather is family on my mon side looks like you in brazil that’s how mix we are but we considered ourselves black. trust being part of an exoitc looking family is great get stares when you walk in the mall when people can’t make it out if you look Arab, light skin black guy or puerto rican. but also kinda like a game lguess what i am…..anyway I’m not going say I was a victim of someone instresed in you but afraid of what dad going to think when i was about highschool this chinese girl had a crush on me for like a long time but she never gave any real hints that she liked me but only thing she would do lol was give me answers to test but she did work in a family Chinese restaurant that my sisters and dad went there often and she would ask about me all the time but like I said she would never talk to me unless she was helping me in school work in class(yes i was underachiever getting c’s when i could get As didn’t care at the time though its high school) but guess what ( thanks agian setortypes!!!) but the reason she never gave me any bait to really know make a move she knew here father would not approve even though I was like the cool stand on the wall never say anything but still respectfull get all the attention from the with out even talking to them girls type.(not to tut my own horn but i been asked out by more girls then I asked girls out at that time I was afraid of rejection thats another tell) But the point is that if we follow what soceity says about people regardless of what race that are with out checking the actually idvidual you miss out on something. never know now her and I could of been a good couple
    the moral of this rant is
    Its all about individual character and goals of what type of person your looking for and we should all know beauty only skin deep or should i say race deep. look past race and even looks sometimes and get to know the inside person might be your soul mate that will be with you for thick and thin wrong or right.


  • 90 King David // Jun 24, 2008 at 6:28 pm

    dang, lol I should of typed that rant in word first alot of erros heck its freaking chop’d and screwed any way excuse me who ever reads it I’m sorry dont crucify me :(

  • 91 Dave // Jul 3, 2008 at 5:30 pm

    lots of misconceptions here….at least from my experience. As a white guy, I would say about half of white guys are attracted to asian girls and the other half not. For most of the ones who are, its not because of some hollywood image that they expect asian girls to be “subservient”, because they are “losers” who can’t get a date with white chicks, or any other BS reasons thrown out there. Its because they find them……GASP! 1) physically attractive 2) if you were raised in a fairly traditional and conservative household like I was, the high value placed on education by most asian cultures-and thus the often high levels of academic achievement by many asian girls fits perfectly with the values I was raised with and like to see in a girl. 3)some think it would be a huge advantage for any kids to grow up speaking two or more languages and understanding two or more cultures 4)yes, halfie babies do tend to be very cute (at least to my eyes) 5) they are fascinated with many of the Asian cultures and would love to learn more 6)like exotic/different thing (Of course, a lot of people other than just white guys or asian girls feel that way too).

    Does any of this totally explain why I like my girlfriend who happens to be Chinese? No. I like her because she’s sweet, smart, pretty and a lot of fun to be with. If that bothers someone else…..get a life.

  • 92 anna // Jul 5, 2008 at 6:44 am

    I’m a white chick, and I’ll tell you *exactly* why white boys like Asian girls {and this is NOT on the Asian girls}. I know because I know white guys who’ve dated Asian girls, inc. exclusively Asian girls. Asian girls are small. They are either represented as nerdy or super/trashy/sexy. The small, sexy, supposedly submissive Asian girls make the white guy feel big and powerful, both physically and mentally. Now, I’m not saying that real love can’t blossom between the two–I’m saying for the most part, white guys who date Asians don’t care who the Asian is. They’re dating the type, not the person. Asian girls watch out!

  • 93 jen // Jul 5, 2008 at 10:54 am

    I have to admit. The babies from Asian and Caucasian parents are very very cute.

  • 94 gian // Jul 6, 2008 at 7:27 pm

    The baby thing is all a crapshoot imo. There are very ugly halfies that I’ve seen and there are also the very good looking ones. Race doesn’t change genetics and its pairing, so who cares. I’d rather have a good and happy family than one that looks great superficially. Nowadays it’s all fair game because it’s become more common. It’s not WM/AF anymore, it’s xM/xF now.

  • 95 Don't Mess Wit Me // Jul 6, 2008 at 7:39 pm

    Hi I’m an Asian girl and the generalisations here are so ****

    First of all, we come from a myraid of backgrounds, so you can’t just say that Asian women and White men hook up because ____. By hook up, I mean long-term.

    In America, for an Asian woman to find her Asian counterpart, she’d have to go back to her country. We fall in love with people who have similar personalities and values. We have very few Asian men compared to white men in America. Look at the size of Asia! What’re the chances that a potential Asian suitor is from the same hometown as she, who also happened to sail to America with her, and lived with her?

    Therefore, there’s a wider chance for a girl to fall for a white guy, who shared her beliefs. We’re mutable people, but our blueprint is the same.

    The most important thing is to stay true to yourself. I’m Chinese and I get along with people of all races. I also tend to clash with people of all races. I get along with more European men than American men also. It’s not a “white” issue. It’s more of a personality and cultural one.

  • 96 cteagirl // Jul 6, 2008 at 11:44 pm

    why do we asian girls like white guys?

    -we all have daddy issues (controlling, too-strict, too conservative, too sheltering, lack of humor, too f*cking uptight, male chauvinist, etc) that automatically singes that terrifying imprint upon the possibility of marrying an asian guy.

    -hot, good-looking white guys are willing to give us a chance even if we’re not a size 0 or 2. Hot asian guys would not. which makes asian male hotties way too discriminatory and superficial. So please, watch the double standard.

    -majority of asian guys we know are “nice guys.” (see other thread, speaks for itself), and too shy and hesitant to ask us out. White guys have more confidence and ask us out first. That is hella more attractive, no matter what race you are.

    -white guys are willing to acknowledge our talents , intelligence, and other non-looks-related characteristics as highly significant.
    Asian guys in general, want a pretty petite sweet girl… and that’s it. she can be relatively empty up there so long as she’s obedient.

    -the “dorky white guys” who seem to score with asian chicks? they’re usually not dorks b/c they have some confidence. confidence is attractive.

    -white guys are taller. sorry, but it counts.

    -it’s a tough competition out there, asian guys. you can’t let the white guy beat you each time. so you have to make up for it in confidence, and looks. Meaning you have to step it up. it’s not enough to look like a gap commercial. that’s just not stylish. make a move and assert yourself. stop being the nice guy and get some new clothes, haircut, makeover. learn how to groom. Doing so will give you the edge.

  • 97 The Real American // Jul 7, 2008 at 11:47 am

    I’m an Asian American Guy and here is my 2 cents:

    The only people in here are:

    1.) Liberals
    2.) Western-Centric Utopian Thinkers
    3.) White Washed Asian guys who are bitter, but don’t realize that their bitterness is only a product of their whitewash-ness.

    You people are delusional. Get your news and opinions from more sources than your TV, your government run schools, or your liberal college professors.

    America is starting to be disliked in the world because it has abandoned its love of Liberty and replaced it with Utopian thinking. You people seem to think that you’re the policeman of the world. That humanity should be united and shaped under YOUR vision. You claim it for the common good.

    Government stepping out of it’s Constitutional boundaries, by propagating it’s own vision of race mixing, using taxpayer money and the censured media has created the bias against Asian Men that is in the media today. Even when you see this “diversity” displayed on billboards, posters, and college pamphlets, you will rarely see Asian men displayed favorably, if at all. Is it any wonder that Asian men feel like second class citizens? Don’t you think this is why Asian guys and the women loyal to them, tend to isolate themselves from Mainstream America?

    Let’s not forget that whatever government touches it corrupts.

    Asian Women have the right to date/marry anyone they want but Asian Men also have the right to dislike, disown, and push away anyone they don’t want. Don’t call us racist, because we didn’t start this, we are just protecting ourselves from the aggression of YOUR Government.

    I respect the rights of all people so long as they don’t violate the life, liberty, and property of others. I don’t like the direction that this country has chosen: Force Political Correctness and Forced Equality under YOUR vision of how humanity should look like.

    Freedom and small government is not only the American way, it is the most practical and humanitarian way.

  • 98 YELLOWHAMMER // Jul 7, 2008 at 9:05 pm

    To Asian guys who feel they are losing dates to White Guys:
    I’m an Asian woman and it never worked out for me when I dated people from the same background. Either I wasn’t pretty enough, or thin enough, or socially prominent enough, or proper enough to introduce to their moms, or I was too old! I was told these things by exes who didn’t seem to realize they were “all that” either.
    It’s just soooo hard to live up to Asian guys’ and their families’ expectations. There was always something I wasn’t doing right.
    Meanwhile my European fiance moved halfway around the world to be with me, introduced me to his family right away, who threw a massive party to introduce me to all the relatives, asked me if I wanted to go to either Rome or Paris for my birthday…I know, I can hardly believe it myself.
    But the most important thing is that after being told so often that I wasn’t “the kind of girl who would be good wife or mommy material” (why – because I care about my career?) there’s this gorgeous blonde man who tells me everyday that he wouldn’t change a thing about me.

  • 99 The Real American // Jul 8, 2008 at 9:45 am


    I understand your situation because most Asian girls who go for Non-Asian guys for that very reason. If they aren’t the ideal Asian Girl(cute and petite), or once they screw up (Date inter-racially or sleep around) they tend to get a bad reputation and Asian guys reject them.

    Yea, it’s a sad reality but to be completely honest I am actually very proud that we Asian men hold women to such a high standard. It’s probably the reason why Asian Women evolved to be as attractive as they are now.

    I’m certainly not jealous of your life choice. Most of the Asian girls that do date inter-racially aren’t really the right stuff for Asian Guys anyways.

    In the end everyone is happy except those dumb Whitewashed Asian guys who still think that White guys are stealing their women. These guys just need to get out more, socialize more with Asians, and understand the hidden rules of Asian Society.

  • 100 YELLOWHAMMER // Jul 8, 2008 at 4:14 pm

    Thanks for the response Real American. I just wanted to say that it’s okay to have high standards – but I just wish that it wasn’t a DOUBLE STANDARD. Case in point: I was 118lbs and called ‘fat and unhealthy’ by an ex who was overweight and smoked like a chimney. I was very forgiving of my Asian exes’ shortcomings, but why couldn’t they take a good long look at themselves and see that they weren’t up to their own standards?

    There is so much pressure placed on women in the looks/attractiveness/demureness department that everything else gets pushed to the sidelines. There are lots of beautiful women in my country to be sure, so I can understand why the standards are higher but this is just a tyranny of type! Doesn’t being a good, loving person count? I have lovely, amazing friends who would – without a moment’s hesitation – nurse a perfect stranger after an accident and not leave until the medical staff arrive and then later include said stranger in their prayers. And what happens to a lovely girl like that? They get jerked around! And what happens when they don’t get married – well, people just pity and patronize them as old maids!

    I don’t expect anyone to be ‘jealous’ of my life choice because I did not make a deliberate effort to date white guys. In fact, when I moved West I had basically resigned myself to spinsterhood (at 27). I just fell in love with a friend who just happened to be European. And whose mother doesn’t view me as a rival for her son’s affections (thank God for that!)

    I’m not saying we should all go White or that it’s ‘not’ a challenge to overcome our cultural differences (or the harassment we get when we go out together). But I think the guys back home (who – I might add – LOVE caucasian girls – which I have no problem with) can do with a little bit more openness, acceptance and equality. But since I place such a high emphasis on those values, you’re probably right – I’m not the right stuff for the boys back home as you say.

  • 101 The Real American // Jul 8, 2008 at 11:11 pm


    Let me remind you that many Asian men are themselves victims of America’s double standard: the preferential treatment of Asian Women over Asian Men.

    The world isn’t fair and it probably never will be. We Asian guys aren’t affected by America’s double standard. And you (the rejected ones) married Non-Asians, so you should be fine. We each were attacked by different systems and we came up with different solutions.

    But again, everyone is happy.

    Life isn’t fair and it never will be.

  • 102 HITHEREGUYS // Jul 10, 2008 at 5:40 pm


    I’m white and I feel like I’m f*cking elite, that I’m blessed by the creator! I’m the embodiment of perfection! Seriously, there’s nothing about my body that’s wrong lol! Yeah I worked my f*cking *ss off to get a ripped body but hey! perfection is only achievable by moing your butt off the couch!

    I dated like 6 white girls; they were all the same: slutty, golddigging gossip-whores who didn’t give a sh*t about me except for my bankaccount. I dated 2 asian girls and they were both the most sweet, caring and passionate girls I’ve ever seen.. they weren’t submissive at all(except for sex, they rly like to take it up their *ss) and now I’m married to one of them :-) we have great sex and the best relationship you can wish! yeah W/A-relationships are f*cking leetsauce.. face it!

    Btw: Asian guys, here’s a tip: stop trying to be that sensitive, quiet anime-like skinny-*ss guy… girls don’t like that (except for fat ugly weeaboo(white whore who’s obsessed with gay J-pop and Anime) attention whores)

    Hope that will help all of you realize how much your lives suck compared to mine! :-)


  • 103 HapAvenger // Jul 12, 2008 at 1:16 pm

    Whatever happened to judging a person based on personality, values and morality. I guess that doesn’t matter, because having beautiful hapa babies is all that matters in the end. People who date each other because of superficial reasons such as this makes me sick.

  • 104 guy asian // Jul 13, 2008 at 3:39 pm

    i was hanging out with some white guys and one said,” i love asian girls.” i said that i agree. another white said,” no, i don’t find asian girls to be that hot, besides, they look like littele 12-year olds.” then the first white guy (jokingly) says,” exactly!” LoL! omg, i never laughed soo hard.
    in my opinion, it’s kinda like that, this “fetish” is plain juvenile.
    as an asian i use to have an asian fetish, but now in my twenties, it’s better to like a girl based on her personalities, you know, if you click with someone, then you click! race doesn’t matter.
    ex: if you are white guy who is earning a descent incone, his girlfriend would probably be in that same bracket, regardless of her race, EVEN THOUGH IT SEEMS LIKE IT’S MOSTLY ASIAN GIRLS.
    black ladies, you should date asians and non-black guys more often, cause then the black men will be like,” damn, black chicks are in high demand, i gots to git me some of that!” then they’ll stop going for non-black. i.e. white and asian and latin girls.
    i know it’s racist and misoginistic for me to talk this way, but i think the message will get through.

    girls of all races should not be scared to date asian guys, most of us (asian americans) are pretty cool. come, play Xbox with us, meet our parents. -you never know, you just might like it.

  • 105 guy asian // Jul 13, 2008 at 3:52 pm

    no, seriously, ladies, it’s not your fault, asians should have the balls to ask out more chicks.
    that being said, if most asian guys are shy (due to the rascism in the media and environment) then it’s up to you to break this vicious cycle and be the agressive ones. NOT all female/male dating rules have to be base on the architype of the man being the pursuer. that’s just sexist.

    in response to HITHEREGUYS, hey, you’re funny. i’m not a hater so i’m not “butthurt” from your comment. if you are happy with your chick, then good for you.
    however, if someone does not hire or promote me because of the color of my skin, then go F urself, and F ur mom, cause she shoulda raised you better than that.

  • 106 WA // Jul 18, 2008 at 2:41 pm

    Lol this makes no sense to me at all.
    I’m an Asian guy.
    What I see as the result of this is for example:
    Korean people running around acting blacker than black people. xD
    Even saying they’re black, lol.
    And then well Most Asian people just think white people are stupid for some unknown reason.
    In Washington state, near Seattle, I don’t see that many Asian/White couples, I mostly see Asian, Asian, in fact my gf used to like white people, skaters to be exact, but now she thinks white guys are stupid, as well s black people, and only loves Asians, due to the fact I know what to say to convince people to see things my way.
    People say they are afraid that they might like an Asian that might be related to them. Uh, if the world mixes like this, everyone will probably look the same by then. And people say Asian guy act weird? Hmm.. I dunno most of the ones I know act kinda weird, one mixes the fact he likes manga and anime with the fact he’s a breakdancer, and all the girls at my school love him. I myself am pretty rebellious to my parents and stuff. but I dunno I’m not trying to defend myself xd I just know that in my state, this is not a fact. In fact in my state or area, Asian girls who like white and black guys are usually considered sluts and actually look like them lol.

  • 107 Nguyen // Jul 19, 2008 at 12:05 pm

    What the hell to the racist posts. There isn’t any one race better than the other and it is just a preference that Asian females prefer one race more. It happened to be that Asians prefer the porcelain, light/white skin because it is a symbol of bluebloods. It’s ingrained in our mentality. And that’s all…

    If you haven’t noticed, we are in the USA. White people are everywhere and it is bound to happen that we mix.

    I’ll date all kinds of people as along as they respect and treat me well.

  • 108 Kevin // Jul 19, 2008 at 6:44 pm

    I have lived there and found Asian women to be like a breath of fresh air. I noticed they like being treated like a lady…. Us white guys are taught this at an early age. They also take care of there husbands and put the family first. The last thing is I spent many years there and they are the nicest ladies. My kids are half Asian and are going quite well in life.

  • 109 guy asian // Jul 21, 2008 at 10:58 pm

    boy, Kevin, that was just stupid! “They also take care of there husbands and put the family first”
    you are stereotyping. STOP IT! most women
    ( of all ethnicities ) want to take care of their men and children. jesus-allah-buddah..
    i live in the United States, a middle-eastern man is just as caring as any other man.
    so women should not stereotype asian or non-white men as losers who don’t take care of their family.
    p.s. a reason why (some) asian men cheat on their wives is because when they were younger
    ( and piss broke ) they weren’t able to sow their wild oats.
    so if women ( especially asian women ) had been giving it up like you did to white or non-asian guys, then this situation wouldn’t arise.
    It’s all about free love, man. Non-discriminatory love.
    if Arab men get loads of that “nasty-nasty,” then they probably wouldn’t be blowing themselves up.

  • 110 you know what, Kevin? // Jul 21, 2008 at 10:59 pm

    you are not stupid, just *** ignorant. sucks to be you. read a *** book.

  • 111 White Guy // Jul 22, 2008 at 7:42 pm

    I’m a white guy married to a chinese woman. We have 2 boys, who are very cute, very smart, very athletic, and (surprisingly) very white looking (of course, i’m not biased). I always dated only white women until i got into my 30s, then started exploring other races (asian, middle eastern, black). Of all, i preferred asian the most, because of appearance, intelligence, and generally more easy-going personalities. However, after a decade of marriage, i’m discovering that chinese women are not always so easy going. Perhaps because they hold up half the sky. Interesting site and comments.

  • 112 HapAvenger // Jul 23, 2008 at 3:09 pm

    White Guy, is your wife Chinese or Chinese American? There is a difference between the two, just as there is a difference between being European and European American. It’s dangerous to overgeneralize and say that “Chinese women are not always so easy going.” Chinese women are not one homogenous group. There is variety within any one racial, religious or gender based group of people. Frankly I’m shocked and disappointed that someone who is married to a Chinese or Chinese American woman would overgeneralize in this way.

  • 113 nala // Jul 24, 2008 at 9:05 pm

    you guys are loosers.

  • 114 Wake up people // Jul 25, 2008 at 4:47 am

    I am fairly disgusted by many of the opinions of what I “think” are the Asian/Asian American/Asian-some-other-hyphenated nationality posters in this guestbook. For those of you who say “it’s understandable that Asians love whites” or “it’s just a matter of preference – and I just happen to be one of those kinds of people…” – man you all gotta wake up. Are you really that socialized to the point that you would think this way? Do you realize what you are saying? You are basically saying that there is another race that is categorically better than your own.

    Have some pride in your own people, people ! Have some pride in yourself!

    There are 2 very ridiculous arguments that these kinds of people often give (most of the time given by and Asian female) to explain their so-called preference for whites:

    “…oh, it’s a matter of preference…” and “…oh, I don’t date Asians, because it feels like I’m dating my brother (father, sister, any other relative, etc.)…”

    First, about “oh, it’s a matter of preference.” This excuse is given so many times to “explain” things, that it is obvious there is something much larger than “preference” working here. The real underlying reality is that you are socialized by the American (or whatever western country you live in) media and society to think that whites are better than Asians (and obviously, you have agreed to bend over and accept it). You hear this said by white loving Asians almost as a defense. I mean, if it was really simply a matter of preference, you would feel more comfortable about it and not so defensive.

    Secondly, about the “…oh, I don’t date Asians, because it feels like I’m dating my brother (father, sister, any other relative, etc.)…” excuse/defense/explanation. If this were a valid and logical explanation, then why does no other racial group in America say this about the other people in there racial group? Maybe you’ve heard in the past for example, some white women who exclusively date out of their race say things like “oh, I do so because white men don’t respect white women.” Whether this claim is true or not – I don’t know. But, the interesting thing is, that at least this claim complains about some flaw in character about white men. Thus, if say, this white woman met a white man who did in fact make a conscious effort to treat her right, she – based on the logic of her statement – would most likely consider him as a potential mate.

    With that in mind, let’s look again at the “…oh, I don’t date Asians, because it feels like I’m dating my brother (father, sister, any other relative, etc.)…” excuse/defense/explanation given by Asians who exclusively date out of their race (or at least disproportionately date out of their race). In this statement, the speaker is not complaining about any character flaw in the other person. In reality, all they are complaining about is that the other person is Asian. So, in effect, they are complaining about Asians, and thus complaining about themselves. Put more simply, they are making the assertation, that we Asian people (including the speaker who dares to spout this kind of crap) are just not “good”/”worthy” enough to date – just because we are Asian. How messed up of a view is that to have about yourself and your people? You better start doing some thinking. If you find that this is the only way you have “known” things – then move somewhere else for a while – some place with lots of Asians and less western media – and get a new perspective on things. You might not realize how weird you sound saying such things because you have been socialized so much for so long. But, that is still no reason not to do something about it now and to enlighten yourself – or at the very least be honest with your thoughts and opinions. That is, instead of the above 2 canned explanations/defenses/excuses – why can’t you just be honest and instead say “I date exclusively non-Asian because I hate being Asian and thus don’t want a mate who is Asian because that person then would constantly remind me that I am, in fact, Asian”?

  • 115 Happily Married... // Jul 26, 2008 at 5:07 pm

    To most of the asian guys crying in their “sake” or alcoholic beverage of their choice. The reason we don’t get dates is not because we’re nerdy, or because we don’t have huge wangs or whatever friggin’ excuse is the latest and greatest reason why Asian guys are reviled as date prospects. It’s because we don’t have any confidence in ourselves. We wander around bemoaning the fact that everyone ELSE is getting the girl and we don’t have anyone.

    Spent 6 years wondering why I was single…until one day I hit on it. I’m not confident in myself. Until you’re confident that you’re a “person” worthwhile, you’re never going to be “attractive” to anyone else. No one’s willing to take on a “sympathy case”.

    I don’t particularly care what racial nationality you are…it doesn’t matter any more in this racially mixed world. The only ones who think about racial purity are thoe backward-buck-teethed hillbilly types of any nationality that say “We must protect our own kind”. That mentality went out with the Stone Age.

    Who am I married to? Well, my wife is WF, but it would have just as easily been AF, BF, or HF. And the reason why we’re married is not because I have a fetish to skin color, not because I had to have a white-girl to make myself seem better than everybody else. It was because she was fun to be with, her personality was what attracted me, my friends and former school mates think she’s HOT (but that’s not the reason I married her, I’m just relating their reaction), and her family was accepting of me. My family on the other hand has been nothing but contemptuous of the relationship. So who is racist in that regards?

    To AF, just because your father was an overbearing jerk, doesn’t mean the AM you date will be. More than likely he’ll have been in the same situation as you (raised in a predominately white society) and have American values.

    To AM, don’t whine about losing AF to WM. Just get out there and be confident in YOURSELF. It doesn’t matter if you don’t get the reception you expected. Everybody gets rejected. Heck the first few relationships that I was in prior to meeting my wife, I got ditched. It comes with the dating territory. Get over it and move on.

    The more you date, the more likely it is that you’ll met who you’re really meant to be with.

  • 116 Vikram // Jul 26, 2008 at 6:19 pm

    There is no such thing as yellow fever. There is white fever only. It is very rare to see an Oriental woman date anyone except other Orientals or Whites. I use the term Oriental instead of Asian because Asian includes Indians and Oriental does not. Anyway, you can see white men with women of all races, but you will rarely see an Oriental woman with any race other than Oriental or white. So it’s ridiculous to make White men feel bad because of yellow fever – the problem is with the Oriental women with the white fever. Why don’t they go for Indian guys? Indians are Asians and Caucasians at the same time. Culturally Asian and they have the Caucasian features of straight nose and all that. No, the Oriental woman is not racially neutral. If she indeed was then why is the only race she dates outside of her own race is the White man. Indians being the most educated and wealthiest of all ethnic groups in America are dissed every day by Oriental women, who don’t even give them the time of the day. By the way, do us a favor and stop using the word “Asian” when you don’t mean Indians .. use the proper word “Oriental”.

  • 117 Vikram // Jul 26, 2008 at 6:23 pm

    Oh one more thing .. the Oriental women who say that the reason they don’t date other Oriental guys is because they are not confident enough to ask them out, that’s a bunch of baloney and garbage, because I have seen many Oriental women either make the first move or make it very easy for the white guy to make the first move. Besides, this is the 21st century, you talk about Oriental women being oppressed by Oriental men, then why don’t you break that stereotype and ask them out yourself – if they can handle the fact that you asked them out first then you know that he doesn’t believe in oppressing woman. The reality is stop making excuses – you just love white skin. Otherwise, I am sure there are lot of fine individuals you could date that are neither Oriental nor White.

  • 118 MinJi // Jul 27, 2008 at 7:03 pm

    I’m an fob asian girl (international college student from south korea). I’ve been living in the U.S since last summer. Since i am not attracted to the men of other races other than mine, i have seen countless asian-white couples since i arrived here in washington state. But i have to say … does white men have any decent taste when it comes to asian girls? Don’t get me wrong, but i hardly see a hot asian girl with a hot white guy … hardly ever. It also seems to me that successful whitemen aren’t really into interracial relationships. I’m not trying to say all interracial couples are losers, but especially the white men who purposly seeks asian females seem to be in the lower social/economical bracket.

  • 119 MinJi // Jul 27, 2008 at 7:14 pm

    “Plus, they don’t seem to care that the girl may be more educated, earn more money, smarter, etc. Most Asian guys want a more traditional bride, stay at hoome mom even though their women may have graduate degree physics, chemistry, etc.”

    So in other words, you never went to college, probably living in a shithole apartment with your proud white guy who works at 7-11, right?

    I guess what the say in asian community is right … “WE take the best, they take the rest”

  • 120 Annoymous // Jul 28, 2008 at 4:58 am

    Well, this is actually half true. I’m from HK, we do know what’s up with the male anatomy, but we don’t have sex-ed classes. When asian ppl date each other, the guys generally don’t inform their parents. Asian guys never ask us out.

  • 121 kim // Jul 29, 2008 at 8:21 am

    actually, alot of Japanese and Koreans hate white people.

  • 122 kim // Jul 29, 2008 at 8:23 am

    I’m asian, and I would never date a guy other than my own race

  • 123 Agitated // Jul 30, 2008 at 9:13 am

    I really resent the stereotypes that are presented to justify East Asian girls rejecting respective guys.

    Living in China for the past year plus, I see so many Chinese girls latching onto Caucasians that it makes me sick. I understand some of them are in it for the money, and more power to them. However, I’ve seen women with good incomes and looks go gooey and sleep with some douchebaggy frat boy or supernerd just off the plane.

    As a taller, well built Chinese-American guy, I’m 5’11″ 175, brother’s 6’2″ 200, I’ve never had any problems with my appearance. I’m not the best looking guy, but sure as hell better than average. I’ve been turned down for dates more times than I can remember by East Asian girls, and I’ve never been able to understand it. These replies still don’t help, honestly.

    I got turned down by white girls too, but that was a racism thing in the small town I grew up in. I’d expect better from the girls in the city I went to college in, and sure enough, white, hispanic, black, and south asian girls were all much more likely, with hispanic for some reason being the most eager. To Vikram… indian girls were the least likely to date me, even fewer than “oriental” girls. I don’t use the term because I don’t like the connotations behind it.

    I don’t harbor any ill will or anything towards the girls, I’m dating a great chinese-american girl now, but I’d say the odds over the years were disturbing.

  • 124 Rebecca // Jul 30, 2008 at 1:32 pm

    Eh, been there. Done that.

    NEVER again.

    I prefer my men now with much less ego, and a lot more skills. =)

  • 125 perfecctlynice // Jul 30, 2008 at 8:42 pm

    minji-your observation is based on one year of living in a rather confined area of Seattle as a Korean. Some Koreans are the most prejudiced people I have the dubious of privelege of knowing though I won’t generalize that all are. I’ve lived in the east coast, west coast including WA for lot more yrs. than you. BTW my experience in yrs. is probably more than your total age.

    Oh, you can fantisize about my living condition all you want, but if I’m making an annual income that’s more than 99% of US population make, I can afford to own something more than a “trailer”. And I do. And about that husband of mine, suffice it to say that he is a professional, just like me. And yea, he’s muscular, lean, fit and 6’2″ and was thought by girls in his class at post graduate school to be the hottest looking guy. And his IQ will outdo your unless it happens to be greater than 138.

  • 126 McGeorge // Jul 31, 2008 at 9:04 pm

    As a 29 year old white man engaged to a stunning Taiwanese women, I’m compelled to say that the few responses above where white guys are gloating or Asian guys are bashing come off as equally unpleasant and passively racist.

    When my fianca!© points out what she finds attractive about me, her answer is: I make her laugh”¦ often, I’m close with my immediate family, I treat her family and friends with the utmost respect, I have a naturally fun disposition and enjoy outdoor activities, I’m open minded, I eat what she cooks whether I like it or not, I love animals, I have a Masters degree and a career I’m proud of, I’m not afraid of PDA and indulge her in long cuddling sessions. Reading that list, I don’t see one thing that only a white guy could provide.

    Guys, be yourselves and your best qualities will inevitably emerge. The right women for you (be she, asian, black, white, latina, etc) will always respond to a man with confidence in himself.

  • 127 filipino me // Aug 1, 2008 at 10:21 am

    I married a white man. I was born in the Phillipines, but I was raised in the US. My father who adopted me was white, even though my mom is Asain. So, I grew up on the barracks and in a prodominently white neighborhood. I would’ve love to date an asain, but I only ran into one guy and he was at least 5 years younger. I’ve dated other races, but the one I found that I love and vice-versa happens to be white. Whether it be preference or not; love is unmistakeably love. End of story.

  • 128 HapAvenger // Aug 1, 2008 at 3:10 pm

    McGeorge, I would like to believe that your wife loves you for who you are as a person, and that ethnicity has nothing to do with that. My question is, if your wife was not Taiwanese, but another race (Black, Latina), would you still love her just has much? Likewise, do you think if you were another ethnicity that she would love you just as much? Do you believe physical attraction is not a factor when it comes to relationships?

  • 129 areyouserious // Aug 1, 2008 at 4:31 pm

    Posted by perfecctlynice:
    “white guys are lot more aggressive in pursuing a girl they want compared to most Asian guys I know. Plus, they don’t seem to care that the girl may be more educated, earn more money, smarter, etc. Most Asian guys want a more traditional bride, stay at hoome mom even though their women may have graduate degree physics, chemistry, etc.”

    you gotta be kidding me haha. white washed asians like you are hilarious

    seriously though, i dont have a problem if an asian girl prefers white guys. what i cant stand is when people like you try to pin the reasons for your shallow fetishes on asian males by generalizing ALL asian males based on ignorant, out of date stereotypes. I dont know where youre from, but NONE of the asian guys i know would ever want what you described in any woman they date.

    so stop spewing out racist shit (yea, if youre a twinkie, you can be asian but still be racist towards asians), grow up, and take responsibility for your own shallowness

  • 130 McGeorge // Aug 2, 2008 at 3:59 pm

    Fair question HapAvenger. I just got back from Taiwan and I noticed a few things relevant to this topic. First, I noticed most Taiwanese women prefer to keep their skin as white as possible. I watched a TV show where ten 18-25 something Taiwanese female models were trotted on stage with the whitest skin you’ve ever seen. The crowd oh’ed and ah’ed with approval over these girls solely because of their white complexions. So it makes perfect since many women that grow up with this kind of cultural stamp of approval would prefer men with lighter skin complextions while shunning the idea of dating/mating with a darker race. I can point to countless examples of people native to Japan, Taiwan and China that clearly place a high emphasis on the beauty of Asian girls with white skin. Also, the Asian men clearly prefer their Asian women to have white skin so this light skin preference is as much their fault as Asian womens’. White women having pasty white skin is not a beauty trait in any part of America I’m aware of. These are just my observations, you may rationalize things differently. I personally wish my fianca!© got more sun since her skin should be naturally tan.

    Secondly, my fianca!© dated Taiwanese men before she met me and her only common theme among boyfriends was that we were tall (over 6′) and not toothpick skinny. If you counted the number of women that say they prefer tall men to women that prefer shorter guys, it would probably be 10+ to 1. The northern European races tend to produce taller people which may explain why you see a noticeable number of tall white guys with women (all races) that would otherwise be out of their league based on other beauty characteristics. When I visited Taiwan, China and Japan, it was pretty obvious that I was considerably taller than most natives, which is something the men pointed out far more often than the women. Again, just an observation.

    In the end though, when I first started dating my Taiwanese fianca!©, I was stupid enough to think she wanted me because I’m a tall, blue-eyed gringo. But I was dead wrong. She liked me for what I brought to the table in spite of my wrongfully over-inflated ego. In the beginning, it was my ego that got in the way of our relationship progressing and once I saw (and got past) my stupid beliefs, our relationship flourished. I’m not saying physical attraction is insignificant to a male/female relationships, but the vast majority of women will not become intimate with a guy that bores them. If all a guy brings to the table are his good looks, he’ll go on a lot of first dates and very few second ones.

  • 131 HapAvenger // Aug 3, 2008 at 10:04 am

    Good point McGeorge. I think that physical attraction can be what initially draws two people to each other, but personality and character are what make a relationship last. As far as Taiwanese and other Asian women desiring fairer complexions, I would say that it is pretty evident how much influence the media has in promoting what features are desirable and which are not. I watched a documentary about Asian women getting eye surgery to get the double eyelid, which is considered an attractive trait. It was really sad to watch just how far they would go to be more attractive to others. There’s something really wrong about that.

  • 132 McGeorge // Aug 3, 2008 at 2:09 pm

    HapAvenger ““ Reading many of the posts by angry Asian guys gives me the impression they are blaming Asian women for their desire to look white. In my opinion, Asian men are just as responsible, if not more so, for this phenomenon as Asian women. The vast majority of Asian men (those living in Asia) clearly prefer light skinned large eyed Asian women and most Asian women do what it is we are describing in order to appeal to Asian men. White guys don’t fawn over the pasty skin look and we think all Asian girls have exotic looking eyes be they the double eyelid variety or any other shape associated with the Far East.

    Also, if the media are responsible for the Asian women’s desire to look white, you have to admit this is pushed most vigorously by Asian media outlets. And the 1+1 here is that if Asian media is the primary culprit, one has to acknowledge that Asian media (just like American media) is dominated by men and a masculine influence.

    I am compelled to point out some highly hypocritical posts from Asian men in this thread because I see them as the guys most responsible for Asian womens’ desire to appear white.

    Finally, I could make a persuasive argument that White and Latina women do as crazy if not crazier things to maintain their beauty standards versus their Asian counterparts

  • 133 Asian Guy // Aug 3, 2008 at 9:59 pm

    Asian guys just need to be smarter and start dating outside their race. Asian guys should forget about their twinky sisters and instead go for white girls. I don’t understand why most still must marry an asian girl. White girls have longer, leaner, prettier, fuller bodies.. whereas most asian girls have flat tops and bottoms. Get with it asian guys.. go for the good stuff!!

  • 134 HapAvenger // Aug 4, 2008 at 1:25 pm

    I agree McGeorge, the media in general has a huge impact on what people perceive as attractive, whether in America or Asia. From my experience, Asian American men are open to dating Asian American women, regardless of their skin tone. You state that “White guys…think all Asian girls have exotic looking eyes.” The exoticizing of Asian women implies that Asian women are sexual objects of desire, rather than human beings. Asian American women may often be exoticized due to their features, despite the fact that they are just as American as any other European or African American. The fact that Asian and Asian American women wish to get double eyelid surgery has to do with the fact that they wish to look more American.

  • 135 CambodianGirl // Aug 4, 2008 at 9:55 pm

    I’m a Cambodian-American girl but I constantly feel intimidated by white girls, mostly blondes. Whenever I like a white boy, I always know; deep down, that He would choose her over me. It’s hard to live in America as an Asian, The teasing never ends. I’m in highschool and I still get teased about it. Right now, I’m practically in love with a boy that has light brown-blonde hair with blue eyes. My point of this post is to say that I’m an Asian girl but to make him like me, I’d do anything. Which includes being envious of any white girl…

  • 136 JBinCali // Aug 5, 2008 at 11:36 am

    CambodiaGirl: I know it’s easy to be intimidated by almost anything when you’re young – been there, done that – but relax. Blondes have nothing on you, really. You may deep-down feel that some guy you like may choose a blonde over you, but you don’t *know* it. My advice: if you like somebody (no matter what his racial/ethnic group), just be confident in yourself and date him. Don’t be envious of anyone. You have too much going for yourself to bother with that. Be confident in yourself, and who you are. And remember that not everyone even thinks blondes are so hot. I don’t. Lots of other guys don’t, either. As for the ones who are all about blondes, forget them. They’re the ones who aren’t good enough for you, not the other way around.

    Come to think of it, that’s advice I would give to a great many of the obviously very envious people who are posting here.

    To continue, for all those people who are so worked because somebody with eyes like yours/skin like yours/hair like yours/whatever is dating somebody whose eyes/skin/hair/whatever aren’t like yours: get a grip, get a clue, get a life, get your head out of your butt.

    Complaining about the race of a person someone else is dating is racist. Period. You can choose to only date people of one particular race if you want. That’s fine. It’s called personal preference. It may be narrow-minded, it may be self-limiting, it may be racist (either regular or reverse), but hey, it’s personal preference. Nobody’s business but yours. However, the kind of people someone else chooses to date is nobody’s business but theirs. It sure ain’t yours.

    Not only is who they date not your business, why they do it is not your business either. Maybe $NON_ASIAN_GUY thinks Asian girls look really hot and that’s what first gets him into dating them. Maybe he just likes their culture, or thinks he does, looking in from the outside, and that gets him into dating them. Later, if he’s not a complete idiot, he’ll find out (if he doesn’t already know), that there’s a lot more to a woman – or a culture – than that. Having found that out, he may keep dating them, or may decide that Asian culture isn’t quite his cup of tea.

    Whatever anyone’s motivation for dating who they try to date, I keep it in mind every day that their motivation – or what I perceive to be their motivation, since only they really know and everyone else is just making assumptions – is none of my business.

    If people have a thing for whites, so what? If people have a thing for Asians, so what? My company posted me to Tokyo for a couple years a few years ago and I observed that it was fashionable at the time for (some) young Japanese women to have black boyfriends. Sure, for most of them it was totally superficial. But so what? Ain’t my business. For the guys, maybe it was, maybe it wasn’t. Anyway, there aren’t very many non-Japanese women in Japan, so who else were they supposed to date?

    Later, I was posted to Viet Nam, and while there, I met a charming, intelligent, sophisticated business owner. She had previously been engaged to one of the wealthiest men in the country (I’ve met him; he’s a nice enough guy, and now has a beauty-contest winning trophy wife ) but broke it off with him.

    We began dating and were married about a year and a half later. This is somebody who could have anyone she wants, and that’s just what she got: who she wanted. Her family has money – mostly hers, she’s a self-made woman – to the point where she had a higher standard of living in Viet Nam than we do in California, despite my six-figure income.

    I think her family is great and they think I am, too. My parents love her and she loves them; they’re like a second family to her, especially since her closest relatives in America are cousins and don’t live near us.

    If either of us had foolish ideas like only dating people from our own race, we wouldn’t have dated, wouldn’t have married, wouldn’t have the wonderful life and three great kids we have now. If not being a racist is no motivator for many of those posting here (and it’s probably not; they seem to think racism is fine as long as they are the ones being racist), then they might want to consider this: by limited yourself to dating only within your own racial/ethnic group, you might be making yourself miss out on some really great people and cutting your own chances for a good marriage. Think about that.

    To throw in a car analogy, it’s like a person who will only drive a Toyota. When they buy a new car, they just head for the Toyota dealer. They don’t consider Mazda, Nissan, Ford, GM, BMW, Mercedes, anybody. Just Toyota. Sure, Toyotas are great cars and they may get a perfectly good car that meets their needs fairly well, but they’ll never know if there might have been a better car out there, one that would meet their needs better, or be the same but at a better price, or something.

    But, if you only want to drive Toyota, that’s your business. What anyone else drives, or why, is not.

  • 137 david // Aug 6, 2008 at 2:04 pm

    i like white guys, too. they’re hot. asian girls aren’t that pretty anyway. i’m asian. =]

  • 138 Chonky // Aug 7, 2008 at 4:39 am

    I’ve read some of the comments above and agree with some and disagree with others. Especially the Asian guys that are all pissed that a lot of their Asian women are attracted to white guys and vice versa.

    I have a couple of questions for anybody that has left comments above, weather the comments are good and bad.

    Did it ever occur to anyone that maybe, just maybe, that a White man and Asian woman could just like each other and want to be together for the things they have in common and the connection they’ve made?

    Did it ever occur to anyone of the country we live in? A country that is mixed with many different races left and right. Even in a white suburb there are bound to be some Asians, Blacks, Middle Easterns,etc. So wouldn’t it make some sense that a few things are bound to happen with chemistry and personal interactions between two individuals?

    Here’s a good one. White guy meets White girl, ….Black guy meets black girl,… Asian guy meets Asian girl, …… each case per race the typical things happen when boy meets girl, …..the good chemistry, physical attraction, things of common interest, etc. In other words, it’s nothing but a repeat that’s been happening since the beginning of time. So what’s so wrong if the same thing happens amongst whatever race?

    AND FOR ALL YOU ASIAN GUYS THAT HATE YOUR ASIAN WOMEN DATING WHITE GUYS. Look at it like this. Say you met a beautiful woman from Brazil. She’s average height, nice chest, baby smooth light tanned skin, round bubble butt, big almond eyes, ……and she’s intelligent with many things in common with you, also interested in getting to know you with dating intentions. Would you “Mr. Asian man” avoid her? Answer, “Hell no”
    Well guess what, the same thing goes when it comes to your beautiful little Asian sister who’s checking out the White guy next door. If you have the same right to follow your heart regardless of race, then so do Asian woman.

    If dogs are anything emotionally like humans, I’m sure glad they can’t talk with all the inner-breeding they do, lol.

    Oooo, even better. I’m really gonna laugh the day I hear the Gay Asian community start bitching about how all the gay White men are taking all their Gay Asians, lol.

    Anyway, …my point behind all this is to basically not care about the whole White/Asian issue. I could care less about this so-called White/Asian fabricated issue. What I care about is why the issue has even been brought up. People are going to be people regardless of race, so get over it! Besides, were all gonna be the same color in about 500 years anyway, ……assuming mankind can get over stupid race issues and focus on more important things.


    The all American born and raised White boy & his all American born and raised Asian girlfriend.

    P.S. She pursued me, lol!

  • 139 Azngal // Aug 7, 2008 at 11:54 am

    I’m all for equality of race when it comes to dating, but American media tends to never portray Asian guy Asian gal couples. It’s usually a White guy with Asian gal so is it any wonder why Asian gals end up with White guys. Also, Asian guys never get leading parts in American movies. They’re always asexual martial arts guys or computer geeks or evil warlords. My bf complains about this all the time and I tend to agree.

  • 140 K/C // Aug 9, 2008 at 3:00 am

    I always find it interesting that people brush off assessments of racial undertonas as rubbish. The Asian girl White guy fetish thing is real – just look at the statistics. So it can’t be about love and pure attraction. If that is the case, why are white women not rushing to Asian men then? This is all about one thing: white men are seen as the prize. Asian women are seen as non-threatening so white guys go for them. I have noticed sadly too that Asians are incredibly racist towards black people/ Just downright racist and offensive to blacks/ Yet they will not treat white people the same way, You can come up with many reasons why this happens but the reality is: racism is wrong! And there is an incredible fascination on the Asian girl’s part to aspire to look like white people – fixing eyelids, etc. Yes, people should love each other for who they are but the reality is : most white guy/asian girl couples won’t admit this but these high number only indicate that they are playing into some really sick stereotypes and it sucks! And this idea that any one race is more attractive than another is bogus. It is all perception and what you are taught.

  • 141 K/C // Aug 9, 2008 at 3:19 am

    ^^^ First of all, how could anyone generalize that ALL Asian girls are polite and nice? Are you kidding me? And second the reason they are nice to white people is because they are white people – they are not that nice to other races. I know. I am Asian. And I rebelled cause too much racism in Asian culture – but no racist toward white people though – Asians love white people and white people will never know this cause they won’t admit it to you. But they want to be YOU white people. It’s sick. I am letting you in on a dirty little Asian secret.

  • 142 Linda Chen // Aug 11, 2008 at 4:08 am

    K/C, listen to me! Grow up! Sexual attraction has nothing to do with Rasiciam! We all went through rasiciam. They went through discrimination. Asian people hate it, white people hate it, black people hate it, latino people hate it!
    But I have to say when it comes to sex, only white male for me, white boys ROCK! white boys ROCK MY HEART!

  • 143 McGeorge // Aug 11, 2008 at 6:21 pm

    I’m a white man in my late 20ies engaged to a beautiful Taiwanese girl a little younger than I. We were recently on a flight to Denver when I noticed the couple sitting directly in front of us was a gorgeous 20something blue-eyed blonde chick with an American born Asian guy (probably ABC) with shoulder length hair. He was also in his 20ies, fit and tan, but about the same height as her (maybe 5’8).

    When getting on the flight, this guy and I both caught each other checking out the other one’s girl. The four of us ended up talking during the flight and I learned these two were ski instructors in the winter and water rafting guides in the spring and summer. My fianca!© and I agreed they were a very cool couple. At no point was I upset that an Asian guy was with a sexy, blonde surfer girl and he didn’t seem the slightest bit annoyed I was with a light-skinned, petite, doll-faced Asian girl.

    Get over your stupid hang-ups people.

  • 144 HapAvenger // Aug 12, 2008 at 1:07 am

    I’m glad that you’re happy for other types of interracial relationships McGeorge, and are in no way jealous. I think the main issue many people comment on is how often they see Caucasian male/Asian female couples, as opposed to the other way around, and why that is.

  • 145 Ben // Aug 15, 2008 at 1:28 am

    You’re joking, right? I would NEVER want an asian women. In fact, I think asian women are the ugliest i’ve ever seen. And as a guy who is 6’3 tall, I would ever want a short stubby shapeless girl. And that’s what asian women are. And don’t lie to everyone and tell yourself you are a “natural beauty”. You slit eyed women undergo eye opening surgery, breast implants, everything. And to do what? Look like white women.

    Yeah, those colored contacts and hair bleach are doing nothing for you, you’re still ugly.

  • 146 Linda Chen // Aug 18, 2008 at 6:34 pm

    Reply to >>>>>>> Ben // Aug 15, 2008 at 1:28 am #145

    It sounds like you had paid too much attention to asian girl’s culture and life style, even though you are not into asian girl? LOL sounds so funny.
    Well, you must love asian enough to search/bisit this site and spend enough time to leave a comment in ‘asian girl love white guy” topic. Unreal lol
    Ok, guys. What are the chances for a white guy to leave such a negative comment in ‘asian girl love white guy” topic? We all love attention, its human nature.
    Secret of truth>>>>>>>>

    Ben, 90% of all chances you are not WHITE MALE. I don’t want to guess who you are, but I am sure you are not a nice person.

    By the way, are you gay?

  • 147 whiteboy // Aug 18, 2008 at 7:40 pm

    I am so smitten with asian women that I have lived in asia for seven years teaching english. they think I’m gorgeous as I am relaxed, easy-going, handsome and 6’4.

  • 148 whiteboy // Aug 18, 2008 at 7:40 pm

    I like asian women.

  • 149 whiteboy // Aug 18, 2008 at 7:41 pm


  • 150 Jet // Aug 19, 2008 at 2:55 pm

    I am an african american male, who is engaged to a wonderful, slender,super attractive and untral intellegent AND grounded PHD holding college professor Vietnamese queen!
    I am most proud to say she is so intellegent to the point, that she doesnt see she superficial garbage that american society feeds on, and that poisons the minds of other ethnic people who come to pro-white USA.

    btw. in the great pro-white USA, according to the white american law, if your ANY part black, then you are totally black. THEY set that standard, not us……


  • 151 Jet // Aug 19, 2008 at 2:57 pm

    please excuse my typo’s

  • 152 Eric // Aug 19, 2008 at 4:11 pm

    agree with you on that Jet. Tiger Woods is always “black” in the US, but he’s “asian” in Asia. Actually, he’s 1/4 black, 1/4 Thai, 1/4 Chinese, 1/8 white, and 1/8 native Indian.

  • 153 asian men lover // Aug 20, 2008 at 2:44 pm


  • 154 Anonymous // Aug 20, 2008 at 7:39 pm

    get a life please.
    stop wasting so much time online and go do some good in the world.

  • 155 Eric // Aug 20, 2008 at 7:52 pm

    F’n racist. I’m asian and I don’t care what race a girl is. Hot girls come in every race.

  • 156 A white BLACK WOMEN lover // Aug 20, 2008 at 9:57 pm

    Dude, Jet… could you hook me up with your sister?

  • 157 Axl Rose // Aug 20, 2008 at 10:01 pm

    All I have to contribute to this thread is the following: touring in Toyko doesn’t suck.

  • 158 Axl Rose // Aug 20, 2008 at 10:06 pm

    Tokyo*. Sorry, I’m all f*cked up on qualudes, Nyquil and heroin right now.

  • 159 Im r smartz // Aug 21, 2008 at 11:17 am

    LOL Asian girls are just dating the reject white guys that couldn’t get girls of there own race.

  • 160 Robert // Aug 22, 2008 at 10:55 am

    All of you bastard are ignorant. IUm american of spanish descent and i like asian women and have a asian fiancee.

    She read this and couldnt believe what she is reading. White men are not shit. They think they rule the world and have all the power. WAKE up people unless u live in a little white surburb.

    The world is alot bigger then whtes!!!

    HA…. ;)

  • 161 Gracie-Anne // Aug 23, 2008 at 3:49 pm

    Personally not all asian girls are submissive, short, and have no curves. I am very outspoken, smart, and sarcastic. I’m also 5’7, but I’ll admit I have no butt, but I have a large chest to make up for it. People have stop stereo typing people. Instead open up your eyes, and look all around there are beautiful and ugly people in every race. So why should any ethnicity be put down while another one is raised?

  • 162 Crisero // Aug 23, 2008 at 7:01 pm

    It’s simple. We’re evolving. We’re all humans, and race is simply a result of isolated gene pools… now it’s all changing…and for the better. Accept it, and move on. Love.

  • 163 diana // Aug 24, 2008 at 12:33 pm

    mmm…I am asian and I would rather prefer black guys.

  • 164 ti na // Aug 25, 2008 at 7:29 am

    Black men so ugly.
    Look like monkey, no manner, very crude.
    Who would want?

    White men very cute
    also have the big penis to the smaller Chinese man version

    My sister in Jakarta say Malay man also have the big penis

  • 165 Li Mien // Aug 25, 2008 at 7:41 am

    So many Chinese mens are jealous of the white men- the often insert the contact for their eye iris colour to change.

    In Shanghai- Chinese men so very jealous of the white- because we know the truth about the masculine organ of the white man is better than the masculine organ of Chinese.
    Also White man the romantic one better, also very kind, have a nice generous heart, not so cheap like a Chinese.
    Also keen to show love and like the intimate coitus and not finish quicker than the woman.
    Jew is popular because rich and not ask for intimate coitus often times- but we know is very cheap worse than even Chinese man.
    In the Chinese culture perspective vision, black man considered worse than human faeces latrine man.
    Very grotesque face, poor, stupid, not respect education and culture is ugliest number one in world. It is forbidden to pair with black- will make you drop rank.
    Social rank number one important.
    For Asian woman to pair with a black is to drop rank to verly lowest social rank- will be not spoken in community.

    Also Tiger Wood many race because mother is 2 Baht slut from Pattaya whore-beach his dad Navy sailor.
    You do math.

  • 166 NYJG // Aug 25, 2008 at 8:13 pm

    “perfectlynice” said that white guys don’t seem to care that the girl may be more educated, earn more money, smarter, etc.

    This is especially true of Jewish guys like me. To an educated Jewish guy, there is no such thing as a woman who is TOO educated or strong-willed, if she’s nice to people and attractive to him. That’s why the Sunday NYT carries so many pairings of Jewish lawyers with Chinese-American doctors, Jewish professors with Indian-American engineers, and so on. It’s a fine pairing of equals.

  • 167 Soju // Aug 26, 2008 at 5:36 pm

    @Li Mien, I am sorry that your black ugly ass has been turned down by every Asian woman you have tried to approach. Even Asians who date only date outside their race have turned you down. We know people like you. It’s okay. We laugh about your behind your back. But your momma loves you at least. Oh, she doesn’t? Well, damn.

    Listen, your racist rant highlights more your pathetic existence. Instead of chasing after Asian women, try dating someone from your own race because no one is dating or marrying the black woman. Have you noticed? So F- OFF, you pathetic loser.

    On the topic: East Asian men are really dropping the ball on this issue, which is why East Asian women are dating white men. Most Asian cultures treat daughter-in-laws and wives like total crap. Japanese men used to routinely have mistresses. Korean Confucian culture is hell for women. Hindu and Muslim cultures treat women as second class citizens. THAT IS why Asian women flock to white men because the white women’s movement let us have more choices, and white men are more open to equality.

    I do think that Asian women need to show more loyalty and respect to Asian men. Most AA women I know who date outside their race do it to get away from oppressive and controlling parents and family. I don’t blame them.

    When Asian cultures start treating women better, I think the women will start marrying back into the culture.

  • 168 AsianKitty_ox // Aug 27, 2008 at 6:11 am

    This is so true. For me being a teenage chinese girl, all the asian boys are very quiet and shy, so it’s physically impossible to communicate with them. As well as this none of them seem to care about their looks. I’ve had a few boyfriends and yes its safe to say they’ve all mostly been white although, there have been a few who have been black and even one guy who was Spanish. These all reflect to the answers above!

  • 169 Linda Chen // Aug 29, 2008 at 4:39 am

    Lately there are a few comments which are quite racist. Come on, guys. Let’s keep this clean and respectful. If I find anymore racist comment, I will report your azz.
    My mother always say: think it twice because you say something, because you cant no take it back. try to bring other people smile and shine.

  • 170 dawg // Aug 30, 2008 at 9:31 am

    Asian girls that date boring whitebread dudes betray their culture. Straight white males (except for Jewish men) are dull and ugly. Along with Jewish people and white people who have become Muslims and Buddhists and other nonchristian religions, people of color are inherently smarter, more gifted, more talented, and better looking than privileged heterosexist boring straight white christian males. Inded, they have a monopoly on everything that is cool, while white people (except for Jewish people) are inherently inferior. Everyone knows this in their heart.

    This post speaks truth to power.

  • 171 Ryan // Sep 1, 2008 at 7:31 pm

    yea im white. asian girls are so hot-everything about em. the best is that they let you be a man instead of constantly fighting you for the reigns like most white women. Actually your way better than white women shhh. white women(american) are WORLD RENOWN for their “easy-ness” and lol everyone knows about this except them.

  • 172 Dave // Sep 2, 2008 at 8:43 pm

    I’m not going to sit here and argue with the author, because the above is their opinion and that’s that. However, let me clear something up: what you’ve written about Asian guys (hand holding, etc) is a rather lame stereotype and doesn’t really justify being racist (at least, dating wise) against your own race.

    Moreover, I know the Asian female/white male pairing is common, but in my own life, I know absolutely no Asian female/white male pairings. In fact, of all the interracial couples I know (which is four), they’re all pairings between an Asian male/white female. Most of them say, anyway, that’s it’s precisely because Asian males tend to be more considerate and sensitive that they’re with them.

  • 173 Wakako // Sep 4, 2008 at 7:18 am

    To the above: It’s probably because you’re a male and it makes sense to have male friends…which is probably why you know more AM/WF couples. I’ve come to the same conclusion as the author awhile back in Junior High School. The Asian men that attempted asking me out back then barely made the first sentence let alone hold my hand. It became frustrating and I usually ended up having to make the first move. It became tiresome after awhile. Plus, every other Asian in my community was a family friend; barely anyone new and all people I grew up with. When I was in NYC a lot of the men I knew again, were still too timid and shy. Even my Asian female’s boyfriends were shy in shaking my hand. My brother is the same way unfortunately and is also extremely shy around women despite the fact that he’s an enormous body builder. Now this isn’t saying all Asian men are doomed to have women-induced panic attacks [my father for example was extremely loud and obnoxious] but it became so abundant with the Asian men that I knew that I eventually decided to stop going after them. Why chase when you have other people who are just as willing to make the first move as I am? Which led me to my to my current fiance. I didn’t have to try and beat an answer out of him or force him to hold my hand. Am I a somewhat stereoytypical Asian Japanese woman? Perhaps. I’m not the submissive person my mother was and I don’t have any qualms to speaking my mind and saying what is on my mind. The majority of white men that I know are ok with this and do not mind me making just as much income [if not more haha] than him. And it isn’t ingrained in his head that I must be mother-like or submissive.

  • 174 kcir // Sep 8, 2008 at 8:39 pm

    OK, I didn’t read every entry, I saw one sort of close to what I’ll touch on but the majority of you are brainwashed, in a sense.

    First of all I want #38 and #40 to be consolidated. Asians like white people period. This is not the website, “Stuff Asian women like” or vice versa.

    Now, Asians like white people because of American Movies. Do I have to point it out? Come on man! Your perceptions of beauty are shaped by these external influences, there is nothing intrinsically beautiful about ‘White People’, which, additionally, is very much a misnomer most of the time. What is ‘White’ anyways? Asian?

    If Asia started pumping out big budget films like crazy for 50 years, what would happen? Films about the future with mostly Asians, for example, probably speaking Chinese. Flood the Asian market with Asian movies. Why not?

    Anyways, it doesn’t matter what race or culture you are; if you don’t get it, you don’t get it; and you become trapped in a sort of really lame and bland form of madness. But maybe I’m just making a big deal out of nothing.

    I want to keep up my rant but I have reality to attend to… Rats!

  • 175 Tabitha // Sep 9, 2008 at 11:08 pm

    To Li Mien: At least black people can speak EngRish!

    And Soju, WTF?!?!?!?!?!

  • 176 Girl // Sep 12, 2008 at 9:00 pm

    This is stupid, you type the wrong CAPTCHA and your whole comment is deleted. I was typing up this whole thing about Asian girls and about the video above and something happened to this webpage and it got deleted. I was typing this forever long “guideline” about how guys can get girls while chatting with my friend and one sentenced got in there as I hit “enter” and the whole comment was deleted. BS.

    Okay, here’s the summary of the “guideline” I was gonna give ya, I’m too lazy and pissed off to type the whole things again, plus I can’t remember exactly what I typed, of course.

    So, to get girls, here are the things you have to do: Eat the right diet, have the right weight, do exercise, join sport teams (tell ya, when guys wear varsity clothes they look extremely hot, 10 times as hot as they normally are), and especially lift weight. Wear proper, nice clothes, emo, shaggy clothes don’t do very well, although some people like it, but the majority don’t. Be confident about yourself, talk when appropriate, don’t be too quiet, be social. Show your sense of humor. Read more, learn more, read news more to have stories to tell the girls. Be successful in school. You can flirt but not too much. Just be nice and the girls will like you. Be supportive. Give them compliments whenever they deserve it. Check on the person you like to show her that you care. Be there for her when she needs you. Blah blah blah.

    Accomplishing all of those is really hard but the more you can achieve the better chance of you getting girls tailing you.

  • 177 Desperate Girl // Sep 12, 2008 at 11:48 pm

    The thing is, I have a crush on this one guy and I’m too shy to tell him. Plus it’s not my personality of doing such thing. I don’t think he likes me though. By saying “like”, I mean “love-like” kind of thing. I mean, we never really talk or anything. But sometimes he says things I don’t even expect he would. We attended the same school since my freshman year, for more than half the year, I didn’t even notice him or even know he existed even though we had PE together (well I’m not sure if we even had PE together until the event that I’m going to tell you happened) until one day in PE, he encouraged me to do well in baseball, saying my name, “[my name], let’s go beat them!” with that oh so lady-killing gesture that I don’t know how to describe, it’s just so cool it crushed my heart. I still wonder why I never notice such a handsome guy while he actually knew my name. That was when my heart missed a beat. And the interesting thing is I actually did surprisingly good in baseball that day. That was when I finally noticed him. Then I found out about his name, and all of a sudden in PE he finally comes into my sight. But then when I finally have a crush on him, he seems to not care about me. And then I don’t know why but one day when he was playing basketball while I was jogging around the gym (as each of us had different choices on choice day, some play this, others play that, me I jogged, and had to go around the gym, which I had to go around many times), and his ball for some reason kept hitting my head (I dunno why, it’s weird, I don’t even know if it’s intentionally or it’s just coincidence). Actually the ball didn’t hurt but he came over and said, “Sorry! Are you okay? Sorry my ball kept hitting you!” Then he opened his arms and offered me a hug, but I rejected because I was too shy, so I said, “No, it’s okay, I didn’t get hurt. I don’t need a hug.”
    And the next day he stopped me while I was going to the library and asked “what’s up” and I responded “nothing” and hurried because I was too shy. I know I was too stupid to be true. Then I don’t know why but for a long time we kept walking by each other every morning before school. We actually never said anything ever since I said “nothing”. oh my.
    On some occasions we sat next to each other (not really because we wanted to talk but because we were in the computer lab, unintentionally by me, him? I don’t know) but we never actually said anything. I was afraid I was gonna spurt my feeling and was too shy to actually look at his eyes so I rarely sputtered a word.
    The next year, we were assigned to sit next to each other once. One day our table figured out that he was gonna have a football game that night, so I said “good luck” and he said “thank you”, sounding (to me) a little surprised. (Omg, did I look that cold to him?) I found out from another guy friend of mine in football team that his game lost by 1 point, and no doubt I was a little sad, but hey it was only ONE point, I don’t know whether my good luck created a good or bad impact on the game. Then the next day, a friend of mine asked him whether the game went well, I replied “They lost”, and he said “By 1 point only.” And I don’t know what I said after that. Then a few days later he eventually moved seat, I don’t know why omg I don’t know why and whether it was because of me or not. Then it turned out that in the next summer, he wasn’t in the football team, although he said “football is tight, I like it, just don’t play it.” I wonder if it had anything to do with what I said, maybe I seemed to let him down or something. Probably not because I wasn’t that special. But if it was then poor soul, I didn’t mean to!!!
    On another day, I was doing this presentation for my science class in my group, while he finished early so he came over to where I was because his guy friend sat next to me. Then he said something I can’t remember and I said “go away”. Man I was embrassed, and my tongues said the words my brain didn’t even want to make. I mean, my body always do something my heart doesn’t want to do to him. He replied, “Okay okay, sorry!”…
    I have found his myspace during the school year but never actually added him, afraid that he may figure out how I feel. Plus it might be weird adding him since we weren’t that close. So I created a fake myspace profile, I even added random people to make it look real, lol, and then added him just for the sake of it and see whether he’d add me, (he set his mood “sore” at the time, so I began the message with “sore, sore, sore”) asking whether he was the Joe from the school that we DON’T attend. So he said no he’s from … school, not… school. Then my desire went down so I gave up and I figured out it wouln’t do much pretending like this, so I sent a reply message saying, “Oh really? I’m sorry, I didn’t look close at your picture, sorry!”
    But then over the summer I was like, “what the heck, just add him, and see where it goes!” I sent him a message asking whether if he is [his name], and asked how he was doing, then he said, “yeah it’s me, yeah I’m doing fine summer was fun, how about you?” I replied back saying that I’m good and summer wasn’t very cool. Then I even added, “but btw, do you even know who I am?” But then I never got his reply.
    Then another school year approached, I had two classes with him. In one of the two, we played this litte game called “If you love me, smile” while the person who is spoken to must not smile or she/he will have to stand up and do the asking. My gal friend came and asked me, she stood before me, asking me the question, and after a while I couldn’t stand it so I laughed, which made me do the game. Or rather, somewhere inside of me, I wanted to play the game that’s why I laughed. I wanted to come to him but I didn’t because I was afraid he might know my feelings. So I ended up asking the guy that I was doing the Marriage project the year before (he was one of the guys that I can trust to do this, not because I liked him or anything, I don’t know if he even misunderstood me, hopefully not). But the indifference little mouth didn’t smile so I had to go to a different person. I looked around the room and I don’t know why but my feet led me to the guy next to the guy I had a crush on, so I said, “Hey, I know you will smile so I’m doing this to you. If you love me then please smile.” He was a little surprised, I mean, I could see he was kinda uneasy, did he even think that I liked him? OMG! So he said, “Sorry, I love you, but I can’t smile.” So once again, I had to depart. People told me to go to this certain guy, so I came to him, said simply, “If you love me please smile.” At first he didn’t smile but then at the same instant the whole class, including him and me broke out laughing, so I got to stop doing the asking. After a while the guy I had a crush on had to do the game too, but he never asked me, I don’t know whether the reason behind this was because he didn’t like me or because he didn’t think I would smile or that he didn’t want to make me play the game or if he didn’t want me to misunderstand him or whatever else you can think of. Then the girl who made me laugh at the beginning of the game tried me again, I said, “Sorry I can’t smile, but I love you!” trying not to smile this time. And the guy I had a crush on looked at me and said, “[my name] is coldblooded.” I looked at him and talked, or rather whispered, “I’m not coldblooded” while he said, “[my name] is a killer.” The teacher in the room also added, “oooh [my name] is sooo cold! (He did this some times with the other players too so I don’t really care.) But what made me wonder is the notion behind the coldblooded and the killer part. I mean, he could have said that I was coldblooded, but then saying that I was a killer was another thing. You only say someone is a killer when she actually murder someone, or she actually makes other people fall for her, such as in “lady-killer”.
    In another class that I have with him, on the first day of school, I came late because of schedule change, I opened the door and saw him right away, looking at me. Omg, I don’t know how I felt at the moment!!! Oooh…
    And then I came to class another day, seeing him and his group of friends sitting over there, it seemed like they got quieter (what happened?), then one of his friend said, “Hey, [my crush's name]” I don’t know whether they were looking at me and/or talking about me because I didn’t look at them, pretended to ignore them. Actually, I do talk to them (some I talk a lot to) but when his group are together I feel uncormfortable joining them.

    These days, I have been updating my Myspace with secret messages sending for him, but I don’t think he ever reads them though. And although he has my Myspace, he hasn’t sent any messages or comments ever since. I’ve read his myspace’s comments and found some really curious ones that could be toward me. Since I’ve been posting my feelings about him up (without revealing who he is or leaving any clue for anyone to figure out his identity but him himself), there was one person whom I didn’t know, thus didn’t have her in my friendlist, thus I can’t read her comments to figure out the other side of the conversation, which is the one that I really want to read, she/he said, “see that’s the wonder.
    is that really the secret message?”, then “you sure that’s what you were staring at? jkjkjk. you will never know the true meaning.”, then “go ahead and try.”, then “yeah thank god because there is no real message. you would waste your life if you tried.”
    And so life goes, we happened to sit facing each other, not directly because he was in another table group, but I can see him and he can see me. Sometimes I look at him secretly, sometimes our eyes meet. Sometimes he talks in class while looking at me (or maybe that was my imagination), four eyes looked at each other. Oh how can I explain this? He has eyes that burn like fire that melt my heart everytime we happened to set eyes on each other. I feel like he looks at me differently from others, or maybe he’s like that to everybody, or maybe it’s just because his eyes are like that, or maybe it was only my imagination. My eyes twinkle when I see him, but I don’t know if his eyes burn fire when he sees me. Everytime I see him, my heart skips a beat.
    I don’t know why I like him, maybe his burning eyes, maybe his nice body, maybe his handsome face, or maybe his humor and yet mysteriousness that he has. Or maybe it was an encouragement from a handsome guy at the right time that created this longing feeling. Or maybe it was because he is the only one that I have had a crush on that doesn’t seem to like me back. There are people who like me that I don’t like back. It’s human nature to desperately want something they can’t have. I mean, if he had dated me ever since I had a crush on him, would I still like him now, after probably 2 years? Probably not as much as I feel now. Or maybe it’s Cupid’s game of making me hearbroken after all the hearts that I broke.

    He’s not perfect, still I like him. He doesn’t really talk to me, still I like him. And each time he talks with me face-to-face, usually it’s weird, unexpected thing. He’s smart, yet he doesn’t get 4.0, yet I still like him. I heard that his dad seemed to have went to jail for some reason, yet I sill like him! Once in this certain place’s cafeteria I saw him leaving his emptied soda can on the table purposefully, not putting it in the recycle bin like his friend did, who actually came across the cafeteria and threw his can in the recycle bin. (This friend ends up having a really weird friend relationship with me that confuses me whether he likes me or hates me or something in the middle.) Still I like him. Well he seems very well-behaved and clean and organized though, maybe that time was just a joke, plus I don’t remember or don’t know what they did to the can though, I wasn’t there watching them all the time. He’s tall and I’m short, oh…
    Oh, or maybe because he sucks at football that he quit, I don’t know how good he can play though so I can’t judge!

    Oh but the thing is, I like him, I have a crush on him, I long for him, but I don’t feel like dating him right now though, I’m not ready yet!!! And there are too many obstacles on the way!!! And people would think it’s weird us too being together.

    Oh yeah and I’m shy to him only!!! The thing is, these days, I’m shy to the one that I like, and normal or outgoing to the ones that I’m just friends with.

    What do you think??? Does he like me? I’m too desperate and stupid right?
    Oh how I wish I can read his mind so if he doesn’t like me, then I’ll probably be able to stop liking him and get going on with my life. In classes that I have with him, sometimes my thoughts go away from the teachers’ talkings, especially when I’m in the 2 classes that I have with him. Oh but then he probably doesn’t like me because if he does, he would probably talks to his friends, then at least one of his friends would have talked to me about it to set things straight. Right? Maybe I should stop liking him??? But how can I stop my heart from something it wants??? One option is never see him again but that’s impossible because I have to have those two classes (plus it feels good looking at him hehehe). Another is to have a boyfriend which is totally not good because I would never go out with anyone I don’t even like. I’m not liking anyone besides him now. And probably it will happen for another 2 years before I actually graduate and go to college and get rid of seeing him. But if he attends the same college then BOOM, that’s just FATE, and that means SOMETHING. These days almost every song reminds me of him. Ohhhhh… Movie actors’ faces remind me of him. Seeing a guy on a street who happen to have the same stature reminds me of him. Even handsome actors’ faces aren’t that handsome to me anymore compared to him. When I watch movies, when I look at pictures, magazines, I see the handsome guys but really I’m seeing HIM. Oh oh how desperate am I. And I’m not even a guy to ask him. I’m a girl, and supposedly a girl like me will never ask a guy about his feelings towards her. Oh how can I be so normal around any other guy but him?

  • 178 chuck // Sep 16, 2008 at 1:10 am

    Hmmm. I find the whole Chinese ethnocentrism amusing. You know the “stick with your own kind.” Especially when I hear it here in the US. (Imagine if the now barely majority group had maintained that view). A bit ironic too, since I use to associate myself with white nationalism until I met my girlfriend (Shanghaiese) — you know the whole, Oh, I like(d) the US being a European cultured country — or at least a country with a culture. Anyways, for those that commented about it — and those that don’t quite understand the comments, the positions are more or less reasonable. The truth that everyone knows and doesn’t like to admit — well inside the US — is that ethnic solidarity promotes group advantage. There is a laundry list of such groups but I think we can all point them out; and there is a good deal of research that supports this. So the motivation is not (need not be) ignorance, random hate, jealously — though sometimes they are factors involved — but practical common sense tit for tat: an unspoken agreement to help each other first. The downside is that such views always spill into racism and screwing other groups over — when things get bad..but in principle, if groups work anything like individuals, just because you love and take care of yourself doesn’t mean you have to be a prick to everyone else. Needless to say, I get a lot of stares when in China and in some China towns (the whole male:female imbalance doesn’t help — but I also act kinda funny to) and then I get shit from people ethnically minded white people. I suppose it would be easier If I could just dismiss it, but being ethnocentric makes sense — especially when other groups around you are or you want a quick method for making connections and alliances. (Including and excluding by appearance is a hell of a lot simpler than judging character.) Shoot, even the “I don’t want white guys to compete for Chinese girls because I know I can’t as easily get a white girl” –”stick with your own kind” makes sense too –
    Who isn’t territorial?
    Anyways, so for those of you ‘what the hell are you doing with a Chinese girl.’-ers out there — I think there are plenty of people that will be happy to maintain solidarity with you — so I wouldn’t feel to threatened by it. The girl thing, well — that will really only effect you if you live in the west and there I’m note sure how much of a guys choice it is anymore. You just have to work yourself in a better position and work against the media images. And if your over here and decently successful it should be fairly easy to go to greater China, travel for a bit and meet someone. (If your not it doesn’t matter what you are.) So unless you just having fun playing a Troll, I’d try not to get to obsessed about it.

  • 179 chuck // Sep 16, 2008 at 2:22 am

    Follow up:

    Read through some more of the posts and guess I don’t get it. I mean I always considered Chinese as being pretty smart — but some of these guys come across worse than my red-neck friends. I can see if you want to make a case against cross dating and miscegenation on the basis of ethnic solidarity (though Chinese are not exactly a declining, threatened group) — at least this is philosophically understandable in a fascist/tribal/traditional sort of way. But this sounds like the jealous ‘stick with your own kind’ I hear when out with some friend and pass a black guy and pretty white girl. And I’m always like ok — well maybe if you got a job or went to school and didn’t sit around drinking MGD complaining and blogging about them or them you would have a better shot. Again, the percent of whites in greater china (Taiwan, Singapore, Mainland, ect) is so small anyone complaining must be in the West. Even in Shangahi, there can’t be more that 20,000 white bachelors out of a population of 16-20 million locals (if you want to count migrants).
    And typically the girls they-we-I find attractive are not the same as the ones other Chinese guys do. So what’s the deal here? And if you are in the West, didn’t you read the fine print? The whole, we’ll be liberal and grant citizenship to anyone and everyone — just drop the ethnocentric crap, accept that its a free for all, and realize that here (as elsewhere) girls will be instinctively attracted to whoever they perceive to have more social status — even when this has little to no correlation to anything else (actual financial status) , and this is highly conditioned by pop TV.

    About white guy appearance.
    1. Not sure why this matters so much as women are more attracted to perceived status and less appearance. Variations granted.
    2. While I agree TV has a big influence I disagree as to the cause. TV inflates white status nor appearance. This corresponds to 1 and correlates to the following which argues that blond hair blue eye are just better looking
    — maybe maybe not, but it is at least as sound as matching IQ.
    3. Unfortunately this doesn’t help white guys since 1. It does help white girls, but is offset by
    what I think we all notice — in general white people tend to age bad. I always think of white girls as flowers that quickly bloom and wilt.

    Re: “white guys are less attractive”

  • 180 M J // Sep 18, 2008 at 10:20 am

    can’t we just aw get along?

  • 181 Vince // Sep 18, 2008 at 5:32 pm

    “White men indulge our deepest PDA-fantasies; they hold our hands, they aren’t terribly cerebral about their emotions, and they will””heaven forbid””tell their parents that we’re actually dating. Asian parents don’t do any of that gross hand-holding, making-out stuff.”

    Weird, I’m an Asian American guy and I informed my parents that I was dating my girlfriend. I love how the writer stereotypes that Asian guys absorb and learn everything their parents tell them, and such are losers who carry on the “strict Asian tradition” of so-called misogyny, chauvinism, and nerdiness, and all-the-while, Asian females are totally Americanized. Has it ever occurred to the author that Asian AMERICAN guys, like their female counterparts, are just as well-adjusted? Of course not. Why? Because the writer of this piece is a racist, plain and simple. It’s sad that so many Asian American women are so racist and biased against their own race. As an Asian American guy, half the racism I’ve experienced came from such vitriolic Asian American women with self-hatred/inferiority complexes. It’s pathetic that the author realizes that there is Asian fetishism and “yellow fever”, and is more than happy to play right into it.

    Like I said above, a lot of racism I’ve encountered has actually been from Asian females. If so many of you Asian American women want to pretend that you’re white and so supremely above Asian American men, fine. But don’t fucking ruin our chances with other races of women. Your ilk makes me fucking sick.

    And as for that cute half-Asian/half-white babies comment–it just reeks of eugenics; wanting to create a great-looking race. Hitler would’ve loved you, if you weren’t Asian, of course.

  • 182 Chuck // Sep 19, 2008 at 1:54 am

    Why do morons always accuse people of the ‘racist’ in the most irrelevant fashion? I mean I could see if you were trying to intimidate and extort money from a stupid white liberal — but does anyone else take the charge seriously. Personally, I prefer girls to guys — does that make me a sexist? What about shorter girls to taller girls — a heightist? Educated to non Educated? What’s the difference?

    Well actually the answer is obvious. They read western media and watch western movies and pick up the race narrative — not understanding that it is something used (and abused) here to reduce social tension, because the country is some mixed. Purely idiomatic.

    Don’t worry most stupid American do the same thing. You see, with regards to the race issue the media brainwashing is almost as bad as some stuff you find in the Shanghai Daily, except people really take it seriously here.

    Anyways since ‘racist’ has virtually lost all of its meaning — and is now just a slur you toss out when you want something or don’t like another’s opinion — maybe we can use more meaningful language?

    How about …the girl is stereotyping which shows she hasn’t gotten out much…or she just want to climb up the ladder –
    1) which is stupid because a lot of white guys are shit
    2) but this makes her feel a little guilty for giving up her culture — so she has to make fun of chinese guys…

    Here is the truth though — White guys have higher status in china (in general), just by association — but its falling quickly…obviously people are catching on! Girls are status (= support me and my baby) seekers.

    If you want to convince a girl to open her eyes ..have her turn off the DVD player and show her
    the wallstreet journal — this should enlighten her to the economic situation..

  • 183 You are awful // Sep 19, 2008 at 3:42 pm

    This article is awful and horribly biased. It is quite clear from your point of view that you associate positive and modern traits with Caucasians and negative old-world traits with Asians. Obviously the only Asian guys you knew were either jerks, or just your father. Asian-America men aren’t less aggressive or less affectionate than Caucasian men, Asian AMERICAN men appreciate hand-holding just as much as the next guy, except what the female sex of our “race” has going for her is the myth that Asian women have submissive personalities. And isn’t that exactly the kind anti-progressive culture Asian women are turned off by?

  • 184 ZoeyI am // Sep 19, 2008 at 8:18 pm

    Is sad but truth.
    I had seen a lot of asian girls, most of them international students from china searching for a white boy or alredy dating one.
    And I had seen a lot of asians guys walking alone in the street.
    Is like girls prefer to be alone and search for a white guy than be with a asian guy.
    I think is cruel.
    Also, is cruel that white boys who likes asian girls say ugly stuff about white, latinas and black girls all the time.
    And is also cruel that they say asians are so pretty and thin like all other women were fat cows. Is just cruel an not true.
    Just say you love asian girls, you don’t have to explain it and asian girls do the same.
    I mean, those white guy who marry an african amercan women explan himself? No
    A white dude who marry a latina explain himself? No
    You don´t have to say nasty things about other girls to justify your love.
    The same goes for asian women.
    Say you are prettier than others, just make you a bitch.
    There are pretty girls in all races.
    Just say: I like white guys and I going to get one, why? Because I want to and I will fight for it.
    If you give reasons is like you think what you do is wrong. and is not.
    Also, you don’t have to be racist for justify your relationship with a white guy.
    I was in Seattle in a Book store and this asian chick (not pretty at all) and her white boy friend begin to say nasty stuff about latinos like both were superior.
    I turn to look at them and they just go.
    But that wasn’t the first time an asian girl make fun of another race for feel she belongs with a white guy.
    I see this asian girl making fun of Indian students in Boston College and when I go to eat to a fancy restaurant in Vancouver this asian girl and his white boyfriend look at us like saying “you shouldn’t be here latinos”.
    I say asians females should not be racist or nasty.
    Be nice and fight for the men you want.

  • 185 HapAvenger // Sep 19, 2008 at 8:57 pm

    To all the Asian women out there who want to associate with being Caucasian, do us a favor and dye your hair blonde, bleach your skin, put in the colored contacts and stop saying you are Asian. You have no self respect and are a disgrace to other Asians and Asian Americans who are proud of their heritage.

  • 186 LiNhi001 // Sep 20, 2008 at 7:26 pm

    I like Asian boys. But it just so happens that the Asian boys I know are all my relatives. xDD

    &as fun as incest is…it’s just not appealing. lol.

  • 187 Anonymous // Sep 21, 2008 at 9:32 pm

    I’m half korean, one-fourth german, and one-fourth cherokee descent. and I just wanted to clarify to one of the comment leavers, that my mom is the asian and my father is the mutt, and I’m beautiful. The appearance of the child doesn’t hang upon the sex of the parent that is asian or white or black or eskimo.., since the chromosomes are shared.

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  • 189 Azn logic // Sep 26, 2008 at 9:38 am

    They call you ching chong and make casual ethic jokes about your parents behind your back and you still date them. If that isn’t selling out then what is?
    And don’t use the “they’re all not like that” excuse, so it’s fine to generalize them positively but when it comes to the negatives you play the diplomat?

    At first I thought you Azn girls where naive(stupid) but now your just below scum.

    With the way things are going I don’t know wither I should be proud or embarrassed standing next to an Azn American girl.

    “A man’s pride is equivalent to a woman’s vanity”

  • 190 Dakkun // Sep 27, 2008 at 4:37 pm

    Frankly, I don’t believe in any of the excuses people put out that goes along the lines of ‘Asian guys are shy’. Just don’t say that just from your own narrow experience with Asian guys, you’re not doing yourself any favour.

    Anyway, I personally think that the reason why you’d see more White guys with Asian girls is because of the negative media portrayal of Asian guys. Frankly, an Vietnamese American female friend of mine interviewed a couple of white girls, who all had the same answer, “Asian guys are too tall, skinny, have slanted eyes.” blah blah blah. I’m sure of the fact that Asian guys in American movies depicted as single-minded hardcore martial artists, or glasses wearing nerd doesn’t do anyone a favour. But that’s just America! The media effects alot of people’s opinions, just like the news. But just because we’re Asian doesn’t mean we’re going to get treated just like the White people. We’re still somewhat classified as a minority group. Minorities around the world get treated differently to the native people (not saying White Americans are native at all); white people in Japan are called Gaijin frequently, so as the Koreans and Chinese in Japan. Also, black people in Japan (this is from watching Japanese comedy) are frequently viewed by the Japanese comedy world as something to be laughed at, just because they’re foreign.

    Frankly, I don’t care much for Asian girls dating White guys. As long as they’re happy, so be it, I shouldn’t really care in the first place. Though, there’s still the problem with all the angry Asian guys (not me BTW) blatantly calling Asian girls a disgrace…

    Sick freaks…

  • 191 Dave // Sep 30, 2008 at 8:03 am

    The typical white guy is poorly socialized in this age of high divorce rates and broken families. They guys don’t how to treat with women with respect and they’re pretty unstable.

    The modern cool dude like myself (I’m Vietnamese) and my Indian friends are taking over the new alpha male landscape. We’re good-looking, have professional degrees, and we treat women with respect.

    Everytime I walk into a restuarant and come across a white guy with his asian girlfriend, they both get visibly uncomfortable; especially the white dude. The foregoing is de rigeur or commonplace nowadays but not much is mentioned about it.

    White guys think they have a default institutional power in social settings, but their traditional power base is eroding. I find the mainstream media’s attempt to emasculate Asian dudes as a logical way to try and retain their status. Back in the real world, these white guys are often shocked and intimidated by good-looking and successful ethnic dudes.

    A lot of these white dudes have a screws loose in the first place, that’s why they date asian girls. They think the perceived institutional will make-up for being poorly socialized and the asian girl will put up with it. Now that’s fucked.

    Personally, I tend to go for Persian girls and Brown girls because they’re beautiful and strong women.

  • 192 Canadian Asian Girl // Oct 6, 2008 at 12:59 pm

    Some of the comments above are absolutely disgusting. I’m thoroughly disappointed to see that people continue to be close-minded, stereotypical, ignorant and just downright assholes. I hope a lot of the ones above, especially HITHEREGUYS, are just really bad jokes… because it makes me lose a little faith in humanity.

    I am an Asian female dating a white male for awhile now. Even though I was born and raised in Toronto, Canada (a very multicultural place. where interracial couples are actually quite common, by the way), I have kept a lot of my Chinese culture and am in no way ‘white washed’ or ‘have the desire to be white’.

    I find both white and asian men attractive. I do not prefer one over the other; if theyre respectful, intelligent, caring, and physically attractive…then it floats my boat. It doesn’t matter what nationality they are.

    However, there are some generalizations, ‘quirks’ and perks that come with dating a white guy.
    1) He’s not afraid to show you to his family. I find that a lot of asian guys don’t tell their parents about their girlfriend right away. Or invite their girlfriends to family functions.
    2) They are taller. This is important because girls like guys who cant protect them. Short, tiny, scrawny, feminine, breakable guys are not only incapable of providing us with that protection, they need it.
    3) They appreciate us for being a little different. This may not be the reason why white guys date asian girls, but it certainly is a bonus. There’s more to learn, see and experience. It allows for an open-minded, cultured and knowledgable way of life. There are some things white people will not be able to know, unless theyve dated an asian.
    4) They dont spoil their girlfriends like most Asian guys do. In the long run, that’s a good thing. It teaches girls that a man can’t give them everything, and they shouldn’t have to. Women have to work too.

    Another thing. Not all asian chicks who date white guys are sex-craving sluts. Not all white guys date asian girls because they’re girly, or petite, or submissive (because I am definately not any of those traits). So if you have been so unfortunate to meet one of those people, just understand that not everyone is like that, or have secret intentions. If you are unfortunately one of those people, then I hope you grow up a bit and figure out what you really want in life. Because surely, if you think sex, submissiveness, or social status is the most important thing to work towards… something must’ve gone wrong.

  • 193 American Asian Guy // Oct 6, 2008 at 8:39 pm

    Hi Canadian Asian girl, I am an Asian American guy and I have been dating a Caucasian girl for some time:

    1. I’m not afraid to introduce her to my family.
    2. I am as tall as other Caucasian guys.
    3. She sees me for who I am. The reason she is attracted to me is not for any exotic reason. Likewise I see her for who she is, and do not simply see her as a Caucasian girl.
    4. I do not spoil my girlfriend, but I do show her how much I love her.

    It’s dangerous to generalize about any group of people, Asian men, Asian women, whoever. There is variation within any group of people. Not all Asian guys are short, spoil their girlfriends and are afraid to introduce their girlfriends to their families. Do not demystify a stereotype about Asian women being petite and submissive by reaffirming negative stereotypes about Asian men.

  • 194 jen // Oct 8, 2008 at 11:38 am

    Many white guy love asian gril

  • 195 Canadian Asian Girl // Oct 8, 2008 at 7:54 pm

    Hi American Asian Guy, yes you are right. No generalizations should ever be made about any particular group of people. I am 100% aware that there is variation, and I shouldn’t've placed words like ‘most asians’, ‘a lot of’, etc. The points that I made in my previous comment were events and situations that I myself have actually experienced, which certainly may not apply to others. Yes, not all asian guys are afraid to show their girlfriend to his family, are short, or spoil their girlfriends. Hell, I bet many are great boyfriends… I was merely trying to say that being in a relationship with a white guy, the things I listed was what set the dating process different from my relationships with some asian guys, or from the relationships my asian girlfriends have been in. However, you can not deny that the points above do in fact speak some truth. It does happen, just not to everyone, and it certainly happened to me.

  • 196 Asian Guy Gets The Girl // Oct 9, 2008 at 7:10 pm

    Asians prefer their own kind still regardless of Hollywood propaganda

  • 197 Vic // Oct 9, 2008 at 10:56 pm

    Asian people = asian girl? Well I guess it is a match made in colonialist heaven – white male/asian female. Typical White Jewish Hollywood propaganda.

  • 198 Vic // Oct 9, 2008 at 11:24 pm

    Also…please change the title to “Stuff that Asian girl like”

    Asian guys don’t want to be drag into this. It almost seems like this post is a slap in the face of all Asian guys out there.

    Beside my lovely mom and all my cool aunts, Asian girls and women in America are a disgrace. They have no social perception. They would sell-out a nation if that means they’ll be able to live the lives they see on TV. They have no moral compass and intellectual understanding of what it means to be an Asian in America.

    There a billions of Asian in America and they say they are afraid of dating you because you might be related. A Chinese and a Korean are no related. To all-self hating Asian women out there, Asians are actually more than one race.

    They rehash all these tired old stereotypes that has been thrown at their fathers and mothers as a reason they don’t like Asians.

    It is sad really. White colonial mentality have affect Asian culture deeply. I’ll bet you white husbands are laughing at your father and mothers.

  • 199 Vic // Oct 9, 2008 at 11:29 pm

    Billions of Asian in the world, not America. I am stupid tonight.

  • 200 Mr. D // Oct 10, 2008 at 11:01 am

    I’m a Asian dude and love white women. I’ve dated nothing but white woman my entire life. I grew up in a small town where my family was the only Asians on the block and everyone else was white. If you people think Asian guys have small penises then you wouldn’t mind bending over and letting me show you how small my penis really is. I think the Asians from the east just have a poor diet but here in America we all eat the same. I’m 6’2″ about 210 lbs and I’m as tall as any of my white friends. They ain’t packing anything I’m not, plus I get to date their sisters lol

  • 201 American Asian Guy // Oct 10, 2008 at 7:50 pm

    Canadian Asian girl, I understand that based on your dating experiences you have come to some conclusions. However, I think it is dangerous to generalize about any group of people. You would not like to be stereotyped as a subservient, sex craving Asian girl, just as any Asian guy does not want to be stereotyped as short, scrawny and feminine.

  • 202 CD // Oct 17, 2008 at 1:29 am

    “And as for that cute half-Asian/half-white babies comment”“it just reeks of eugenics; wanting to create a great-looking race. Hitler would’ve loved you, if you weren’t Asian, of course.”

    Yeah, that comment in the article about wanting Hapa babies really struck me as creepy in an Aryan sorta way.

    I think some Asian Americans–men and especially women–really need to be honest about what they stand for and stop hiding behind the Politically Correct propaganda that “love is colorblind.”

    Just say that you believe Whiteness is superior, and be done with it.

    Just don’t forget to Seig Heil as you say it. LOL

  • 203 Joy // Oct 18, 2008 at 8:04 pm

    HA, I agree with Steve, who doesn’t love some nasal mojo.

    And CD, your right too. I think this whole eurocentric fad promoting white people for the past century or two has taken a toll on other races. But when we’re talking about asian girls being attracted to white guys, I think most of that is happening in predominantly white countries, asia not included. I don’t think any of my cousins in asia would prefer a white guy to an asian guy.
    You guys are also assuming that there’s only 2 choices, white or asian. Maybe in the midwest… yea. I’m an asian girl and I was raised in the midwest, but I’m in NYC now. So I can agree, being surrounded by white people my whole life, and being the only asian out of maybe 5 in the whole state I developed an attraction to white guys, mainly because there’s not really much more to choose from.
    But I’m older now, and in an international city, and being the open minded gal I am, have tried out a little bit of everything :P
    If a guy’s very attractive, it really doesn’t matter what his race or ethnicity is. White guys really do end up as a bland default in bigger cities full of diverse and prime men. I can vouch a really hot asian guy can be a lot more attractive than any white guy. Maybe I’m getting yellow fever too? lol. But so far my main fetish are middle eastern men. All terrorist jokes aside, they’re gorgeous, masculine, able, and just more pumped with testosterone. Yum.
    Anyway, I forgot what my point was. haha.
    But for all the asian girls out there, I suggest trying some different dishes besides white meat, you might like it better :D

  • 204 Joy // Oct 18, 2008 at 8:25 pm

    Oh hey Vic, it’s not all about a lack of pride in one’s ethnicity or feeling a victim to white propaganda. You’re making stereotypes too now. It’s a natural phoenomena when asian girls are living in an area with 90% white population and maybe 10 asian guys to choose from. You’re not ensured top of the line guys with so little choice. Asian people of both genders often raised in suburban white neighborhoods can be overprotected and raised with more traditional ideals. So it could appear sort of prudish and subservient. Different cultures have different influences on their children. And some asian girls do like a more aggressive type of men. Not saying all asian men can’t be aggressive. I grew up having zero asian friends and was always in fights with my parents, so in a way I had a strange upraising from my friends and myself. I can understand where my parents are coming from too, but different strokes for different folks.
    I’m sure if these hypothetical asian women grew up in brazil or egypt or someplace with a completely different populace they would have different tastes in men as well. It’s not always about how the white men are oppressing or degrading our cultures. I can agree with Canadian asian girl because I was raised in similar conditions. Any asian guys I knew were few and far in between and they did always act like pansy shrimps that felt they only wanted to blend into the rest of the crowd. The black guys in those white suburban neighborhoods were the same, except they hid behind poser attitudes. So hell yea I dated white guys, I was going for the guys that were attractive and confident. That’s what’s sexy to anyone. That aggressive attitude is very primal and a factor to potency as a mate. So I prefer Israelis or Turks or hispanics to white guys now because white guys look like pansies next to them, what does that make me? It’s not because I think they’re superior to me.

  • 205 CD // Oct 19, 2008 at 4:38 am

    Joy, too bad Neanderthals are extinct. They sound like your type. LOL.

    And some of these women here are trying a little too hard to convince everybody that they ain’t aren’t just the standard Whoreiental running from their race.

    Every sister sure as hell ain’t a sister.

  • 206 Joy // Oct 19, 2008 at 9:02 am

    what’s that suppose to even mean?
    who’s whose sister?

    love maybe colorblind, but what is love besides hormonal attractions to another person you’re used to hanging around with for too long. Relationships are just a security blanket for people who are afraid of being alone.

    CD get your head out of your self-righteous ass for 1 second. Throwing stereotypes at me won’t do you ay good either. People on here are just explaining their experience on the topic. You’re here making accusations and telling people that they are part of the undeniable stereotype that you can’t see out of. I embrace all cultures, my family’s, my country’s, and all others.
    You have no right to even speak on behalf of any asian girls because you obviously can’t put yourself in our shoes.
    It’s an obvious fact that women choose men who are the most capable of being men, it’s survival of the fittest, and we choose mates that aren’t complete pansies.
    The one liners and big talk your trying preach really does show how pathetic and close minded you really are in person. Call me a whore if you like, I don’t charge, haha, it doesn’t bother me.
    It does sound like you feel a superiority complex to others from the way you’re throwing your judgement. Sadly if you can’t get the time of day from any girls, or even us “whorientals”, then you can at least live your life bitter and alone denouncing the world to your heart’s content.

    AIN’T that something to look forward to as an aspiring redneck? :)

  • 207 CD // Oct 21, 2008 at 8:30 am

    Joy, your rant would be a hella more convincing if you actually had an argument.

    You spout a lot of empty catchphrases about stereotypes that I doubt you even understand the meaning of.

    If anything, it’s you that are not only an aspring redneck’s wife, but a Neandethal’s at that. Have fun, as your “man” drags ya by the hair and pimp slaps you down when you misbehave. Though, you’d prolly enjoy that, wouldn’t you? ;-)

    And I doubt you understand what being a man or woman is about–except as fed to you by the media or by Cosmo Magazine and their hilarious stereoypes about traditional manhood and womanhood that you follow.

    And please, stop with the tired accusations about Asian men being bitter. This is a cliched response that defensive Oriental women always spout when they have their asses called out.

    And if you don’t understand the “every sista ain’t a sista” comment, go listen to some P.E. and educate yourself.

  • 208 Joy // Oct 21, 2008 at 9:56 am

    ha I don’t why I’m still writing on this post, but this little argument is beginning to be enjoyable.

    First of all, don’t feel threatened because I’m saying you’re close minded and judgmental.

    I never once said “asian men are bitter”, although you’re starting to sound like one. If you had read anything past beyond my interpretation of the your brain’s capabilities then you’d seen I’ve given the benefit of the doubt to any exceptions to what I’ve experienced from my point of view.

    I really don’t have time to make cliff notes for you, but I’d appreciate you trying to reflect my own points back at me with no backup to your point besides more insults. Reiterating “neanderthal” and “materialistic orientals” are about the only material you can come up with.

    As far as clichés go, everything that vomits out of your mind onto this blog is a cliché. I can’t help close-minded people who can’t see past there own stubbornness, but I was actually hoping to see some sort of intelligent perspective besides unoriginal insults.

  • 209 Anonymous // Oct 22, 2008 at 1:20 pm

    Asian American Female, 17

    I admit that I do like white guys, but how could I not? I live in a small town, where there are very few Asians, and even less Asian guys my age. In my high school of about 1700, there are perhaps 7 Asians. 2 of which are guys. 1 my age. I take classes at a local college, and there are exactly 0 Asians there. Let me ask you, what are the chances of being romantically interested when you have a choice of either him, or him?
    I don’t only like white guys– I am sure that if the guy was any other race at all, if there was “something” there, some kind of “spark,” well yes, I would be interested in him. I’ve liked guys of other races, or had slight crushes on them; it never occurred to me that their race was important. If they had showed that they were interested in me, I wouldn’t have been disagreeable.
    And by the way, white guys are not stealing “your” asian females. Why? Because no one owns me. That’s why. The reverse is true too.
    No one is stealing anyone from anyone else. It’s all a matter of personal preference.

    And don’t call me “Oriental” either.

  • 210 CD // Oct 22, 2008 at 11:32 pm

    Since reading comprehension skills are lacking among certain defensive people here, let me restate the arguments more explicitly.

    1. Yes, of course whom you date is your own “personal preference” and no one owns your body, etc.

    However, it would be a good idea to stop repeating (explicitly or implicitly) White racist bullshit about Asian males being “pansy shrimps,” effeminate, or that Asian guys are somehow inferior to your Great White Hype based upon a laundry list of ludicrous generalizations like “Asian guys won’t introduce me to his parents.”

    Just remember, you don’t have to be White to promote White Supremacist bullshit.

    2. In fact, if there are people here that truly believe these stereotypes (and you know whom you are), at least have the guts to openly admit this fact. State that you are a believer in White Supremacy.

    Don’t dance around this issue. Don’t offer disingenuous alibis like “I’m not whitewashed!” Openly admit your “personal preference.”

    Many of these Oriental White Supremacists are playing a double game. On the one hand, they tacitly promote (or insinuate) White racist dogma about Asian males, yet on the other hand, they deny and dismiss any criticism of their racism.

    Note, for example, how many people have avoided calling out or challenging the White trolls in this thread who were spewing their racist vitriol. Their silence on this issue speaks (and reveals) much more about them than any of their denials or alibis.

    Embrace your Inner White Supremacist. That would be more honest. ;)

    3. And in terms of interracial dating in general, don’t peddle this nonsense that “love is
    colorblind” or that racism has no impact on dating/intermarriage in the West. That is straight up White bullshit. The disparity in interracial marriages between Asian men and women is the clearest evidence that love ain’t colorbind–no matter what Hollywood and Disneyland tell you.

    People pushing this argument are trying to avoid the hard truth of what it means to an Asian minority–and probably attempting to alleviate their own guilty consciences as well.

    4. Finally, since I do not want this thread to contribute to the destructive and corrosive gender division between Asian men and women any more than already exists, let me state clearly:

    My criticisms are not directed to all Asian women. They are directed only against Oriental women or their allies. What’s the difference? The difference between Asian and Oriental is analogous to the difference between Black and Negro back in the 1960s.

    In both cases, the first category of person possesses a political and racial consciousness in OPPOSITION to (White) Mainstream society–while the latter type of person is sadly lacking in this understanding.

    Every sister ain’t a sister.

    And every brother ain’t a brother.

    But for those people who are down with their race and people, keep fighting the good fight.

  • 211 C More // Oct 27, 2008 at 2:09 pm

    The thing is, the whole ‘I “just happen to be surrounded by white people” and that’s what I become attracted to’ excuse doesn’t hold water when the race is reversed.

    Take an average caucasian women and send her to Asia, say China in particular. She is now surrounded by Chinese people. Will she begin to date or be attracted to Chinese men? HIGHLY unlikely.

    Let’s take it a step further and say a caucasian expatriate girl is born and raised in China by her white parents, but she attends school surrounded by Chinese boys and girls. This girl will grow up and still instinctively seek a Caucasian man.

    The reverse is not true for asian women surrounded by caucasian people. Asian women appear to be the ONLY women who have no innate “loyalty” to their background or family and are the only women of any race to use excuses like “I can’t date him, he’s asian like my father, brother, etc.” You never hear other races use that flimsy excuse.

  • 212 lester // Nov 3, 2008 at 4:52 am

    Even in Japan there is increasing number of mixed marriages. Its gotta happen as more foreigners immigrate to Japan

  • 213 Let them eat cake // Nov 3, 2008 at 6:34 pm

    if asian women want to date and marry white men then so be it.
    who are they hurting? seriously?
    who cares if it’s based on love or racism?
    i’m an asian man. just don’t throw me in a concentration camp and i’ll be happy.
    i’m going to school and working hard.
    when i finally have a good career and money, great money, just you watch, i’m gonna date lots of hot asian women, blacks, latinas, whites, escimos, brazillians, itallians, mongolians, etc…
    if you are pro white men, then you are a racist.
    if you are for asian men, then you are a racist.
    if you are for love, then you are human.
    don’t hate. make money. get laid!

  • 214 Asian guy // Nov 8, 2008 at 11:23 pm

    grew up in the west and i seem only attracted to white girls… their different colored hair and eyes are quite cool. though, i suspect that there isn’t enough hawt asian chicks around.

  • 215 agaisn asian hunter // Nov 11, 2008 at 3:04 am

    I saw many white men who learn asian languages become rice chasers on campus. Not all of them but many of them deceive asian girls just for outlet for his sexual desire. The guy I know is deceiving many asian girls to make pay everything what he wants to buy. Sometimes, he asked her to pay his travel expense. He gets what he wants and he satisfies his sexual desire, too. I feel sorry for his victims in the past. This guy still be at ASU. This guy studies Chinese.
    I feel sorry for a girl at USC who is taiwanese and now she is his target. I think most of cocasion girls are not interested in him at all. So, he turned to be an asian hunter and deceive many asian girls. To me, these asian girls should have distinguished this guy is not a good guy. But they can not tell who is bad or good. I really feel sorry for them. After this guy graduates, he plans to go to either China, Taiwan or Korea.
    Watch out girls in these countries.

  • 216 sophia // Nov 13, 2008 at 9:29 pm

    yeah! asian girls like white guys… if they’re fat and ugly, have no personality or shred of intelligence, and can’t be bothered to try and improve themselves because they think they’re ‘fabulous’ by virtue of being asian girls. the only guys who drool over you are losery white guys who can’t get laid. if white guys who think of you as submissive temporary sex dolls is your thing, then whatever floats your boat, honey. no white chick would touch that kind of trash with a 50 foot pole, so go ahead and eat our leftovers, bitch. just don’t be hating on the rest of us.

  • 217 anonymous // Nov 14, 2008 at 1:47 am

    how about just falling in love?you’re all talking like you going shopping in an IKEA store,why is the white man+asian girl or other race…how about the attraction between two people,the chemistry no?

  • 218 kalle // Nov 22, 2008 at 3:51 am

    You are generalizing too much. I think we have to take into account social strata within the “asian” or “white” or whatever populations and check who pairs with whom.

    I think the heavy skews towards AF-WM and BM-WF can to a large degree be explained by differences in (un)willingness to move up or down in social status: Most white females I see with black males (most, not all!) are from the lower social strata within white population, while the black guys dating them seem to have relatively higher social status within black population (money, fame, education,…). Similarly, most female asians interdating seem to come from relatively lower social status groups within asian population, while again the white guys dating them seem to come from relatively higher social status groups.

    I’m talking only circumstantial evidence here, based on my own observations, I’m not aware of a scientific study of this unfortunately.

    So the question I ask myself is more like why are asian males seemingly not willing to date or marry “down”? Because you will have to agree, it’s almost always the case that if you can’t find a partner, it’s not because there is absolutely nobody else in the world who would take you but because your standards or expectations are not met by those who would and those who meet them do not want you. So why do asian guys not want to date white or black females from relatively lower social strata (relative to their own status within their own population)? Something to do with their upbringing? Why do richer or higher-status black males actively seek white females? And why are black females not willing to date or marry “down” (relative to their status within their own population)?

    I think if you can find an answer to that, you will have a better answer than simply “white guys are this” or “black females are that”.

  • 219 kalle // Nov 22, 2008 at 4:05 am

    oh, and one more observation: _when_ you see WF-AM bondings, esp. serious ones, it’s mostly the case that WF are from relatively higher social strata. This also accounts for relatively more incidences of WF-AM as you move up the educational ladder, from high- to grad school.

  • 220 uru // Nov 22, 2008 at 5:08 am

    what irks me is that totally unattractive asian females who come over or meet a westerner will experience immediate push up on the attractiveness scale and act like they are a ten or nine when in fact, within their own group, they are maybe only a three or four at best. somehow, the white guys are not able to differentiate well enough to see what is attractive and what not. to them, it’s all the same. but asian guys, they are much more familiar with how white women look than white guys are about asian females, so they differentiate. end result: not so picky white guys picking up all the asian dregs, while picky asian guys refuse to date down. small wonder the numbers are so heavily skewed towards wm-af!!

  • 221 Hapa Surfer in Long Beach // Nov 26, 2008 at 1:11 am

    Bob Marley was born to an English father and Jamaican mother. He was spit on and ridiculed throughout his childhood and called “half caste” by all the other people in his neighborhood. Because of his mixed race, he had no friends growing up.

    “I don’t have prejudice against meself. My father was a white and my mother was black. Them call me half-caste or whatever. Me don’t dip on nobody’s side. Me don’t dip on the black man’s side nor the white man’s side. Me dip on God’s side, the one who create me and cause me to come from black and white.”

    -Bob Marley

    Asian women need to stop hating Asian guys and vice versa. Self racism is still racism. Peace.

  • 222 Justin // Dec 6, 2008 at 12:05 am

    I’m a white guy dating a Korean girl. I’m 26, she’s 23. I can honestly say I feel like the luckiest guy alive. She graduated from UCI last year and I’ve basically just started back up with college. She has a double major in Political Science and Psychology. I’m currently pursuing a Physician’s Assistant degree.

    I would easily say she is more intelligent than I am, but we are relatively close. We get along in an amazing fashion. We’ve only been dating for 3 months and she refuses to tell her parents about me. I hate that, but I can understand. She said about the only time a Korean girl will mention a boyfriend to her parents is if it becomes serious, something along the lines of engagement.

    Everyone should like whomever they are going to like and let others like whom they will like. No one should bash another in any fashion for their preference in the opposite sex.

  • 223 ftyjurtj // Dec 8, 2008 at 10:33 am

    yes they are sexy ok (the hot ones)

    it makes u think about having … with them whereas others races dont give u that feeling


  • 224 Anonymous // Dec 10, 2008 at 9:34 am

    I typed bitch wrong Cracker bitches

  • 225 Lan-Viet // Dec 14, 2008 at 3:20 am

    I’ll chime in; white guys are hot and asian guys are not. I would consider myself attractive and by no means ugly; however, I just find white men better looking and down to earth. My man looks damn hot in his dress blues, thank god for the United States Marines!!

  • 226 Richard // Dec 18, 2008 at 5:20 pm

    Has anyone else noticed the two most viewed posts on this website are white guys and white girls which I think says something.

  • 227 Ken // Dec 24, 2008 at 12:11 pm

    F*uck Crackers.

  • 228 Adam // Dec 24, 2008 at 5:49 pm

    haha, some of this stuff is pretty true.
    my girlfriend is thai, she likes hellokitty, korean soap operas, some anime, she throws up the peace sign, pronounces words wrong, knows a couple languages, and is going out with me, a white guy, etc etc. there are even a bunch of hmong and japanese guys in our dorm who talk crap about us behind our back for going out with each other, even got a few chinese friends who dont like me now. so true sometimes…

  • 229 Anonymous // Dec 30, 2008 at 10:36 am

    Lol, stuff asian people like huh? I don’t think this poster can speak on behalf of the millions of Asians out there. Your opinion is respected though.

    I’m N8tive/Black. Yes I do see a lot of Asian women with white guys. As well I see alot asian women with Black/Latin/N8tive Americans as well.In some cases asian women with a wide range of women too.

    I think that it’s safe to say that many of the Asian women that you see dating white guys may have grew up in a white area watching dawsons creek ect. Just like SOME Asian women that date Blacks/Latino/N8tives have a deep interest in Black/Latin/N8tive culture, others are interested moreso in the personality of the person they’re dating.

    I’ve dated three Asians up to this point in my life. All of whom are Japanese. Neither one of them looked at me as being a N8tive/Black man, but they looked at me as being a fair human being with good morals.

    I had a Navajo buddy that dated an Asian woman, but he didn’t like her all that much. He didn’t find Asians very attractive. He just dated her because his White buddies made them seem like it was a must have. Eventually he dumped her and returned to his beautiful Navajo gf. I’ve seen instances where Whites screw Asian women and throw them to the curb. Some of them deserved it. Dating somebody just because they’re White? Ugh…. . Who said they were intel.? Try again lil buddy!

    This summer I’ll be flying with my gf to her hometown of Osaka, Japan to spend time with her family and talk about our marriage arrangements. I think that if one looks at the race of a person trying to decide that persons worth, you’re crazy. Mostly because it shows your shallowness, ignorance, and close-mindedness. Hopefully you people in the east will someday understand. Until then, til’ our paths cross, have a good 1!

  • 230 G // Jan 2, 2009 at 9:20 am

    Asian women are down to earth, that is why white men love them, they dont judge their men on how good they dance or what car they most other races do. They are respectfull and dont get impressed by some fool playing a loud radio or dressing like a THUG.Asian people in general are great people they are never looking for trouble and always have a low crime rate where they live I always feel safe in an asian area. Im italian american and most Little italys in the U.S. were boadered with chinatowns & they got along just fine. Hail Asia

  • 231 Anonymous // Jan 2, 2009 at 12:03 pm

    Nah, all Asian women are not like that. Some of them are good and some are airheads. Everyone is their own person. Can’t just place all of them in the same boat.

  • 232 this is true // Jan 4, 2009 at 2:33 pm

    I think the reason why most white guys are more successful than asian guys is cause they look more masculine, they have those features that make women go horny such as, height, good build, some body hair, engage in sports, confident and just that extra bit more stylish…..asian guys tend to be short, nerdy looking (a lot of them do), a bit feminine, have weird interests, antisocial, insecure and lack confidence to meet non asian women.

  • 233 E // Jan 6, 2009 at 6:18 pm

    Im an asian guy here. And I have to say it can be a miserable fucking existence. The way the dating schematic is going, id say the whole asian race will be over in a couple of hundred years. Im in an asian country right now and some people consider me a “handsome guy”, calling me “suai guh, suai guh”. And I can get asian girls in asian countries. But I know thats BS because once I go back to the states I know Im fucked. They think we’re fucking ugly. And that whole status thing doesnt help either, even if you arent ugly, the whole low status in American society doesnt help out at all… I dont know about anyone else but if I cant date I dont see life worth living. Or Id just like to see the world just collapse.
    Im not going down the traditional self hate / frustration path, at least I hope Im not, that some Asian posters post. But I know whats coming… some people of asian descent will denounce this post, denounce me, deny the validity of this. Well fuck you. Part of the problem is we cant speak out fucking minds in the first place, its all about repression. Well, fuck repression. Maybe someone smarter than I will come up with a better way to deal.

    That Columbia University / Harvard report about interracial dating really got to me. And they say, social Darwinism says that a man who cant date is genetically dead, and will do anything he can, even put his own life at risk through violence to obtain it. I just want to see the world burn.

  • 234 Raj from Singapore // Jan 7, 2009 at 10:15 pm

    Take an average caucasian women and send her to Asia, say China in particular. She is now surrounded by Chinese people. Will she begin to date or be attracted to Chinese men? HIGHLY unlikely.

    “Let’s take it a step further and say a caucasian expatriate girl is born and raised in China by her white parents, but she attends school surrounded by Chinese boys and girls. This girl will grow up and still instinctively seek a Caucasian man. ”

    That is because white girls are inherently racist and whiteness has its privileges.

  • 235 G // Jan 8, 2009 at 7:10 pm

    You people are racist, love is between two people, I kissed an asian girl once and she said she felt like she was having an outer body experience. Asian women are juicy and sweet just like dear old MOM. The nerve of some of you men to talk about white males We know more about asia than most of you I been studying GODZILLA since I was 5yrs old and no one knows more about him than me.

  • 236 中国人 // Jan 9, 2009 at 1:29 am


  • 237 lao // Jan 11, 2009 at 12:57 pm

    im a aisan girl,i prefer black and latino boys waaay over white men

  • 238 lao // Jan 11, 2009 at 1:05 pm

    though there nothin wrong with asian or white boys at all to me…..G iz right luv is between 2 ppl.

  • 239 Guy // Jan 14, 2009 at 3:17 am

    For all those people who believe in the stereotype of Asian men having small penises as the major reason for Asian women dating white men check out Hung Lo who is Chinese the first Asian male porn star in America at He is endowed and does deliver with the white women he has sex with. I believe for many white people in America the thought of an Asian man having sex with a white women is so taboo, so unacceptable and so abnormal.

    Asian men have been neutered by the white media for so many years with the stereotype of being sexless, duds, having small dicks, unromantic, not good looking and can never be jocks. As the Asian population increases and more Asian men are involved in the entertainment field like actor John Cho, director Justin Lin and professional sports like Yao Ming in the NBA and Hung Lo in the porn industry more white women will date Asian men and the myth of a small penis is not related to a race but to an individual. Small penises can occur in White, Black, Hispanic, Native American, Asian and Middle Eastern men. Hung Lo has shown that you can’t judge a man’s size by his race…

  • 240 anson // Jan 14, 2009 at 12:55 pm

    I think I have a serious problem. I’m a chinese american living in nyc and feel depressed,angry, and frustrated everytime I see an asian girl with a nonasian(mostly whites). Sure I’ve read all the reasons understand the sociological aspects and phenomens related to this pairing but lately I find it harder and harder not to resist breaking out into violent maybe even malicious actions. I don’t fall under any of the stereotypes associated with asian males I.e. strict upbringing with pressure on doing good, geeky, quiet, shy. Yet these times I have to fight off strong urges to grab the girl in the next asian girl/white guy couple by her hair and slit her throat with a boxcutter. I may not carry out the deed, but knowing that this deed will bring me satisfaction deeply disturbs me. Some while ago I deduce that there must be a guilty party and have convinced myself that it was the asian women who date white men to be blamed.

    It sounds depraved and pathetic but very serious as I don’t know how to figure myself or deprogram myself out of this.

    I also have assumed most of these women will end up in terrible relationships and if they don’t suffer, their children will, from the racism & bigotry in this world.

    This is like an extended postsecret entry. I don’t know what to do anymore.

  • 241 anson // Jan 14, 2009 at 4:25 pm

    the guy above who mentioned that if i cant date I’ll die, said it best. its not about confidence and all this other bullshit and excuses. god knows how many personality changes & improvement I’ve done and learn; i even tried to be content(wtf?). where has this taken me, nowhere.

    fuck if it wasnt for those 2 recent asian guys that went serial in vtech and montreal. i wouldve carried out something on a similar scale on these asian american bitches. those guys showed me how stupid it is. i dont have anything worth living for anywy and im not stupid to just go and kill myself. i find that pathetic. i’d rather take my tormenters with me if i have to. the white guys’ll just be in the way

  • 242 Kim // Jan 15, 2009 at 2:55 pm

    Guy the fact you even had to post a website about girls loving asian cock (for money)
    shows how desperate for white women you are, I find porn gross in itself. That website would have started cause of creeps like you who have some weird fetish for white women but can’t get any. From what I read in that columbia study it showed that asian men prefer white women over asian its just that they were not being accepted by them. You are a perfect example of one of those losers who hate seeing white men with asian women but want to see it the other way around.

  • 243 1000101 // Jan 15, 2009 at 4:53 pm

    Oriental chicks like white guys because white guys tend to be TALL.

    The chinamen are always short little nerds, and NO woman, regardless of race, wants that.

  • 244 Larp // Jan 15, 2009 at 5:02 pm

    I’m a white guy, and I exclusively date/fuck “asian” girls. Chinese, Korean, Thai, Filipina, Jap, whatever.


    Because they’re easy. Especially the girls in college. It’s like these girls get to college and have a wild streak where they just have to be with a white guy and a black guy and a mexican guy just to try it out because they’re bored with the typical chinese nerd.

    Why my fraternity threw parties, ALL the girls from Alpha Phi Gamma (asian girl sorority) used to show up and get wild and hook up. It was awesome.

    Even after college, I like to be that guy that she has fun with before she moves on to a nerdy chinese guy to have a family. The best are the ones who DON’T want to introduce me to their parents.

  • 245 Jinsic // Jan 15, 2009 at 10:05 pm

    Good for u whitey. Just stating the obvious as if we didn’t know that already. Weren’t u surprise they didn’t show up with chopsticks and rice and started massaging your back with some tiger balm? Lmao

    Abcs or similar will be like the same as all partying college students. Its the american dream. As for marrying some schmuck chinese guy. That’s not very likely. More than enough to go around. More likely if ever to marry a nonasian. Because they will ultimately consider asian males inferior by then. None of them will get that desperate and that’s the good ppart of it for us.

    To each his own I say.

  • 246 中国人 // Jan 16, 2009 at 2:22 am

    i think here is all american people

    lol strange things i read

  • 247 Josh // Jan 16, 2009 at 2:11 pm

    I am a white guy and I was married to a Japanese girl for 8 years. Human beings are human beings so that’s what happened to our marriage. But, I prefer asian girls over white girls because of the sophistication, loyalty,nurturing, the spunky personalities, I could go on. White girls in the U.S. have become lazy, self-absorbed, ignorant, and can’t cook for sh*&. Also it seems that white girls want to act like their lives are what they see on dumbass shows like the hills, and bad girls club, they want their lives to filled with rediculous drama. Whereas, asian girls live rich full lives. So, asian dudes, take my advice you want a white chick, go to europe, south america, australia, canada, or new zealand. American white girls suck!!!!!

  • 248 joy // Jan 16, 2009 at 7:12 pm

    Remember God loves all of us. No matter who a person dates at the end God. Keep your eyes on God and these issues will sieze to exist.

  • 249 Random White Guy // Jan 18, 2009 at 8:49 pm

    Yeah, I see a lot of white guys with Asian girls. But you know what I’ve noticed? It’s usually white guys who can’t get dates with white girls. Usually the guys are very geeky, the types that never get the time of day from white women. I don’t know if it’s that Asian girls are more accepting of geekiness, or easier to get along with than white girls (yes I said it), but whatever the case, it is what it is. I don’t usually see a lot of Asian guys with white girls, but I have seen it. You know what else I see a lot of? White girls with black guys. Occasionally I see a black girl with a white guy, but just like the disproportion of Asians / white men vs. women, there are usually a lot more couples where the guy is black and the girl is white. Is this a “penis size” issue? Maybe, if you automatically assume that all black guys are better endowed than white guys (and all white guys better than Asian guys). But I think it’s more than just that — for some women, sure, it might just be about perceived penis sizes — but for others, it’s about culture and acceptance. Black guys typically will date white women that white guys do not want. Asian women will typically date white guys that white girls do not want. Black guys may find white women to be easier to get along with than black women (not being racist here, these are actual things I have heard from black men). Just as white men generally find Asian women easier to get along with than white women (black guys think black girls are obnoxious and demanding, white guys think white girls are obnoxious and demanding). As for me, I am a white guy with a white girl, but I am not opposed to dating from any other ethnicity. I can see why so many white men are attracted to Asian women. I wouldn’t call it a “fetish” or anything like that, but I will say that Asian women tend to be petite, well-mannered, and very “cute”. There are many men like myself who prefer petite women (perhaps another reason why black men like white women better than black women, white women tend to be smaller than black women, and Asian women tend to be smaller than white women). But in the end, people like whatever people like. If Asian girls want to be with white guys, more power to them. If black guys want to be with white girls, more power to them. I don’t care. I don’t get angry when I see a white girl with a black guy, I just think, “good for them, I hope they’re happy together”. I like to think that we’ve moved on from all the prejudices and bigotry against interracial relationships and all of that. Sure, there will always be stereotypes and the occasional idiot who has some offensive comment or gets upset when they see two people from different ethnicities together. But really, if you think about it, we all came from the same part of the world in the beginning. Humanity has since spread apart and taken on different attributes depending on what part of the world they lived in, whether it was hot or cold, flat or mountainous, wet or dry, etc. And now, in the new global culture, and especially in the melting pot that is America, humanity is coming back together again. Hundreds of years from now, you probably will not even be able to tell one race from another, our species will be so intermixed that we will all be one race — the human race. I don’t think there is anything wrong with the mixing or with people preferring to be with people of a different race or culture. Our biologies, not our societies, should tell us who we should end up with and raise a family with. It’s just evolution.

  • 250 Jinsic // Jan 23, 2009 at 7:18 am

    Really Darwin, if it were only as simple as that. It kind of pisses me off when certain types try to break it down into such simple matters as its because of one individual, its because of one cause when in reality its really much more.

    Why do you think african american keep asking for reparations?

  • 251 White dude // Jan 23, 2009 at 10:48 am

    Could it just be that 70% of guys in America are white?

  • 252 ken // Jan 27, 2009 at 7:35 pm

    White ppl are the devil! Go to National or any white nationalist website and see how they view non-whites. They consider non-whites having no soul, dark-eyed and tainting their genetic pool. And all you Asian whores out there spitting out half-breds kids, go to hell.

  • 253 to HAHA // Jan 30, 2009 at 2:56 am

    ‘And not to sound like a white power douche, but you just can’t beat the blue eyes.’

    It is too bad you don’t have enough self respect and respect for other whites to pass your blue eyes on to your children. Your children will be forever envious of you. And you are no longer white in the eyes of most whites because you don’t care to respect your own people.

    ‘All I can say is I walk around with my wife and people barley take notice.’

    Not true. White women and Asian men hate it. More and more whites are tired of their race being annihilated by race traitors like you.

  • 254 Without_Me // Jan 30, 2009 at 3:51 am

    Wow, so much hate in this topic. I blame the writer because she didn’t really explain it thoroughly enough, but was still straight to the point. Now this stereo-type of Asian guys that don’t hold hand and make out is going to make it even harder, but it will come as a huge surprise as I like doing those along with wooing her with sweet nothings and with telling her “I love you” in a new way each day.

    Plus, why are some of you guys hating on each other, you see how women can easily manipulate us to become aggressive toward one another? haha just kidding. But really, when these kinds of discussions happen, Asian males and Caucasian females get angry, understand that these are not race preferences, but personal preferences and just because you are seeing it happen that it does not mean otherwise. Also, it makes us turn on each other. Blah blah that and blah blah this.

    I agree with random white guy, most of those white dudes are geeks and nerdy that can’t really get with a hot rocker/emo chick (my preference, most happen to be white chicks, so booya, kekeke).

    Plus, whoever your dream girl is, go after her with all your heart, don’t freak her out and become a stalker, learn what she likes and how you can improve to be with her.

    The best thing about this world we live in today is that we can tell somebody that we love them and not have the same feelings be returned, but you know what, that’s life, try again. Your dream girl (or guy) is still out there, even if the first one you wanted is taken, there is another one somewhere there. Don’t care about what others think, since others don’t do it that often.

    Without_Me – An Asian guy

  • 255 Sasha // Feb 3, 2009 at 5:29 pm

    I don’t know why people here are trying to make this issue so complex, take an average white boy and an average asian boy and the white boy is way hotter so he has a better chance with asian girls than an asian boy has with white girls.

  • 256 Yeefong // Feb 4, 2009 at 6:48 am

    pfft..white girls are too easy mate, even my rotweiler can pick one up. White chix are good fuck buddy but when it comes down to marriage I prefer asian. I am asian btw..and those asian chix who brag abt dating white guys blalala good for u sista..hahaha until he gives u aids and stds ;) and half cast kids aren’t always cute. My cuzin had one and it looks weird…like from farken mars or somefin

  • 257 Yeefongt // Feb 4, 2009 at 6:52 am

    oh btw, most of da azn chix who date white guys are often oversea students who are here on “student visa” and wana get a ozzie citizenship lolz well I live in aust..duno about the trash hole of the world aka America. Maybe the asians americans are soo eff up in da head..they think its cool to date someone white becaause…of their skin colour and not because of other more important aspects ex: personality, capability blalala peace out yo ;) goodluck finding ur perfect partner (not the one the TV tell u so).

  • 258 jen! // Feb 4, 2009 at 6:12 pm


    ahahah yeah australia has better looking people than usa (both asian and white) but us asians really hang around with one another more, but both races have great looking people.

    to me good looking people should date good looking people haha ^_^

  • 259 Ash--white grl in an asian girls body // Feb 9, 2009 at 5:14 pm

    As an asian girl, i’ve tried to date white guys and they just aren’t my cup of tea. GREAT to oogle though!!!

    Perhaps it was the few i chose, but lemme tell ya not much going on up there. And while Asian guys won’t tell their parents until you’re practically living together, white guys don’t really give me that intellectual banter i love so much.

    P.S. i had no clue i was Asian until about 7th grade AWESOME!!

  • 260 To sophia // Feb 12, 2009 at 6:50 pm

    I’m an asian guy and I prefer white women. One thing I noticed is that unlike asian women who date white (they have lower standards as long as theyre white), white women who date asian guys have higher standards (generally speaking).

    I think white women are the hottest race of women, but other women (asian, black, latina) are okay too.

  • 261 WhiteGuywithanAsianFetish // Feb 12, 2009 at 8:02 pm

    I agree with most of this. I find this Article Very Interesting. I’ve had an Asian Fetish since 8th Grade. Now Im dating a Beautiful Hmong Girl this Year. I’ve noticed by hanging out with their friends that they are Very Quiet. I must admit I am getting used to Interracial dating. I have noticed their high voices .

    Lmao I have told me Parents but she Is waiting to tell hers, I totally understand. I know that we won’t be going on any dates or to any dances though. But that doesn’t matter to me. Right now I am just trying to get to know her.

  • 262 WhiteGuywithanAsianFetish // Feb 12, 2009 at 8:07 pm

    Also, to Sophia, I am having a hard time on what you mean by standards. Just because a Person is White or Black or Latino, or because they Male or Female does not explain anything about how they are. So how could you say anything about Standards. I’ll admit I’ve seen Asian who I wouldn’t date, because they didn’t meet my “Standards”. Then there are White Females I wouldn’t date because they Didn’t Meet my “Standards”.

    Race should not determine your standards. You should Mature before you get into any of that.

  • 263 To sophia // Feb 13, 2009 at 7:32 am

    To WhiteGuywithanAsianFetish:

    1. If race shouldn’t matter or determine your standards, why do you have such an Asian fetish and obsession of that particular race? Why not black? Latino? White? So obviously race does determine YOUR standards. Don’t tell me to mature when you’re one an the asian fetish. LOL, no Asian girl wants a guy with an asian fetish. It’s really creepy. They in general, want to be treated the same way as white women when it comes to dating. Tip for ya, don’t ever come up to an asian girl and say: “I love asian women.”
    2. Doesn’t change the fact that you see a lot of ugly white old guys with Asian girls. It seems that asian girls are too busy throwing themselves at any white guy that they actually DON’T have standards. Don’t get me wrong though, there are quite a few good looking couples, but most of the time, the asian girl is just happy the guy is white. And mostly vice versa, a lot of asian fetish white guys go for asian girls even if she looked like a 12 year old boy. White women actually don’t have an asian fetish, or at least, not as high as white guys, therefore, their standards for asian men are the same as any other guy, because race isn’t a factor like fetishists are, who give +100 points just for being asian or white.
    3. I think it’s good for both races. White guys love asian girls, and asian guys love white girls. Asian Americans are just as tall, assertive, and muscular as white guys (look it up, nutrition made Asians much taller than their parents), and we can get white girls. The rate is actually 33% of Asian American guys get married to white women, 41% of AA women are marriedto white men. I’m actually currently dating a white woman right now, and I couldn’t be happier.
    4. Race shouldn’t matter, but if you speak about preference and fetishism, then maybe you shouldn’t be the one to talk.

  • 264 To Kim #242 // Feb 14, 2009 at 8:33 pm

    ****Guys, the fact you even had to post a website about girls loving asian cock (for money)****

    You do know that male porn actors get paid too, right? Now put that in your pipe and smoke it!

    The only reason most asian guys stick with asian women is because of pride and loyalty. After seeing Asian women denounce them and act as cum-dumpsters for white guys, they’re really starting to reconsider. Asian Americans are now bigger, taller, and more confident. They can easily get white women, and the 6 figure income and their master’s degrees don’t hurt either.

    Now Eat that! Asian guys, when you date your white woman, treat her like a princess, they deserve it. ;) Just don’t spoil them, sometimes they need a little discipline ;)

  • 265 Anonymous // Feb 14, 2009 at 9:49 pm

    Guy who wrote the last comment it will never be close to even in interracial dating azn guys will ALWAYS be bottom of the table. There is so much data proving azn boys are least attractive but I suppose you will continue living in your deluded world where azn boys are “movin up”. just today when I was out I saw about 20 interracial couples with white guys who are boning their little azn princess, yet all the azn boys i saw were by themselves. Face the facts white guys will always be bigger taller more confident and always get the chicks both asian and white. Sorry but someone had to tell you the truth.

  • 266 ^^To Anonymous // Feb 14, 2009 at 11:27 pm

    Awww, how cute, a white guy (or asian girl) trying to delude his/her mind by denying the obvious. It’s okay though, you don’t have to be jealous of us asian guys. Hahaha, just take a look at all the proof:

    1. Asian people are getting bigger and taller due to nutrition and higher standards of living. Guess what? The tallest man in the world is Asian – Bao Xishun. And the tallest man in the NBA, and all of sports – Yao Ming.

    Eat it.

    2. The penis size issue? Haha, you guys were wrong about our height, what makes you so sure you’re right about this one? Prepubescent boys you banged touring through Southeast Asia aren’t representative of the whole Asian demographic.

    3. White women are increasingly being interested in us Asian guys. We’re taller, bigger, confident, more Americanized, exotic, rich. You name it, we’ve got it. And dear god, I hope you don’t watch the Gosselin family, where the blonde wife even prefers her kids to look more Asian (LMAO)

    Oh, and just do a google search of these Asian stars:

    Lee Dong Wook
    Go Soo
    Joe Cheng
    Takeshi Kenishiro
    Kwon Sang Woo

    4. “Bottom of the table” of dating you say? LMAO… Sure, sure. Miss Universe 2005, Natalie Glebova (DAMN!! She is the hottest white woman I’ve ever seen!!) is married to an Asian guy. Yes, Miss Universe, one of the hottest women in the world, married to an Asian guy. Not to mention Al Gore’s Daughter and Jessica Rudd (Kevin Rudd’s Daughter) both married Asian guys.

    So “bottom of the table”? When all these quality and high-status women are marrying us? Don’t make me laugh my ass off!!! Hahaha

    And good luck with banging those self loathing Asian girl cum-dumpster sluts.

    ***Whatever you call it, there’s plenty of literature out there telling white men that we slant-eyed princesses are the exotic, submissive, and hypersexualized women of their dreams.****

    The author even says this, LMAO!!! So she’s admitting to being a cumdumpster of white men. And who respects that? Absolutely no one. So really, it’s Asian women who are at the bottom of “the table” and there’s really nothing to brag about.

    So really, be happen with your self loathing Asian cum dumpster, while we go get quality white women like Natalie Glebova who enjoy our sexy bodies, exotic looks, intelligence, and six figure incomes. Good luck!

  • 267 Depp // Feb 15, 2009 at 1:30 pm

    Due to all the fakers online especially the kind this site draws in we need a hall of shame like they have on asiafinest. To the guys on here yes there are some white girls who do like asian guys but I want to post something by jareth chong about the subject. In this instance someone on asiafinest posed as a white girl by stealing some girls myspace pictures.

    “Let me try to explain AS CLEARLY AS POSSIBLE:

    The girl you see in the pictures–her name is NOT Renae. The REAL name of the girl in those picture is JESSICA. The pictures belong to JESSICA (i.e., refer to the first post in this thread.) Now, JESSICA (whose pictures were stolen and being used in here and at MySpace) is a COMPLETE stranger to this place. Most likely, JESSICA does NOT care for or about Asian men or anything Asian. Someone stole JESSICA’s pictures, use those pictures as his/her own, and then call herself/himself “Renae”–in here and at MySpace.

    In here, we have “PureXtasy” who stole Jessica’s pictures and call herself “Renae” (i.e., her banner used to identify herself as “Renae”.) At MySpace, we coincidentally have another Renae, who also stole Jessica’s pictures. Both Renae’s (in here and at MySpace) happen to be into Asian men; both Renae’s happen to have stolen JESSICA’s pictures. Now, use some common sense, and you should realize that BOTH Renae’s (in here and at MySpace) are the SAME person–the SAME person who stole Jessica’s picture, the SAME person who have pretended to be a white chick who is into Asian men. PureXtasy (in here) and Renae (at MySpace) are the same FAKER.

    QUOTE(Tami @ Jun 28 2005, 08:42 AM)
    …a myspace group for white women who like Asian men (…=20050628074029 )

    There are all sorts of online groups out there. Do you know there are online groups for people who have a fetish to roleplay as household furniture? Those weirdos just like to stay still at one spot and do not move for a few hours at a time to pretend that they are household furniture (like coffee table or sofa couch.) They think that is a turn-on. There are all sorts of niche online groups: there are groups for people who want to marry their pets; there are groups for people who talk to their plants; there are groups for people who think they are reincarnations of historical figures.

    As you can imagine, there are not that many people who are into those weird $hits. However, there are enough of them to get together and form a presence and start a group online. I am not saying that a group like “White Women who are into Asian Men” is a niche group like “People who get turned on roleplaying as furnuture” or “People who want to marry their pets.” However, let face the fact: “White women who are into Asian men” is not something that is even remotely mainstream (like “Asian women who are into White men”, “White women who are into Black Men”, or “White women who are into Latin men”.) So, when you see a hot white chick coming in an Asian forum and flirting and teasing Asian guys, you should keep a clear head and be VERY suspicious of her.

    I personally don’t have too much faith in those “White women who are into Asian guys” groups or whatever. Let me tell you a couple true stories: A few years ago, in another Asian forum, a bunch of frustrated Asian dudes started some online group. Those dudes were talking about doing it for some time, and then they finally did it. To me, it was obvious that they were hoping to use that group as a front to hook up with White girls, something they were not able to do in real life, which was fine: people do what people’ve gotta do. So I headed over to that new group they started to check it out. I saw that the group founders were “white women”! Those darn Asian dudes pretended to be white women and started a group for “White women who are into Asian men” to try to get other white women to join!! What is THAT about?!?

    The second true story: there was another (porn) site of a now-quite-well-known Asian man having sex with white women and taking a lot of pictures of it. A lot of Asian guys in here probably know about that guy and his website. Anyway, on his website, he would brag about how he, as an Asian guy, was being a stud, picking up white chics left and right, taking them home and baging them. He would take pictures of the sex and post them online. Well, I knew those chicks. Those chicks were PROFESSIONALS who worked in the PORN business. I recognized those chicks because I knew people who actually worked in the porn business. That Asian dude PAID those chicks to have sex with him. He is definitely NOT a stud. (Sorry to pop your bubble if you wanted to believe he was a real stud.)

    So, I have a realistic attitude about all those websites and groups that proclaim the “sexiness” of Asian men or how Asian men are in demand. I know better. There is A LOT of smokescreens and deceptions going on in those places, and the ego and pride (AND denial) of Asian men play a huge factor in it.

    Sorry for being so despicably honest.”

  • 268 ^^^To bitterwhitemale // Feb 15, 2009 at 4:35 pm

    And your point in all of this? Nothing! Still doesn’t change the fact that 33% of American born Asian males marry Caucasian women, compared to 41% of Asian females (US census 2006). Still doesn’t change the fact that we ARE hooking up with hot, high status white women such as Miss Universe Natalie Glebova, Andrea Lowell (Playboy model), Julia Stegner (Victoria’s Secret model), et cetera et cetera.

    It’s okay, you can quit deluding yourself otherwise by saying that Asian guys are faking to be white women and joining a couple groups on the internet. Just know that somewhere out there, 33% of Asian American guys are banging their white wives, while right now, an Asian guy is banging Ms. Universe 2005 and a playboy model. It’s okay, don’t let that huge vein in your forehead burst.

    You can make excuses to say that Asian guys are faking to be white women on the net all you’d like, but if you look in these groups themselves (facebook, myspace, etc,) the pics don’t lie, with lots of really intimate pictures between an Asian guy and a white woman ;)

    1. The tallest men in the world are Asian guys (Wouldn’t be surprised if the biggest p*nis belonged to an Asian guy either)

    2. On average, Asian men make the most money and are very picky with their women (social status and security) explaining the reason why we see Asian guys with the hottest and high status women.

    3. Face it, it’s okay, you want to be an Asian guy, I understand. We’re gonna rule the world in the next 50 years as China, the sleeping Giant, is waking up. JFK predicted this and it’ll happen.

    Now put that in your pipe and SMOKE it!

  • 269 Mason // Feb 16, 2009 at 3:45 pm

    I know they say the thing about Asian men’s privates, and it might be true for some, as it is for White and Hispanic men, but it is only because the Asian vagina is shaped like this — sideways, and it just works better. White men have the same average size as Asian men, so it works out. I’m a White man who has had too many Asian women to count, and everytime, they ask me to do it sideways, and you just get tired of it. Give me a good ole white gal any day.
    And yes, it is true also: they think they are gonna turn white when I cum in them. I’ve never met any person who were more ashamed to walk outside without a white person. When you yell chink or gook at them, they are pretty much saying–yes, I hate me too.

  • 270 maplestory ftw // Feb 18, 2009 at 9:55 am

    maplestory ftw

    im addicted now

  • 271 Jinsic // Feb 19, 2009 at 10:26 am

    this is funny. now its hard to tell which post is real, and which are fake. too much like the Chinese BBS

  • 272 Tony // Feb 27, 2009 at 5:48 pm

    I have only known one “White-washed” Asian girl who dates White exclusively. She was good looking but that was pretty much it. She didn’t want kids, was kind of laid back, and lazy. I’d call her to go hang out at 11:45am and she’d still be sleeping. If she was impressive both academically and physically, I would’ve pursued her with all my time and resources but she just wasn’t the type of girl I’d bring home to mom and sisters. Maybe she just didn’t want to hook up with an Asian guy because she wouldn’t want to be judged by an Asian guy’s parents and his financially successful sisters whereas if she hooked up with a White guy, she might not be judged as much.

    I think she might even be a golddigger looking for a easy way out. She didn’t like the fact that I addressed her as “babe” one time. She said, “I’m nobody’s baby”. She has an independent attitude but says that she “wanted a guy that knows what he’s doing with his life”. So she doesn’t want kids, wants to travel the world, expects a guy to take care of her, and calls herself an independent woman? That just bothers me. I can’t help but wonder if most Asian women who date White have this kind of attributes.

  • 273 The Accomplice // Mar 5, 2009 at 1:52 pm

    Lol Man, these posts here are pure entertainment. The majority of you are very superficial, closed-minded and selfish.

    You guys crack me up!

  • 274 Will // Mar 9, 2009 at 1:14 am

    Here’s why Asian girls go with White guys. It’s because Asian guys are extremely picky and they stay single for a long time. A tall good looking Asian guy with good income will definitely be picky. He’s aware of his own self-worth and he might as well be a player. A tall good looking Asian guy that has NO money is gonna be picky. A short ugly Asian guy but does HAVE money is gonna be picky.

    High maintenanced Asian girls are picky as well. I’ve seen Chinese/Taiwanese girls ride through their 20s until they find a guy regardless of race who has the income that can support their lifestyle. They’ll spend their 20s shopping around until they hit the jackpot and if they don’t by their 30s, no Asian guy would want her anymore because now she’s old and she might even have been used and dumped by non-Asian guys who played her to get into her pants. The circle of life.

  • 275 Max // Mar 11, 2009 at 2:21 pm

    After reading through these posts, I can see that most of those posting got completely off subject. However, the way people really feel did seem to come out. The real issue here isn’t Asian / White relations. It is Man /Woman relations. Do you notice how many woman that have posted in this forum have made comments that a man needs to be some certain minimum height? Such as a man must need to be at least 5′ 8″ tall. Yet those same women use unsavory words to describe the man who only wants to date a woman of a certain minimum smallness. Such as she must be a size 2 or smaller. There lies the true double standard amongst the people in this blog. Women feel it is OK for them to define the characteristics that a man must have, but if a man defines the characteristics that a woman must have, that makes us shallow, and we “need to get a life” or we “need to grow up”.

  • 276 Chinese Girl // Mar 11, 2009 at 6:06 pm

    Name says it all, chinese girl, living in Canada. I prefer white guys and have only really considered white guys because they’re usually funny, outgoing, and more aggressive in general. They stick up for you and defend you more often and their legs aren’t thinner than mine. They’re also more willing to pay for things and less stingy. They show a lot more interest in your culture/background and show more affection.

  • 277 Asians are Marrying More Asians // Mar 11, 2009 at 11:09 pm

    Quote from the article:

    “Although interracial marriages overall have increased, the rate of Hispanics and Asians marrying partners of other races declined in the past two decades. ”


    “The number of native- and foreign-born people marrying outside their race fell from 27 to 20 percent for Hispanics and 42 to 33 percent for Asians from 1990 to 2000″


  • 278 Anonymous // Mar 13, 2009 at 4:13 am

    Haha yea im so sick of all these wgwag
    (white guys with asian girls)

  • 279 Dude // Mar 15, 2009 at 12:56 am

    LOL Chinese girl, what a dumb little bimbo you are. As for aggressiveness, that isn’t a racial trait. Anyone can be aggressive. Also, as for being interested in Asian culture, white guys are more into Asian culture than Asian dudes are? Gimme a break little bimbo, you’re just a whitewashed girl

  • 280 binni3 // Mar 15, 2009 at 5:08 am

    i imagine chinese girl to look like margaret cho, ive noticed that its always the big moon headed, stumpy round bitches that are the first to white worship and put down the asian man because she was rejected by other asians, she absolutely doesnt fit the asian standard of beauty thats displayed in asian media and that makes her ANGRY…

  • 281 Gab // Mar 17, 2009 at 1:41 pm

    Many modern East-Asian cultures favours androgynous looking guys (I.e. guys with soft and rather feminine looking pretty faces), and there are lots of them there perhaps due to sexual-selection by the women. Search up popular artists such as Flumpool, Miyavi, Fahrenheit, Jae Joon, Lee Joon Ki, etc..on google or youtube…and yes they are all men and East-Asian girls go crazy for them.


    In contrast, the more westernised East Asians born in non modern East-Asian cultures however tend to go for those big bulky macho hairy hyper-masculine men, like those guys in Hollywood or Bollywood.

    The few pretty south-east asian girls who look more east-asian due to mixing (with migrating Chinese during ancient times) still prefer macho men.

  • 282 That Dude! // Mar 17, 2009 at 9:31 pm

    Asian women need to read “White Mans Burden” by Rudyard Kipling. Its about how colonial minded white people view non-Whites, specifically S.E. Asians, as racially inferior and how its white peoples right to rape and pillage Asians and their land. They call Asians “Half-Devils.” It was written in the 1800′s. Please read it.

    Also watch the movie “Rabbit Proof Fence.” Its a true story about how “white” government tried to get rid of non-white by “breeding them out of existence,” meaning: white people had a right to rape non-white women.

  • 283 GOD // Mar 17, 2009 at 9:37 pm

    When the war between Asians and Whites begin, which side will you choose?

  • 284 Billy 'Redneck" Bob // Mar 17, 2009 at 11:28 pm

    Is that really you GOD??? This is probably the one and only intelligent comment on this topic… bar mine, Peace be With You LoL

  • 285 JESUS // Mar 18, 2009 at 11:16 pm

    Dear God,

    I will choose the Asians


  • 286 Jodi // Mar 19, 2009 at 2:26 am

    I lost track of all the arguments made bhy previous posters. I am as white a chick as you’ll ever find: born and raised in Georgia with unbroken bloodlines back through England and (unfortunately) France. I’ve ALWAYS been attracted to Asian men, as has my best friend, another whiter than white girl.
    My husband is Filipino, his children are mixed and absolutely beautiful. His stepson is also mixed (white and Vietnamese) and about the handsomest guy around. Not as handsome as my husband, though.
    I know plenty of white women who find Asian men desirable, sexy and attractive. We just never thought we’d have a chance to find one who’d give us the time of day. I find specimens in all colors of men attractive, but am especially drawn to Asian men. I even play the Onimusha games just because Takeshi Kineshiro is HOTTT! We watch a lot of Asian movies and my husband always gives me a “Hot Asian Guy” alert whenever any Asian men are on the television or in a movie. So don’t think there aren’t white girls who are into Asian men. We’re all around. You just have to let us know you wouldn’t mind us approaching you.

  • 287 Jinsic // Mar 19, 2009 at 5:45 am

    I’m pretty sure some of these posts are made to rile ppl up; very likely by the so-called asian females/white male.

    Most recently the ‘chinese girl’ in 276 is probably fake. That living in a cave-like mentality should’ve gotten her a darwin award already. Or she’s a divorced single asian mother who hasnt woken up to face reality.

    And to the dude above who say all denominators of asian guys are picky. Speak for yourself I’m fking desperate.

    I think more asian guys should get into David Deangelo stuff & the like to improve their appeal toward all women. White guys invented that stuff, use it on asianamerican women and, surprise!!! it works on them. Especially the ‘independant’ asian american women whose mentality doesn’t stretch too far from the typical white women.

  • 288 To Jinsic // Mar 20, 2009 at 8:57 pm

    Im pretty sure most of the posts on here are fake especially those claiming to be women e.g jodi, chinese girl etc, if you think it through most normal women dont go on these websites (granted their are some weidos about), its usually the domain of bitter asian guys and white guys trying to get a rise out of it.

    I do have a question for people who post all the stats, some guy above wrote 33% of American born Asian males marry Caucasian women, compared to 41% of Asian females. Where the hell are all those asian guys with white girls? If it was 33% to 41% this whole white guy with asian girl thing would not even be a big deal. Its only 8% difference. I could swear when I go out sometimes i see around 50 white guys with asian girls and almost never the other way. But according to those stats it shouldn’t be uncommon to see the opposite, can anyone explain this?

  • 289 Jun-Chan // Mar 20, 2009 at 9:14 pm

    Many modern East-Asian cultures favours androgynous looking guys (I.e. guys with soft and rather feminine looking pretty faces), and there are lots of them there perhaps due to sexual-selection by the women. They also seem to age at a much slower rate relative to other people. Search up popular artists such as Flumpool, Miyavi, Fahrenheit, Jae Joon, Lee Joon Ki, etc..on google or youtube…and yes they are all men and East-Asian girls go crazy for them.

    Some examples are:

    And they have super-hot hairstyles.

    In contrast, the more westernised East Asians born in non modern East-Asian cultures however tend to go for those big bulky macho hairy hyper-masculine men, like those white guys in Hollywood or Bollywood.

  • 290 Malley // Mar 21, 2009 at 12:57 am

    The issue at hand is self esteem. Most oriental women the exception being Japaneese have low self esteem and they feel that in order to become beautiful is to become white. The only whites that have a tendency to mix with asians are anglo-saxon whites. All other whites are disgusted and have racist attitudes towards asians. Where I live in Canada it’s not uncommon to see asian women with white men but in french canada it is not going to happen and asian women have been known to complain about this because white men in french canada have a tendency to date black women if not one of their own. So this shows to prove you that asian women have low self esteem.

  • 291 Anonymous // Mar 22, 2009 at 12:34 am

    To Jinsic:

    You want to know why there seems to be such a disparity? Take a look at the banner above this post that says “Find Your Thai Beauty Today!”

    Then, do a quick google search for “Asian internet brides” and “Thai Brides” and see what comes up. Literally, MILLIONS of hits like this one:

    It’s not only on the internet. You go to SE Asia, and you will see the brick and mortar “dating services” that cater to mostly white guys from Europe and the U.S. that go there to find the women in person. And these business are THRIVING.

    Go ahead, and do a little bit of research. We are talking about women in the hundreds of thousands who have been brought to the U.S. just in the last few years alone.

    Or, you can conduct a little research on your own. Next time you see an af/wm couple, or an Asian woman with happa babies, I guarantee you, that a significant number of times, the woman will have a pretty thick accent.

    Remove these women from the equation, and I think you’ll see that the disparity won’t be that great.

    Again, seriously, do some research and you’ll see what I’m talking about.

  • 292 C // Mar 22, 2009 at 8:45 am

    Dont worry. one day i will set up agencies in eastern europe that caters to rich asian men. Romanian brides, czech brides, russian brides. Muahahahas. And dont forget the asians on white girls bdsm plan i have in mind. Asia is becoming richer and more powerful and i see it possible. btw When it comes to bdsm nobody does it better than the japanese. What u dare do upon us we dare do upon u.

  • 293 c // Mar 23, 2009 at 12:24 am

    Wad a douche delete my comments… fear me???hahas
    Russell Peters: your mother is so fat that when she jump for joy she got stuck
    Me: white boys, my penis is so small that when it sneaks into your wifes *hole* you dont even know what hit u

  • 294 c // Mar 23, 2009 at 12:30 am

    One day when i have power i will enslave all your white girls, tie them up and circumsize them. The day will come when even my small penis will make them bleed and scream in pain. Ever heard of labia reduction surgery??? like they say what u dont have naturally u can make it up with technology. muahahahas

  • 295 c // Mar 23, 2009 at 12:32 am

    That day will come when we dont even need a hung lo to satisfy u. U reduce ur *hole* for us. Dont do it? we will force u. hahas

  • 296 Heat Moon // Mar 24, 2009 at 4:09 pm

    ‘c’ has enough bitterness in him to feed a fascist army. i was enjoying all the posts up until now. presently, i’ll go take a warm shower and try to forget that nasty bit about enslaving white girls and circumsizing them :(

  • 297 To To Jinsic // Mar 25, 2009 at 4:41 pm

    go to asiannationDOTcom (replace the DOT with .) and they have statistics for interracial. The disparity between american born asians marrying white is about equal for both sexes. But what you may see around is mail order brides/war brides etc, because fobby women tend to have better luck with white guys than fobby men with white girls. They steal our women we steal theirs :) It’s all fair. White girls are hot :) White guys, please don’t neglect white girls. Make more :)

  • 298 I HATE ASIANS LOL // Mar 25, 2009 at 10:28 pm

    I’m white, I’m male, I’m straight and I like Asian chicks no ifs, buts or maybes. Why???
    Well it’s not rocket science. It’s not because I can’t get white chicks. It’s not because I have some deluded stereotype mindset. It’s not because I have a fetish. It’s EXACTLY the same reason I prefer being heterosexual than homosexual, yet no-one in this politically correct world interrogates me about THIS choice. It’s SIMPLY because I DO. I’ll even DUMB IT DOWN for those that cannot quite grasp this simple fact. It’s an extension of my sexuality… I choose to have sexual relations with women, NOT men… I just prefer asian chicks over white chicks! It’s amusing if not a tad boring that people seem fascinated discussing this simple choice to the nth degree! We don’t go on and on about why some guys choose to be homos, while others choose to be straight. Did ANYONE ever consider that it MAY NOT be a CHOICE????

  • 299 I HATE ASIANS LOL // Mar 25, 2009 at 10:32 pm

    And, by the way, Asian chicks are generally far hotter than white chicks!!! GOD, thankyou making Asian chicks!!!

  • 300 HAHAHA..! // Mar 25, 2009 at 10:59 pm

    I’m sorry.., but most of the kids I seen that are asian/white are ugly as hell… Their families even make fun of them… I hope mine doesn’t turn out that way…

  • 301 HAHAHA..! // Mar 25, 2009 at 11:04 pm

    Oh… and good luck with the Asian girls… (asian girls are a bunch of psycho..! ) rather have white girl… they’re more freaky in bed…

  • 302 I HATE ASIANS LOL // Mar 26, 2009 at 1:53 am

    Well Mr HAHAHA, I hope that I don’t make any of those horrible ugly little EURASION rug rat critters then!!! Love the comment on white chicks being more freaky in bed… I WOULD NOT know!!! Maybe I’m just attracted to psychos LOL

  • 303 I HATE ASIANS LOL // Mar 26, 2009 at 2:02 am

    Oh… just an afterthought… are there any educated asian chicks out there that have an opinion on Mr HAHA’s comment about YOU ALL being psycho??? Or… less freaky regards the mattress mambo???

  • 304 HapAvenger // Mar 26, 2009 at 11:37 am

    How many people who commented would openly state publicly what you said on this site? The disconcerting thing is that if you met the people who made these comments, you would never know it. If you hold such strong convictions about race relations concerning the Asian community, go ahead and publicly voice your opinion. If you hesitate, perhaps it is due to the fact that your opinion has faults. The reason why stereotypes continue is because in some way they reinforce what is politically correct.

  • 305 I HATE ASIANS LOL // Mar 26, 2009 at 4:01 pm

    I can’t speak for everyone on this site, but I generally make a point of challenging anyone publicly if I am ever confronted with what I consider ill informed, ignorant or racist comments regarding the asian community. Anyone in the US of A ever hear of the political candidate ‘Pauline Hanson?’ Well, there are a lot of Australians in SE Queensland that have racist views about the asian community based on ‘stereotypes’. So, though stereotypes my have certain positive aspects, they certainly fuel rascist attitudes and discriminatory behaviour, primarily based on IGNORANCE! Really, what’s the big deal with white guys dating/marrying asian chicks and vice versa? All that really matters is that we treat others as we would like to be treated ourselves… with RESPECT, irrespective of who likes what…zzzzzzzzzzzz

  • 306 HAHAHA..! // Mar 27, 2009 at 2:26 am

    Well said…ZzzzzZ…

  • 307 artsy asian camcorder // Mar 27, 2009 at 8:15 pm

    i’m asian… i asked an asian girl out once… she said she only dated white guys because they have confidence in asking a girl out, unlike the asians… yeah… she said that to an asian guy who just asked her out

    i think a lot of people on here are fake… like post 244 which actually got my attention… and made me a bit upset.. think he is living in a sexual fantasy or something

  • 308 Anonymous // Mar 28, 2009 at 9:36 pm

    305) yeah, the guy sounds totally fake. it’s probably a white guy and his fantasy like you say. Or someone who’s trying to make white guys look bad. Both pretty pathetic.

    Most guys/girls who join Asian frats/sororities do so cuz they want to support Asian/Asian American culture, history, awareness, etc. And they like hanging out with and dating other Asians.

    The Asian girls who are into white guys join white sororities.

  • 309 jinsic // Mar 31, 2009 at 2:22 pm

    To Hapavenger

    You know what? I would. I would openly, publicly take on any idiot with a baseless argument against why this disparity exists.

    And Linda Chen, I have looked in the eyes of women who walk around with non-asians and they do look away, majority of them. They pretend that they are in their own world, they are.

    Though theres a small percentage of asian women who date non-asians that fall out of this loop, majority who do it are:

    -pompous, and look down on asian males
    -racially self-loathing
    -had some bad relationships prior with asian men and assume thus
    -undersexed and believe that whites have higher libidos and can meet their needs
    -mentality believe that sleeping around with whites is their guilty pleasure(no gossip, no one knows etc)

    (read those again, and stop lying to yourself, if you 100% that not even a little of those bit are the reasons subconscious or not, then congratulations, you fall in the small group of decent people)

    but why disturbed their otherwise ‘perfect’ world. Let them figure it out for themselves if they ever will. We all have our good and bad experiences. If you ****up in life for the wrong reasons.. live with it. Dont wave your self-righteous flag for the wrong reasons, trying to get back at an ex, pissing other ppl off. assuming you’re superior to the opposite sex of your own race.

    I already mentioned I’ve seen plenty of mix-relationships gone wrong.

    And ugly mixed kids dont get mention much, but they do exist.

    Good riddance to you who blindly believe that being with white males is great and end up with a ****ed up life later on single and old and only as a sex object.

    Good luck to those who succeed in a beautiful reltionship thus.

    btw, this is from my experience in nyc.

    dont know how valid it is for the rest of the world.

  • 310 Heat moon sucks // Apr 1, 2009 at 7:22 am

    I suck. I havent bathed for a year. Now Im gonna take a shower cos my vagina stinks.

  • 311 Heat moon // Apr 1, 2009 at 7:25 am

    To c: I wanna feed ur facist army with my juice… May I?

  • 312 c // Apr 1, 2009 at 7:26 am

    No!!! ur cunt stinks… Go to hell!

  • 313 c // Apr 1, 2009 at 7:36 am

    I love white girls and I love my asian mummies even more. But not u heat moon. ur cunt stinks. Go to hell. AND Fuck all that white trash with the pale soft dick as well!! Obama will hunt u DOWN, With the African Invasion.

  • 314 maplestory ftw // Apr 8, 2009 at 2:54 am

    “When the war between Asians and Whites begin, which side will you choose?”


    asians for sure

    it’s like your parents, even if you had a very bad fight with the end still ur parents

    even if some people hate their race (for wateva reason) they can’t change their blood unless they commit suicide so they dont have to be their race

    just a loyal issue and personality thing

  • 315 maplestory ftw // Apr 8, 2009 at 2:56 am

    imo when ppl start to grasp the above concepts that’s when they are truly mature

  • 316 stereomanic // Apr 8, 2009 at 7:25 pm

    i’m all for the white girls for the asian men..i think chinese would rule the world, one race at a time…soon we all will have squinty eyes and love anime…E

  • 317 Quiet Asian Man // Apr 8, 2009 at 10:52 pm

    There are definitely a lot of trolls here.

    This discussion is done to death, and it looks like so many in here are still toiling in bitterness.

    Please get rid of your ‘bitter asian man’ syndrome you fools.

    The propensity for out-marriage for Asian men (i.e. Asian male/white female pairings) varies from one part of the world to another. Even within the same country, it varies from city to city. I just wanted to point that out.

  • 318 wow. // Apr 12, 2009 at 12:39 am

    I have an issue with happa babies being considered the greatest thing next to sliced bread because white bread is their father.
    1. First, I’m sorry, but happa babies are not the cutest things in the world… maybe to their parents because they have to love them, but not in general. I live in an area where you see a lot of Asian/white pairing… my university is 40% Asian (mostly Asian women to white men) and out of all the happa babies I see less than 10% are super cute. Honestly, some kids are pretty weird looking… we always point them out… not Asian but not white either with a really weird combination of features. So yeah, I guess you can make that a justification for a relationship but most people won’t buy it.

    2. Second, the emphasis on “cute” happa babies as a bright note in an Asian/White paring super bothers me because its SO implied that non mixed Asian babies aren’t as cute, and that the reason for their genetic progress is due to the mixture with white blood. MESSED UP. This emphasized by the very Asian women whose people it undermines. HAVE SOME SELF-WORTH. Maybe there are reasons to due the strict patriarchal tendencies in your culture that you date white me, but there is NO REASON for such obvious and detestable self-hate being expressed through the categorization of happa babes.

    Lastly, Asian and white parents sometimes gloat over their kids as some exotic achievements… but from what I’ve seen sometimes it’s really hard for these kids to be accepted… white people think they’re Asian and Asian don’t think they’re really Asian … so they’re somewhere in the middle.

    I just think the whole happa kids are AWESOME justification is absurd and people who make it shouldn’t assume everyone is as dellusional as them.

  • 319 Zaca // Apr 20, 2009 at 11:30 pm

    Besides being super-nice and smart(generally speaking), Asian women also age extremely well. It’s great to feel like you’re always going to find your partner sexy. Asian women are incredibly attractive for plenty of reasons but many older Asian women have the bodies of teenagers!

  • 320 Zero // Apr 26, 2009 at 5:39 pm

    I prefer asian girls because their proportions are more petite. I’m under the 5’5 mark, so asian girls are in my range of height. Girls of different ethnicity are fine too. I don’t mind a tall glass of sparkling water though. That’s the problem with stereotypes. Date or marry whoever you want. The heart is what matters. Besides, this world is filled with billions of people to choose from. Buffet style, first course, Japanese :)

  • 321 August // May 7, 2009 at 10:11 pm

    Where to begin…

    1) Pointing out the many prejudices and stereotypes of interracial dating, among other things, is seemingly futile; pessimism put aside, there is simply no reasoning with closed-minded people.

    2) Freud and psycho-analysis also put aside, it feels like there is a strong sense of entitlement with people passing their opinions off as a matter of fact. Perhaps we should be loyal to our race, or to our county, or some other equally questionable assertion. But perhaps we should pay more attention to why such criticisms are even being spoken; is there an agenda behind the unsolicited value judgments?

    3) Irrespective of what I say, prejudice and unfounded opinions are abound and will persist. But if people could move past their impulse to interject on the private lives and choices made by others, it would be a beautiful world to wake up in and discover love and happiness are-or at least should be–more important than nitpicking over the dating habits of and between the races.

    4) Notwithstanding, I met the love of my life simply attempting to learn to speak a different language. Somewhere between sharing our time together and experiencing a mutual interest to learn more about the other’s culture, history, etc., we grew an appreciation of all that made us different; but more importantly, we grew a greater appreciation for all that made us not so different. Beyond the empirical tangibles that we often use as criteria to judge others by, sometimes the essence of what is lost is that deep down, we’re all human seeking to love, learn, grow, understand, etc. Those who emphasize the racial dynamic as somehow being essential or even a factor for who and why we date, it would appear race only matters because these very same people find it–or perhaps make it–difficult to see anything beyond the tangible.

  • 322 Joey // May 8, 2009 at 12:01 pm

    I also am a Hapa, of a white dad and Japanese mom, and I rarely find myself attracted to Asian men. I have very little dating experience, but I just don’t find Asian men as attractive. There isn’t a feature that I can point out.

    My reasoning:
    Part of this is probably cultural…we rarely see Asian “studs” on TV.
    I grew up thinking Asians were white until the eighth grade.
    I grew up in white communities and had little interaction with ANY Asians.
    My mom was very bitter, and seemed to hate her Asianness, having refused to teach me Japanese, having had double-eyelid surgery, and not sharing any cultural information with me before she died.

    I think the latter is the most pertinent to me; I was taught that being Asian wasn’t something to be proud of and that I should assimilate to be white. I never had positive Asian role models and I feel disconnected to the culture often.

  • 323 justin // May 13, 2009 at 3:30 pm

    Im a handsome tall cauasian male myself and happen to also date a beautiful Chinese American but what I dont understand is that why so many of my white guys are selling themselves kind of short by the dating the unattractive asians girls and making us white males look kind of cheap like we’ll take anything we can get

  • 324 hgjgdjn // May 14, 2009 at 11:43 am

    justin u so funny

  • 325 louis // May 14, 2009 at 4:04 pm

    I am a gay black man. I like white boys a lot. They could be like Justin Timberlake, Bradd Pitt, Adam Lambert, or Orlando Bloom. At first I thought that Asian boys were ugly, but now I have plenty of Asians boys in my class and they are very good looking. When I was in High School there was only two Asian guys in the whole school. One was ugly the other was very handsome. In my first class, I saw a Asian boy who was extremeley good looking. He was Asian in behavior but black in his behavior. I now see this Asian boy in my class who is cute. He is very quiet so I stare at him. I have 2 cute Asoan boys in the class I just came from. Asians men tend to be very smart.

    I see many white guys boasting about being white in this blog like it is all that. Don’t get me wrong I love blue-eyed long haired white guys but you guys are not all that. In fact black men get a lot more white women than white men get black men. White men will try to say that this is only because white men are not into black women but that is not true. For over a 100yrs white men have been raping or having sex with black women, white men like Thomas Jefferson.

    The racist media has tried to portray whites as the most attractive of races. But white who I admit have some advantages in hair and eye color, have disadvantages too. White men are 4 times more likely than black, asian, or hispanic women. When whites have pimples , you see it more because their skin turns pink. Whites age less gracefully then any other race. White men also have more excess fat than black men.

    Whites pretend they are perfect but in really their not. The truth is that while racists whites tried to portray blacks as ugly, they tan their skin to be more black. They try to portray the black lip as too big but liposuction is such a big business in their neighborhoods. They try to portray back assses as too big but as soon as a big ass appear on their women they call it beautiful. Black women still try to be like white women, but black men have long stopped trying to be white and still with our so called kinky hair we still get a lot of women.

    The truth is, despite what the racists media says, white people have alwats longed for sexual relations with people they call exotic. Their is big business in sex tourism by which white men and women go to have sex with blacks in the caribbean. If you don’t believe look up sex tourism on the internet.

    For all you white men boasting of sexual conquests over Asian men, there is a lot of sex tourism that is white people of both genders paying top dollars for Asians of both genders. Despite all the media’s attempts, black men still greatly rival white men in the dating poll. Because I am attracted to white men I am not in favor of this argument, but a person could make the argument that the reason why so many asians women go to white guys because of their status and power. By contrasts whites will never ever be able to explain why white women love black men.

    The problem here is that Asian males back down and let it happen They don’t point out the white sex tourism toward them in Thailand. They sit there and place whites on their cartoons and try to be like them.

    I am not trying to be racist. In fac t I drool over pretty white boys. But they are not more attractive than any other race of men. Asian men need to be more assertive and less nerdy. I already told you guys about this Asian boy in my class who acted black. He was able to charm girls of all races through his charisma and looks. Asian men lack that charisma.

  • 326 Anonymous // May 15, 2009 at 12:36 am

    “whites will never ever be able to explain why white women love black men”

    Here’s one explanation, white women who go for black boys are usually the tuna that john west rejects. They have been rejected by white men so in turn go to black boys who don’t care how unnatractive these women are but only the fact that they are white. How often when u see those couples is it some ghetto looking black and some unnatractive overweight white woman who is desperate need of any human affection. Granted this is not the case all of the time but it is so common that it is a well known sterotype.

  • 327 louis // May 15, 2009 at 1:20 pm

    To you Mr Anonymous, explain this; whypretty white women like Kim Kardashian who is not overweight or ugly go out with black guys like Ray J who is not ugly of ghetto-looking. Another example is mrs Katy Perry.

    The point I am trying to make is that white people do their best to try to portray other races as ugly. They can’t admit when they are attracted to other races; but want other races to be attracted to them. Why can’t you see that every race has it’s pretty and ugly people of both genders and stop trying to portray one race’s people as uglier than the other.

    For all you asian men out there; I read an article the other day about how their were black-women and asian male communities that were prominant during the 1900′s. So don’t listen to the racists in this blog who state that you cannot attract other women.

  • 328 N. J. Nguyen // May 16, 2009 at 1:27 am

    Eh…my father is Vietnamese and my mother is Irish-Portuguese. A lot of people think I’m Spanish for some reason. The others think I’m all Asian. Culturally, I am completely American, with a known history of slight Lusophilia and Brasilophila [word?]. Anyway, for some reason I must admit a feeling of uneasyness over the whole phenomenon of white men and Asian women. I never actually ask an Asian girl out, assuming Pakistanis are not counted, and usually find myself the least attracted to Asian women, though there are many beautiful, yet there is something I feel is being taken. I won’t lie about it possibly having to do with a history of rejection, and seeing so little of my own combination compared to white men and Asian women repeatedly since childhood. I am not sure how things are elsewhere, but I am from working class Massachusetts and it was quite rare to see growing up. Personally, I’m just looking for a girl that is not going to lie [bad history], yet I still habour these odd feelings of this single mixture.

  • 329 William // May 16, 2009 at 3:02 pm

    Asian whores and their merely average male counterparts need to be exported out of the US.

  • 330 Mr Anonymous // May 16, 2009 at 7:01 pm

    Look Louis I’m not going to be harsh on you because either your a bit simple or had difficulty reading the entire 4 sentences I wrote. The examples you give are of celebrities which in any case Kim Kardashian is not white and Katy Perry is no longer together with Travis McCoy, I see what you were attempting to put forward but celebrities are not good examples as your sample size is so small. I could say that lots of white men date lots of black women based on celebrities and use Robert Deniro and David Bowie as examples but when it comes to what you see in everyday life its not the case.

    The sentence you conveniently missed; “Granted this is not the case all of the time but it is so common that it is a well known sterotype”

    I never said that the white women dating blacks are always unnatractive and overweight but from my observations of the couples I’ve seen this has been the case far more often than not.

  • 331 mike // May 18, 2009 at 3:13 am

    i boned lots of asian sluts..haha they lay there like a dead fish…the are just good cum recepticles..white people are lame..and asians are weak and small…the girls are just dogs waiting to be walked..

  • 332 Haha // May 18, 2009 at 4:31 pm

    Maybe they just layed there because…

    …you sucked? LOL!

  • 333 louis // May 21, 2009 at 3:07 pm

    Mr Anouymus you are a dumbass. Don’t you ever call me a simpleton again.

  • 334 louis // May 21, 2009 at 3:08 pm

    I missed Anonymous

  • 335 Mr Anonymous // May 21, 2009 at 8:35 pm

    HAHAHA Louis I didn’t even have to do anything, you just proved what a moron you are and not only by spelling anonymous wrong.
    You didn’t respond with an opposing argument or even anything coherent, just insuslts. There is no doubt that you are not only a simpleton, something I’m sure you’ve been told many times before but your another reason why retards should not be allowed to use computers.

    You will most likely respond to this with more insults as you have nothing intelligent to reply with, but that won’t come as a suprise.

  • 336 louis // May 22, 2009 at 3:44 pm

    Mr Anonymus you attack me for misspelling anonymus but you misspelled the word insults which you spelled as insuslts. I did prove your generalization to be rather dumb and stupid. First. Kim kardashian is white; Kardashian is of Armenian (father), Scottish and Dutch (mother) descent. Despite being white yourself, you are not smart enough to realize that there are light and dark-skinned variations in every race. As for your statement that blacks don’t care for looks is wrong. Most black men would not leave a beautiful, well shaped black woman for an ugly woman of any race. When they do go to white women; they go to attractive white women.

    You cite as an example the stereotype of fat white woman and black man but there are many other stereotypes that you racists have put out to scare whites from siding with blacks. For example ; President Eisenhower, when talking about Earl Warren’s ending of school segregation said to Earl Warren ”do you really want niggas near our white girls at school”

  • 337 asdf // Jun 1, 2009 at 1:15 am

    I’m sorry but white girls turn me off more and more each year. Even the ugly hags act like they’re god’s gift to men and expect you to buy them a drink. Asian girls are like a petite version of a good white girl, which is like an urban myth.

    I’ve lived all around the Pacific Northwest of the US and I’m used to seeing BIG OLE white gals with so many rolls of fat tucked up in their clothes — I could only imagine it would be like an avalanche having sex with them. The only dudes who’ll sleep with them are unemployed black guys and they know it. All I can say is “you can keep em”.

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  • 339 A Human Being // Jun 4, 2009 at 11:14 pm

    What is wrong with some of you people?
    You focus on stupid, shallow things like skin color or media-brainwashed perception of beauty.
    A lot of you cannot get it out of your simple minds that people are somehow confined to acting like they look.
    Many of you need to wake up and realize that every person is different and that this ridiculous primal need to group people into clans and defend them needs to stop.

    It’s 2009, not 1309!


  • 340 Steve // Jun 16, 2009 at 8:51 am

    It is worthwile to note that the white people here who claim that they have asian girlfriends are 2 types. Complete assholes who boast about the number of asian easy chicks they “fucked over” and the silly good family dads who keep repeating the bullshit that ‘it is just love it has nothing to do with race’, ‘ we have a beaaatifull baby!’.

    As a white guy i am ashamed of your fucking stupidness and shallowness.

    And you Asian chicks making stupid generalizations, just claim honestly that you are in control of the white supremacy racism bullshit.

  • 341 Steve // Jun 16, 2009 at 8:59 am

    And the asian chicks out there from the examples here you can be assured that your super smart, handsome, tall, aggresive etc. white male is possibly boasting in his vulgarity about how he fucked a lot of chicks like you on various conversations and online discussions.

    They are not as perfect as you see them through your amplified ubermensch white guy perception

  • 342 Oliver // Jun 16, 2009 at 8:59 pm

    Estella’s comment on fear doesn’t ring so true to me (although only she knows). Scott’s synopsis seems right on. It’s cultural influence for sure.

    If Asian culture had been the most widespread by 2009 (which it almost could have in near 1500′s, before political pressure called great sailing galleys back), perhaps 1/2 the world would be speaking Chinese now, instead of English.

    Then, to get any advantage in the world, people would be clutching at any Chinese persons arm instead of Europeans.

    More than European features, or Asian features or African, people like power and advantage, and that can be afforded by the most widespread and influential culture now – European (and this will not last for too long).

    Look at styles over the decades. People adopt styles whenever the style holds a great “advantage” to us and society. And, we switch when it is no longer in favor, or will bring us shame instead of praise. Even killing brings a soldier praise when at war, but not when they come home. Different culture. Different time. Just another example how people go for what will bring them “good”.

    This influences if they see it as appealing or not. Culture influences this.

    I’m glad these cultural bloggo’s started!!

  • 343 hoho // Jun 18, 2009 at 12:41 am

    I’m an east asian male. I ‘m probably attracted to 50% white femles, 5% black. 10%mulattos
    20% mestizos but only 1% my own race , why?

    hint: I mostly care about the face not the body.

    Ps : it’s taboo for my culture to like other races..

  • 344 gauche // Jun 19, 2009 at 10:31 pm

    quote:”To be honest the cutest Asian-mixed kids I’ve seen were Asian-black and Asian-Middle Eastern. ”
    asian-black = slanted eyed negro…

    middle eastern? if you refer to those such as iranians , they are probably whiter than today’s europeans

    quote:“White women who are into Black Men”
    black males are no much better than the yellows.
    they too don’t admit they love white women..
    a few exceptions..

    well, east asian men steal white women around the world , but never have admitted anything

  • 345 ACE99 // Jun 20, 2009 at 2:36 am

    The white guy – asian girl connection was a natural and normal one. Physically, petite women are attractive and taller men are attractive. Plus, whites and asians have similar values. Education, money, and family are requirements for us. Not so much with certain “other demographics.”

    Verdict: whites and asians rule, hispanics are ok after they assimilate, blacks are a pain in the ass no matter where they’re at. Even in other nations, they bring the same social ills to the equation. This *is* the culture that takes pride in rap music and having a criminal record.

  • 346 Lisa // Jun 22, 2009 at 7:59 am

    Most are self absorbed, rude, aggressive, up/down personalities and chose wimpy, head in shoulders, low self esteem, white boys to date–that way they have upper hand (employee-employer relationship) in dating/marriage. There also can be high degree of emotional/verbal abuse characterized by psychologists.

  • 347 Lisa // Jun 23, 2009 at 5:45 pm

    Also many of these white boys look at asian/oriental women as exotic sex objects for their conquer or a taste of variety sexually speaking. Some asiatic women love sexually acts and feel that white boys are better, higher libido’s etc…. notice the term white “boys” because that is what they are, and hence oriental “girls” because that is what they are. They are not men nor women, they are immature imbeciles that need to stop fornicating and start becoming productive citizens. enough hell kitty, sports, bbqs, and baseball caps backwards, looking for next orgasm, start becoming productive USA citizens. thank you.

  • 348 Curious // Jun 25, 2009 at 8:59 pm

    What do you consider “cute”? I hardly see “cute” asian girls dating white guys. I know beauty is an eyes of the beholder but it seems like white man are having trouble distinguish between ugly and exotic (short, flat face, super slenty eyes, short legs).

  • 349 tina y. // Jun 26, 2009 at 8:12 am

    I think some of these people need to listen to that great korean band song–Hot, hot issue, that was really good. rearry good.

  • 350 Gisele // Jun 28, 2009 at 11:49 am

    White guys are more aggressive than Asian guys. Asian guys tend to be really shy. I honestly like the go getter

  • 351 nadya // Jun 29, 2009 at 2:15 am

    does ethnicity really matter when it comes to love??? i jz dnt get it why ppl still make such a BIG ISSUE over asians with whites.

  • 352 Que // Jul 1, 2009 at 11:19 pm

    Heaven forbid society starts respecting the multitude of things that make humans nearly identical instead of obsessing about the few things that set us apart.

  • 353 Small Feet // Jul 3, 2009 at 1:42 pm

    check out this great documentary. its explains why asian girls want to be white, why they dye their hair blond, why they get eye lid surgery, etc.

  • 354 Quagmeyer // Jul 6, 2009 at 9:41 pm

    Could this possibly have something to do with the fact that 90% Asian on Asian porn out there involves an exotic looking babe with a poindexter-looking guy with a micro-penis? How can you watch that stuff and honestly find it erotic? An Asian girl must not feel anything at all. I also read that many Asians don’t do oral sex on their women. Wow, what a wonderful sex life!


  • 355 Argile // Jul 7, 2009 at 6:49 am

    I’ve had women tell me they didn’t like white guys because they lacked intellectual and emotional depth, i.e. they were meatheads. They were more obsessed with beer, and football, and the size of other people’s c*cks than they were with them.

    And I can’t believe I wasted 30 seconds of my life replying to you.

  • 356 Tony // Jul 8, 2009 at 2:26 am

    Japanese porn is whack. Since the production of porn is pretty much illegal in the rest of Asia, all we have is Japanese porn. You see, the Japanese have this weird knack for finding the ugliest and shortest Asian guys they can find to bang hot chicks. For some reason, this dominating of cute girls by ugly guys sells copies in Japan. It’s not easy finding quality Asian on Asian porn.

  • 357 jenny // Jul 11, 2009 at 9:42 am

    this is big issue in usa isnt

    1.asian guys
    2. white guys
    3. other

    i rank this due to both inner and outer attractiveness

  • 358 Anon // Jul 19, 2009 at 2:02 pm

    Get it right Mr Anonymous. The stereotype is that white women tend to fuck around with black guys in general. The whole “ugly” thing isn’t a factor. I’ve seen plenty of good looking white girls with black men as well as ugly ass white girls with white men. The opposite applying as well. I’m surprised that ignorant assholes like yourself actually have the intelligence to use the internet.

  • 359 Mr. Jewish // Jul 21, 2009 at 4:28 pm

    Respect is not given, its earned. this is why asian girls will never get respect…ever.

  • 360 Quagmeyer's pubic hair // Jul 21, 2009 at 9:15 pm

    Why is it that the hotest Asian girls here are usually only hanging out with other Asians and dating Asian guys and the average and below average Asian girls that like white men all think they are a lot hotter than they really are? Can someone explain this to me?
    Also, I’ve found, without fail the hottest Asian chicks (a few of whom I’ve dated) are more humble, likable, sexy, and cute. And the below average Asian girls all think that every white dude is in love with them! Even if they look like they have down syndrome they are expecting, tall, dark, handsome, with 6 pack abs and ivy league degrees. It’s really comical.

  • 361 Tyrone Banks // Jul 21, 2009 at 9:22 pm

    LOL, this clearly explains why so many nerdy, poor white guys are flocking to fugly asian woman. They simply cannot compete with black guys.

  • 362 Force Recon // Jul 22, 2009 at 5:42 pm

    This is what a typical white guy asian girl relationship looks like

  • 363 Lala // Jul 26, 2009 at 11:41 am

    It’s booming of Asian Immigrants. Thats all. Its the new thing to do. It will fade out like the white guy and latina girl.

  • 364 Navy Squeal // Jul 26, 2009 at 5:58 pm

    Persian girls are the new Asian. Asian girls are played out.

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  • 366 Surf // Aug 1, 2009 at 3:08 pm

    Check out this Asian guy and his White wife on the Maury show. Freakin’ hilarious.

  • 367 hall // Aug 1, 2009 at 11:56 pm

    wentworth miller is not half black. his father had a very small percentage of african american in him according to miller. most of his friends think he made this up to get a part.

  • 368 Divey // Aug 2, 2009 at 6:40 pm

    Isn’t it funny how a lot of asian girls claim to be “half white” when they really arent.

  • 369 White Male // Aug 3, 2009 at 2:25 pm

    I have no idea how to explain why this happens, but Asian women are very attracted to me. The only thing I can think is that I’m tall and outgoing. I’m constantly catching Asian women looking at me,but the same cannot be said about white women.

    I’m current in college where there are a lot of Asian so I see them everyday.

  • 370 Asian Guy // Aug 4, 2009 at 9:51 am

    White Male, I know exactly what you’re talking about. I get attention from white girls in my class but not so much from asian girls. I guess the grass is greener on the other side, eh?

    OH, and asian girls, get over your fucking daddy issues please, it’s very irritating. There’s a small minority of you that seem to not to want to have anything to do with asian men. Stop projecting whatever feelings you have about your daddy towards every asian male.

    You give off the vibe that you’re repulsed by me but trust me, I am 10x more repulsed by YOU. I wouldn’t be in the same room as you if I could help it but sometimes it can’t be avoided (class, shopping, etc.).

    Thankfully, you only make up a small minority of the asian girls. Here’s hoping your numbers continue to dwindle.

  • 371 EurasianDude // Aug 7, 2009 at 6:38 pm

    Gah, you shouldn’t have written this. I understand you want traffic and all but pandering to whites who want to hear bullshit and elevate their white privilege status. Actually, reading your white women post I’m beginning to think this blog is written by a white guy.

    I’m also pretty damn annoying that people can’t get over the fact that my Dad is Chinese and my Mum is English. I seriously blame shit like this.

    People quoting the stats as evidence is bs, as it’s usually by a couple of percentage points. They mean nothing.

    Asian women don’t like white men. It is just the media presentation.

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    eww , i’d choose an EAST asian guy over any white GUY ANYDAY , most white dudes are gross , && sex crazed

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  • 376 MA // Aug 19, 2009 at 11:22 am

    I think all the generalizations are very sad. Maybe partly due to y’all living in areas where there aren’t a lot of Asians. Lots of Asians around me and they are all different heights, and sizes. Females have different shapes (not all the same as on person commented). People have different personalities also. Male and female Asians. I think there are some stereotypes that are true, but if you take time to get to know people, they are all different. Most Indians I know date and marry only Indians. They don’t seem to care about risk of marrying relatives, and they will wait until they can find another Indian mate. There are unattractive and attractive people of all races. And people have different standards by which they judge appearance as well.

  • 377 Vladan // Aug 23, 2009 at 6:11 pm

    enough of the racist comments, let the orientals date whomever, whatever they want. In kenyucky, there are no orientals, in LALA land there are massive quantities of orientals. watch out.

  • 378 Anonymous // Aug 24, 2009 at 5:51 pm

    Interesting study of physical attractiveness in China

  • 379 Anon. // Aug 29, 2009 at 4:27 am

    I think this gets blown out of proportion. I don’t see all that many Asian women with white guys. Why can’t people just like who they want to like. If a white guy says he finds Asian women attractive he suddenly has “yellow fever”, but if he said he has a preference for redheads he doesn’t have “red fever”. It’s pointless. If you like white guys, go for them; if you like black guys, go for them; if you like Hispanic guys, go for them; hell if you like girls, go for them. Just don’t ridicule someone for liking something you don’t.

  • 380 Cay // Sep 4, 2009 at 8:49 pm

    white guys are yucky! ><
    and they cheat the most

  • 381 Aaron // Sep 5, 2009 at 1:52 am

    I agree with Kay. I think these girls can like whoever they want but they are fucking brainwashed. They like white men because they are brainwashed that white people are god.

    Shut the fuck up with that selfnessless “average” crap all u girls dont deserve shit

  • 382 PJs // Sep 11, 2009 at 12:54 pm

    asian mail order bride goes missing right before she was suppose to marry a white.

  • 383 M // Sep 15, 2009 at 4:19 pm

    Looks Like White guys with Asian girls have the best of both worlds according to this article.

  • 384 Proud Korean // Sep 17, 2009 at 7:41 am

    Hey Schmidt, I am in the USMS right now, and I can tell u, youre vietnamese mother was a whore, or raped by your white father. and you are the product of that.

  • 385 greg // Sep 20, 2009 at 9:36 am

    so that’s why there are so many Japanese girls in NY

  • 386 fjeiwo // Sep 23, 2009 at 3:17 pm

    this is what happens when creepy asian fetishes get even creepier

  • 387 Anonymous // Sep 26, 2009 at 1:46 am

    asian girls are hot asian guys just are not. White people dont have big noses they simply have noses that our different than what most asians are used to and therefore we have gigantic noses in their eyes. I would much rather have a large nose compared to asians than have a fucking shovel face, and look like everyone else

  • 388 Nobody // Sep 26, 2009 at 4:10 am

    Face it, you have beaks for noses. It’s a good thing most places in the West arent’ that crowded or you’d be tagging everybody with that pokey nose of yours.

  • 389 Anonymous // Sep 26, 2009 at 6:49 pm

    Asian girls are hot, but Asian guys aren’t? How the hell is that possible? They have the same features. It’s like saying white girls are hot but white guys aren’t.

  • 390 Anonymous // Sep 29, 2009 at 2:47 am

    The features that work for asian girls work against asian guys. Asians naturally have less masculine type features (prominant brow ridge, large nose, angular face etc) which as you can imagine makes asian girls look the most feminine which all men seem to like.

    Women however like men who have prominant brow ridges, large nose, angular face as these are attractive to them. The vast majority of asian guys dont have these features hence you get people saying Asian girls are hot, but Asian guys aren’t. What they are really saying is the typical asian girl is hot and the typical asian guy isn’t. If an asian guy had those traits (like many of japanese, chinese actors do) they are considered differently.

  • 391 DanB // Oct 5, 2009 at 5:16 pm

    I really do think the attraction has something to do with the height of the white male. I see so many guys in the 6’2″ and up range dating Asian women, very few under that height limit.

  • 392 truth // Oct 6, 2009 at 12:03 am

    proof that whites are more racist that others.

  • 393 dfgdf // Oct 7, 2009 at 6:03 am


    i agree with the you

    the anonymous above, sometimes ppl say white female have manly i think thats what that person meant

  • 394 kitty // Oct 10, 2009 at 4:10 pm

    There is nothing wrong with asians and whites dating.

  • 395 Mrcoffee // Oct 10, 2009 at 9:36 pm

    Listen, I’ve been dating Asian girls for 30 years and they all tell me exactly the same thing as to why they’d rather go out with me than their Asian ex: R-E-S-P-E-C-T. Asian men treat Asian women like their personal property not as human beings. Its as simple as that.

  • 396 Leena // Oct 11, 2009 at 6:58 pm

    I love asian guys^^

    I think hairy chests are DEEsguisting, along with facial hair, bleh. I do like nice butts on guys. Nice lips and eyes. And muscles!

    But I still find personality most important

  • 397 andy // Oct 13, 2009 at 5:21 am

    Just deal with it. Asian women love white men and they make up for the trash that dates black and latino men. No right thinking american woman would go with asian men because they are ugly and short. They would prefer asian women over asian men. American loves to adopt asian women. I have been with so many asian women because they are cool and easy. Rascist asians who have problem you just have to deal with it like KKK has to deal with white women who go with negroes. whats the point of these postingsn you are not going to stop it. Asian women are only non white women we white men willing to date so you will see alot of it. Sorry

  • 398 Nobody // Oct 13, 2009 at 2:42 pm

    andy, sorry it doesn’t work that way, bub. You are trying to do to asian guys what black guys are doing (very successfully I might add) to whites dudes. The problem is, we’re not as dumb as white dudes. We are dominating you in academics and working our way up in the professional field. People like you are easy to identify in real life and people like me aren’t going to be kind to you.

    I don’t care so much that you’re going out with asian women but when you bring down asian men like that, that’s when you’re hair, pasty white ass deserves to be sucker punched in the face.

    And if you ever get married to an asian woman and have kids I pray for the kid’s sake it doesn’t turn out to be an asian looking male.

  • 399 Nobody // Oct 13, 2009 at 2:46 pm

    And what’s with the word “negroes”? Are we back in the 1800′s? The correct term in African American sweetcakes.

  • 400 anotherAsian // Oct 14, 2009 at 4:45 pm

    my comment might come off as very rudimentary and all but wtf
    ASIAN guys are hawt! >.<)V
    umm when an asian only goes for it still yellow fever?(”,)

  • 401 KoreanGirl // Oct 15, 2009 at 2:21 pm

    I have to agree with Kit, I think once asian american guys change their standards on what expect from asian american girls.. things may start looking better. The fact is that most asian american girls aren’t going be size 2, and don’t want to be with guys who make them feel like they aren’t pretty enougth. If you want that asian girl.. go back to asia. Atleast White guys don’t make asian girls feel like crap about their weight.

  • 402 Wakka Wakka Wakka // Oct 16, 2009 at 8:51 am

    I’m a white guy. When an Asian girl is interested in me, I just start ignoring them. Every single one comes off as desperate, like they have something to prove to themselves. I’ll date anyone else, but with Asians I always feel like they’re not really interested in me as much as what it would mean for them to rise to some imaginary status. I once had a girl tell me that she wished she had my pointy nose and blue eyes (I don’t even really have blue eyes…). They’re tools.

  • 403 A White Girl // Oct 18, 2009 at 7:28 am

    Lol, as a white female I’VE always been the one to feel intimidated of dating men of other races, Asians in particular.

    Why? Well, part of it is because of the typical (yes I am aware this is a generalization) reasons why white men who go for Asian girls, their “smallness,” “cuteness,” etc that don’t fit me. I’m not tall, fat, or ugly by any means, (I think I’m rather pretty to be honest) but because I feel like I lack the specific qualities that define the beauty of an Asian woman to white men, I normally think that Asian men wouldn’t perceive me as attractive either.

    Second, the idea of Asian in-laws absolutely scares me sh*tless. Even just an Asian boyfriend’s parents, especially if they weren’t born in America are frightening to me because it seems that they all (another generalization) want their sons to marry nice girls of their own race and my ethnicity automatically makes me not good enough to be with their son. And it sucks because I really do value what my boyfriend or husband’s parents would think of me. I’ve always felt that if your man’s parents don’t like you, then you basically suck at life.

    Also, another reason I’m afraid to be in relationships with non-white men is that, from what I’ve experienced, most other guys expect the woman they will marry to be a mother for their children. Maybe I will have kids one day, I’m not totally against it, but as of now I’m not terribly interested in children, and I just want to focus on college and developing my career. I’m a rather independent woman who wants her own life, and I’ve been led to think that only white men have tolerance for career women, and that most men from other races will find this to be off-putting.

    I’m all for interracial dating, and I’d like to have Asian boyfriends because they seem more gentlemanly (a quality which I adore) than white guys on a whole, but because of cultural stigma I can’t help but feel I’m not the type of woman they will be attracted to and it’s quite discouraging in a world where female worth is too often based on their ability to attract men.

    I know this post is jam packed with generalizations, and not all people feel like this by any means, but for the most part this has been my experience with men. So why do white girls not like Asian guys? In my case it’s because I’M shy of YOU.

  • 404 BL // Oct 19, 2009 at 6:38 am

    Hi, regarding tolerance for career oriented women I’ve always been under the impression that white men were the ones that resented the growing role women were having in society.

    Correct me if I’m wrong but aren’t they the ones complaining about the feminism movement, about women not staying home to take care of the kids, about them having careers, bitter about women in the workplace, and women in high places? I’ve heard the term “feminazi”, “man-hater”, and other derogatory terms being tossed around by white men to describe headstrong, independent white women.

    I can’t speak for other Asians but I personally LOVE independent women. I am independent-minded myself so I tend to attract other independent-minded women. I love the challenge. I like white women. Admittedly, I have never dated one (too many social and cultural barriers to break through) but I love flirting with them. :)

  • 405 lang // Oct 19, 2009 at 7:13 am

    guys, here are my 2 cents worth of opinion. I think oriental girls go for white guys because they are being aspirational. This seems to happen more with chinese women (from mainland China) in the UK. There are so many children born by these mixed couples that the figure actually shows up as a significant statistics. My other remark concerns the propensity of the chinese women to become pregnant. Very often one sees these couples with a least two kids. A white couple of similar age group will usually be without kiddies. The question is simply why? Are the chinese women being traditional and view children as the obvious consequense of a relationship? or are they just being manipulative and use it to tie their hapless white partners down (and the possibility of a green card – passport)? I know of one chinese post-grad in our group who has told all her co-workers that one of her intention to come to study in Germany was to find a white male!

  • 406 Some guy // Oct 21, 2009 at 12:00 am

    We can debate the reasons why there is such of huge percentage of interracial couples between a White male and an Asian female compared to other interracial couples but I can say with absolute certainty after years of observation that the reasons are very obvious.
    I believe the problem stems from within Asians themselves. You have Asian males who are picky and only want beautiful women. You then have Asian women who want rich men. As an Asian, I can say that Asians are generally proud and self-consious of image. Unfortunately, not all Asian men can be rich and not all Asian women can be beautiful. The rich Asian men get with the beautiful Asian women. Poor Asian men still want beautiful women and ugly women still want rich men. These two forces push each other away and becomes unbalanced. Fortunately, the average Asian woman can increase her chance to wealth by allowing the admission of White males. In a way, it’s her way of saying, “White guys find me beautiful so screw you Asian guys”. For the poor Asian male, he’s pretty much screwed. He should be less picky and take whatever he can. For the White male, he doesn’t have to put in much effort. He may not have to be six-figure rich but the imaginary status of a White male is her window to wealth. She can say, “I’m with a White male and I’ve made it”. I term this a “convenient” union.

  • 407 Niki // Oct 22, 2009 at 11:56 pm

    Some of these comments are so stereotypical! The reasons why an Asian girl would want to date a white guy are on a couple-by-couple basis. How can you generalize the way you do?

    There’s only one generalization that is a fact. As an Asian girl who has many Asian female friends , I can tell you 2 reasons why Asian girls like white guys:

    1. We don’t find 99% of Asian guys physically attractive. I’m not being mean here. It’s the dead honest truth. Maybe we’ve been influenced by the western standards of beauty, but can you blame us? Most of the world seems be influenced by western beauty…so there must be some truth there!!!

    2) We like masculine men (I can’t speak for all Asian girls here since some date the totally geeky ones). I’m talkin about us Asian girls who want strong masculine men. We want men who aren’t afraid to speak up and give their opinion (but not boss us around). I’ve seen about 1% of Asian guys who do that. Most are so shy. That’s just not attractive!

    So give Asian girls a break for dating white guys.

  • 408 whiteboydave // Oct 23, 2009 at 12:08 am

    People love to conspirisize, theorize, bla bla bla.. (pardon the spellen). So why does there have to be a reason or theory behind WHY someone dates/marries/hangs out with another? Everyone may have their reasons but here’s one I think most people should be able to understand without having to think too hard and/or write about in a giant BLOG entry: maybe asian women find their whiteboy partners to be attractive, nice, they get along,.. the same reason a white dates a white, a black dates a white, a black dates a black, a chinese dates a korean, an indian dates a black, bla bla bla, etc, etc, etc… there’s nothing complex about this: 2 people date because they like each other. DUH!

  • 409 JR // Oct 23, 2009 at 5:10 am

    Niki, et al:

    I could care less who asian women date but why do the overwhelming majority of them choose whites? After all blacks (and even hispanics) are more masculine and outspoken than whites. If anything, whites have recessive personalities. If you put those groups in a room, whites could easily be driven off by mere presence alone. “White flight” it’s all about white recessiveness in action. Even so, you rarely see black/hispanic with asian.

    If what you’re really after is status, just say it! Don’t pussyfoot around the issue.

    And Niki, I should point out your post is a contradiction. You chastise us for generalizing then you go on and generalize about asian women. You even go as far as to say your generalization is a fact!

    Lol! I think you have issues! :D

  • 410 Niki // Oct 24, 2009 at 10:32 am

    Hi JR,

    Like I said, it’s about what we find attractive. Yes, black guys and Mexican guys are masculine and outspoken as well, but the majority of Asian girls don’t find them as physically attractive, and let me rephrase, guys that speak up with confidence are attractive, NOT overly outspoken guys.

    I’ve dated guys of different nationalities: mexican, white, mixed, AND asian. I didn’t necessarily date them for their race OR STATUS, but because I was attracted to them.

    I know it sucks that so many Asian girls prefer white guys, but it’s all a matter of what our eyes and heart like…can you blame us for that?

    If you have a problem with my honesty then maybe you have issues too :) .

  • 411 JR // Oct 24, 2009 at 2:09 pm

    Hey Niki, to each their own. Cheers! :)

  • 412 Ethan // Oct 24, 2009 at 10:26 pm

    Gay Asian here. I have a White partner. And that is because…

    I love my partner for the person he is… Not the “type” of person he is… To clear the air, I do not have “white fever”. I am an equal opportunist. If I come from a country that is mostly white, why should it be “weird” that my partner is white? Am I supposed to date an Asian just because I’m Asian? What a load of bullcrap!

    And my partner’s friends are very happy for him that we’re together. Not because “Good for you, you nailed an Asian”, but because they know that he is in a loving relationship. Race isn’t an issue, and it should never be an issue!

    I do however, agree that straight Asian guys in Western countries have a difficult time with Asian girls (well, girls in general really) because they are so freakishly indirect. They like someone for a gazillion years before they make a move (if at all). It is as though they imagine their life to be some stupid Korean drama whereby there are 100000 obstacles between the guy and the girl – of course there are going to be obstacles if you don’t SAY ANYTHING!!!

    So could all straight Asian guys out there STOP WHINING about how the White guys are stealing all the girls? If anything, it just makes you all the more pathetic and insecure!

  • 413 Straight Asian // Oct 25, 2009 at 5:33 pm

    LOL at the gay asian. Well, good for you. I think its interesting that Gay asian guys also go for white as well. Obviously, it doesnt have anything to do with masculinity or any of those bullshit attributions people make towards Asian guys, if even Asian GUYS (technically) go for White! LOL. The whole thing points towards one thing — power of the majority, and the success and wealth of the society we live in. Asian girls and Gay Asian guys will go for white because 1) they are having their own status built up by proxy, and 2) American Society accepts them and is wealthy and well-functioning. The day other straight asian guys will move up is the day Asia as a whole improves their living standards and becomes a wonderful place. Til then, Asian America should, if they truly want to make a difference, find ways to improve Asia. Keep building that economy, and fostering a new contemporary culture that combines tolerance with traditional values. Oh, and keep a few nukes just in case the whiteys try to get too close. Make sure they can break that missle defense system as well, use multi-warheads — K, thanks.

  • 414 Straight Asian // Oct 25, 2009 at 5:39 pm

    The West needs to be taken down a few notches. Think about it guys, thats the real solution.

    Lets ratify Kyoto (no developing nation Co2 commitments) and try our best to bring FUCKING AMERICA DOWN!!!!

  • 415 Daniel // Oct 25, 2009 at 5:58 pm

    The point is this. Women, or anyone for that matter, will Never bite the hand that feeds them. And right now, white society is holding the food.

  • 416 Straight Asian // Oct 28, 2009 at 7:47 pm

    The Asian female White male dynamic is larger in scope than you think. The remedy requires a new world order.

  • 417 Metis Girl // Oct 31, 2009 at 12:44 pm

    I’m Native American with a dash of European and I was told by my Thai aunt (she married my uncle who is Native) that I could get a job in Thailand on tv because they prefer the Eurasian look, which is what Native’s look like to her. I have a more prominent nose than the typical Asian nose and my eyes have a crease and my cheekbones are more sculpted and not round like Asians have. I guess more along the lines of Johnny Depp (who looks alot like my cousins on the reservation).

    According to her there is a preference for these more Europeanized Asian features. I guess after 50,000 years of genetic drift American Indians are what Asians want to look like.

  • 418 Kiyaso // Nov 5, 2009 at 7:30 pm


    Thismakes me laugh.

    Hell No!
    Whites guys are ugly, all of them.

    Asians, on the other hand, are awesome!!!!!!!!!

  • 419 Anonymous // Nov 6, 2009 at 12:32 pm

    The asian and white mix make the ugliest humans in the world!

  • 420 J // Nov 8, 2009 at 3:02 pm

    Nothing is black and white – it’s all in shades of gray, and this is why closet racist Asian girls (of the internalized variety) and white guys continue to run amok, trying to present themselves to the larger society as innocent bystanders caught in a racial crossfire.

    Some of the most hilarious justifications to fuck a white boy/Asian chick that I’ve read, in no particular order:

    1. “Mixed babies are just so cute.”
    2. “I feel like I’m dating my brother.”
    3. “We just fell in love.”
    4. “I’m interested in the culture.”
    5. “The attraction is biological.”

    ^ These are all sadly transparent, and by now totally cliched, JUSTIFICATIONS for their racism, both internalized (for Asian females) and covert (in the case of White Males, who hide behind unsubstantiated claims to deflect prying eyes from their racially exploitative mate choice).

    The truth is that it’s not ‘one or the other’. I believe that some of them fell in love, but human beings possess the capability to neatly compartmentalize their emotions and thoughts to construct a working ‘reality’ in their minds. In other words, closet-racists can use their selective memory to justify their choices and continue to live a perfect functional personal/love/family life – all while harboring and even nurturing their racism inside.

    How else do you explain Asian female/white male couples that can’t stop yakking about how “beautiful” and perfect their children and families are?

    No one doubts that – all children are beautiful. And it’s also not their faults that their parents share a RACIST LOVE.

    That’s right. I fucking said it. :)

    Like I said before, all people always have a duality about them – that is how we cope in the multitude of social situations we find ourselves in, in everyday life.

    We have one side to us at work, and yet another side to us when we’re playing or relaxing with friends. We behave one way in front of our parents or in-laws, and one way when we’re in private with our significant other.

    And sure enough – we behave in different ways when in private or public with our interracial spouses or significant others.

    People keep insisting that they got with their white lovers because of compatibilities, “true love”, and all that sappy stuff.

    Honestly, I don’t doubt that. Live and let live – these Asian girl/white guy couples are ‘spilled milk’, already. What are you going to do, force them to seperate? The idea is impractical, not to mention fascist. We can let thing rest, on that count – after all, the concept of race becomes secondary once you actually have to have a relationship with someone.

    But where people SHOULD DRAW THE LINE is when these people try to pass themselves off as anything more than that – people who found a loophole or gray zone in the ‘racial social code’, and exploited it to their advantage.

    I am willing to accept white guys and Asian girls as that – call a spade a spade, I say. They have their right to happiness just as much as me, and I sure as hell wouldn’t want them getting in my business if I were shacked up with a white chick (and I have been).

    But I will NOT tolerate liars – those that lie to themselves, and those that lie to the public.

    People need to stop fellating themselves and their egos – realize that Asian girls and white guys are NOT agents of justice or tolerance just because they’re sleeping with a person of another race.

    I mean, a black dog can mount a white dog from behind and have a jolly-old time and may even squeeze out a few puppies, but that doesn’t actually MEAN anything.

    The bottom line is that it’s not that deep to fornicate across color lines just to satisfy your own selfish motivations, be it 1. having “pretty mixed babies”, 2. subconsciously trying to elevate your social status by pegging yourselves to a higher racial “caste”, or 3. dating a woman of a lower racial caste because they are easier to obtain than a white woman.

    If anything the the Asian female/White male relationship undeniably has it’s foundations set in racism and neo-colonialism because of the current power structures surrounding race and ‘white’ (vs. non-white) nations and it’s populations.

    To deny this is positively idiotic, and only shows just how powerful the urge to rationalize reality can be.

    So to summarize, people cannot push away the reality and they have to accept that people can be many different things simultaneously.

    Let’s use an example to drive home the point:

    Heinrich Himmler was the guy who created the Nazi’s SS execution squads that went around Europe murdering 6 million Jews during World War 2.

    Yet private accounts describe this monster as a doting and loving father who also showed great concern for the well-being of animals. What does this say? A killer that loved his daughter with all his hearth, and liked fluffy puppies and kittens? What’s going on? It’s simple: the Duality of human beings rears its head yet again – as it has throughout our history.

    It shows that you can still be a raging, murderous racist and still be “human”, exhibiting all the “wonderful” traits these white guys and Asian girls post about when describing why they hooked up in the first place.

    Now, I can accept that there are DEGREES OF RACISM. I highly doubt that any Asian girl or white guy who posts here wants to exterminate Asian men, but I guarantee you that almost all of them are passive participants in a racist, white-male-centric society where its corresponding values are applied to everyone irrespective of their own backgrounds. The fact that most of these Asian girls and white guys are passively willing participants in this racist system says a lot about them. They are opportunists, while simultaneously being lovers, mothers, and fathers.

    There goes your idyllic fantasies of a picture-perfect interracial family.

    Some of these Asian women and white guys who claim they ‘just fell in love’ and had ‘no idea that people were suffering from racism’ are *exactly* like those Germans who claimed they knew nothing about the Nazi extermination camps once Germany lost the War to the Allied forces. I’m sure those “innocent” people knew what was going on in Nazi Germany in the back of their minds, but it either just more convenient to ignore it, or it just bothered them so much to face the horrifying reality that they chose to shut it out.

    Their motto seemed to be, as it is to Asian girls and white guys dating each other these days:


    So congratulations. You’re all one step closer to hitting bottom.

  • 421 Anonymous // Nov 8, 2009 at 7:31 pm

    the asian man is in a bad state in america. they are only portrayed in sterotypical manners. they are the object of ridicule on television. they are seen the same way the black man was seen in the 60s. they seem unreal and inhuman (compared to whites). this is what asian americans get to see on tv and advertisements. u ever notice that every asian woman on tv never has an asian boyfriend or husband? its always an asian chick with a white guy. and this is where some of the perceptions of the asian man may have its roots. there are none—-so no asian man may seem desirable or adequate. but at the same time the people making and writing these tv ads or shows do not know that they are messing up the perception of the asian man to the asian female tv watchers out there. they dont know that its wrong what they are doing. interracial dating is not wrong but to never include an asian man in producing conent for the masses to view…thats wrong.
    so each time i see the white chick white dude pair on tv. i say FUCK THIS SHIT!
    it seems the only ones who can see this are the ones who made harold and kumar.

  • 422 J // Nov 9, 2009 at 12:38 am

    I’m only in favor of Asian Females and White males – both in real life and in the media – ONLY if they’re roughly balanced out by Asian male/White female couples. Otherwise I have no choice but to reject and condemn them as symptoms of a violent, oppressive, and racist legacy that stems from a history going back the colonization of Asia: only now it’s a symbolic and ideological colonization of Asians’ MINDS via Hollywood images, and not their physical countries.

    Some of you here – especially the Asian girls and white guys, will scoff at my suggestion as though I was a 9 year old boy keeping score.

    But this is more than about bragging rights.

    I’m simply not going to let your racism (both internalized and opportunistic) consume my life, but Asian men need to put their foot down immediately so that the cycle of self-hate and opportunism (which white males and Asian females themselves can’t even see in themselves) ENDS with your generation.

    In reality, the “hate” isn’t at ALL in “jealous Asian guys” – it’s in YOU, the white male and the Asian female.

    And that legacy of parasitism, hate, and racial opportunism – it’s all going to die with you, on the day you take your last breath. That’s the day Asian-Americans can rest easy, knowing that white male privilege can no long slip it slimy fingers around the community.

    I refuse to just sit back and let my Asian or potentially half-Asian children inherit a world where they will be passed over simply because some white chode just happens to have European blood – in school, at work, and in love. The thought of that makes my blood boil, and I’ll fight for future generations of Asian-Americans to stop this racist cycle of race-privilege – at ALL COSTS.

    Without the balance, a numerically inferior ethnic community (like Asians) literally starts to fall apart at the seams. And while we haven’t been broken yet as a whole, this can only go on for so long before it reaches a breaking point.

    Thankfully, East Asia is on an upward economic trajectory, and with money there’s always power. I don’t have a shred of doubt in my mind that once Asia is on top, white men will gradually be forced to make concession and take an incrementally more submissive position in the global order. And the women, in seeing this, will naturally begin to feel the draw of Asian men. Just flip the current scenario on it’s head, and you’re getting the picture.

    It’s not politically correct, but after women see the money, they automatically smell the power and influence – and of course that’s the ultimate aphrodisiac for any woman above the age of 23 who has the wit to see that looks or muscles can only get her so far in her social-climb toward the top.

    Furthermore, whether a given population actually HAS those “good genes” is only marginally important or relevant in creating a racialized personality cult like the “Hollywood White Boy Club”.

    All you need is the capital to fund such an enterprise in Asia, and the reputation of Asian men will soar in a short time – irregardless of whether such racialized praise and adoration is deserved.

    Just ask any dorky white guy in Asia who currently has no problem finding an Asian girlfriend, and you’ll know what I’m talking about. They have Hollywood to thank for their good fortune – but they should realize that they’re living on borrowed time. Heh heh.

    All you have to do is take that 2-5% of men with the ‘good genes’ in Asia, and put them on TV or film, then hammer it into the brains of women all over the world – over and over and over and over again, especially from a young age – and voila: you create this cult of illusion. That’s precisely what white men have done with Hollywood! Do you honestly think that the overwhelming majority of white guys look anything like what you see on TV? Most don’t, and that’s an irrefutable fact. But Asian women are psychologically beat down and conditioned by this ‘image cult’ of the White Male to the point that they’ll shack up with any white goober or chode, as long as he’s white – this same thing will eventually happen with Asian men and women all over the world, as long as Asia continues it’s economic rise and eventually overtakes the United States in about 25 to 30 years.

    So the final question is: can Asian-American hold on long enough to enjoy the corollary benefits of East Asia’s rise to the top of the global economic and political hierarchy?

  • 423 chinese // Nov 10, 2009 at 9:53 am

    who cares

    personally im only attracted to asian and white guys. others are all ugly

  • 424 Theorist // Nov 11, 2009 at 11:36 am

    This is one, big, damn conspiracy by the media to mongerelise the entire planet!
    Black men love white women (and vice versa)
    White men love Asian girls (and vice versa)
    and they’ve managed to single out black women and asian men, what, now they’re going to force them together? This is a joke.

    By all means endulde your sexual fantasies (provided they’re humane and legal lol), but, damn it, only produce children with your own race!
    Nah Im just playin with y’all. Im a white guy and, for some reason, i find asian girls more attractive overall than whites.

  • 425 Tina // Nov 13, 2009 at 4:58 pm

    Umm most Asian girls only prefer Asian guys over white, or whatever, it’s true…

    3 or so billion Asians worldwide, that’s a whole lotta Asian loving ;)

    And I agree with J that this is just the beginning of the Asian Century, money, power etc. A return to the norm in Asia, if you know history 16 out of 20 centuries Asia #1.

  • 426 Tina // Nov 13, 2009 at 4:59 pm

  • 427 Strong White Woman // Nov 16, 2009 at 1:47 pm

    They fantasize that a White man will give them a beautiful White baby. They desperately hide from the fact that these gorgeous White children can only come from 2 White parents. We have lots of talk about White women hating Asian women, but the truth is the Asian women very much resent White women, because only you can give a White man that gorgeous White baby. In terms of truly assisting a White man in continuing his genetic lineage the White woman trumps the Asian every time, be it in looks, creativity or intelligence of the potential offspring. Asian women are furious about this and can act very cold to White women as they ogle your man. In their pathetic jealousy they willfully refuse to understand that Asian women give white men Asian babies, that white men don’t give Asian women white babies. When I was a translator I used to see far too many lost white boys in Asia who had knocked up an Asian, often by accident. They had gotten caught up in some Asian girl’s \I’m having a white baby\ fantasy, which is exactly that, only a dream. The foolish guy was stuck with the awful consequences–a very Asian-looking baby, his genes barely if at all apparent. He had terminated his own genetic legacy to spawn a Mongoloid. Just as with wf/bm mixing, there are no winners in af/wm procreation, only losers, especially the poor mixed kids. Asian women need to give up these delusions that they can give birth to nordic babies by hooking up with a White man. By pushing their Asian genes into our White gene pool they only destroy the very features they so covet. They need to get some pride already and find their own men in Asia once again.

  • 428 BubbleTea // Nov 16, 2009 at 2:53 pm

    @ Strong White Woman: LOL you came from Stormfront, didn’t you?

  • 429 yoyo // Nov 17, 2009 at 4:35 pm

    well, i got a southern japanese mama & a black daddy >:) so asians dont only like white guys.

  • 430 Dude, where's my bubble tea // Nov 18, 2009 at 7:57 am

    Yo my Asian brothers, please lets:
    - Learn some class and style, develop your own attitude.
    - Eat right and workout (too many skinny Asians).
    - Wear clothes that fit right, and looks good on you.
    - Be more agressive and talk to our Asian sisters.
    - Remember to be the best that you can be.

    and stop hooking up your white and black friends with your Asian Sisters!

    Oh, and someone please become a top box office Asian male actor without looking like some fool!

  • 431 Margarita // Nov 22, 2009 at 3:13 pm

    To strong white woman: Do you hate Asians or something? It seems like you look down on us. With your quote, \be it in looks, creativity or intelligence of the potential offspring,\ I’m pretty sure you aren’t the smartest person around, calling us \unintelligent.\ Or the pretties one either… We don’t want white men just to have pretty potential offspring. And FYI, Asian women do give white men \White offspring\. My aunt, who is fully Asian, gave birth to a blond and blue eyed baby girl who looks exactly like her white father.

  • 432 John Son // Nov 30, 2009 at 12:52 am

    Stop talking nonsense, Asian girls simply go goo goo gaa gaa over big juicy white sausage, they cant get enough of it, balls deep hair pulling ass spanking white male asian female interracial action, any other analysis and your just kidding yourself….good day folks!

  • 433 m... // Dec 1, 2009 at 2:57 pm

    if it counts im an asian girl who likes asian guys

  • 434 anonymous... // Dec 1, 2009 at 3:00 pm

    to john son…i thinks you are weird or wrong in the head, cuz white guys are not that attractive b/c they have too much drama, like girls, stinky/ bad hygeine, and are too childish living a life growing up too protected ( not everyone though, just most) by their parents. sorry john, time for you to wake up and face the real world

  • 435 anonymous... // Dec 1, 2009 at 3:02 pm

    another thing, asian guys tend to be too skinny and they should try working out, i promise that will help

  • 436 DECEBETH DAIREZ BOLO // Dec 9, 2009 at 9:00 am

    1.I’m Australian and lived in the Philippines for 2 years. Since then, I have lived in Thailand for nearly 1 year. I have in my 46 years, visited or lived in over 30 Asian cities. Notwithstanding, I do not profess to be an Asian (nor Philippines) expert – I’m still very much learning and trying to work it all out. But I have toiled with this question about whether Filipinos are rude or not for some time. I left my Filipina wife, primarily because I couldn’t put up with her rudeness.
    I understand that my upbringing and my country’s values are not necessarily the bench-mark. In fact, I personally have adopted many Asian ways of doing various things simply because I think they are better. But when it comes to manners and politeness, well I have to say Filipinos are the rudest (and I do generalize) people I have ever met.
    It is embarrassing to see them at airports pushing and shoving to get ahead in lines, they ignore basic courtesies, and they don’t read signs clearly telling them what to do. I don’t think I ever heard my own Filipina wife of 2 years ever say thank you, sorry or please to me. She is always quick to accuse or make innuendos or as she puts it “express her opinion”, but she never asks for my version of what she is accusing me of. And of course, if I ever say anything that she disagrees with or doesn’t like, she attacks. If I prove her wrong, she ignores it or changes the topic instead of just saying sorry. Filipinas are, as we say in Australia, ‘busy-bodies’ – they just can’t function without knowing everyone else’s business.
    For such a largely Christian nation I was appalled at the number of people who were ready to rip me off no matter what I did. Taxi drivers are the classic – they have a small statue of Mary on their dash board, but then insist on not using their meter and charging you 4 or 5 times the normal fare – that’s nice hey?
    Another little indicator is when you give a gift to someone – say a birthday present. They don’t open it in front of you; instead they squirrel away to somewhere private and open it up. Many times they don’t even say thank you. You have no idea whether they like it or not, or whether it fits or is the right color, etc – because they just don’t ever mention it again.
    Walking down the street is an adventure in itself. Firstly, you have to dodge all of the urine and spit – it is perfectly acceptable in the Philippines to urinate and spit in the street. Nobody seems to care about this may affect other people’s health. You also have to dodge the dog shit from the thousands of strays, and the garbage mounds of rotting trash, and the occasional huge hole in the ground where some municipal work is being carried out, but nobody thinks to put up barricades or warnings. But I stray a little bit from the topic. The people themselves have no concept of walking around you – they head down and barge and when walking behind someone, sometimes they will just stop abruptly and stand in the middle of your path. People will walk out of a shop directly into you line of path and stop, making you check back and walk around them. They tend not to look ahead because, it they see you (well look at you), then they will uncomfortable cutting you off, so the idea is keep your head down and let others get around you – they drive the same way. Not very considerate really.
    Filipinos don’t like to be seen to not know something. If for example you ask for directions, you will rarely get the answer “Sorry, I don’t know”. Instead you will get some very vague directions normally gesticulated that end up being totally wrong.
    I’m lead to believe that the Philippines is the 3rd largest English speaking nation in the world, and I only (up until recently) only speak English – I have all my life. Strangely enough though, if you don’t use the words that Filipinos understand, they criticize you of not speaking proper English. For example if you under-pay a Jeepney driver you will be told you are lacking… If you say, “Oh do you mean I haven’t paid enough”, they will look at you with total blankness. The word is ‘lacking’ and nothing else fits – get it?
    I owned a motor bike in the Philippines and it was not uncommon to come out of a shopping center or the like, and find a person sitting on my motor bike. They see a seat, and sit on it – they have no concept of respecting other people’s property. One day a guy was cutting up mangoes on the rack on the back of my bike – not even using a cutting board – my bike was only weeks old and here is some guy scratching my paint work and dripping mango juice all over my bike. Another time, a traffic policeman let down my tyres because I parked in the wrong spot, so when I took off and turned my first corner, I nearly killed myself – did he care? And before you say I shouldn’t have parked in the wrong place, there were several other bikes in the same place – it wasn’t obvious – as usual – no signs.
    It is common knowledge in the Philippines that ‘things run on Filipino time’. This is an expression used to explain why every appointment you have will never be on time. You are kept waiting for absolutely everything. Doctor’s appointments, transport departure times, meetings with business people, the start of a concert, and even friends for dinner. It is nothing for people to be late – half an hour to an hour is quite normal. There is no apology or sense of being sorry for wasting your time, they just ignore it. I had a couple of occasions where I invited family and friends to dinner and they just didn’t turn up. When I phoned them (of course they don’t think to phone you), they just say something like, “I was busy – I will come tomorrow”. Since when has that ever been acceptable?
    I was summoned to Manila on Christmas Eve one year for questions relating to the processing of my Immigration VISA. I was given 1 day’s notice to be there, so was forced to buy a very expensive air fare. When I got there, I was told that I had failed to submit a particular form. I said “I’m sure I gave that form to you”, to which the official pushed my file across his desk and says to me, “well, it’s not here”. I thumbed a couple of pages into the file and found the ‘missing form’ and said “is this what you need?”. “Oh, yes, it is – I will amend your file”. And I then got back on the plane and went home. Was there any consideration for me having to spend several thousands of Pesos because they couldn’t find what I had found in only a matter of seconds? Was there any offer of compensation because they had made a mistake? Was there even an apology? No.
    Are they rude by nature? Yes I think it is in their upbringing and therefore think it comes natural to them. The biggest observation I made in the Philippines was that the vast majority of people there are Level 1 Thinkers – they are unconsciously incompetent – they don’t know what they can’t do, or don’t know, and can therefore not recognize the deficit or address it. wikipedia – Four stages of competence This sort of person, because they are not aware of their shortcomings, doesn’t actually believe they have shortcomings. You can tell them till you are blue in the face, but at the end of the day, they just won’t believe you because they are not aware of it – they just can’t conceptualize it. This is not helped by the fact that many Filipinos cant afford to travel to experience different cultures – most not even to neighboring cities within their own country (not that that would help anyway).
    In my opinion, in terms of being socially acceptable and responsible people, the Philippines is about 30 to 40 years behind Australia. Although I’m Australian, I actually choose to live in Asia now. I don’t agree with how Australia is progressing, but I experienced in the Philippines many things I witnessed and was aware of growing up as a boy in Australia. Most of which are now totally unacceptable, considered ineffectual, anti-social, and some even banned and made illegal.
    I’m not a Filipino basher – my wife is the prettiest girl on the planet and I would love to return to the Philippines and live my life there with her forever, but the question asked is ‘Are Filipinos rude by nature?’ Some may consider it cultural or perhaps unique to the Philippines that Filipinos act the way they do, but I just see it as rude, on any nation’s standard. My answer is an unequivocal “yes”.
    TO DECEBETH DAIREZ BOLO:Of course Filipinos are rude, and whether they realize it or not is not the question. However after 4 years in Manila, I think most are aware of their rude or as they call it “bastos” behavior. For example, as mentioned by the blogger in Australia, Filipinos are chronically late, but if pressed, for example, having to pick up a child from school they CAN be on time.
    They stare, piss, and spit with total abandonment. I heard someone say men here learn to piss in the open because in many provinces there is a lack of public bathrooms – nonetheless by the time they are 20 years old and above they should know better than to pull it out and piss as cars full of people (children included) go whizzing by.
    One day after a long rain shower I went to the roof of our 40-story condo building for some air. What happened was sickening. As the rain slowed down and the sun came back out the sick smell of urine from the street below drifting up in clouds of odor forcing me back down the stairway… and I live in a nice business district…
    It would take hours to list all of the rude, bastos and totally unacceptable behavior I have seen in this country – pissing, staring, lies, cheating foreigners, breaking in line, bumping… so called “friends” asking for money from foreigners and getting mad when we did not open up our wallets or bank accounts and oblige them… etc
    But here is food for thought. What is the great American dream? It is usually to own your own home or start your own business and such like that…
    What is the great Filipino dream? TO GET THE HELL OUT OF THIS PLACE… hence the migration to the US, UK, Australia and beyond of Filipinos…
    Think about it, if Pinoys can’t stand their own homeland what about us unfortunate Westerners who have to come here for work?
    It makes me sad because this piece of news would definitely cast a cloud of doubt to anyone who might be considering marriage with a Filipina. As I have said in my past article, marrying a Filipina is a very big business. There are some obligations that come with the relationship and obviously, as in the case of this news, there are also risks.
    Just like in other places, there are “bad bananas” everywhere. One has to be very careful not to ingest this poisonous fruits by being more vigilant with themselves. Although majority of girls in the Philippines are nice, sweet and loving, there are still some who I would call “wolves in sheep’s clothing”. Western men are easily enticed by their sweetness and beauty and are easily turned into preys.
    A Filipina could either be the best thing that ever happened to you or could easily be your doom. I do not mean to scare anyone with this statement but I certainly want this to be regarded as a warning. Filipinas are good but not all Filipinas are good. Only marry the girl when you have exercised everything to make sure she is in it for the rest of her life.
    But how can one be sure? No one does no know for sure but maybe you can consider the following guidelines:
    1. Don’t rush. Make sure you know everything about her before taking her to the altar. Take time to meet her family and be very alert on “signs”. I don’t mean you have to be suspicious about everything but maybe using common sense works. Here’s a story of someone I know:
    Carl has been talking to this girl both online and on the phone for years, he’s even visited her in Manila a few times, but other than that, he knows nothing about her other than what she tells him. She works as a waitress in a food chain and lives in an apartment and her family is in the province. That’s all he knows. He sends her money from time to time even though they aren’t married yet. When he finally retired and decided to move to the Philippines for good, they lived together for a few months. But all those time he has no idea that she is actually a prostitute and even when they were living together she still manages to sneak out and meet a customer or two. When he learned about this he was shattered and of course they split up (who wouldn’t?) But he was hurt already and he has invested his emotion and money to her for a couple of years just to learn it was all a lie. She doesn’t really care.
    So before you commit yourself, get to know her very well. When you think you know her that much ask to meet her friends, ask them questions in a friendly way, ask to meet her family and grill them casually. Their answers would definitely tell you what kind of person she is. Check that her stories and their stories tally. Make it your business to know anything and everything about her because you definitely have the right to do that. I know it is a little impolite in the west to be inquiring about other people’s past lives but it is quite understandable in the Philippines especially if you are western. At least by doing so, they would know you mean business and not a fly by night relationship. Explain to them you intend to be in the marriage for life so you have to learn everything. But that whatever you learn will not affect your feelings for her because you will accept her wholeheartedly in the end. Besides they have nothing to fear if they’re not hiding anything from you. Honesty and trust is a basic trait in any relationship. She should be honest enough to tell you anything and everything, good or bad.
    Some western men would employ the services of investigators to ascertain the background of their Filipina girlfriends. It might be a good idea but if you think you’ve exercised enough caution that might be enough.
    2. Open your eyes and think! Ask yourself questions as well. Do not get blinded by the exotic beauty and culture and values she is showing you. Be realistic. There is massive poverty in our country that so many people would do anything and everything to alleviate their status. There is nothing wrong with coming from a poor family because it all boils down to the qualities of the person you are to marry. Now where did you meet the girl? If she comes from one of those night clubs along Ermita or Makati Ave. or Olongapo City, Beware! Really beware! I am not saying all bar girls are bad but most of them are not wife material. Really, if you are looking for a proper wife, what are you doing in those places? One might want to feel like Richard Gere who was a night in shining armour to Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman but let’s face it, WHEN DOES IT REALLY HAPPEN? If you met her online, did she ask you money? As I have said, Filipinos have so much pride in them. Most poor people value their dignity more than anything else. Most of them are principled actually that they would rather go hungry than beg. For one to ask money from someone they haven’t even met is an act of desperation and by that they are sacrificing their pride. If they do, who knows what other thing they can sacrifice, you perhaps?
    Is she too young for you? What common grounds do you have? This is to be thought of because although there is nothing wrong with marrying a young lady, there has to be a common ground, isn’t it? The true test of love will always be whether she will still be there no matter what. Imagine the setting when the initial attraction fades, there must be love to hold you together. If you don’t have anything in common what will you do together in the house? What will your conversations be like? Will she not get tired and start to seek her friends most of the time and leave you alone? Would you mind? Are you ready for that? This is why you have to integrate yourself with her life, make her friends your friends as well even before you get married so you can have a common ground.
    3. Don’t readily pack up and leave your life abroad and move the Philippines immediately. You have to think 100 times or more if it is really the right decision. Living in the Philippines is not for everyone. You have to learn about the people, the degree of courtesy and friendship we share and how we expect you to behave when you’re with us. I’ve mentioned this because this is also what I have been repeating to my husband. It is common for western people to act as they feel no matter what other people think. When they are grumpy or angry, they will walk around with an angry face and they could be mean to people around them even if they don’t have anything to do with the cause of their anger. This is something you cannot do in the Philippines. I noticed here in Singapore or even in Malaysia, even when the Brits are a bit mean to them they don’t fight back. Once in a crowded place, someone accidentally pushed past me and my husband thought he was bullying me and he did pushed back the lad to my horror! This was in the middle of the very busy train station. Imagine a small asian being pushed by a big 6’ brit? It’s like bigfoot pushing a little boy isn’t it? I mean I was flattered he was protective of me but I told him he cannot be pushing people just like that especially since he didn’t really mean to push me. It was just rush hour. There were so many people who saw that but no one cared and the lad didn’t even fight back. In the Philippines people fight especially when foreigners become a bit insulting. Also remember an insult to one Filipino is an insult to all. So if you’re a western and you have a fight with a local, I tell you that’s a very bad move because even people around who do not know the person you’re fighting with will definitely join and fight you. In the end it’ll be your loss. We have a certain pride and kinship that we share especially when fighting someone who is not from “our place”. I mean yes we like tourists and foreigners but we wouldn’t take craps from them. That’s what most Filipinos believe.
    Do study the area you’re moving to, try it for a month or two and learn the rope. At least you won’t end up trapped in a place you don’t really want to be and you can’t turn back.
     Whenever my husband and I walk around in public, be it in Europe or anywhere in Asia, we can’t help but get stares from people, people who might be inwardly asking themselves and speculating “what in the world could we have seen from each other?” Why would a young lady like me prefer to marry an older man?
    A lot would simply judge us by saying it’s all about money like nothing else matters in the world but that. I would be a hypocrite to say I do not dream of a comfortable and stable life, who wouldn’t? But that should not be construed to mean the same as marrying for money. Even if you choose a younger man you would still consider this idea, wouldn’t you? Besides, consideration should also be given to the fact that not all girls who enter into a union of this sort are destitute in the first place. Take my case for example; although we’re not rich, I come from a family who can perfectly provide for ourselves on our own. My father is a lawyer and my mother is a teacher. All 5 of my siblings have degrees and some of us even have two and have decent jobs. So my decision to marry a “foreigner” (a term we use to refer to westerners in our country), has nothing to do with saving the family from destitution or anything like that. I am sure a lot of Filipinas who are similarly situated find themselves under the glaring scrutiny of the public who in most cases ends up giving bad judgments upon us.
    Top 10 Reasons For Dating A Filipina Girl

    Why are Filipinas Good Girlfriends?

    Many Western men choose to build a relationship with a Filipina girl. Some even choose to marry a Filipina. But what makes Filipino women so wanted?

    1. Filipina girls are renowned for their beauty.

    They surely stand out among Asian women in terms of charm and femininity. If you think other way you probably have never seen Angela Perez Baraquio – the first Asian American and Filipino American who was crowned Miss America 2001 and Miss Hawaii.

    2. Filipina girls are a delight to be around because of their disposition and personality.

    Since birth Filipinas are raised in a special sense of honor called Delikadesa (or Delicadeza). Delicadeza is a Spanish term which when translated in English means daintiness. It is defined as a sense of propriety, an act of being refined or delicate in tastes and manners. It is Delikadesa what gives Filipino women such admirable qualities and distinguish them from Western ladies. You will never find a proper Filipina bring shame onto herself and her family by lying, cheating, stealing, running around with different men or flunking out of school. It is one of the meanings of Delikadesa – pride in doing the right thing.

    3. Filipinas are understanding, patient and composed.

    Most Filipina girls would never engage in a quarrel or a loud argument simply because this wouldn’t suit a real Lady. They are taught to speak politely, with a gentle tone of voice. Arguing is just not acceptable, along with public criticism. This soft spoken, quiet and understanding nature of the Filipina Ladies is the desired trait that Filipinas strive towards.

    4. Filipina girls are generous and naturally caring and supportive.

    The common spirit of survival has united the Filipinos for centuries making generosity and loyalty towards family a time-honored tradition. The caring and supportive nature of the Filipinas is apparent in the fact that there are no booming businesses for retirement homes or orphanages in the Philippines – they would never abandon a child or a member of the family in need.

    5. Filipina girls believe in a one-man one-woman relationship.

    Since there is no “absolute divorce” in the Philippines, Filipinas are raised in a high regard for the sanctity of marriage and consider it a life long commitment. Some, in fact many who marry these Filipina beauties, swear they make the best wives in the world – loyal, loving and faithful past death.

    6. Filipina women put family first before money.

    Faithfulness to the family is a tradition that is characteristic of the Filipino society. To the Filipina, family will always remain a great priority. Filipino women, whom many would consider as coming from a relatively poor country, view the close loving bonds of their family as their wealth. They are more willing to sacrifice career than a family.

    7. Filipinas are excellent home keepers.

    Filipino ladies equate domestic responsibility with being a good wife – their home is a great source of pride for them and they do their best to create a warm and loving environment for their family. For the Filipina even yelling at home would mean de-facing her home so you will probably never find a Filipina woman screaming or breaking dishes.

    8. Filipinas are well educated.

    The Philippine culture attaches great importance to college education. Pride in accomplishment at school is instilled in Filipinas since their childhood and female college enrollment even exceeds that of the male. This affects the social positions too. Unlike other Asian countries where women tend to be in more subservient positions, the Philippines businesses are more accepting of women performing business. This is apparent with the current Philippine president Gloria Macapagal-Arroyo – the second Philippine woman to hold this esteemed position.

    9. Filipino girls are religious.

    The Philippines is predominantly Roman Catholic (the only Christian nation in the Far East) and it is common amongst Philippine families to raise their children in the church. So don’t be surprised if your Filipina girl is more devoted to her religion than you are to yours.

    10. Filipina-American marriages are more successful than American-American marriages.

    An interesting fact is that according to the statistics Filipina-American marriages arranged through dating services have a lower divorce rate (about 20%) than the standard American- American marriage (about 40%). Still, the statistics may vary according to which source you use.




  • 437 DECEBETH DAIREZ BOLO // Dec 9, 2009 at 12:01 pm

    At first I did not want to take beth is serious because i did not believe that a 30yrs old will inlove to me.She even never see me coz that time chatting & webcam not so familiar.But then when i asked her to send me photos it turns me on she was very beautiful sexy young lady.I ignored my doubts and later on I took her
    serious coz i felt she was really so serious and sincere to me. mats segerpalm
    She’s not very pretty and very sexy but she’s childish her way of thinking. how awuful?
    So, i will really know if the woman is not sincere w/ her intentions because she’s ready to take the risks of meeting a man although she only met online.And another thing that she always keep asking for my financial support.
    we dealt to get meet & marry but she told she want the one to come.I support her paper processing for visa and papers for our marriage whenever she arrive,those papers took a yr till she came to meet me and finally she disappear and be with other white men…see they not care about how u feel.
    Continuation… She always asked for money during our first week and even now that she had no food she trend to ask for anything(shes in philipinnes at the moment doing understudies). All she talked about was about meeting and trying to arrange a way to make it possible. She was all alone in philipinnes and had no way of getting money for food so finally she asked for 50 bucks for 9 days which is when she will go back to her expert scamming skills . I took the risk and sent it. Will continue…
    Ok. I think i am in need of help. Can you help me? This is my story. I met this filipina girl named veronica online that is currently in philipinnes doing some understudies for Tourism before going back to her hometown, take final exam, and graduate. She wanted to meet me so bad. I couldnt make it at the moment and she said she would come to me then. And i live in makati. A week after she tells me that she had to pay her allowance and used all her money and hadnt eating anything for the past day. Will , continue….. why they spend all their money so soon? they not know how to safe, filipinna wont keep money well, once they have money on their hand, will go to drink a lot, many strong wine, end up with their money, and buy whatever they want.beth was poor as dirt back when I met her , she always asked me for anything, I guess it was when I went there I understood just how poor she was, she would steal my money before ever asking me. It’s important for anyone interested in a Filipina to know they all aren’t very giving and are extreemly close to their families, they will not want to help, but it’s not our job to teach them reality and what you can and cannot do. We cant help send her youger sis through nurseing school, something is not productive. they still be the good scammer…
    Sure to beth think we just have money to burn, while she thinks if she can get income from an online BF she can save their families.Its really a double edge sword.
    Also, I don’t quiet understand why anyone would fall for a girl, on the screen, in a little box. It seems a bit stupid.
    tobeth…i thinks you are weird or wrong in the head, cuz white guys are not that attractive b/c they have too much drama, like girls, stinky/ bad hygeine, and are too childish living a life growing up too protected ( not everyone though, just most) by their parents. sorry john, time for you to wake up and face the real world, mats segerpalm

    I like u are the expert of making-up story oof your own. I bet the u wrote all these is a scammer.
    mats segerpalm say to me:
    beth is nothing like pretty and sexy but she’s childish her way of thinking.
    i dealt to get meet & marry but she told she want the one to come.I support her paper processing for visa and papers for our marriage whenever she arrive,those papers took a yr till she came to meet me. beth is a big liar
    Yes, there are many filipina’s that will ask. In my mind i think these girls are nothing special cause they dont keep their self respect even though they need the money.
    beth was poor as dirt back when I met her , she always asked me for anything, I guess it was when I went there I understood just how poor she was, she would steal my money before ever asking me. It’s important for anyone interested in a Filipina to know they all aren’t very giving and are extreemly close to their families, they will not want to help, but it’s not our job to teach them reality and what you can and cannot do. We cant help send her youger sis through nurseing school, something is not productive. they still be the good scammer…
    Most really are Niave , and to get an online BF whom would support them is like winning the lottery. beth also like the niave way, nothing special, just like them, not educated at all.
    Sure to beth think we just have money to burn, while she thinks if she can get income from an online BF she can save their families.Its really a double edge sword.
    beth has been starving for months, and asking men she lures from dating sites to chat, for money.
    It’s amazing beth can still afford the internet!
    mats segerpalm also tell me, i think she will sell the diamond ring for her own money…cos philipinnes is the most crappy city in the world, and people make less, he also tells me, she is nothing special , if she is, she wont even want the diamond ring, no matter how poor i am, she will be with me, not just my ring. he says to me u are just the lazy woman, sit at home and do nothing, right? he says to me the most smelly pussy porque is the filipinna one, cos they wont even make enough money to buy detergent, how could they have a good smell pussy, mats also say, u deserve it, and leave u back off philinnes, he not like u anymore, all he wants is to search as much as cheap whore much better than u…..he told me that u cant even fuck good, all ur holes are dried and not even easily to get cum…girl like u cant give good fuck, even he say sell u to the sex slave market dont make much profits, he is so sad to meet this cheap girl…….
    he also say to me, u have some yellow and green liquid comes down from ur tunnel, how smelly u are? no wonder why he wont have a mood to fuck u, or u are too smelly, no money to consult the doctor to get it fixed…mats scare u get aids, i think he knows u have it.
    mats still chatting with me a lot, u jealouse, filipinna is always filipinna, never make it change, esp their way of acting and talking and eyessight, or even bad english pronunciation, low self-esteem, will stare at the people, and fight. u are nothing to him, his mind is not yet stable or settle down, idiot…in mats eyes, u r just his chick or whore and slut, easy to get, buy her e ticket and come, degraded girl, no wonder why many filipinna get aids…cos he knows they do slut for a living, how wonderful? i wont get this woman for my wife, so dirty..he tells me wont wanna die soon.mats know wont have a good job, keep paying u.

  • 438 mats segerpalm // Dec 9, 2009 at 12:07 pm

    this girl decebeth dairez keep saying to me, she has a decent job in the call center, let u know how good, work in the night til midnight, or sometimes work til morning, and how much she makes ?PH 3000, how much in american dollars? less than 70usd, right? still decent job, and in her clothes is all simple, and not even in good style, i can say, not even have money to buy her boots, and nice jeans, how decent job she gets.
    if she really have it, she can buy anything she wants without me paying to her, or buy her own ticket to me, and still asking for my help…guys can she really travel easily with her ph3000 salary, tell me?
    i less think. just enough for her food and meal and journey to work.
    if she is so rich, why she ask the men to buy her things? she is so materalism, ask to buy anything, like boots and diamond rings, and use it by force. this girl is horrible…i finally feel feed up with her, i keep thinking, should i be with this woman? i wont want to have any night mare .

  • 439 mats segerpalm // Dec 9, 2009 at 12:20 pm

    mats always ain’t hard, he can’t fuck. he is not a real men, first of all, he is bored, i not like him, he always go to beaches and watch sexy girl, how annoying?, if the men like him cant fuck hard, why should i be with him? even he buy me the diamond ring also nothing, now i think i dont want to be with u anymore, i cant stand the men cant fuck me hard enough, or this guy keep surfing the girls pic on the dating link like filipinnaheart and view their cam or keep their pic, and ignore my feeling, why should i be with u? u think i really want to be with u, just to get rid of my poor crappy city, and get a better life, get use of u, and then get til i get the citizenship and sweden passport and get rid of u as soon as possible, mats u dont forget, i am so young. 30yo and u r 45, u can be my father if u are lucky.
    i also know u keep talking to thai girls and other girls while i am not here……..
    i am the high sex drive girl, dont u know?
    go and get other girls
    written by
    deceth dairez bolo

  • 440 jackie // Dec 18, 2009 at 11:40 am

    White men tend to be shallow and racist anyway so I would never date one of them…just my preference. Any other race I am open too just not a white man, don’t see the big attraction to them.

  • 441 argh // Dec 21, 2009 at 5:32 pm

    I agree with Strong White Woman in saying that Asian women should stick with Asian men, but I disagree with her nonsense about Nordic genes or… whatever it was.

    First of all, Whites are idiots. They don’t receive good grades in school and most of them spend their time writing grammatically incorrect posts on the internet insulting non-whites. Their countries are desperately clinging to false self righteousness while their economies are gradually deflating. This applies to Japan as well, besides the “bad grades” part.

    There are so many things I could say about Caucasians, but I’m going to hold myself back. Your evil hook nosed men and fat ugly women speak for themselves.

  • 442 Jack P. // Dec 25, 2009 at 12:10 pm

    So, much hate. Date who you want to date for f… sake!

    Nothing more pathetic than making choices based on race, one way or the other.

  • 443 fatwhitecat // Dec 31, 2009 at 12:14 pm

    In terms of a far back previous post that stated that Asian actors can’t ‘get a break’ (paraphrasing) in Hollywood, a lot of that is self-induced.

    To clarify, I’m a Korean American female who did a serious amount of acting in LA and Vancouver. There were two jobs that I lost b/c I wasn’t the right ‘brand’ of Asian.

    Previously, when say a Chinese actor was playing a Korean, that actor/the show received tons of hate mail (anyone remember Margaret Cho’s long ago sitcom?).

    We need to stop categorizing amongst ourselves if we want more of a presence in Hollywood. Could it be construed as mildly offensive that the white producers don’t recognize the difference b/n a Chinese and a Japanese actor/actress? possibly, but personally, I’d rather see more Asian eyes on screen than quibble about socially created boundary lines.

  • 444 Fence // Jan 3, 2010 at 4:11 am

    As a halfie with a white father, I was someone wryly amused to discover that my father fills in each of the categories you mentioned in your opening paragraph XD

  • 445 Va // Jan 6, 2010 at 4:12 pm

    White people sucks dick. I admit I hate seeing white dude with Asian girls, because I grew up being picked on and spit on by white dude so I see them as rubbing in my face. I feel sad that Asian girls care nothing about how their Asian brothers are being treated by society. I have seen a couple of these Asian girls on TV spouting of the same stereotype that white people spout at me. To me, they are traitors because they are racist enablers.

    I know you’re going to say that not all white dude are the same and I shouldn’t blame the entire race of people because I hate a bad experience.

    But I have been treated that way my entire life. I was stereotypes as if every Asian is the same. So why do white people expect to be treated different when their media is perpetuating stereotype. Next time you see an Advertisement, just look at the people. I swear the only minority are black men and asian women. I’ve give you hundred dollar if I am wrong.

    Frankly, I am sick of being put down by society. I going to fucked these people up someday.

  • 446 ass // Jan 7, 2010 at 3:07 am

    as far as i know, i don’t give a shit anymore if asian girls go for white douchebags. they’re either really stuck up bitches, think they’re better than their race, or trying to “experiment” past their asian ex. and its always the really obvious frat boy; let them all do it, one day they’ll realize the truth so fuck them.

    black women and asian men get along better anyways, so asian men should just start doing the same.

  • 447 ass // Jan 7, 2010 at 3:11 am

    and strong white woman, i agree with you in the sense that i hope you are aware that we don’t want your ‘nordic’ genes as much as you don’t want our ‘oriental’ genes. you white people exploit the media in every colonized nation portraying yourselves as the sexiest and most superior, when the reality is you’re the most unsanitary and oppressive by nature.

  • 448 argh // Jan 13, 2010 at 1:38 am

    I’m an Asian woman and I am sick of seeing whites post comments about how superior they are and I am sick of seeing Asians dating white men and acting like this makes them better than everyone else. I would never marry anything besides an Asian guy, because frankly, being intimate with something else different from me just seems disgusting.
    I wish all Asian women would stop helping white men perpetuate the stereotype of the “humble geisha” or “the whore in Vietnam.” I wish Asian men would be less like helpless (angry) little girls and more like real men. I wish stupid posts and blogs about Asian women being stuck up traitorous bitches would just stop.

  • 449 Hay // Jan 13, 2010 at 2:05 am

    if you want to piss off a white guy, date a white chick. that pisses them off more than anything. my girlfriend in college was white and every now and then we’d get angry stares.

  • 450 Jazz // Jan 13, 2010 at 9:11 pm

    Im asian and I dont date asian girls. Im afraid I might be related to them. Plus theyre too short and small. Theyre also way too shy and lack personality. They need to get some guts. Plus hapa babies are so cute.

  • 451 Yoyo // Jan 14, 2010 at 11:05 am

    “you white people exploit the media in every colonized nation portraying yourselves as the sexiest and most superior, when the reality is you’re the most unsanitary and oppressive by nature.”

    You’re just fooling yourself. Asian countries are much more intolerant of other races than Americans and Europeans are.

  • 452 WannabeAZN // Jan 14, 2010 at 4:08 pm

    I remember being in Japan on a train and this americanized Asian guy (UCLA pullover or something similar) gave me the look of utter hate and disgust, at the time I didn’t understand – now it’s more clear. Anyway as a WM, for whatever reason I adore Asian women in general…I don’t really care about the reasons, for me it’s just purely based on attraction – it’s the only thing that should matter.
    I would love to have a a hapa baby and share my “nordic traits”, race traitors unite.

  • 453 Sophiaza // Jan 15, 2010 at 1:19 pm

    Many of the people here have issues. Serious issues.
    My 2 cents:

    40% of AF in North America date white men. that’s HIGH. And no, I don’t believe it’s purely love and emotions. European colonialism, pertuating European beauty and stereotypes in the media, helps to promote whiteness.

    But, in Asia, they seem to have a preference for whites and white features, too. So, Asians need to learn to accept themselves before they can ask others to accept them. Respect yourself, first.

  • 454 Karp // Jan 16, 2010 at 9:17 pm

    Im an Asian guy and Ive totally given up on asian women. I mean…whats the point of trying to talk to them when you know they wont even give you a chance just cuz your an asian dude. Its a huge waste of time. Most of the girls I go for now are non-Asian and all asian guys should do the same.

  • 455 Oh, Wow. // Jan 17, 2010 at 9:06 pm

    Jesus Christ. About a week or so and there’s still idiotic people coming in here and leaving their retarded comments. The logic of the comments and the author induces some very unhealthy /facepalming on my side. Never have I’ve seen such an unhealthy lack of common sense in my 16 years of living.

    A few of the only people I agree with in this article’s comments are CD and J, not only because their wit made their posts entertaining, but also because they made fucking SENSE.

    I mean, what’s up with this white supremacy bullshit? Most of the crap I see here are racist Asian women claiming that they’re not racist by stating reasons why White people > Asian people in an attempt to prove that they love their white boyfriends as individuals? Yeah, that makes TOTAL sense. At least the angry Asian guys and obnoxious white guys here admitted to their racism, jeez. And then we have that one white guy that claimed he was charming for being a self-proclaimed sex god…

    The rest of the posts are White guys glorifying their pasty genitals and bitter Asian guys BAAAWING at the fact that they’re “losing their Asian women”. The former should go jump off a cliff and the latter should grow a pair and stop enforcing these bullshit stereotypes. Seriously, grow the fuck up. I’m glad that I don’t live in your rich neighborhoods, superficial pigs. Where I live it’s mostly Asian male/female couples, so I don’t get the LUXURY of seeing annoying Asian guys dealing with their inferiority complexes and dealing with white guys over-glorifying and stroking their European dicks.

    To the author, what makes you think Asian American women are ANY different from Asian American men (besides the fact that one gender has boobs and a vagina while the other has manboobs and a penis)? What makes you think Asian American women are any less “traditional” than Asian American men? Your logic FAILS. Hard. And one more thing, why did you delete my original comment a week before? You leave in comments with blatant racism and spam comments containing stories of depressed, love-sick girls and delete MY comment with valid and neutral opinions? Get your common sense out of gutter. Please. >_>

    Oh, why won’t you look at that? I can be nice normally, yet aggressive and logical when it comes to racist retards insulting my race and others! How DO I manage being an Asian guy? Whoop-tee-friggin’-doo. I should get a gold medal.

    In other words, I prefer Asian girls (and to a lesser extent, half-Asian girls). Why? Certainly not for all the messed up reasons from the people above. Hey, maybe I’m a little racist. But at least it’s not hostile racism and more of a preference, and I’m not claiming that I’m not racist while denouncing other races including my own, you fucking idiots.

    Seriously, maryring white guys just to make HAPA BABIES? Yes, they’re cute, but MOST BABIES ARE CUTE. You guys act as if you’ll resent your child if they were full-Asian, which is morally fucked up.

    P.S. Good job missing the point of the awesome amateur movie “Yellow Fever”, which is a parody of this overplayed and trite stereotype.

  • 456 ASDF // Jan 18, 2010 at 5:38 am

    #455, stop letting it get to you. This article was written by one of “those” asian girls. You know, that asian man (and probably asians in general) hater, the white worshipper, the self hater, the one that annoys everyone around them with their presence. Those girls don’t have any of our (especially us guys) support, so let it go. I’m certain that in the end we will have the last laugh.

  • 457 #455 // Jan 18, 2010 at 2:31 pm

    ASDF, it’s not just “these” Asian girls though, it’s also the Asian guys here. Just two comments above mine and one claims that he’s afraid to date an Asian girl because he might be related to them. What the fuck? Oh wait, that might be the reason why he and all of “these” Asian girls exist – their parents were related! 8D Extra chromosomes ftl. Basically, I’m not just taking the piss out of the Asian girls here, but I’m taking the piss out of everyone here that made idiotic, baseless claims. Not to mention over three fourths of these people lack common sense, which includes the Asian and white guys here.

    What gets to me is that these certain types of Asian people purposely ignore the somewhat positive Asian stereotypes while ignoring the bad white stereotypes – they’re basically supporting white supremacy, a belief that should die along with the people that support it.

    I mean, seriously, the Asian girls shown in the second YouTube video in this post were retarded as fuck. “I wish Asian guys had more smartness like white guys”. What. The. Fuck? Way to switch the stereotypes around HORRIBLY. Screw thinking about what racial background they have, these are the type of stuck-up rich broads that annoy me IN GENERAL – criticizing people for how they look and sound when they don’t exactly excel in those categories either.

    And then we have the foil. We have the Asian girls in the first YouTube video who were told to act like that by Philip Wang, the ASIAN video maker, who the Asian girls I’ve shown this video to thought was hot. Oh the irony. 8D

    Hell, I don’t even find the comments here particularly offensive being an Asian guy, just knowing what kind of person they are (the stuck-up and whitewashed Asian girl/guy, your average racist “your base r belong to us. Our European blood is superior!!!” white guys, et cetera) is enough to piss me off. In fact, it’s not even a “who has the last laugh” situation, bro. Where I live, I already have the last laugh, of sorts. Asian girls like Asian guys, Asian girls who have other racial boyfriends still think Asian guys are cute (or, at the very least. don’t look down upon us). This is more of a “STOP BEING RETARDED AND USE THE LITTLE INTELLIGENCE YOU STILL HAVE” calling to the outside world’s logic, which is admittedly futile, because they are, well, retarded.

    Anyway, I’m out (for now). My previous comment is probably going to be deleted like the first one because I’m an Asian guy whose on (sort of) neutral grounds with the whole Asian males vs. White males bullshit and taking the piss out of both sides equally, rather than an Asian girl that came in to enforce false stereotypes about Asian men or a white guy that came in to post white supremacist bullshit and attempt to humiliate the Asian guys in even more offensive ways. It doesn’t matter, because this Asian kid threw the F bomb! Ah, human logic is a beautiful thing! Even to a 16 year old kid.

  • 458 some russian // Jan 25, 2010 at 9:23 am

    Don’t know I guess my Asian fiver passed after 16 … not sure how that kind of attraction works on fundamental level. Perhaps my own genetic makeup has enough Asian blood (predominately thanks to that jackass on top^) I’ve dated Asian woman before and I don’t discount possibility of marrying Asian woman someday but right now I’m or red fiver. Give me red hair, freckles and Irish accent and I’ll betray mother Russia.

  • 459 ASDF // Jan 25, 2010 at 12:15 pm

    Heheheh, funny some russian. Sorry about those ‘transgressions’ our ancestors made in the past. :D

  • 460 BatuKhan // Jan 26, 2010 at 10:46 pm

    Who cares about asian girls. white guys can keep them.

    “The greatest happiness in life is to crush your enemies, to see them scattered before you, to rob them of their wealth, to see their loved ones bathed in tears, and to clasp at your bossom their weeping wives and daughteres.” _genghis khan

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  • 462 ! // Feb 2, 2010 at 12:58 am

    im half white and filipino personally i dont like seeing other races date asians primarily due to bad relations i had with blacks and hispanics throughout my life. I know deep down its not right but thats the way it is for me. I also think it is fair to say that the majority of asians feel the same way about their asian women dating another race especially Koreans. Filipinos are the funniest of all because they actually promote “White Guy” dating and is very well accepted by the whole country except for the filipino men who complain and are jealous of the fact. All you see on television is mixed filipino women and at the very least full filipinas who are light skinned and beautiful.

  • 463 Danster // Feb 8, 2010 at 3:46 am

    Any Asian person who dates or marries outside their race BASED on the criteria of race has a serious mental or emotional problem.

    You can say that about any race and you’ll be correct, 100% of the time.

    I have seen women of all races who were mistreated by “their” men or fathers and then rush to other races. It’s sad, and unfortunately pathetic. The same is 100% true for men as well.

    If an Asian person happens to fall in love with someone outside their race, that is perfectly fine. If an Asian person is ONLY attracted to certain races, that person is screwed up.

    People need to understand that difference, because it is important.

    As for some of the comments in this thread, I’ve noticed a lot of bitter people are from America, where there is a HUGE degree of racism.

    The majority of people – Asian women included – DO NOT date outside their race. Most people do not want to. Most people feel comfortable around their own people. Consider the opposite of this. People who don’t feel comfortable or want another ethnicity. Some people are truly ashamed of their own culture or they are deeply insecure. If you think about this, you’ll realize that these people are the ones with a problem.

    It’s no coincidence that people who actively seek out an IR relationship are hurting inside or emotionally conflicted.

    Anytime I see an Asian woman dating someone who isn’t Asian, the first thought that goes through my mind is “emotionally damaged,” or prostitute.

  • 464 umm // Feb 19, 2010 at 5:40 pm

    this is exactly why asian girls are so obnoxious.

    asian girls go for white men because hotter asian girls snatch up all the QUALITY hot asian men, of which there are not many of.

    most asian girl, white guy, pairings = some average asian girl with some below average white guy.

    all the hottest white guys are taken by the hottest white girls.

    stop acting as if asian girls rule white men and get the pick of the litter. they’re usually scraping the bottom of the barrel. and a bottom of the barrel white guy and a bottom of the barrel asian guy have a lot in common, it’s just the white one is taller, so he is preferred.

    i’m a hot, well-educated, and well-dressed asian guy and i don’t have problems with women in the slightest.

    actually every asian girl i’ve dated who exclusively dated white men before me, only date asian men after me and straight up say things like, “I had no idea what i was doing. Never again.”

  • 465 paz // Feb 24, 2010 at 11:23 pm

    @umm, @umm,

    I find your reply harsh, but very true (for the most part)
    First it is a problem when one starts to date strictly on color to start with. I know many believe that’s not a crime they are guilty of the truth is usually plain to see. Beauty is beauty be you Black, white Asian etc.
    Every black man with a bald head is not a Tyson Bedford ford model, every white boy with blond hair is not Brad pit” every Asian girl with straight black hair is not a Lucy Lou…
    In the seventies and early eighties they had a joke about white women and black men
    Black men (most not all) would take the lowest class whit woman he least attractive
    And pick her over a Black woman who was ten times more attractive and ten times more successful. A white woman who could not get a date with a decent white man could walk in a club and get the best black man in the club.
    Next as time went on you had white women with Back fetish they did no care what he looked like they just wanted to screw anything black in many cases they could no tell one black from another.
    As time has past you don’t see that as much the playing field seems to have even out between the two. Also these two races have a deeper richer history with each other especially in the west.
    I See Asian girls these days going through the same thing now.
    I have seen white Guys that no Latin, white or Black girl would give the time of a minute on his best day” I seen that same white guy have the most beautiful successful Asian women at will. I have see Asian parents proud of the half white son in-law and grandchild
    Walking with head held high even though the white guy is a jobless slob who mistreats the daughter.
    I have seen many of my Asian sisters talk a good game (make some great excuses)
    “The parents accept it because they know the grand children and daughters will have a better chance for success. “Not true because I have see countless number of Asian women carrying the load and marrying bums. This myth about the white professional marring the Asian girl is rare” unless he is to old to catch the woman of his dreams
    So he settles for the Asian who will love him with or with out his money.
    My best friend fell in love with a young man from Brazil “very handsome, very good to her and very hard working. Her family hated him cause he was Dark she claimed
    It was a cultural choice o leaves him.
    Four months later she married his white guy that her cherish white friend described as gross and looser” she strutted in the club with this guy on her arm as if he was Johnny Depp” The truth is “ I Know”””” many Asian girls who date and look strictly for white men and the accept things from White men Personalities, looks, disrespect, ambitions and a whole list of other things they would not dream of accepting from another race
    Even from within ”
    The truth is Asian view Whites as the superior race and they cant tell the difference
    They are blinded by Western lights” They are one of the few races ashamed of their tanned skin Indian being the second “ They spend ton’s in skin bleachers etc.
    Korean actresses routinely get plastic surgery on their eyes and nose to look Caucasian. (I know not every one applies to this rule) So if you don’t I am talking about you! But in general this is the case if we only look deeper.
    I hear allot of racial undertones about other races coming from Asians that are straight out of the Westerners play book that Asians don’t realized is played on them as well.
    I recall an Asian comedian implying that Asian girls who date Black guys are sluts are desperate. Wake up call” White view Asian girls who date white Guys are mail order brides me love you long time easy targets” and I am sure you would not like it”
    Maybe we should all look at people as an independent not race

  • 466 Jonathan // Mar 1, 2010 at 12:01 am

    @Tonya, His dad is part Jamaican so he is more like maybe an 8th white I beilieve. That is just what I read.

  • 467 Phoebe // Mar 7, 2010 at 9:22 pm

    @Scott, so true… media exposure is everything nowadays. And me being an asian female is agreeing to what your saying. I dont know some people think that what I say is sometimes very offeensive to my own people but im just stating the truth. not my fault sometimes it hurts. and the only reason why i dont date asian guys (at the moment) is because all the asian guys in the state of florida isnt that great looking and are shorter than me, and im only 5′ 6″

  • 468 Anonymous // Mar 8, 2010 at 6:55 pm

    @steve, WTF were you on when you wrote this??? I think you definitely have a complex about size but it’s nothing to do with noses!!!

  • 469 deven // Mar 13, 2010 at 11:37 am


    “The truth is Asian view Whites as the superior race and they cant tell the difference
    They are blinded by Western lights” They are one of the few races ashamed of their tanned skin Indian being the second “ They spend ton’s in skin bleachers etc.
    Korean actresses routinely get plastic surgery on their eyes and nose to look Caucasian. ”

    I agree with you that some Asians view whites as the superior race. However when you say “they are one of the few races ashamed of their tanned skin Indians being the second,” I think you are referring to Orientals? Since Indians are clearly Asian.

    Also, I have to say that your comment about Korean plastic surgery is incorrect. I live in Korea, and to be honest the reason Koreans get plastic surgery is not to look Caucasian (they are quite proud of their pure Korean blood), it is simply to look more attractive in order to land better jobs, rich spouses, have status, and self confidence. Korean society is based on appearances and rank/merit.

  • 470 Will // Mar 14, 2010 at 11:02 am

    QUOTE ” White view Asian girls who date white Guys are mail order brides me love you long time easy targets” and I am sure you would not like it”

    Actually that was a common mentality of the older generations who served in WWII, Korea, and Vietnam. I’m in my late twenties, I’m an engineer and carrying the load for my Chinese wife’s family and I don’t treat her as product at all. In fact, our relationship is fantastic and I am learning her native language. Your bitterness is irrelevant. Bitter women are such a turn off.

  • 471 moon123 // Mar 15, 2010 at 12:31 am

    @anon, racist White bit–

  • 472 E-V // Mar 17, 2010 at 10:18 am

    So much talk about lowest white guys dating best asian girls/lowest asian girls dating best white guys…did anybody here ever consider love and mutual attraction?

    If you are so prone to judging couples by the apperance of each member, how do you judge your own partner? And what if something happens that causes them to look shitty, huh??

  • 473 African Guy // Mar 18, 2010 at 11:30 pm

    I can honestly say, from my own experience (years of chasing Asian girls), that it is no easy feat for Blacks/Africans to get Asian girls. There is this prejudice lingering within the minds of these girls for some reason. I have come to know this through observation and mounds of rejection.

    I always get into the friend zone and stay there because these girls only seem to want Asian guys or white guys. It’s not a simple task to show them your true colours.

    I’m a really nice and genuine guy, or so I’ve been told by quite a few non-Asian girls who would date me, but getting an Asian girl to even try and see this is incredibly difficult.

    I have not given up my quest just yet, but i am now starting to reconsider the authenticity of these girls.

    (I’m not sure about the rest of the world, but this seems to hold true for the Greater Toronto Area in Canada)

  • 474 Lightbox // Mar 20, 2010 at 1:03 pm

    I think is says a lot about Asian women that even knowing all the reasons why a pervert white guy might go for them, they still do. So low. Asian women go for white men because they are so competitive and insecure that they think a white guy at their side will give them value… to bad the value they get is that of a two-bit whore.

    Oh and halfie-babies? Scary little things to everyone but their parents. Just because they don’t say it to your face, doesn’t mean they aren’t talking about it behind your back.

    What even worse is that most Asians think they have to breed with someone else to even begin to have some cute babies.

    So sad. Why don’t you all figure out how to get some self worse without putting a white cock in your mouth?

  • 475 Lightbox // Mar 20, 2010 at 1:10 pm


    in Asia it seems the more attractive features are the ones that resemble more Caucasian and less Asian, so even if Koreans are proud of their heritage they are still guided consciously or not by Western ideals.

  • 476 Lightbox // Mar 20, 2010 at 1:12 pm

    I think is says a lot about Asian women that even knowing all the reasons why a pervert white guy might go for them, they still do. So low. Asian women go for white men because they are so competitive and insecure that they think a white guy at their side will give them value… to bad the value they get is that of a two-bit whore.

    Oh and halfie-babies? Scary little things to everyone but their parents. Just because they don’t say it to your face, doesn’t mean they aren’t talking about it behind your back.

    What even worse is that most Asians think they have to breed with someone else to even begin to have cute babies.

    So sad. Why don’t you all figure out how to get some self worth without putting a white cock in your mouth?

  • 477 KC // Mar 20, 2010 at 1:16 pm

    White guys who date Asian women = Automatic losers by association

  • 478 Anonymous // Mar 21, 2010 at 7:06 am

    this is bullshit….

    white guys are so overrated…asian guys are better

  • 479 Anonymous // Mar 21, 2010 at 10:45 am

    Wow, you are all full of shit! You fall in love with someone because of their personality, good nature and their ability to make you happy. Not because of their race. The author of this article clearly doesn’t know what she’s talking about and neither do most of the commenters, you racist BIGOTS! It is clear you are biased and should not be allowed to write such slander. What the hell is “race treason”? Does that mean you are a traitor to your race because you find intreset in someone else who is not exactly of your race?! What a dumb bitch, I hope you’ve grown up since you wrote this article.

  • 480 jay // May 7, 2010 at 12:24 am

    @Anoymous1, I’ve noticed this too! White female mixed with any race = beautiful babies! No clue why though.

  • 481 jay // May 7, 2010 at 12:27 am

    That’s funny, I just read an article that said that white women are the least discriminatory. That asian women care too much about money and white women are not nearly as materialistic. That they will love their man for who he is rather than what he can provide. Also that white women are feisty and hold opinions.

  • 482 jen // May 7, 2010 at 12:31 am

    @African Guy, Many Asians don’t like black people or Mexicans. I work with and live amongst only asians and they always whisper the most offensive things (I guess they don’t think I hear them). I look white but I’m actually Mexican so it’s extremely annoying.

  • 483 jen // May 7, 2010 at 12:34 am

    @Zaca, lol nope. old asian women look either like gollum or like an old asian man. this is a myth started by asian women.

  • 484 jenny // May 7, 2010 at 12:46 am

    @Yoyo, THANK YOU! Literally 70% of the Asians I know (and I know a lot) are SOOO RACIST! They wont date anyone who’s not asian (except maybe white), they think all black people are criminals and all mexicans are dirty. It’s infuriating. Race is a social construction, stop perpetuating it. We all come from Pangea people!

  • 485 jenny // May 7, 2010 at 12:49 am

    @Va, your post is completely racist.

  • 486 klien // May 7, 2010 at 12:53 am

    @argh, Wow someone sounds like they have an inferiority complex. At least caucasians can be creative. We’re not constantly studying to make the grade (which to an asian mind equivocates stupidity) but we can also think for ourselves and innovate. UCLA does not like to take immigrants from Asia because they’re raised with an “obey” mentality thus they cannot innovate, they cannot be creative.

  • 487 klien // May 7, 2010 at 1:01 am

    @J, I don’t get why everyone’s attacking Asian women for liking white men or white men for liking asian women. How about asian men not going after white women or white women hating asian men?

  • 488 klien // May 7, 2010 at 1:04 am

    @Straight Asian, you’re an idiot. The new world order is what’s causing it.

  • 489 kelly // May 7, 2010 at 1:12 am

    @BL, As a feminist I’ve noticed it more from asian men actually. But yes, a lot of white men make those ignorant statements also. Tip to men, this is the biggest turn off EVER. It makes me want to go lez it’s such a huge turn off. Not only to the man making the sexist comments but to the entire male species. Whenever I hear a sexist comment about women I can’t help but feel more negatively about the male species. Similar to racism, when one race attacks another you begin to hate the entire race attacking you even though, chances are, it’s just a vocal minority behind the attacks. Anyways, Asia and the Middle East both are very behind in the times and treat their women badly so American born Asian men and Middle Eastern men can be very attractive but if they’re from those places I’m very tentative to even want to get to know them.

  • 490 kelly // May 7, 2010 at 1:17 am

    @Mrcoffee, agreed

  • 491 angelina // May 7, 2010 at 1:19 am

    @dfgdf, whites have small pointy noses, larger eyes, larger breasts, more curves (not male body shapes) and are much more feminine than asian women so I don’t know what you’re thinking.

  • 492 sandlugs // May 7, 2010 at 6:20 am

    @Mongol Warrior, Why don’t you tell us how you really feel little Mongol. I have seen many so called Chinese warriors, but none of them wanted to mess with me. So that is why we white guys get the Asian girls.

  • 493 Eric // May 7, 2010 at 6:24 am

    @kelly, I’ve been in situations where I had a feeling that women were assessing me negatively, perhaps because I was asian, and therefore someone who viewed women as second class. How do I know this to be true? Well, the ones who did this always struck me as being feminist, and feminists are always seeming to be on the lookout for things like this. This bothers me a bit because nothing could be further from the truth. I actually prefer being around women to men. If anything, I get along less well with white men than with any other group.

    This doesn’t feel good, so in retaliation I tend to ignore all white women. It’s only fair right? After all, that’s what they do to me. I’m sure that for some of them my action only reinforces their belief that asian guys are bad to women. And thus the cycle goes on, and on, and on…

    My attitude to all this is… Whatever! Someone else with more energy than me can work towards breaking these types of cycles. I am going back to my books and video games.

  • 494 Eric // May 7, 2010 at 6:29 am

    @sandlugs, could it be no one wanted to get near you because you’re hairy and you stink?

  • 495 Tom // May 7, 2010 at 10:41 am

    This phenomenon is very simple: (1) White worship & self-loathing, and (2) Various Asian cultures are still ingrained with Confucian values which obsess over prestige, status, hierarchy, and brands. Look at how many Asians are obsessed with what college their kids get into, what car/clothing brands they buy, or starving for months to save up for overpriced handbags. It’s no surprise why the most avid consumers of Euro fashion products are actually Asians, not Europeans. Same goes for diamonds or gold, shiny symbols of status and prestige, the biggest consumers of overpriced jewelry are Asians.

    This directly plays into dating too, Asian people in Asia & America are brainwashed by media which globally is very Western/Caucasian-centric. In Asia the commercials, malls, ads, and movie theaters glorify Caucasian faces the vast majority of the time. It’s no surprise why eyelid and nose ridge surgery, to emulate Caucasian looks, are the #1 surgery in Asia.

    Think about how lucrative/effective the multi-billion dollar advertising industry is. Then think about how effective product placement is on TV or movies. Entertainment is just as effective in ‘branding’ various males, just like product placement. Western media repeatedly ‘brands’ White males as the best, while simultaneously marginalizing Asian males or giving them outright racist or demeaning roles. Asian women (and other women) internalize this about White & Asian men. Many prestige-obsessed Asian women thus see dating White males (even extremely low quality ones) as a weird status trophy. Some (like Michelle Malkin) go so far as to say self-racist things, or denigrate their own people, for approval from certain supremacist Whites. The Uncle Tom behavior is despicable.

    White worship, self-loathing, obsession for status/prestige, & media-brainwashing help explain why you see so many Asian women in Asia, and in America, with low quality White males who anyone can see on any city sidewalk represent the bottom of the barrel, a combination of fat/old/ugly/bald, or extremely weird/awkward White males who oftentimes simultaneously harbor closet racist views toward Asian cultures & Asian males, while also having extremely negative, bitter (and sexist) views toward White women.
    Also, the sexist stereotype is so false. Asian cultures aren’t hindered by Christian/Jewish religions like White males are, which state that women were to blame in Genesis, that they are 2nd class should serve/obey men, and belong only in the kitchen. In 1950′s America men controlled the money and only gave wives small allowances and limited opportunities. This is completely different from “traditional” Asian philosophies. In Confucian cultures women run the families, which includes control of all the money. This is why in East Asia the commercials, TV, & movies are so cutesy/pink/feminine – women are the dominant consumers in Asia, as opposed to America which is male-dominated and has media that caters to men with constant violence/sex/casual relationships. In major East Asian cities (like in China), the husbands do most of the cooking, house cleaning, & child rearing (think about dating supply and demand). East Asian women never change their maiden names in Asia after marriage, in America women need to change their names/identities after marriage. Kids in America generally need their father’s approval for who they marry, in Asia it’s the opposite. China has a higher % of women in politics, compared to the % of female US Congresswomen or US Senators. China has 7 female billionaires, which already make up half the world’s female billionaires, even though China is still poor and their economy is only 1/5 that of America.

    You can only hide the truth for so long – people are beginning to realize that Western media, especially as it pertains to Asian men, is extremely racist/distorted & is designed to help White males who are extremely insecure & extremely supremacist/territorial.

  • 496 S Yakov // May 8, 2010 at 7:52 pm

    “White” males go for asian girls is bekause they think theyre “easy to get”, are very beautiful and different from white women. The asian girls perspective would be that white men are genetically and economically superior, taller, muscular, good-looking, (and to the 2nd comment) have “the nose” compared to the average asian male. I personally have no favored race.
    (All of these are based on what my college buddies said)

    Asian males have a hard time getting a light skinned partner. Its the stereotypes like the infamous “asian men have small…” and such that makes them look bad.

  • 497 JL // May 8, 2010 at 9:51 pm

    @S Yakov, White males go for asian women for two reasons:

    1. Because they get rejected by their own women. You ever visited Asia? I have. It’s like someone dumped all the white trash white males onto that continent and the surrounding islands. Americans don’t realize the favor Asia is doing it for absorbing this repulsive human trash.

    2. Because they are getting crowded out of their own women by bigger, stronger, more masculine black males. Everywhere I go (college campus, work, out in public, and especially clubs) I see the black male/white female coupling. It seems to be the in thing amongst single white women.

    While it’s true you do see the WM/AF often, it usually only happens on the coastal areas such as California and NY, whereas the BM/WF coupling happens pretty much all over the country.

  • 498 elias // May 11, 2010 at 2:57 pm

    @Cocobutter, Hey , I just wanted to say that after wasting WAAAAAAAYYYYYY Too Much Time attempting (as you said) to find some common sense or insight or incisiveness on this randomly discovered thread on the internet, I came across YOUR post/comment. I agree 100% with what you said about the individuals And the Dynamics you spoke about. I’m not “like you” (that is a black female, I am a chinese/white male from S.F.) but I SEE the same thing. Not the least because it IS what is happening. You pretty much called it. It is MIND BLOWING!! the type of behavior people will Routinely engage in. Or perhaps another way to put it is disengage their moral/Historical Memory or Discernment, conscience Whatever you might want to call it, when something works “in their favor”, even if it is based on stereotypical distortions, is mutually exploitative, ETCETERA, ETCETERA, ET (you get the idea). But y’kno what?? If Those type of folk ACTUALLY Initiate and attempt to Sustain Actual Relationships or Marriages based on this stuff, the “shallowness” (as you put it) ‘should’ become “it’s own punishment”. You know though, folk so RARELY truly examine their own lives, assess their actual reasons for some pretty profound decisions and Feelings about them that Most!! go through the whole Rest of their lives not giving a real second thought to Any of this stuff so.. I will continue to Clown! any and all facile headed mixed couple types, but I Do recognize that, one, they’re some shallow mf’s who I wouldn’t want nuthin to do with in any circumstances and two, there’s only one of me and I like staying out of jail so I keep my clownin efficient.. I should get Paid!! for this shit.. (But once again, Love to you for just being a brain having human. It’s really Amazing how FEW of those are actually walking around out here. (It’s Pretty RARE)

  • 499 elias // May 11, 2010 at 3:55 pm

    @Tom, Wow brothuh you really went the distance in thinking and writing that out. It is all Common Sense and I agree with you. But Still it needs to be said. And repeated, obviously.. over and over and over. (Cuz people keep doin that E-Z Sellout Shit over and over and.. Come on man even the white boys in this equation are Playing Themselves..) No Joke. Good Work my dude. (Just for the Helluvit, I’ll paste on a reply I made to a Female named @Cocoabutter much earlier in this thread because it is almost relevant to this post in the same general way..

    @Cocobutter, Hey , I just wanted to say that after wasting WAAAAAAAYYYYYY Too Much Time attempting (as you said) to find some common sense or insight or incisiveness on this randomly discovered thread on the internet, I came across YOUR post/comment. I agree 100% with what you said about the individuals And the Dynamics you spoke about. I’m not “like you” (that is a black female, I am a chinese/white male from S.F.) but I SEE the same thing. Not the least because it IS what is happening. You pretty much called it. It is MIND BLOWING!! the type of behavior people will Routinely engage in. Or perhaps another way to put it is disengage their moral/Historical Memory or Discernment, conscience Whatever you might want to call it, when something works “in their favor”, even if it is based on stereotypical distortions, is mutually exploitative, ETCETERA, ETCETERA, ET (you get the idea). But y’kno what?? If Those type of folk ACTUALLY Initiate and attempt to Sustain Actual Relationships or Marriages based on this stuff, the “shallowness” (as you put it) ‘should’ become “it’s own punishment”. You know though, folk so RARELY truly examine their own lives, assess their actual reasons for some pretty profound decisions and Feelings about them that Most!! go through the whole Rest of their lives not giving a real second thought to Any of this stuff so.. I will continue to Clown! any and all facile headed mixed couple types, but I Do recognize that, one, they’re some shallow mf’s who I wouldn’t want nuthin to do with in any circumstances and two, there’s only one of me and I like staying out of jail so I keep my clownin efficient.. I should get Paid!! for this shit.. (But once again, Love to you for just being a brain having human. It’s really Amazing how FEW of those are actually walking around out here. (It’s Pretty RARE)

  • 500 dinhster // May 12, 2010 at 11:52 am

    I’m a .5 generation Chinese American and I pretty much consider myself a Banana. You know, yellow on the outside, white on the inside.

    Anyhow, I used to really be in to white girls, but all I see in them now is the old white lady they’ll turn into. Asian girls are so much more elegant and cute. :)

    So I guess I consider myself white and love Asian girls too! :)

  • 501 jssgarden // May 13, 2010 at 2:20 am

    I read the article and half of the comments here and most of them make me feel sad and depressed after reading them. I’m a traditional Asian girl with a white boyfriend. So basically because i’m dating a white guy so i became a traitor to my race and my boyfriend was a loser who couldn’t get a decent white gf. This whole racism thing is ridiculous.

    First of all i don’t think my boyfriend is a loser at all and i’m not the worst looking girl in the world. My boyfriend might not be as hot as the Hollywood movie star but he is fit, tall, and handsome looking. His hair is dirty blond and his eyes are not blue. He’s a university student and very smart. He doesn’t smoke, doesn’t drink and is nice to his family. And i am just as Asian as i can be, love asian culture love asian food, korean drama, manga ect. We are each other’s first official boyfriend and girlfriend. We knew each other at Starbucks. We are a normal couple just as every other couple.

    Before knowing my boyfriend i had liked and dated several asian guys but i had to say most of them made me feel really tired to be with. I felt like they never took interest in me for who i am. I was constantly worried that im not as good as the other girls. The last Asian guy i dated was a totally jerk. Who said only white like to play with girls’ heart, Asian guys do the same thing. But when my current boyfriend came, even though i was hesitated as first, eventually i knew that this was the one that i was waiting for.

    So i dated my white boyfriend not because of the trend or anything but because he is a really nice person and loves me for who i am. And my boyfriend admits that he like asian girls or girls that have dark hair color. But he doesnt have that creepy so called yellow fever because he also has standard and know who’s ugly who’s not. And the rumor that white guys like Asian girls for the submissiveness and sex isn’t true. We had promise each other would wait until we all graduate and married to have sex (one of the reason makes me respect and love him so much). We also have friends who are black, white, asian and mexican and most of them also doesn’t have this type of racism in mind. I’m surprised to think that there are actually people think like some of the comment-ers above.

    Men and women are free to love anyone they want as long as it is genuine and upright. I have a white History teacher who has a Korean wife and he said ppl as her country basically called her a slut for marrying him. But i have seen her picture and she looks like a kind and pretty woman. My teacher also is a hot, tall, smart and fun person i think they make a very nice family.

    Please don’t hate on us interracial couples! work hard to find your true love for yourself!

  • 502 Anonymous // May 16, 2010 at 6:42 pm

    @steve, are you serious?
    do you really think people like people because of a nose? hahaha
    you are
    sofa king we todd ed
    hav fun with that one;)

  • 503 Observer // May 18, 2010 at 2:21 pm

    Wow, the comments on this span two years. Bravo, OP Skunkgal.

    And ironically, I came across this blog because I was searching for hapa pics to see what my hapa baby might grow up to look like. Too funny.

    And yeah, she is really cute!! ^_^

  • 504 Asian American Female // May 27, 2010 at 12:58 pm

    Ok wow i’ve read evey single comment post on here and I was like woah so many debates! I dont know all the statistics of W/A couples but it is true that most asian guys seem to be really shy and sometimes portrayed as mean, a geek,or girly. For me I <3 Asian guys no matter what. :P

  • 505 Vincent // May 27, 2010 at 6:30 pm

    I’m kind of confused. The standards of why Asian men are the so called complexes in an Asian and White relationship that you put out don’t match most of my friends.

    I grew up in Toronto, and the Asian girls that I know actually don’t crave White men. Sure, they talk about actors and random scruffty men that walks pass downtown, yet they never truly state that they’d date them. I actually discussed this with some of them and they said they prefer Asian men.

    I really want to be bold here to say that second to third generation girls would obviously crave White men. Then again they have no culture and nothing to offer; they’re just the same. I’m not deminishing that fact that that’s wrong, but I just want to stress how it could have been more better for these girls to actually learn where they come from and the history.

    I had a white girlfriend a few years back. Good experience? Throughly. My girl drank shit loads, and it was always a bother having to drive her home. But still, yeah, we had a good time. And as for the family thing. Yeah, my parents weren’t very fond of me dating someone not Asian, but does that automatically put them into a hating mindset? No! I invited her to dinner and things went pretty swimmingly. It was more of a fling, really. But were things different? No.

  • 506 Anonymous // Jun 4, 2010 at 6:38 am

    @anon, Obvious Joke is Obvious.

  • 507 Anonymous // Jun 7, 2010 at 8:38 am


    What? I come from the midwest (Wisconsin to be exact- 98% white) and big noses are considered ugly/humorous. White men have zero idea that asian women supposedly consider this an irresistible trait, if that’s true at all. Or you’re being facetious. In that case, well played :)

  • 508 Asian Pride // Jun 10, 2010 at 6:41 am

    White people are inferior mentally and aesthetically. I think we should exterminate those termites

  • 509 Mike // Jun 14, 2010 at 2:41 am


    I am not so sure what you’re referring to as far as social status. Most of the Asian female and White guy pair I’ve seen tend to be the opposite. The female tend to be the stay home mom, less educated, 8 out of 10 times can’t even speak English. Maybe cause I am in the military and all I see is the less fortunate war brides that came from distant Asian countries. I happend to date a few Asian chicks while I am station in Okinawa and Korea, just for the easy lay. They all seem a bit psychotic and self loathing, maybe that’s why they’re such easy lay. Since everyone wants to be frank about this topic. That’s just my $0.02

  • 510 White Guy // Jun 15, 2010 at 11:49 pm

    I dated a Chinese girl. We both liked the same bands and had similar hobbies. We went on a date and had fun, and since we had fun we just continued on dating. It had nothing to do with race, eugenics, status, the people we hang out, going against our parents etc. etc. etc.

    You’re right maybe *some* asian girls date white men for the status and lifestyle and maybe *some* white guys date asian girls for submissiveness or some sort of perceived feminine quality… But almost everyone here is looking at the two extreme sides of a bell curve. Everyone else in the middle are perhaps just dating cause maybe I dunno they have FUN and genuinely like the person irregardless or race.

    I hate people in the comments because now when and if I date an asian girl I always feel I am being judged as a a white loser with an asian fetish when I’m dating her only cause I connected with her in a way that I could and have connected with people from other races..

  • 511 Alice // Jul 2, 2010 at 6:49 am

    @estella, I totally understand what you meant. I’m Chinese but I’ve always been attracted to white men. I can’t see myself ever dating another Asian person considering there’s a possibility that he could be a sixth or seventh cousin of mine. Especially since many people from countries like Indonesia, Malaysia, Korean, Japan, Singapore etc are part Han Chinese.

  • 512 Eric // Jul 7, 2010 at 1:23 pm


    This is probably the most retarded statement I’ve heard from benedict arnolds such as yourself. Imagine if every asian woman like yourself thought like you did. There would be no asians left on this planet. Holy hell you people are retarded. Next time you look at yourself in the mirror, just ask how is it that you came to be. Oh right, your DAD was asian.

  • 513 Eric // Jul 7, 2010 at 1:28 pm

    @estella, You’re attracted to white guys because you’ve been brainwashed you dumb trick. Just white guys? Seriously.

  • 514 Eric // Jul 7, 2010 at 1:30 pm

    @freeearth, Good job homewrecker. I hope karma catches up with you later on down the line.

  • 515 Eric // Jul 7, 2010 at 1:39 pm


    Niki has it ever occured to you within that empty head of yours that possibly, just possibly other races other than white people are capable of possesing the very traits you seek? If you just opened your eyes and stopped being a lemming for a second?

  • 516 Whatever // Jul 8, 2010 at 10:34 am


    Why do you care? Asian is just a look. If someone isn’t attracted to it, you can’t really blame them for it. And also, Asians are not anywhere near dying out.

  • 517 LK // Jul 8, 2010 at 11:19 am

    @Whatever, yeah, but look at the reason she gave:

    “I can’t see myself ever dating another Asian person considering there’s a possibility that he could be a sixth or seventh cousin of mine. ”

    I understanding preferring one look over another but if this isn’t retarded I don’t know what is.

  • 518 Asian Hero // Jul 13, 2010 at 11:29 pm

    Why do fat, ugly, low self-esteem, self hating asian sluts date pigs? The answer is asian men don’t want them and these ugly sell outs r the best that white men can get.

  • 519 Beijing Escort // Jul 14, 2010 at 1:01 am

    Yoko is Zhang Ziyi? Does she have another English name?
    I am confused

  • 520 Brent // Jul 14, 2010 at 9:31 pm

    This is funny. they have this same topic at stuff white people like blog. i am white and i do have a taste for asian girls, but i’m not racist so i am fine with just about any girl. i have a friend at school who’s asian, and although we’ve only known each other for the past year, she is clearly more interested in me than the asian guys she has known for many years. so i guess this whole thing is true.

  • 521 angela // Jul 17, 2010 at 6:53 am

    “halfie babies are so damn cute.”

    LOL. Asian genes are dominant. Jon and Kate have 8 children, not a single one of them looked mixed or white. So much for that.

  • 522 angela // Jul 17, 2010 at 7:28 am

    @perfectlynice??, BULLSHIT. One of the most popular reasons that white men say they date Asian women because “American women” (code word for White) are too into feminism and their own education. These men actually go to Asian countries for the sole fact of finding a traditional bride. Sorry, I’m not buying it.

  • 523 angela // Jul 17, 2010 at 7:32 am

    @Anoymous1, What difference would it make if the male is white and the female is black? Its still the same combination.

    Lauren London
    Thandie Newton
    Eartha Kitt
    Tia and Tamara Mowry

  • 524 angela // Jul 17, 2010 at 7:48 am

    @anonymous, I call bullshit (again lol). White males constantly talk about Asian girls being “submissive” and aren’t feminists like White females.

    Why can’t you girls just tell the truth?

  • 525 Jenniz // Jul 19, 2010 at 1:59 pm

    @angela, did someone wake up on the wrong side of the bed this morning? you seem awfully upset for such a petty reason. who says american women are too into feminism nowadays so american men have to go to asian countries to find “traditional brides”? if you wanna see bullshit, look at your own comment.

    asian women have more morals than most american women and they were brought up to respect their elders and follow rules. that is why asian women are respected and pursued by american men who are not used to this because they have been around american women their whole lives.

  • 526 angela // Jul 19, 2010 at 2:13 pm

    @Jenniz, you misunderstood my comment. Sorry I should have made myself more clear. I’ve read on the internet from American men that they say they prefer Asian women for those reasons.

  • 527 Person // Jul 24, 2010 at 9:11 am

    Dear Asian girls,

    thanks for leaving black dudes out in your quest for foreign booty.
    – signed Not Pleased.

  • 528 The Don // Jul 29, 2010 at 6:57 pm

    “Asian women are the least discriminatory female demographic.” That couldn’t be further from the truth…I would go as far as to say that they are probably the MOST discriminatory females of any racial group! If this wasn’t true, then why not see Asian females with other races besides Asian or white? It’s not like males from other races don’t like Asian women, all males around the world love Asian women…but it seems to be a whites-only club. I personally have lost respect for Asian females, I see them as sell-outs that let themselves be objectified for the sake of being some white man’s concubine!

  • 529 The Don // Jul 29, 2010 at 7:10 pm

    @African Guy, I wouldn’t give up entirely…but I wouldn’t try so hard. I used to have a girlfriend from Hong Kong (I’m black btw) and let me tell you. I had to bust my butt just to keep things going between her and I. I fought so much discrimination from her friends and family, it really wasn’t worth it. I didn’t go after her because she was Asian, I really was attracted to the things that she said. Anyway, after dating other races I came to realize that Asian women in general, do NOT respect black men and even if you were to date one, you will see first hand that it probably won’t even be that great of an experience.

  • 530 The Don // Jul 29, 2010 at 7:14 pm

    This is a bit off kilter, but let me just say something that may have some small relevance to this discussion. Anybody here ever watch anime? Have you noticed that the characters NEVER look Japanese? They are always drawing white people, but then give them Japanese names and draw them with HUGE eyes. Let me just say, I love the Japanese culture, but this is such a turn off! It disgusts me to see the brown-nosing of the white man, while they deny their own appearance. This is probably why many Asians don’t like blacks, we are a proud people and we don’t kiss ass. Sorry… we don’t want to be white.

  • 531 The Don // Jul 29, 2010 at 7:18 pm

    @, you say big noses are considered unattractive? Let me tell you, a vast majority of white men have really big noses…it’s just the way it is. Big noses, small lips, no ass, etc…you know the rest!

  • 532 The Don // Jul 29, 2010 at 7:23 pm

    @Scott, you’re right my man

  • 533 sookie // Aug 1, 2010 at 5:21 am

    Halfies attractive? They look Asian. Why do you want to be white so BADLY?

  • 534 sookie // Aug 1, 2010 at 5:24 am

    Not to say Asians are unattractive by the way! Sounds like the author believes this though. How awful.

  • 535 sookie // Aug 1, 2010 at 5:54 am

    @Latino Man, why would a guy like you want to put up with that? That being doing back flips for some racist Asian?

  • 536 cookie // Aug 1, 2010 at 6:35 am

    @guy asian, you’re so silly lol.

  • 537 anonymous // Aug 1, 2010 at 7:22 am

    @sookie, this article was written by an asian woman. One of asian women’s famous stereotypes is their self hatred/self loathing, lol.

  • 538 John // Aug 11, 2010 at 12:35 am

    @GOD, LOL, I will be the Asian, blasting YT.

  • 539 John // Aug 11, 2010 at 12:56 am

    @Niki, yeah, like you have seen 99% of Asian men. Get your head out of your ass.

  • 540 John // Aug 11, 2010 at 12:59 am

    @Straight Asian, Yeah, I am cheering for China, the only Asian countries with balls. SK is a bunch colonize Christian, and Japan got nuked so bad, they are loss their balls.

  • 541 John // Aug 11, 2010 at 1:11 am

    @Dude, where’s my bubble tea, Yeah, some fucking Asian are clueless. Esp those fucking Asian from Asia.

    Some Asian guy are proud that they convert a white guy to Asian girls. WTF? Seriously, Asian people in Asia need a race lesson.

    I am going to what ever it take to prevent the next generation from going down this shit hole.

  • 542 Jeff // Aug 11, 2010 at 5:32 pm

    Woah. Asians aren’t allowed to say “white boy”. Lots of Asian people have skin that’s… well.. basically just as white as ours (albeit with a yellow tint). Only black people can call us white boys.

    I don’t think white guys like Asians because we live in a “delusional fantasy world”. “Asians” could just as well be changed to “Japanese”, cause that’s who we’re REALLY interested in (I guess as well as other East Asians such as Koreans and Chinese… but mostly Japs). And no, it’s not because they’re “exotic” or anything.. I think it’s just because they seem pure, innocent.. young looking. In porn they’re never yelling “FUCK DAT PUSSY YA FUCK IT!”.

  • 543 Jeff // Aug 11, 2010 at 5:43 pm

    @The Don, I’m not sure how one can “be white”? (Do you mean.. speaking proper english, getting a good education, and being successful?)

    Or do you mean physically be white? Such as straightening your hair, or getting weaves? Cause lots of black girls do that.

    The point about Anime is true though, and it’s weird. I’ve always wondered if Japanese people realize that the characters are insanely caucasian, or if they just see them as Japanese people with blue eyes and brown hair..

    Or maybe they don’t want every character looking the same, and it has nothing to do with “brown nosing the white man” (Yes, before I get accused of being a racist I know that all Japanese don’t look the same.. however in drawn form, especially the style of Anime, it’s kind of hard to make them significantly different. Which is why I’m guessing they rely on features such as eyes and hair.)

    Well whatever the case may be, I’m pretty sure Japanese aren’t trying to be white. They’re a proud people and value their heritage and culture a lot. However, when you see ads in India for creams that make your skin tone lighter.. that’s a little frightening. (Whether they’re trying to look white or just look South American or something, I don’t know.. but still.)

  • 544 Jeff // Aug 11, 2010 at 5:52 pm

    @The Don, Can you please stop painting a portrait of white men as snarling hunched over evil executives planning the extermination of every race besides our own? Not to mention you’re making Asian women seem like completely incompetent imbeciles who can’t make decisions for themselves.

    Not everybody see’s the world through races, like you do. Not everyone is completely obsessed with their skin tone, and are professional victims because of it. Please stop hating other races, and acting like the world is out to get you. Nobody gives a shit.

  • 545 Jeff // Aug 11, 2010 at 5:55 pm

    @angela, Seriously? If you can’t tell those kids are mixed, you’re a complete retard. I mean, REALLY fucking retarded.

  • 546 Jeff // Aug 11, 2010 at 5:58 pm

    @Asian Hero, Uh oh, somebody’s angrryyy. Don’t worry though, I hear the exact same thing about white guys who get pissed when our girls date black dudes. You aren’t alone in your pathetic little insecure racist fight.

    Asian girls like white guys more than you, get over it skipper.

  • 547 Jeff // Aug 11, 2010 at 6:01 pm

    @Asian Pride, Don’t worry. There are plenty of white racists who think the exact same thing about Asians. The only difference is, they actually DO shit about it, and don’t spend their entire existence hiding behind a keyboard like a spineless shithead.

  • 548 Jeff // Aug 11, 2010 at 6:06 pm

    @JL, Really? You’re turning this into a pissing contest. “OH YEAH??? WELL WHITE GIRLS LIKE BLACK GUYS CAUSE THEY’RE MORE MUSCULAR!!!”

    Cool bro. Fortunately most white guys couldn’t give a shit less. I don’t know why Asian guys are so fucking insecure about Asian women dating outside their race… it’s not like you’re a dying breed.

  • 549 Jeff // Aug 11, 2010 at 6:11 pm

    @Tom, Blah Blah Blah Blah The white man is evil and he’s sculpted the world to accommodate his low self esteem blaaah ZZZZZZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzz.

    We’ve heard it a million fucking times. Just when it seems like black guys are finally getting over that stupid fucking professional victim shit.. Asians are starting to pick it up? Holy fuck, build a bridge and get over it.

    It’s easy to dump all of your insecurities and shortcomings on 1 EVIL, CONTROLLING race. Kind of like.. Oh, I don’t know… the Nazi’s did with the Jews? Like racists still do today?

    If the “white man” didn’t exist, you’d be pinning all of your problems on a different race. Absolutely guaranteed.

  • 550 Jeff // Aug 11, 2010 at 6:18 pm

    @Tom, Oh, and Asian women are infinitely more oppressed than western women are.

    Are you actually going to even try to argue that? How many business women in Japan are there compared to males? It’s like the 1960s in Asia for women.

    PS. Women are the top consumers in the West, too. You fucking idiot. How about doing some research before you spread racist propaganda.

  • 551 Lan // Aug 20, 2010 at 6:37 pm

    I’m an Asian girl and I prefer Asian men. Dating white guy is like he is superior to you. And it always brought back to the war thing like Asian women and white soldiers fever. And I want to marry an Asian guy because I won’t likely to get a divorce.

  • 552 The Larry Strikes Again! // Aug 25, 2010 at 1:14 pm


    HAHAHAHA! What you are witnessing, Sir, is the epidemic my friends and I have dubbed: The Larry Takeover. Check out the page on facebook: The Larry Fan Club!/group.php?gid=131649886961&v=wall

  • 553 Hnery // Aug 28, 2010 at 1:34 am

    I don’t know but for every good looking white girl you see with a black guy, 100 white guys just changed their preference to Asian.

    Whenever I get attention from white girls now, I just pretend I didn’t see them, because in my mind, a big red neon sign is blinking “SLUT!” over and over. I even hear black guys calling white girls sluts. Who wants leftovers, anybody?

    1 in 4 has an STD according to the associated press and 1 in 2 black girls have an STD. I’m no detective, but I think 1 out of every 4 white girls is banging a brotha. They don’t even want to get in shape any more. They don’t want to do jack shit because they know they can get sex looking like crap if they get it from a brotha.

  • 554 Fred // Aug 28, 2010 at 1:50 am


    I respect it if you choose not to date white guys, but what’s this about not wanting “to get a divorce”? Look at the statistics behind that statement, most of the WM/AF who divorce are the ones with the really old WM husband in which they were inevitably going to get a divorce.

    I think after your first Asian boyfriend cheats on you, then you’ll realize, poor naive girl, that all men are the same. And if a girl is insecure about feeling like she’s inferior to her white partner, then she should just talk about it like all couples do about their problems. A real partner will listen and change to show he’s marriage material. Skin color is a superficial problem, not a personality defect.

  • 555 Srubna // Aug 28, 2010 at 1:48 pm

    I am an asian girl and I have always been attracted to white guys, and not just white guys, but big manly-men types that look like Alex Ross or Frank Frazetta painted them. Part of the reason I’m attracted to white guys would therefor be their sheer stature, and all of the asian guys I’m attracted to (Sonny Chiba) tend to be very manly types, too. I find very few asian-American men do this; on the other hand I find some men actually from asia are quite assertive and manly. They just seem to lose it in the U.S.!

  • 556 Srubna // Aug 28, 2010 at 1:51 pm

    @Lan, “Dating white guy is like he is superior to you. ”
    What? Other than the fact that I do like men to be a bit ‘superior’ to me, I have no idea what this is supposed to mean. Personally I like assertive men who can make decisions on their own and entertain themselves. But I’ve never felt subordinate to a white guy.

  • 557 Srubna // Aug 28, 2010 at 1:54 pm

    @Jeff, I know a lot of guys who go out specifically with the south-asian girls and Chinese because (unlike Koreans and Japanese ladies) they are not ‘westernized’ and defeminized. They can still cook, clean, raise children and don’t expect a man to be a sappy metrosexual.

  • 558 Srubna // Aug 28, 2010 at 1:59 pm

    @The Don, “I personally have lost respect for Asian females, I see them as sell-outs that let themselves be objectified for the sake of being some white man’s concubine!”
    This is called ‘getting married’. Being held as an object of special reverance is just a special advantage in mate-seeking. Stop being such a PC wanker and get with sociobiology, already.

  • 559 Srubna // Aug 28, 2010 at 2:02 pm

    @White Guy, “I always feel I am being judged as a a white loser with an asian fetish”
    Here’s a suggestion: Don’t care what other people think. Anyways, what’s wrong with asian fetishes? Yellow fever increases demand, when demand increases the seller can ask for higher prices :)
    It’s not asian girls who somehow ‘pay’ for yellow fever, it’s the goofy white guys who can’t get enough.

  • 560 Avinash // Sep 4, 2010 at 12:46 pm

    Actually women of ever single race (aggregate average of course) prefer white men over their own. The only exceptions if I remember correctly were Native American and Polynesian. The same isn’t true for men- most prefer their own race over white women with the exceptions of Black and Native American men. This was a study of 18-24 year olds with college degrees.

    This whole issue is controversial because of the tinge of racism. BUT I WOULDN’T CALL WOMEN RACIST PER SE. They are simply more prone to look to society and others around them for confirmation of their opinions. Whereas a man would have his own opinion, a woman is more likely to be less decisive and independent. It’s the same reason why women are more prone to peer pressure. This weakness is a fundamental female trait. That’s why I can forgive my older sister for “explaining” to me, as a teenager, the “rank” of white boys above indian boys (in my race).

  • 561 Mark // Sep 30, 2010 at 1:45 pm

    @angela, Have you ever met a WM/AF couple where the AF is quiet and submissive like the sterotypes you read on the internet? I haven’t and I believe the white guys who post this on the internet are either not guys who actually date Asian women (for more than a week….) or they are Trolls trying to inflame the situation….

  • 562 hanna // Oct 2, 2010 at 5:35 am

    @, Actually as an asian girl and I find black guys hotter than both white and asian guys.

  • 563 Anonymous // Oct 3, 2010 at 1:50 am


    This Asian girl says YES!! DEFINITELY!! THOSE HILARIOUS, COMICALLY HUMONGOUS NOSES OF THOSE WESTERNERS ARE JUST SO SEXY LIKE NO JOKE. My biggest fantasy ever is to shove my clit into one of those humongous honkers. Asian men just NEVER follow up on this! Oh, if you are out there white and huge-nosed, you should go to an Asian country and pick your nose! You WILL get lucky!! ;-D

    (If someone out there does NOT realize that this is heavily sarcastic then they are stupider than the dinner I ate tonight.)

  • 564 Jimbeau // Oct 6, 2010 at 5:09 pm

    @Srubna, I am a white male married to a filipina, and proud to be so. I would think any female would be attracted to Toshiro Mifune (when in his prime). He’s a real man’s man!

  • 565 tony // Oct 8, 2010 at 9:12 am

    And do the Asian girls who like white guys look like this?
    Cuts both ways! It’ simple, people want to be with attractive people, no matter what race.

  • 566 blue_horizon // Oct 9, 2010 at 8:31 am

    I think people have to stop being ignorant about what Asian actually means. Not ALL of us are slanty-eyed and not ALL of us are yellow! Indians, Iranians, Lebanese and Jordanians are Asian too! If you must, say East Asians, but for crissake, stop using the term Asians when you’re solely refering to people with single-eyelids!

  • 567 Asian female with no boyfriend // Oct 18, 2010 at 1:44 pm


    well from I have head and senn I can only say that black penises are in most cases too big for an average Asian woman. Asian penises are often too small though.
    White penises are average in size and so on average a good fit for an Asian woman.

    Besides as long as you get not an old white guy, white guys are usually the least macho like guys, which I find positive.

  • 568 Kingitchi // Nov 1, 2010 at 1:07 pm

    what is the best come back to a stupid white guy who doesn’t know where or what your country is…example

    White Guy : where r u from bra?

    You: China

    White Guy: where is that? *laughs within the group*

    You : *Sigh*

    im sick of sighing LOL gimme a good one plz LOL

  • 569 TheDirtyGupta // Nov 4, 2010 at 5:37 pm

    Yeah this post is so true. White men and Asian women are connected at the hip, ASIAN WOMEN LOVE WHITE MEN MORE THAN THE AIR THEY BREATHE! but have u ever seen a Asian women go after a black guy? A Latino dude? HELL NO! They pretend like white people r the ONLY people in the world that matter, so Asian women kind of suck. On top of that, it’s White men who make the stereotypes about Asian women but Asian women look past it because they love white skin so much that they want to BE white.

  • 570 TheDirtyGupta // Nov 4, 2010 at 5:41 pm

    Sorry bro, but didn’t anyone tell u? Asian women hate black men. They look at black men like a disease or something. I don’t know y Asian women never give black men a chance!

  • 571 TheDirtyGupta // Nov 4, 2010 at 5:42 pm

    @Person, Ain’t that the truth! Preach on!

  • 572 TheDirtyGupta // Nov 4, 2010 at 5:44 pm

    @estella, Then the post was right all along, run off and suck some white STD dick than

  • 573 TheDirtyGupta // Nov 4, 2010 at 5:47 pm

    @estella, Go Figure, Asian woman runs after a white boy and doesn’t consider dating someone else y didn’t I c that coming!

  • 574 TheDirtyGupta // Nov 4, 2010 at 5:49 pm

    @Steph, Tell that 2 all of the other brain washed Asian women!

  • 575 TheDirtyGupta // Nov 4, 2010 at 5:50 pm

    @asian girl, And u aren’t shut up!

  • 576 TheDirtyGupta // Nov 4, 2010 at 5:52 pm

    @LeaMae, U like Asian guys, y thank u!

  • 577 TheDirtyGupta // Nov 4, 2010 at 5:55 pm

    @HAHAHA, Awww….now shut the hell up

  • 578 TheDirtyGupta // Nov 4, 2010 at 5:58 pm

    @Asian Girl, Just stop embarrassing yourself and shut up. All u Asian women dating white men only just shut up.

  • 579 TheDirtyGupta // Nov 4, 2010 at 6:00 pm

    @K/C, I know! I am tired of seeing my fellow Asians kiss white ass! The women r the worst!

  • 580 Mason // Nov 16, 2010 at 10:25 am

    It is higher than Black males and Asian males. So this is the consequence. Asian women will be the AIDS carriers of the world, simply due to their sluttiness. They are not getting these diseases because they have sex with quality men, but rather, because they are so desperate to latch onto ANY White man, they go for the dregs, and consequently are now a health risk in general.
    Go ahead and look it up; it’s posted by the AP.

  • 581 Yellalova // Nov 20, 2010 at 2:54 am

    I tell ya Asians what…. ya pussies are small and my cock is big… we should fuck hard, crackers give you no pleasuer but this ngga gives you all the pleasure.

  • 582 White Guy in HK // Nov 24, 2010 at 12:36 am

    Hmm, I have some theories, but first I’ll state that I love every bit of this social phenomenon of Asian Women/White Men. (If I was a religious man I would be thanking him profusely right now).

    When I first moved to HK (for work) a couple years ago I had no specific preferance for Asian women. A pretty woman is a pretty woman, a smart woman is a smart woman, etc.. regardless of race.

    BUT: Two years later.., I am a complete convert to the magic of Asian women. And it seems they dig me too. (happy sigh). So, I have asked this question a fair bit to my lovely conquests.., for so many say they will ONLY date white men.

    The reasons given to me are (sorry HK guys, just repeating what I hear):

    - chinese men are too “traditional” – expecting her to be a docile obedient housewife who takes care of his whole bloody family
    - chinese men are not romantic, or at least not in the way they want them to be (??, I dont know, I am a man for christ’s sake!)
    - chinese men are cheap. Never take them for a decent nite on the town. (come on, dudes, your DATING!! – If you can’t enjoy a fine wine with a pretty girl you should just stay home with your PS3)
    - various comments about burping, spitting, and other hygene/lack-of-class issues (yeah, I see this a lot in HK. What’s with all the frickn burping and horking on the street, guys? Yeah, all the girls dig that. I mean, REALLY?!?
    - too damn soft and yes, a little effeminate. Listen guys, just speak up a little. State your opinions, be confident.., tell her she looks great (but that you’re “going for beers with the boys anyway – and if she still looks that damn good when you return you’ll rip her clothes off and have your way with her!!!”). Trust me.., this one actually works pretty damn well when you want a nite out with the boys. (cake and eat it too)
    - Apperantly, you don’t like to “go down” on them. Really? I am sorry, but have you tried Asian food? I mean.., wow!! I am back at the buffet table for seconds every time. (and man.., they fall in love with me right then and there! (sigh…, you HK men make it so easy for me!!).

    So, thank you HK men for giving me the keys to the world’s greatest creation – HK women!

  • 583 Some Dude // Nov 25, 2010 at 10:05 pm

    Well, last I checked there was no shortage of Asian chicks to go around. Me, I like my women blonde, pale and non-asian. Go at em white dudes.

  • 584 Ultra-Rich Asian Guy // Nov 27, 2010 at 6:48 am

    @White Guy in HK, let’s be honest here, you sound a little butt-hurt. White women (and black guys) must have did a number on you. The trauma comes out in your writing, lololol.

  • 585 White Guy in HK // Nov 28, 2010 at 6:43 pm

    @Ultra-Rich Asian Guy,

    Umm, that was your only rebuttal Rich Asia Guy? Not even worth the time it took you to type it.

    Makes me think you agree, but aren’t happy about it (the truth hurts)?

  • 586 an asian // Dec 5, 2010 at 4:55 pm

    @steve, Lol that’s hilarious. Sorry that no one gets your humor.

  • 587 Anonymous // Dec 9, 2010 at 2:52 am

    My boyfriend is a tall, skinny, white boy engineer. o_O

    His skin color is coincidental for me, however. I just like him a lot. He, on the other hand, told me that he had a thing for Asian girls. Lucky me?…

  • 588 This is retarded. // Dec 9, 2010 at 12:38 pm

    I somehow came across this thread. I’ve now lost all faith in humanity to create things that are worth reading and debating about. People like people for who they are. Who gives a shit about their skin color. I’m marrying a white girl because she is a fabulous person. I’ve dated chinese, japanese, singaporean, indian, latino, spanish and, worst of all, english whitey. I fell in love with an American girl because she was the best fit with me and is more than just a fetish for skin color (Because I’m white too).

  • 589 stefhen bryan // Dec 11, 2010 at 5:16 am

    @TheDirtyGupta, you are most definitely on the pipe. Im a black man living in japan since 2001, and i encourage, no, implore black men to come to japan.

  • 590 stefhen bryan // Dec 11, 2010 at 5:24 am

    lets face it, like many people of colour, yellow women suffer inferiority complexes and self-hate, placing the white man on a pedestal. Ive been observing that phenomenon in japan since 2001. in fact Ive even written about it in great detail in my book, Black Passenger Yellow Cabs. that being said, we black men are in demand too. just come check it out for yourself. motivated by yellow fever, this black man left cali for japan a decade ago, and have had no regrets.

  • 591 stefhen bryan // Dec 11, 2010 at 5:28 am

    @Mason, you sound a little angry. sounds like an asian woman broke your little heart to pieces. never mind, your little heart will soon mend.

  • 592 Stephen // Dec 13, 2010 at 4:23 pm

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  • 593 Kevin // Jan 6, 2011 at 11:18 pm

    This is hilarious. Im a white guy. I grew up in Hawaii around a bunch of Asians and my school was racist as fuck, telling me that white people were ugly blah blah, but I always seemed to do fine with girls. Usually it was just the guys making fun of me calling me Haole. I can speak Japanese and Korean, so I went to University in Japan and it was totally reversed. All the dudes are really nice and want you to date their friends, go out to nomikai etc. I think its just easier to get a girl in Japan because so many girls aren’t fucking fat as shit like in the states. Im sorry but there are a lot of fat white bitches and pretty nasty black chicks. Im in Korea now and when I see a fat person I cant help but stare. I’ve probably dated over 30 asian girls, but I still like white girls and black girls. It’s just I havent seen a hot white girl since I went to San Diego. Asian people , in asia, just tend to be thinner, which is more attractive. As far as asian guys being less agressive and not “holding hands” etc. The author of this article obviously doesn’t know shit, well at least not about Korea. People hold hands here all the time, they even sell matching clothing for couples. People are very couple oriented here.

  • 594 Stefan // Jan 20, 2011 at 3:45 pm

    I am white european male who grew up in north america who has dated most every race. I can honestly say the worst chicks to date are white anglo-saxon girls. I stay away from those. They act like dudes, it’s so ugly.
    Euro and latino chicks are cool. I only like darker skinned asians, the rest are too pale for me. The hottest and freakiest asians are viet chicks, so I’ve primarly dated vietnamese from the asians. Anglo-saxon dudes have some kind of homo-erotic thing goin on with this UFC and other gay shit. And they got small dicks too , like the asians. My ex gf told me she had fucked her previous anglo-saxon bf with a dildo? like wtf is that!? who would want a date a “man” like that lol

  • 595 Mateusz // Jan 24, 2011 at 9:23 pm

    @blue_horizon, Right on! I’m essentially considered Caucasian (white), but have Jewish ancestry on my dad’s side, and since Israel is in Western Asia, then I can consider myself part Asian.

    Additionally, Asia is a continent, not an ethnicity. It’d be like having “European” as a synonym for “White”. Not all people in Europe, or claiming citizenship in European countries are white, and not all white people are in Europe. Similarly, not all yellow people are in Asia, and there are white people who are Japanese, or Chinese, or Korean, etc.

  • 596 Mateusz // Jan 24, 2011 at 9:25 pm

    @stefhen bryan, And white people don’t suffer from self-hate? You’re not familiar with the US, are you?

  • 597 stefhen bryan // Jan 24, 2011 at 9:47 pm


    but its ok to have a preference. im black and my preference is yellow and thats why i live in japan

  • 598 stefhen bryan // Jan 24, 2011 at 9:53 pm

    @Mateusz, lived in the US for 14 years and the UK for 7 before that. now japan 10 years. in general far more black, yellow and brown people suffer from self-hate than do white people. whites control the resources. Helloooooo?

  • 599 stefhen bryan // Jan 24, 2011 at 9:55 pm

    @Kevin, i totally agree with your post. been living in asia for 10 years now. japan is a punaunie fest for western men, black and white.

  • 600 Anonymous // Jan 25, 2011 at 10:24 pm

    @stefhen bryan, @stefhen bryan, you don’t know any white people, do you? You just demonstrated the source of white-self hate, perfectly. The accusation that whites control all the resources, or the list of other accusations. Whites have plenty of guilt just for their skin color. Look at most forms of fiction, TV, movies, etc. What color are the villains? Whites make up most of the evil characters in modern fiction. There’s a deep collective shame they feel. I’ve never seen white people placed on a pedestal. They’ve been always the bad guy. That is what leads to the self-hate.

  • 601 Lily // Jan 29, 2011 at 10:46 am

    Where I live, a lot of white males go for Asian girls.
    But what about white females liking male east-Asians?
    I am a white female and I prefer male east-Asians more that white males. This makes it kind of difficult because most male east-Asians will only date within their own race.

  • 602 Winston // Feb 4, 2011 at 9:48 pm

    Asian-white mix people look like they have down-syndrome.

  • 603 throttlehard // Feb 6, 2011 at 1:51 am

    Just stick with your own kind and all will be OK!

  • 604 White Man Who Can // Feb 10, 2011 at 8:42 pm

    That was an obviously racist and insecure statement, buddy. Why don’t you just accept that due to the conditioning of you chauvinistic culture and the fact that many Asian women have told me that Chinese guys are just not romantic or considerate has a lot to do with it. Asian women want a man who is sensitive to her needs especially in a modern western society. Listen to me Asian guys, the communist doctrine doesn’t cut it here if you’re from the mainland or Malaysia or whatever. You need to grow up and branch out from the box you snarl at the world from. The world is not white washed it’s about people who think critically and define and express their needs and wants without demeaning women. That’s where you Asian guys miss the boat. Dig? Take my advice or leave it.

  • 605 White Man Who Can // Feb 10, 2011 at 8:43 pm

    That was an obviously racist and insecure statement, buddy. Why don’t you just accept that due to the conditioning of your chauvinistic culture and the fact that many Asian women have told me that Chinese guys are just not romantic or considerate has a lot to do with it. Asian women want a man who is sensitive to her needs especially in a modern western society. Listen to me Asian guys, the communist doctrine doesn’t cut it here if you’re from the mainland or Malaysia or whatever. You need to grow up and branch out from the box you snarl at the world from. The world is not white washed it’s about people who think critically and define and express their needs and wants without demeaning women. That’s where you Asian guys miss the boat. Dig? Take my advice or leave it.

  • 606 JJ // Feb 14, 2011 at 8:03 am

    @whitemanwhocan, chillax. It’s just a stereotype. Just like the stereotype that all middle aged white men are pedophiles. I’m sure there’s a grain of truth to it because from my experience, middle aged white men ARE creepy, but I don’t believe all middle aged white men are pedophiles. Stereotypes, see?

    Those women are telling you that because they’re playing YOU. It’s no secret that white men are the world’s biggest suckers. :)

  • 607 David // Feb 14, 2011 at 2:46 pm

    Being a white male I can tell you that Asian females have always appealed to me more than the white women of my own culture. The Asian females I have met always seem to be more attractive, respectful, and well mannered. Women’s liberation is very prominent in Western society. While I am in agreement that all women should have equal rights to men, I also believe it is a woman’s right to decide not to be 100% equal to her mate. I find many Asian women seem more willing to accept a subordinate role to their husband. Respect, obedience, and submission are very important attributes to me. I believe in strict domestic discipline relationships where my mate respects my position in the home, trusts my judgement, obeys my requests, maintains her looks/health to my approval, and submits herself to my needs when I require. In return, she is fulfilled by the emotional rewards of being cared for, treated like a princess, having children, and taking care of the things in the home that are leave to her charge. Most Western woman have lost sight of this concept; they are more independent and equal. I know my views are very controversial, but I live in a free country where I can practice my beliefs with those who are like-minded. Are Asian woman more likely to participate in this type of lifestyle? If you are an Asian woman, would you be happy and satisfied subordinate to your mate? Maybe the Asian ladies out there can comment on this. Yes? No? Why yes or no?

  • 608 SomeWhiteGuy // Mar 11, 2011 at 8:47 pm

    I think after dating a white gal that thinks it’s funny to fart in public, drinks booze like it’s water, and swears more than a sailor, I was lead into the mysterious exotic excitement of a woman from a culture of class and humility.

    I believe it’s a natural attraction that fills a need.
    However, there has been challenges culturally, meeting or not meeting if the asian gal’s family would not approve. There’s drama in any relationship, my ex asian g/f (well she’s still asian but my ex)parted ways, but wouldn’t hesitate dating another asian woman should she be a personality fit in the future.

  • 609 Brian // Mar 18, 2011 at 10:15 am

    As a white man who grew up in the Bay Area around Asians, I’m going to be up front. Asian women are great. However, I would never want to date one. Period, full stop.

    Can’t handle it.

    That’s because I know the truth: when Asian women get angry — which, admittedly, isn’t often — it’s a door-busting down, brick-breaking, screaming she-rage of just epic proportions. And when they get demanding? Whoo-boy.

    Witness that once or twice and it’ll cure you of ‘yellow fever’ right quick.

    And give you much respect for Asian dudes.

  • 610 rezren // May 27, 2011 at 9:38 pm

    ok so what about the gay white and gay asian? is it the same thing for submissiveness, sex, etc. etc shit??? my asian friend who’s gay is dating a white guy and they are really happy together. I’m so happy for him.

  • 611 Lizzie // May 27, 2011 at 11:48 pm

    I’m Australian-born of Filipino heritage, and (to my father’s disappointment) have only dated Caucasian men. From experience as soon as I walk in a club, men of Anglo/Euro-descent show that they’re interested in me. All women like to feel special and I’ve seen Caucasian men as more assertive in putting that across. Asian men will usually just keep staring. These incidents happened while I was in university as well.

  • 612 jl // Jun 13, 2011 at 3:00 am

    am a chinese guy living in the u.k. I never had a problem in getting white girls or chinese girls. to all you chinese guys out there….hold your head up high, be sure of yourself, beef it up a bit dont be a puny little geek, and the most important thing… do you look? good luck

  • 613 Perra decebeth pairez segerpalm // Jul 7, 2011 at 2:34 am

    Decebeth is just the fucking whore, with all the smelly cunt and dripping with colorful liquid, if u dont know this is aidds or not, check it out with the doctor shortly , at least should educate your sex illness education, fungual all the filipinna whore have it, they all do by fucking to make their own living, they are the only person to get aids soon, hope he will not die sooner, to the cheap fucking whore, beth. Only the childish person will trust the others so well, why they do? they have no mind, no brian , or even to think what the others say, if the men can say the others like this, they will even say u like this to the others, the bad men in this world shouldnt alive. Putang ina mo!
    Walang hiya.
    Walang hiya ka!

    Anak ng puta!

  • 614 PERRA DECEBETH PAIREZ SEGERPALM // Jul 7, 2011 at 3:04 am

    MATS SEGERPALM also noT the good fuck……..

    he says to me the most smelly pussy porque is the filipinna one, cos they wont even make enough money to buy detergent, how could they have a good smell pussy, mats also say,decebeth really deserve it, and leave u back off philinnes, he not like u anymore, all he wants is to search as much as cheap whore much better than u…..he told me that beth cant even fuck good, all ur holes are dried and not even easily to get cum…girl like u cant give good fuck, even he say sell u to the sex slave market dont make much profits, he is so sad to meet this cheap girl…….
    he also say to me, u have some yellow and green liquid comes down from ur tunnel, how smelly u are? no wonder why he wont have a mood to fuck u, or u are too smelly, no money to consult the doctor to get it fixed…mats scare u get aids, i think he knows u have it.
    mats still chatting with me a lot, u jealouse, filipinna is always filipinna, never make it change, esp their way of acting and talking and eyessight, or even bad english pronunciation, low self-esteem, will stare at the people, and fight. u are nothing to him, his mind is not yet stable or settle down, idiot…in mats eyes, decebeth segerpalm just his chick or whore and slut, easy to get, buy her e ticket and come, degraded girl, no wonder why many filipinna get aids…cos he knows they do slut for a living, how wonderful? i wont get this woman for my wife, so dirty..he tells me wont wanna die soon.mats know wont have a good job, keep paying cheap whore wife.


  • 615 MATS SEGERPALM // Jul 7, 2011 at 3:11 am

    he says to me the most smelly pussy porque is the filipinna one, cos they wont even make enough money to buy detergent, how could they have a good smell pussy, mats also say, u deserve it, and leave u back off philinnes, he not like u anymore, all he wants is to search as much as cheap whore much better than u…..he told me that u cant even fuck good, all ur holes are dried and not even easily to get cum…girl like u cant give good fuck, even he say sell u to the sex slave market dont make much profits, he is so sad to meet this cheap girl…….
    he also say to me, u have some yellow and green liquid comes down from ur tunnel, how smelly u are? no wonder why he wont have a mood to fuck u, or u are too smelly, no money to consult the doctor to get it fixed…mats scare u get aids, i think he knows u have it.
    mats still chatting with me a lot, u jealouse, filipinna is always filipinna, never make it change, esp their way of acting and talking and eyessight, or even bad english pronunciation, low self-esteem, will stare at the people, and fight. u are nothing to him, his mind is not yet stable or settle down, idiot…in mats eyes, u r just his chick or whore and slut, easy to get, buy her e ticket and come, degraded girl, no wonder why many filipinna get aids…cos he knows they do slut for a living, how wonderful? i wont get this woman for my wife, so dirty..he tells me wont wanna die soon.mats know wont have a good job, keep paying u.

  • 616 FUCKING WHORE DECEBETH SEGERPALM // Jul 7, 2011 at 3:19 am

    perra decebeth,

    she is the only person to have the smelly dripping yellow n green comes out from her pussy, no men want u, ugly whore.

    he says to me the most smelly pussy porque is the filipinna one, cos they wont even make enough money to buy detergent, how could they have a good smell pussy, mats also say, u deserve it, and leave u back off philinnes, he not like u anymore, all he wants is to search as much as cheap whore much better than u…..he told me that u cant even fuck good, all ur holes are dried and not even easily to get cum…girl like u cant give good fuck, even he say sell u to the sex slave market dont make much profits, he is so sad to meet this cheap girl…….
    he also say to me, u have some yellow and green liquid comes down from ur tunnel, how smelly u are? no wonder why he wont have a mood to fuck u, or u are too smelly, no money to consult the doctor to get it fixed…mats scare u get aids, i think he knows u have it.
    mats still chatting with me a lot, u jealouse, filipinna is always filipinna, never make it change, esp their way of acting and talking and eyessight, or even bad english pronunciation, low self-esteem, will stare at the people, and fight. u are nothing to him, his mind is not yet stable or settle down, idiot…in mats eyes, u r just his chick or whore and slut, easy to get, buy her e ticket and come, degraded girl, no wonder why many filipinna get aids…cos he knows they do slut for a living, how wonderful? i wont get this woman for my wife, so dirty..he tells me wont wanna die soon.mats know wont have a good job, keep paying u.
    the poor men is always without the money to spend before the end of the month, and ask for relatives for help. who wanna be with this men? poor men

    i less care about him.

    only the cheap lady from third world will be with any of them, shame of them.

    this men cant really fuck, what can he do? just to flirt girl and always meet thai girl and then, get mad at home.

    he really tells u. i think he wont.

    he is shame of himself.

    u are the lucky woman to marry this old men, dont u think he can be ur father already.

    no mind lady will marry any of them.

    filipinna whore is nothing real, all is real from the beginning and later on, become more materalism and more into money slavery.

    what they want? get married to the white men and get many babies and sit at home and take care of them, and not to work. this is what we called long term meal ticket.

    Perra decebeth dairez bolo, pairez segerpalm

  • 617 decebeth pairez segerpalm // Jul 7, 2011 at 3:32 am

    decebeth pairez segerpalm also get the e ticket fly to meet the guy she meet from the internet, still saying the others, how about she? just acting like the cheap fucking whore.

    hope she get aids soon, god bless her.

  • 618 mats segerpalm // Jul 7, 2011 at 3:42 am



  • 619 Loka-loka ka. decebeth pairez segerpalm // Jul 7, 2011 at 3:54 am

    DECEBETH BOLO IS PARRA, putang ina mo, ang pangit mo! she has no shame, should she smell her cunt, how smelly is it ? esp she deliver the baby already. more smelly cuunt she can get, or get more dripping as before, more than yellow or green or grey color, god bless her get aids soon.
    she also get the boy buy her e ticket to come to see the men from the internet, who is more cheap whore slut n cunt or low class woman, or more cheap than degrading woman does.

    if she is high class, she should use up all her money, buy her ticket fly to see the internet guy, then become the high class woman, dont let him fuck, and get no babies, see will he keep u or not ? just watching the pic , in the philipinnes already get a big ball, how cheap whore is she ?

    decebeth dairez bolo is the only cheap whore, fuck before getting the long term meal ticket. if u have no balls, he will want u.

    this men cant fuck at all.

    like to meet many girls , esp thai girl, hahahahhahaha.

    yell at the girl she meet, just wait for half hour, no class men, who wants to be with them?

    marrying the bad man still think u win the big lottery. u really think u win the big lottery, then u wont need to stuck with the poor men with the poor job in the car company and rent the small aprt.

    just shame of u.

    Walang hiya.
    Walang hiya ka!
    Loka-loka ka.
    ko siya.Sira ang ulo.
    Sira ang ulo mo.

  • 620 LOKA LOKA DECEBETH PAIREZ BOLO // Jul 7, 2011 at 3:56 am

    god bless her married the divorced men called Mr. mats stay in sweden goteborg, mental illness and crazy and sadist men. just like to dominate the lady as he wants.

    married with russian woman before and leave her, why? he cant fuck, his mind still into this russian wife.

    not yet to any new wife.

    if any unlucky lady be with him, just be careful.

  • 621 JC // Jul 8, 2011 at 3:27 am

    I’m a CBC girl married to a Scandinavian guy. I can honestly say my dating preferences have more to do with culture than ethnicity. Before I met my husband, I dated a brown guy and then a white guy but that’s not to say I’ve never been attracted to asian men. I just never ended up dating any.

    Since I grew up in Canada with mostly white friends, I usually found more in common with white guys and therefore had more opportunities to date white guys. Most asian guys didn’t want anything to do with me anyway. I was outspoken, opinionated, and athletic (i.e. not built like a delicate little twig), and none of the traditional gender stereotypes and expectations were going to fly with me.

    On the other hand, I could smell yellow-fever from a mile away, and I am still seriously grossed out by white men who fetishize asian women (David @ post#607, I’m talking to you). No, I will not be your exotic little flower, and I’m not going to be grateful for your attention just because you happen to be white. Yechhh!

  • 622 FUCKING WHORE DECEBETH SEGERPALM // Jul 10, 2011 at 9:04 am


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  • 625 FUCKING WHORE DECEBETH SEGERPALM // Jul 10, 2011 at 9:45 am

    why they stick with old men, can be their father, or they think they die sooner, they get all the money from him, nothing u can get. for the poor men.

  • 626 MATS SEGERPALM // Jul 10, 2011 at 9:48 am


  • 627 white american // Jul 23, 2011 at 5:43 pm

    I believe that it does not matter who you date or what you like. It’s nobody’s business if you choose to date outside of your race. I am white female and I only date Asian guys, I’m just completely attracted to everything about them. That doesn’t mean I am hating my own race or any other, you cannot help what you are attracted to. I don’t think anyone has the right to make fun of or talk shit about anything they don’t fully know about.

  • 628 ancona83 // Aug 23, 2011 at 8:00 pm

    As an american girl who spoke about this with another friend, the asian girls want to project an image of superiority and the ones that usually go after the white guys, think that dating a white men will put them on a pedestal. A mexican girlfriend, once told me she had friends that were asian and they all showed a submissive attitude but behind doors they behaved promiscuous and slutty. They were simply not the good girls they want to seem to appear.

  • 629 Ann Alice Syzz // Aug 24, 2011 at 3:00 pm

    Wow, people sure do like to over-analyze things.
    At least that’s what my studies have indicated ;-)

  • 630 confused // Aug 29, 2011 at 3:57 pm

    So after reading this page and numerous comments and a little anecdotal experience, I have to conclude this:
    1) White men date Asian women, because Asian women come with a lot of intrinsic benefits. If a White woman has the same stats as an Asian woman, the White man will go for the White woman ofcourse. It’s just that Asian woman have broken through the racial discrimination with their overwhelming credentials. 2) Asian women date White men, because they either could not get an Asian man or they want to be accepted by White society and culture. In the latter case, they are bound to be unsatisfied, as there are few positives in White culture that I can list right here: science/critical thinking, abstraction, and material wealth. It is also very possible that the White man is just over and beyond with his credentials, but in those cases, the White man can get his dream White woman.

  • 631 confused // Aug 29, 2011 at 4:26 pm

    The funny thing is that all the best parts of White culture (science, abstraction, and money) have been present in other cultures longer. In fact, it was only till the Renaissance when the arts got “revived” within the White culture. And much of the math and basic science that the white men did in the 17th and 18th century were already done anonymously in other cultures, but ironically, we have it spoonfed to us as if white men themselves created the natural law and order of the universe – every theorem has some white man’s name on it. This is only enforced by the military superiority of the Western powers (the English powers to be specific) after the two World Wars – wars that were started by western culture (Germany in the West and Japan in the East). As a side-note, if it weren’t for the Japanese, it would be hard to deny that the violent nature of the Europeans weren’t something genetic. In other words, all the good parts of Western culture belong to the ancient cultures that ironically Western culture tries to destroy.

  • 632 someyoungguy // Oct 9, 2011 at 10:59 pm

    lol ur post is so full of bullshit, first not only do u stereotype why a guy might go for an asian girl yellow fever etc thats just so old and stereotypical and said every where else on the internet its just plain boring and wrong. sure there are people that do it solely for that, but i can honestly say i love my gf (shes asian, and yeah im white) before i knew she was asian, Long story but, im tired of reading this bullshiit on the net about race betraying, white guy fetishes, asian fetishes ever think that these people LOVE EACH OTHER? just cuz u might get with a guy over a stereotype doesnt mean all asian girls or white guys/black guys/ w/e do it, thing is if u dont like it than look the other way.

  • 633 Jack // Oct 31, 2011 at 2:27 pm

    I’m a white male attending college at Penn State who is getting a degree in Biology and will be attending Thomas Jefferson Medical college next Fall. I am dating a Sophomore Korean student here. I did not meet her in any of my “smarty pants” classes and she is not even in my field of studies. I wouldnt say we are constantly “wondering” why we are so attracted to each other. But we always contemplate our attraction. We are really quite different, but neither of us can get enough of each other and and it really has nothing to do with fantasies or exotic pleasures. Its hard to put a finger on or explain, but we care a lot for each other. This is also my first relationship with a girl of any asian decent.

  • 634 A scientist // Nov 7, 2011 at 2:49 pm

    I’m a white male and I’ve done quite a bit of research. I’ve come to the conclusion that I like asian women because I like how they look. No fetish or strange interest in having a submissive girl. I just like the hair and eyes.

    I also like girls who wear cool hats. It’s not a subject that’s complex enough to warrant the amount of debate I see in these comments.

  • 635 Karen // Nov 14, 2011 at 6:54 pm

    This sounds like a satire article. Haha-laugh, this was madde as a joke, not the next great racial debate topic. Stop taking this crap so seriously people.

    -half asian half white girl

  • 636 Karen // Nov 14, 2011 at 7:05 pm

    oh, and filipinos are not ugly sluts FUCKING WHORE DECEBETH SEGERPALM, you sound bitter. I pity you and your negative attitude. My filipino friends Mari, Abby, Jennifer, Julianna, Melissa and Gina are beautiful and sweet, don’t know what kind bad chicas you’ve been exposed too, or what kind of lack of education has brought you to these conclusions :/

  • 637 Felix O // Nov 19, 2011 at 9:59 am

    Don’t forget, Gay Asian men (Gaysians) Like White Men Too! There’s a huge amount of Gay White men who have an Asian fetish, called “Rice Queens”.

  • 638 Michelle // Nov 25, 2011 at 12:30 pm

    i came to america from china when i was ten. i only saw white people on tv before then. all my boyfriends have been white. i have always thought they are more attractive, and i would like my children to be more attractive. i want them to have white traits: non-black hair, non-black eyes, and an angular face. i guess i am a terrible person for liking these features.

  • 639 Monty // Nov 28, 2011 at 9:24 pm

    fuck this shit. im going to get a gun and kill a bunch of white guy asian girl couples in my school. hahahahhaah. this shit is so racist.

  • 640 D // Dec 11, 2011 at 8:19 pm

    Nobody can hide from karma, all of these disgusting comments will ultimately lead to your own downfall. Lets just say everybody thinks pretty highly of themselves until they reach their deathbeds and when your life flashes before your eyes. I wonder how many of you can validate your existence. I suggest you do some good unto the world, take for example America. It used to be a crazy bad ass country, now not so much now because of the cumeupance its getting, a cumeupance that everybody here will be getting. As for me I saved a couple of lives over the years so… I’ll be fuckin fat girls in no time, I might even fight a nigga or two, Um Um Bitch!

  • 641 hellnback // Dec 18, 2011 at 7:52 am

    If you ask me, this white guy-Asian girl thing is a myth. According to the United States census:-

    “Among all newlyweds in 2008, intermarried pairings were primarily White-Hispanic (41%) as compared to White-Asian (15%), White-Black (11%), and Other Combinations (33%). ”

    “529,000 of married couples are between Asian female-white male.”

    Doesn’t sound like a lot. Considering America is 80% white, the majority of Asian women are still not choosing to marry whites despite their prevalence compared to Asian men.

    I live in Asia and I know very few of women in my country prefer white guys, myself included.

  • 642 minded Dude // Dec 18, 2011 at 6:18 pm

    Asian women are dumb plain ugly
    and i wont ever marry or date or even
    have an my children date or marry 1
    they all are utter ugly unattractive, unlovely, unprepossessing, unsightly, hideous, grotesque, gruesome, ghastly, offensive, repulsive-looking, plain, plain-looking, plain-featured, bad-featured, ill-favoured, dreadful-looking, awful-looking, terrible-looking, horrible-looking
    bow legged…..> Anything mixed with Asians = freak of a nature fullstop

  • 643 a fish // Dec 19, 2011 at 7:59 pm

    To: minded Dude,

    I hope you grow up well and healthy because from what I’m reading, you need a little help. Do you know how much words can hurt? Some young girls might be reading your comments and wanting to commit suicide. Please reflect on your thoughts, words, and actions in this world. From what I see, they’re not very meaningful contribution to human race as a whole. I forgive you on behalf of the asian womens who read your inconsiderate comment.


  • 644 Observer12 // Dec 27, 2011 at 10:07 pm

    A lot of posts here, especially from the Asiaphile white males, are flat out wrong. Their misguided reasons in their head are the same ego-inflating, arrogant, supremacist reasons why movies like Last Samurai, Avatar, Dances with Wolves etc keep getting made where the white guy has to save the “oppressed” female from her “backwards savage” culture. It’s BS, if it were the case why don’t you see more women from the Middle East or India with white males.
    Take a good hard look at a lot of these AF/WM couples. The white male is hardly this alpha male stud. He could be but is rarely good looking, young, or attractive. He’s usually a beta outcast from his country, culture, or society, and goes to Asia or dates Asian women in America because he is tired of being rejected all the time. You can see this plainly on any city sidewalk in Asia or in America.
    You can’t blame these guys though. This entire dynamic is driven because Asian women are just so EASY and eager to please, but only specifically for White males (no matter how unattractive). These Asians are normally Tiger Mother/Girlfriend princesses around other Asians, but they also have self hate and white worship. So many of them wish they had white features; having a half white baby is their dream and they think they look better than Asian babies. They love status. Think about how many crazy Asian mothers are obsessed with their kids going to an ivy school. Think about how many Asian women save months of salary, starving on ramen noodles, to buy European hand bags or purses. Asian women are OBSESSED with prestige and name brands. Dating a white male is the same thing for them – in their brainwashed minds it’s another status thing.
    The stereotype of Asian societies being more sexist than Western societies is BS spouted by white males. Go to Asia, you will see most Asian males doing the cooking, cleaning, etc. Almost all movies and TV in Asia are pink, cutesy, and effeminate because the consumer power resides with women, not men. It’s the opposite in America where media is full of sex, violence, and promoting casual relationships which benefits males who dominate the culture and consumer market. Simply due to dating supply and demand among men and women on different continents, Asian women are treated far better than white women are treated in America.
    Finally, the penis thing is another funny ego reason conjured up by white males. Studies show there is no statistical difference, with at-most a half inch difference even in the most biased studies. If one wants to talk about physician differences, than one must bring up that white males have hairy backs/bodies, age horribly, notoriously limp peckers even when erect, and also their bodies smell like dried urine after half a day without showering. A lot of this dating dynamic is driven by white worship and self hatred among Asian women, due to their obsession for status and prestige. And don’t think it’s a coincidence that all over Asia all the images and commercials glamorize white people. Almost all movies in theaters are Hollywood movies even in Asia.

  • 645 fef // Jan 2, 2012 at 3:24 pm

    What disgusts me is that so many white men destroy their superior genetic lineage by breeding with ugly orientals.

    There is nothing attractive about a woman whose face is as flat and round as a pancake. A lack of eyelashes, eyes and hair as black as coal, eyebrows inches above the eyes, and flat noses are the most common and by far the ugliest phenotypes.

    This is why we refer to you as pan-faced fishheads.

    Beauty lies in traits only attainable by Caucasians: blonde hair, blue eyes, angular and oval-shaped faces, long and upward eyelashes, pointy noses, etc.

    Don’t get me started on the rest of the body.

  • 646 fef // Jan 2, 2012 at 3:32 pm

    Oh yeah, let me add:
    Caucasians can have blonde hair, red hair, brunette hair, and black hair.
    Caucasians can have blue eyes, green eyes, hazel eyes, grey eyes, amber eyes, and brown eyes.

    Asians can have black hair and brown eyes.

    It’s no contest.

  • 647 lol // Jan 3, 2012 at 10:52 am

    by far the ugliest Race, i will never ever get with an asian my genes will be fucked..monkeys have flat faces like them lol straight black hair and thin lips like them too… note moon heads there is no Asians wannabees, no1 wishes or want to have anything asian either

  • 648 Lexy // Jan 10, 2012 at 9:29 am


    Not all Americans hate Asian guys. I am sorry that you feel that way. Actually, I am a white American female and prefer Asian men they are more aesthetically pleasing (gorgeous) on the eyes and just prefer the general personalities more than any other race. I am not racist or an ugly white girl who can’t get a date, I just have a specific preference which happens to be Asian.

    I DO NOT agree with lol, fef, or anyone else that shares their anti-asian world view.

  • 649 JohnS // Jan 11, 2012 at 8:05 pm

    @lol & fef, you two are just sad.

    I am an American male and I prefer Asian women. I have never had any Asian person talk to me/about me in any manner that was not respectful. Many Americans, on the other hand, like to put down people they do not even know, insult people, and entire races.

    There are good and bad in every race/every country. Everyone has a right to a preference, and no one has a right to say a person’s preference is wrong.

  • 650 JohnS // Jan 11, 2012 at 10:13 pm

    I agree with fef and lol but disagree with the moron above me.

    @JohnS That is because you are pathetic trash. You know you will dilute your racial purity with inferior mongoloid genes, but you know that you are undeserving of a decent white woman. Your attraction is not based on equality, for equality does not exist between the races, objectively speaking.

    Tell me when your flat-faced kids come out looking like they have down syndrome.

  • 651 WTF? // Jan 17, 2012 at 6:33 pm

    Asian girls dont like white guys anymore. Thanks to the efforts of they avoid us now.

  • 652 Cyberman // Jan 20, 2012 at 8:59 pm

    is it tho? why argue about interest & races when there are more big issues to talk / discuss about, for f**k sake!!!!

  • 653 Madd Butcher // Feb 19, 2012 at 6:19 pm

    I’m Chinese and my boyfriend’s white. All my boyfriends have been white. It’s not b/c I like white guys more than Asian guys or any other ethnicity; it’s the numbers. Where I live, there are *a lot* more white men in my age category than Asian men in my age category. Ergo, a higher likelihood for me to date white men.

    If I were living in Hong Kong, I would probably be living in an apartment with a Chinese boyfriend.

  • 654 raymond shew // Feb 20, 2012 at 10:02 am

    Asian Pride~
    A lot of my friends are white though =D

  • 655 notsofast // Mar 29, 2012 at 12:51 pm

    Puhleaze stop perpetuating the white man propaganda. Asian girls prefer Asian guys.

    US marriage census proves it. Of all marriages involving Asian women (2008), 61% were to Asian men. This despite the scarcity of Asian men in the United States. Only 31% married white guys despite whites outnumbering Asians 15 to 1.

    According to Pew Research Center:
    “Rates of intermarriages among newlyweds in the U.S. more than doubled between 1980 (6.7%) and 2008 (14.6%). However, different groups experienced different trends. Rates more than doubled among whites and nearly tripled among blacks. But for both Hispanics and Asians, rates were nearly identical in 2008 and 1980. ”

    “Among Asian men, the native born are nearly four times as likely as the foreign born to marry out. Among Asian women, the native born are only about 50% more likely than the foreign born to marry a non-Asian.”

    As for my personal experience, I’m from an Asian country so the subject is kinda moot. There’s hardly any white guys around here. However, no one I know has a hankering for them. Among male celebs, Asian ones are far more popular than Hollywood ones.

    I think some Westerners get the impression we prefer white guys because when white guys come to Asia, they hang out with sarong party girls and think SPGs represent the average Asian girl. Or else they come for vice and leave with the impression that Asian girls are easy. As for mail order brides, these women do it for the money/better life. Race has nothing to do with it. They’ll go with a guy from any relatively rich country including Asian ones.

    But then again, some people will just pull facts out of their ass (eg. Observer12). It’s not only white guys doing this. I’ve seen this attitude from black people too. I think it helps them feel better about themselves.

  • 656 jason kwok // May 10, 2012 at 12:53 pm

    you breeders make me sick! The most beautiful interracial combination is an Asian male walking hand in hand with an African-American male with whom he is obviously in love.

  • 657 Juan // Jun 3, 2012 at 8:43 am

    I’m not asian, nor white, but I think asian women have an strong attraction to white males, I’m not saying that all of them are dating, engaged or married with white dudes, my point is that asian women are the bigger race mixers of the whole world and always have white guys in their minds, evidence?, check for example all asian female celebrities, how many of them have a non-white partner?, more evidence? go to California, in that place 60% of asian women are dating with white guys, and AF/WM relationships are the most common IR paring in USA, more evidence? look for example western (white) males in asian countries, how many of them have low chances to get an asian female as partner? yes, the answer is FEW, white males are highly accepted by Asian women, even in asian countries, Japan, China, Philippines, South Korea, THAILAND, just for name you some examples. Is true that many asian women who date white guys want “a better social status’or have beautiful hapa babies, but please don’t generalize, there are other asian women who date white guys just for the circumstances, for example few asians in their place of residence, study or work, or simply they had the opportunity to meet someone special and that special one was a white guy, so there are a lot of explanations to undertsand why asian females love white guys, but I think that all of them would like to have some relationship with white males, without exception, my words will sound biased however I have not found anyone to contradict me, sorry

  • 658 this article sucks // Aug 16, 2012 at 2:30 am

    Who ever wrote this article should be pushed off a cliff

  • 659 asian men are racist, sexists // May 12, 2013 at 5:24 am

    I used to date alot of Chinese and Vietnamese guys. At first they acted really liberal, after dating them for awhile, I found out how racist and sexist they really are. As an Asian woman, I got tired of hearing comments about my Asian sistas being race traitors, self-hating, gold diggers, whores, every time they walked by with a non-Asian bf or husband. I’ve even had a Korean man tell me that he would never date an Asian girl who has dated black guys, because he thought they were dirty whores.
    After a while I started to wonder why they liked me. Was it because they perceived me as being loyal to my race for dating them? Was I a good little girl that they could bring home to mommy and daddy? Did they ever really like me at all or was I just a safe choice because they refuse to date interracially? I wondered if they would view my sister as a crazy, gold digging, race traitoring whore because she happened to marry a white man, even though she’s perfectly sane, makes her own money, is cultured, and is certainly not easy!
    Asian men grow up in a culture in which women are viewed as property so of course they would get angry if they see Asian women with other men. But what I don’t understand is how a rational person can make assumptions about women they don’t even know. Of course a racist can always find or manufacture scientific evidence to prove why one group behaves in a certain way. Even Hitler could come up with scientific evidence as to why the Jews should be exterminated. And a racist who hates interracial relationships will always focus on the 1 interracial couple in the room as opposed to the 99 other Asian-Asian couples.
    Are Asian men concerned about the purity of the Asian race? I don’t know why they should be considering that there are millions of pure Asian people in the world and millions of Asian women who do not date out of their race.
    No, the simple answer is that they are racist and sexist and hate interracial couples, families, and their children.

  • 660 Lucy // May 30, 2013 at 6:50 pm

    It’s because all of us asian girls want a tall, strong masculine, intelligent white man to give us white babies. Asian men are weak and effeminate and act gay a lot. And blacks are basically stupid apes . . . they even look like monkeys. Whites are obviously the greatest of all the races so that’s why everyone, especially asian girls, want white babies.

  • 661 LOL // Jan 27, 2014 at 3:16 am

    According to the 2010 US census, white women marry Asian-American men at the highest rate per capita of all non-white men. It’s just the newly arrived first generation Asian men that struggle.

  • 662 Aryan Master // Jan 27, 2014 at 5:33 pm

    Training of an asian woman

    A guide for any White man who owns an asian woman

    Preamble: The objective of training an asian woman can be manifold. She must be trained to be able to provide full pleasure to her White master by any means necessary. She must also learn to abide by the slave protocol as set by her White master.

    But most importantly, the essence of training an asian woman is to make herbecome fully aware of her own inferiority to the White men. Her inferiority, in all aspects of her being and existence, must be made absolutely clear to her, and which she must be daily reminded of, through physical and verbal abuse, discipline and training, sexual humiliation and racial degradation.

    By rigorous training and intense discipline, an asian woman will come to full realization of her more natural, or more instinctual, slave nature; she will come to realize that her inferior genetics, through hundred thousand years of natural selection, has destined her to be a slave to the White man; and now she must not only come to learn accepting her destiny, but also to feel blessed for that, in that she has achieved, in her lifetime, her evolutionary end product, that is, to become a slave to the White race. An asian woman must come to realize, that all her traditional upbringing, all her western education, all her physical attractiveness, and all her liberalization from eastern oppression, has been preparing her for one thing and one thing only, that is, to become owned and enslaved by a White man.

    By the end of her training, an asian woman should feel proud and happy to being an asian woman, in consummation, as happily enslaved by White men, and she should be proud because all other asian women are jealous of her. From which point on, her only purpose in life ought to be striving to become a White man’s proper slave, and even a perfect slave. The final state, if training is successful, is to achieve that altered state of mind for your asian woman, one in which she sees herself as your property and nothing else, one in which she totally immerses herself in the intoxicating joy of being nothing more than a domesticated animal, a cow, a dog, a natural slave, for her White man.

    The first commandment: asian woman is owned and used exclusively by white men. No asian or black men are allowed to use an asian woman.

    An asian woman should daily recite phrases such as “asian woman is born to be owned and used by superior White men.” Or “asian woman is inferior to White woman and do not deserve to be loved by White man.” Or “asian woman should be constantly beaten and disciplined.” Or, “my White master is a god.” Repetition is the key. Make her repeat those phrases as often as you wishes. This will reinforce her notion that she is truly inferior to the white man, and it is not just a make-belief.

    The second commandment: All asian women must follow Japanese style disciplines, especially in the case that your asian woman is of Chinese or Korean ethnicity:

    An asian woman should be positively reinforced the notion that, although all asian cultures are inferior to the White European cultures, her Chinese culture or Korean culture is inferior to Japanese culture, and that the White race has appointed the Japanese race to be the slave-master, or the alpha slave, of all other asian slaves. Whereas all asians are slaves to White men, all asians also must follow the slave-master, whose words and disciplines represent that of the White men, as Moses represents God.

    She should be encouraged, or forced if she is unwilling, to learn Japanese culture, such as Japanese bdsm culture, as well as the etiquettes of traditional Japanese female slaves.

    Master should also take her asian woman to Japan where she can participate in Japanese bdsm events, pornographic productions, or she can be forced to work as a prostitute in Japan, as all the rest of Chinese and Korean women do in Japan. She must be made fully aware that even though she is owned by a White man, she is not therefore superior to an asian woman who is a slave to a Japanese man or superior to any asian woman for that matter.

    Sex with Japanese men is optional given that most Japanese men have no sexual interest in cheap Chinese or Korean women. And even if she were to have sex with Japanese men, it would not break our first commandment because Japanese genetically and culturally mostly approximate the White race. Japanese men are especially skillful in torturing Chinese and Korean women, so White master should actively seek advice and suggestions from Japanese men on how to further enhance his Chinese or Korean woman’s training.

    The third commandment: asian women should NEVER be allowed to communicate with other asians living in White master’s country, neither with asian men nor with other asian women. An asian woman should NEVER be allowed to use her own native language in the presence of White men.

    An asian woman must understand that her own native asian language is an inferior variety of language and therefore she would only be allowed to speak it in order to be ridiculed and humiliated.

    The fourth commandment: If an asian woman is married to her White master, she must change both her last name and first name to the dominant White names.

    This way she will be denied of her own identity and her only way of identifying herself comes through the dominant White culture. At the same time, in order to remind her that she is not thereby a White woman, even though her name now sounds like a White woman’s name, she should also be given a nickname with a racial slur, such as “chink whore”, “asian sow”, “chinese sow” “gook whore” etc.

    The fifth commandment: In addition to the standard dog collar, an asian woman’s nose should be pierced with a large nose ring.

    This would show that she is not only a domesticated animal, but also a farm animal such as a cow. Her functions, in addition to bringing pleasure and companionship to her White master, also include producing meals and earning income for her owner. Also the nose ring indicates that she is a cow, a farm animal, that will be branded, milked, sold or slaughtered at the discretion of owner at anytime.

    Nipple rings and clit rings apply the same concept to your asian woman.

    Tattoos with degrading names on her body is a good idea, but excessive tattooing damages the aesthetic appearance of your asian woman. Tattoos should be done in moderation. Try not to make her look like a NBA player or a drug lord. Tatoos should be done to highlight her status as a slave, not to make her look like a bad-ass.

    The sixth commandment: an asian woman should be constantly photographed, videotaped, both when fully clothed and completely nude, both when being punished or when being sexually degraded. And all her pictures and videos should be posted on the internet along with picture copies of her passport, driver license, and other legal documents, with or without her knowledge

    An asian woman, as a natural slave, as a proper slave to a White man, has no need for privacy and should never be allowed any privacy, nor should she be allowed any freedom to choose.

    An asian woman should be exposed to as many people as possible, both privately and publicly, both online and in real life, and the internet facilitates that task. This method will greatly enhance an asian woman’s sense of shame and will add to her humiliation, which will enable her White owner to further empower his domiance over her.

    The seventh commandment: asian women must be dealt with severe corporal punishment whenever she shows the slightest sign of disobedience.

    Asian women are known to be passive aggressive, so even passive aggressive behavior must be severely punished, such as glaring her eyes, purposely avoiding eye contact, showing too much sadness, or screaming excessively when being punished. All those actions by an asian woman should be considered offenses punishable by torturing. The rules of punishment and the type of torture can be arbitrary and subject to the whims of the master. The uncertainty of not knowing what punishment she gets will make her more fearful and therefore more quickly to learn her mistake which hence increase her obedience level.

    Even what may seem like minor offenses must be meted out with punishment as well, such as not showing the proper manners when greeting guests, or not prostrating on the ground completely when greeting her master. It is very important that an asian woman must follow all the proper manners as befitting a slave, such as when to smile, when to talk, when to be silent, when to lower her head, when to look someone in the eye, when to kneel down and when to crawl etc.

    While corporal punishment should be administered regularly, with or without good cause or reason, on an asian woman, such as whipping, spanking, bastinado, or torturing of any kind, it is important that the master should strive to be both feared and loved, and not to be hated. Too many punishment without a good cause or reason makes an asian woman confused and resentful, so always make sure that the punishment fits the offense and punishment should have their reasons half the time.

    Master should also reward his asian woman when she behaves well or accomplishes certain tasks well. Etiquettes befitting a slave, with proper training, will become second nature to your asian woman.

    One of the best ways to increase the pain endurance as well as the will of an asian woman is to make her be inured to cold weather. So when winter time comes, especially when it’s snowing, take your asian woman outside completely naked and give her a sound beating in the snow. It will make her capable of taking that much more pain and endure more devious torture when the occasion for torture comes. Sometimes simply tying her up in your backyard with no clothes on in the middle of the winter for an entire night will do the trick.

    The eighth commandment: An asian woman must kowtow to her master.

    In asian culture, kowtowing is the act of prostrating completely to the ground, with hands, forearms, knees, and shins all touching the ground and a person’s head not only touching the ground but banging with force on the ground. It is the act showing the deepest submission and it is the proper way slaves greet masters in Asia. This should be the proper way for an asian woman to greet her White master as well. And she should kowtow before master perform any sexual act with her, for example before she drinks your piss, gets fucked, swallow your semen, etc., to show that she truly appreciates your gratitude.

    The ninth commandment: A master should decide whether or not to impregnate his asian woman. First case: If she is impregnated, and gives birth to children, then all her children are to become slaves; Second case: if she is not to be impregnated, thenher uterus should be surgically removed.

    In the first case, as her children are not fully white and therefore do not have the full dominant genetics to be either masters or mistresses, as true white masters are, so her children should be regarded as slaves. Female children will be trained to be sex slaves just like their mother, and male children will be feminized or castrated to become eunuchs or trannies. Regarding whether or not to use her in front of her own children—since an asian woman, being a property and a natural slave, has no privacy, therefore, an asian woman should, and is encouraged to, be used, degraded, punished, and tortured in front of her own children, so that her children can learn the proper treatment of slaves from their own mother. Slave children should be sold to other White masters once they reach a proper age.

    In the second case, since she is not to be impregnated, then the only proper and humane treatment is to permanently remove her uterus as abortion is evil and a master does not need to wear a condom to use his own slave. And once the surgery is done, then she can be used as a fully blossomed sex slave, to be used by as many men or animals as her master wishes.

    The tenth commandment: asian woman should NEVER be allowed to have any personal property and financial independence. All her bank account, property, and asset should be seized and confiscated by her White master.

    White master may choose to allow his asian woman to work outside the house or to be his full time slave wife. If she were to work, then she is only allowed to work at the most common jobs, such as working as a massage therapist in a massage parlor, working at a nail salon, working as a stripper in a strip club, working as a cam whore, working as a waitress in a Chinese restaurant, or appearing in pornographic videos. And all her income must be given to her White owner as a proper slave should do. However, working outside does not excuse her from accomplishing her duties at home. She must cook, clean, and worship her White man as if she were a full time slave wife.

    Regarding housework, an asian woman should always clean and cook completely nude. When eating, an asian woman should never be allowed to sit and eat at the same table as her White master. When her master eats, she should either stand by and serve as his personal waitress or kneel by his feet and wait until her master finishes eating, then she would be allowed to eat and clean the table afterwards.

    The eleventh commandment: an asian woman’s parents and relatives are NEVER allowed to live in White master’s house. In addition, an asian woman must follow the same slave protocol even in front of her own parents and relatives, and she is not allowed to communicate to her parents or relatives in her inferior native language.

    An asian woman has the custom of bringing in parents and relatives from Asia to White master’s house. This must be forbidden, as a White master should not be forced to accommodate more free loading asian slaves. And in some cases if her parents were in White master’s presence, then they will watch as White master fuck and torture his asian woman as if they weren’t even there.

    The twelfth commandment: If an asian woman becomes old, ugly, out of shape, disfigured, or diseased, then she should be divorced, abandoned, sold to someone else, or send back to China or wherever she came from; and the White master can go back to Asia and pick out a new asian woman to replace her.

    There is no need to value your asian woman as there are literally over one billion asian women who are ready and willing to replace your current asian woman. White master should also make it abundantly clear to his asian woman that she can be replaced at any time. Any severe infraction or displeasing her White master will result in her being sent back to Asia or being tossed to the curb; this way an asian woman will be sure to serve her White master with all her heart and will.

  • 663 alex // May 3, 2014 at 3:53 am

    first we are all human beings and should treat each other as such. i am irish and sicilian i am married to a beautiful korean woman who i love with all my heart. the other way is true as well my cousin just married a japanese man she loves my best friend heung from martial arts class married a beautiful red head white girl full irish. the thing is that we should not take things so seriously. enjoy life its to busy to stress over lifes little things. the u.s. is a place of alot of interaction between many races and thats good. it brings sharing of different cultures and to bring the best out of everyone. i speak from the heart my friends

  • 664 Jenny // Apr 1, 2017 at 3:27 am

    When you say ‘white’, what do you mean? Do you count Italians? Spanish guys? Jewish guys? They have very different cultures. Western European Guys? Eastern European guys? Nordic guys? Canadian guys of x descent? American guys of x descent?

    I prefer Canadian guys of Anglo descent, if his parents are straight from Britain, all the better, I just won’t date someone straight from Britain because citizenship issues is troublesome. I like how British guys aren’t pushy. I /don’t/ like being approached by guys in almost every single scenario, I find it annoying and sometimes threatening. I prefer the guys who charm/intrigue me and then wait for me to make the first move.

    I also prefer guys who stayed friends with their ex-girlfriends, and too many Chinese guys don’t do that (excepting my very Angolized brother, who date western girls and stay friends with them after a break-up). I remember well the cautionary tale of Henry VIII who beheaded his second wife, Anne…before he married Anne, Anne’s older sister Mary was his mistress, and when he tired of Mary, he abandoned her and left her poor and didn’t care – what a warning sign that was!

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